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Welcome to Husband In Law! We’re Jessica, Matt, and Steve, and we’re here to share our unconventional journey through love, marriage, divorce, coming out, and remarriage. Together, we’ve built a unique and harmonious co-parenting relationship that challenges societal and religious norms, proving that self-love, acceptance, and kindness can transform even the hardest situations.
In this podcast, we’ll dive into honest conversations about relationships, family, and personal growth. We’ll tackle tough topics with humor, vulnerability, and hope, sharing what we’ve learned along the way. If you’re ready to embrace love and acceptance in your own life, we’re here to inspire you. Let’s rewrite the rules together!
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All good things come to an end…
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In the decision lab right now I have women who are tackling a whole host of things…
Parental relationships.
Posting on social media.
What to wear.
Feeling unworthy of love.
Hating ourselves to be better.
Spoiler alert… Hate and judgment of yourself are never going to get you anywhere!!
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I am guessing most of you know, or assume you know, who I voted for. We all feel passionately about who we voted for and why. At this point, everyone has big feelings, so let's be kind.
Now that the election is over, I have several concerns, the most immediate being that we take a minute to make decisions that are in alignment with who we are and not made in haste driven by anger, joy, rage, excitement, pain, or entitlement.
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Know a decision needs to be made but not sure what decision to make? I got you boo. It feels like a lot when we know a shift needs to happen in your life but don’t know what exactly to do. You may feel stuck, overwhelmed, and insecure. You may feel unworthy or undeserving of the thing that is calling to you. Whatever it is that you are feeling, this episode is going to help you see it, acknowledge it, and start moving forward.
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When the decision means releasing your identity and stepping into a new one, today I am sharing four things that feel scary about making a decision that feels like it is requiring us to release an identity we have been carrying.
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Here’s the truth about your procrastination and chronic fatigue…
It isn’t because you are lazy.
It isn’t because you lack motivation.
It has nothing to do with you, your ability to make stuff happen, or your worth, (because you are a badass and nothing can take that away from you).
But if you are wanting to understand why you are always feeling tired and constantly procrastinating, this episode is for you.
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Decision Overload, ie - anxiety, stress, sleepless night, overthinking, the ADHA spiral…
We have all been there and done that. But how did we get there? How can we tell we are in it? How do we pull ourselves out of it? Today I am sharing four ways to get yourself out of decision overload.
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Your New Year's Resolutions are getting you nowhere because you are doing one or more of these four things. If you want to feel fulfilled and successful next year, start making these shifts now! Spoiler alert: the last one is the basis for all the rest and what is really holding you back.
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Creating a life you don't want to leave.
If you dread going home.
If you are feeling unsafe to feel the feels.
If you are powering through until _______.
If everything feels overwhelming.
Then this episode is for you!
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Do you relate to today's guest? Tamara Hawes Woods is the founder of Cȯcomadre, a career and personal development platform designed to help women who are STARs (skilled through alternative routes) and SEEkers (those who lack skills, education, and experience) to achieve their dreams.
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Let’s talk The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. I have LOTS of thoughts about this show because I have watched it… Well, you will just have to listen to how many times I have watched it. And let me tell you, these women are making some decisions. We can all agree on that. HA! Many of which we ALL have opinions, but there is only one decision made (by two people) that really got to me.
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We all have excuses that we carry. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you are carrying this excuse? Is it serving you? Are you ready to release it? Join me as I tackle some of the top excuses I hear for why you can’t take aligned action in your lives. Then send me a message or drop a review, letting me know which excuse you are ready to let go of. Can you guess which excuse I use most often?
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My friend, what communities are you a part of? Church? Family? Friends? Culture? Work? Are you sitting in them or GROWING in them?
All of these communities have a unique impact on YOU. Therefore, it is important to be intentional with the communities you are a part of. Time to ask yourself some hard questions about your communities.
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How do you leave trauma decision-making patterns behind?
Trauma comes in many forms, shapes and sizes. Therefore it impacts each of us in different ways and often leads to people pleasing tendencies, self sacrificing to keep the peace, and taking responsibility for other people’s thoughts, feelings and emotions. Which then directly impacts our decision making and lands us in Trauma Decision Making Patterns. How do we leave trauma decision making patterns behind? Find out in this episode of Your Next Best Decision.
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Addiction to blaming others. We all do it and probably always will. Why do we do it? How does it manifest in our lives? What do we do with it? Why does it matter? Join my favorite guest and me as we chat about all things that go into the blame game.
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The Cost of Inaction…
There is a side effect from inaction that you are not considering… By not investing mentally, physically, financially, you are giving up time, energy and connection to yourself, your kids, your family, friends, career, whatever it is that brings you joy. Today I am tackling three common excuses for inaction. Are you guilty of one or all of these?
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At church a few weeks ago, a lady said this to me and it has stayed with me and inspired this episode. Today we are going to have a quick chat about this one thing that you think you need to claim the life you want but that you don’t really need at all. It is time to stop asking for this…
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I can tell you what your problem is... So many of us have over loaded our lives. We have filled it up by doing all the things without creating the space to know if it is in alignment with what we really want. But we forget to do this one thing to find true joy, peace, happiness, and fulfillment in life.
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We have done all the things without questioning…
We have followed the path.
We have overloaded our lives.
We have shoulded all over ourselves and allowed others to do the same.
And we are left with what? Resentment. Anger. Bitterness.
Here is what to do about it.
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We have all been there and done that… We have sat in a big old pile of should when it comes to our age and the timelines we envisioned for our lives. We should our pants by:
Comparing ourselves to where we thought we should be in life.
Comparing ourselves to others.
Comparing ourselves to where society has told us we should be.
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Love your podcasts! Can't wait for the next one. It is awesome you guys are not afraid to share this with the world. Can you imagine if all of us were this transparent?! There would definitely be more understanding, compassion, and love. Keep it up!