How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!

How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get Rejected

So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women22:11 - Outro

10-24
26:37

3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying

Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro

10-21
32:31

The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid

Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time27:07 - Outro

09-23
30:36

How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

06-23
27:41

How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity

Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

05-20
41:29

10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach

Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia

05-15
25:37

The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!

If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule38:40 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

04-15
39:00

Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”

Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits24:00 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

04-12
24:19

The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Inrtoduction00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication33:24 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

04-08
33:43

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’

Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.23:21 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

03-26
23:40

How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren

Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?Today’s special guest can help!Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney WarrenFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFeatured GuestCortney WarrenWebsite: http://www.drcortney.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/Chapters00:00 - Introduction04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene46:11 - ConclusionPowered by Heartcastmedia

03-22
49:55

How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out

You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts downThe top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia

03-18
28:48

5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women

The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners26:11 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia

03-12
29:14

Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Featured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationRobbie KramerLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/Chapters00:00 - Introduction00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating52:10 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

02-23
52:30

Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge

If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3QuotesFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity31:17 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

02-20
31:23

The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!

Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!Quotes"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey37:00 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

01-22
37:06

The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women

If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…2:17 The first rule of flirting4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection7:31 The right posture and eye contact8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into youListen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile31:03 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

01-15
37:27

LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!

Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send17:10 Why authenticity is what women want21:00 How NOT to overshare with women35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

01-09
59:12

Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too

If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup movesneeded.)John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.Connell and John are about to teach you how to…How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoyGet HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interestFlirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.Be more self-confident TODAYAnd a lot more!Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." JohnFeatured in the episodeJohnConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way42:53 - Outro

01-05
46:56

LIVE COACHING! What to Say When You Approach Women, to Be Charming and NOT Creepy

If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy• The secret to self-confidence with women• How to flirt with women with charm, and no pickup tricks• How to gets dates in a matter of days!And a lot more.Listen to Connell’s live-coaching session with Ryan, as he has some BIG dating breakthroughs. It’s time to stop struggling in your love life, and to start attracting wonderful women, as your most authentic, confident self. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"So the lack of eye contact comes from your social discomfort. With doing this combined with those confidence pieces of confidence kryptonite. Okay? It's gonna take time." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction06:21 - Transforming Negativity into Positive Action06:54 - Identifying Confidence Kryptonite: Building a Strong Foundation13:23 - Discovering Areas Where You Feel Amazing17:13 - Energy, Eye Contact, Confidence: Women's Response20:38 - Extended Phone Sessions: Transformation and Confidence Talks24:24 - Flirting Confidently: Asking About Her Eye Color26:06 - Utilizing Colorblindness to Spark Conversations30:03 - Overcoming Worry, Self-Doubt, and Overthinking31:42 - Politeness in Approaching and Asking Someone Out38:02 - Embracing Internal Validation, Ignoring External Sources39:15 - Approaching: Not Weird, Actually Creepy Not To42:25 - The Risky, Yet Safe Strategy: Confident Approaches46:08 - Letting Go of Unrequited Love and the Past49:06 - Accepting Rejection, Focusing on Future Opportunities55:05 - Practicing Confidence: Voice, Approach, and Growth55:51 - The Admiration for Social Charm and Gentlemen56:10 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

01-02
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