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Author: Billy and Ashley

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This podcast is hosted by Billy and Ashley Moyer, AKA Bashley, a millennial couple committed to their careers, lifelong learning, and philanthropy. Bashley believes that TOGETHER they can achieve more. This weekly show is about how they find success as a team of two in business and life in general, and how their differences make them stronger.
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In a previous episode (EP 50), we laughed our way through our pet peeves with each another. We often don’t take the time to sit back and appreciate one another. So this week we are switching it up and chatting about the ways we make each other better. Listen in as we each list off 4 ways we have become #bettertogether. What We Talked About in this Episode: How our previous episode on pet peeves inspired this episode (episode 50) The ways Billy makes Ashley better He keeps her informed on current events Why read the news when you can just ask Billy? He helps her toughen up while recognizing her emotions He knows the right  He helped her find her voice Ashley is less passive and less of a people-pleaser now ...even if she is the stereotypical enneagram 2 ‘The Helper” who focuses on the needs of others first He helps her push her limits in various skills Ashley has a lot of self-doubt going into public speaking, but Billy provides reassurance that she has been asked to be there to share her expertise The ways Ashley makes Billy better She encourages him to keep trying in friendships & relationships he values She gets him to try new things and loosens him up a bit Have we ever mentioned how he created an hour-by-hour itinerary for our honeymoon?! She pushes him to more often step up as a leader She opened his perspective on diversity issues in the US
EP 52: Passion and Purpose

EP 52: Passion and Purpose

2019-08-1200:26:44

We often talk about our shared passion for education and learning. But finding your passions and purpose isn't always easy. In this episode, we share our four steps for uncovering your passions & purpose. We discuss how going through these steps has helped us discover our own purpose that we are living out daily. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our shared passion for education & life-long learning and where it came from The steps we took to discover our passions & purpose Examining your talents and abilities - What gifts have you been given? Ashley cares for people and connects with them Ashley is a gifted facilitator Billy has a gift for public speaking and writing Looking back on your life story Ashley used to play school as a kid and her dad was the first in his family to go to college Billy started speaking about goal setting at 7 years old Spending time in quiet reflection  This step is the most difficult and happens at the same time as the first two steps Billy shares how a car accident helped him better understand this step Finding a coach or mentor Coaches you pay for, mentors are usually free These people help guide you and hold you accountable Billy wrote a whole book about purpose called Retreat to Success: Living Your Life on Purpose. Email us a Collab@BashleyMoyer.com for a free copy!
EP 51: Pet Peeves

EP 51: Pet Peeves

2019-08-0500:31:05

We're getting a bit personal this week! We all have pet peeves about the people we love the most and we are opening up about our biggest annoyances with each other. Luckily, we both took the conversation in good stride and giggled our way through this episode. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Completing a full year of this podcast and a few changes we plan on making Occasionally, we will throw in an episode that shares a little bit more about us personally & our relationship - like this week! Billy's pet peeves about Ashley  Her lack of concept of time Her lack of communication when she is out and about She loves to putz around! Ashley's pet peeves about Billy His obsession with being early to everything  His impatience while driving His inability to give an opinion on dress/attire
It’s our 1 year podcast-iversary! One goal we succeeded with was keeping up with this podcast- yay! Some other goals did not fare as well. In this week’s episode, we chat about not hitting goals and what to do when this happens. Grab our download to guide you through this process at bashleymoyer.com/goalsrevisited. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our failure to meet some of our 2019 goals The process we use to assess our progress to our goals - Reflect, Examine, Adjust Billy slides into coach mode and walks Ashley through our process
EP 49: Q2 Goals Check In

EP 49: Q2 Goals Check In

2019-07-1500:34:12

Despite some big life changes, we impressed ourselves with our Q1 progress towards our goals. But how did we do in Q2? In this week's episode, we look back at April, May, and June and our progress towards our goals and we update you on those big life changes. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: An update on what we've been up to We're still processing bringing in a little one in September We moved to the suburbs! We travelled to Philly and Hawaii (babymoon)  Our progress towards our 2019 goals Complete 2 consulting or philanthropy projects  Speak together 4 times Build social media presence Grow email list to 1,000 subscribers Stay consistent with our podcast Blog every week Host online course Write book
EP 48: Spouse to Partner

EP 48: Spouse to Partner

2019-06-2400:29:39

Strong marriages come down to great partnerships. But since starting our business, we've noticed a few things we do differently as partners in business in addition to being partners in life. Join us as we talk through a few instances where we have noticed ourselves operating differently than before. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com.
EP 47: Our FAV Books

EP 47: Our FAV Books

2019-06-1700:41:43

Ask and you shall receive - This week is a listener request! We are a little surprised it took us this long to dedicate an episode to our favorite personal & professional books. This week, we share each of our 3 favorite books, when we first read them, and the impact they have left on us. What books have made a significant impact on you? Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Billy's favorite books As a Man Thinketh by James Allen The Leadership Challenge by James Kouzes and Barry Posner Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck Ashley's favorite books Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni The Turnaround by Billy Moyer
EP 46: Recognition

EP 46: Recognition

2019-06-0300:31:09

Thank you notes, awards, and words of affirmation. All of them are various forms of recognition. But what do you do when you feel undeserving or oppositely, when ego gets inflated? Listen in as we chat about the various forms of recognition, how we handle it, and how we make sure we give it right back out. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: The different types of recognition How we handle recognition That pesky Imposter's Syndrome and why we now think it's all fake (hint: it means you're spending too much time focusing on others' accomplishments The good and bad side of recognition A challenge to you - who is someone you can thank or recognize in your life?
EP 45: Routines

EP 45: Routines

2019-05-2800:27:571

Routines. When we are following them, life is good. Right now our life is chaos and we are making it worse because we have not routines. In this episode, we discuss some of the causes for this, the areas of our life most needing a routine, and our solutions and some new routine ideas. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Some causes for our lack of routines We are still processing being pregnant We recently moved (see above) Ashley also moved offices The areas of our life needing new routines and our solutions   Commuting Looking an entire week out Leave earlier Our business, Bashley Collaborative Utilizing the extra time in the car for planning Ultimately, we need to improve communication as we settle into our new place and new news!
EP 44: Rejection

EP 44: Rejection

2019-05-2000:30:26

Turn-down. Brush off. Nix. No matter how you say it, rejection is never a fun thing to experience. Sometimes you can control it and other times you cannot. In this episode, we share some of our first experiences with rejection, some recent ones and our ways to try and overcome it. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our early experiences with rejection For Billy, being rejected from his top choice college For Ashley, it was being rejected (and rejecting) new classmates after moving More recent rejections Our first proposal under our business Bashley Collaborative Difficulty reaching out to a sibling due to fear of rejection Job and board applications Tips for overcoming rejection Let yourself feel those initial emotions (anger, sadness, etc,), but recognize that you have to pull yourself out of it Remember that some situations you can control and others you cannot Don't let the fear of rejection paralyze you from taking action
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Ashley Flores

"it's always better with a woman in power"...100% agree Billy! ...Great episode you two!

Sep 15th
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Louise Blazucki

The podcast has a slow take off, but I'm going to hold on and keep listening to see how Ashley and Billy grow. I am surprised at the vocalized pauses and the slow tempo, but it must be a big transition from public speaking to podcasting. I'm ready to learn how they work through conflicts, especially with their busy schedules.

Aug 11th
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