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This podcast is hosted by Billy and Ashley Moyer, AKA Bashley, a millennial couple committed to their careers, lifelong learning, and philanthropy. Bashley believes that TOGETHER they can achieve more. This weekly show is about how they find success as a team of two in business and life in general, and how their differences make them stronger.
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EP 66: Looking Back on 2019

EP 66: Looking Back on 2019

2020-01-0600:29:33

Welcome to 2020! It's a new year and a new decade! We know you are excited. We are too! But before we officially look forward to the next year that we know will be amazing, we look back on 2019. We answer the questions we shared in Episode 64 and guess what? It gets a little emotional because 2019 was tough for us, but it also was our best year ever!
EP 65: Reflection Part 2

EP 65: Reflection Part 2

2019-12-2300:21:05

Last episode we shared questions to reflect on when looking back on a year. In this episode, we share questions to reflect on when looking forward to a new year. The questions will set you and your partner up for success when setting your goals for next year! Questions We Shared: What do we/I want to achieve? What do we/I want to create? What do we/I want to do more of? What do we/I want to do less of? What do we/I want to start? What do we/I want to stop? What do we/I want to complete? What do we/I want to experience? Who do we/I want to become?
EP 64: Reflection

EP 64: Reflection

2019-12-1700:31:49

Can you believe there are only two weeks left in the year… scratch that - THE DECADE! Coming off the #10yearchallenge and the end of the year/decade in sight, everyone is feeling very retrospective. In this episode, we take all that introspection and take it to reflection. We share the what/when/where/how to reflect on the past year and set yourself up for success when setting your goals for next year! What We Talked About in this Episode: The best time to reflect How to “set the mood” for reflecting The key questions to ask yourself to jumpstart your reflection Why you should dedicate the time & other resources to reflecting Ready to start setting goals? Check out of free Goal Setting for Partners guide at bashleymoyer.com/goals. Questions We Mentioned: What did you accomplish in 2019? How did you grow? What are you most thankful for? What did you learn about yourself in the last year? What was your greatest disappointment? How were you hurt? How were you healed? What did you overcome? What are you still working through?
EP 63: Our Worst Year

EP 63: Our Worst Year

2019-12-1000:32:07

Time to take a trip back in time to our worst year together as a married couple. We have shared a lot on this podcast about how we are better together, that we often collab and how we are great communicators. We have an awesome partnership, but year one of our marriage was not great. It was tough. In this episode, we share why the year was so difficult and how we got through it. We mentioned two previous episodes in this one. The links are below. The Story of How We Met Compromising on Holidays    
In this special Thanksgiving episode, we chat about how we have tried to have an Attitude of Gratitude in 2019 even with the curveball we were thrown at the beginning of the year. We are thankful for each other, our families, our jobs and our new son, Lincoln. We hope to continue having an Attitude of Gratitude into 2020 no matter what life throws at us.
EP 61: Couple of Takes 2

EP 61: Couple of Takes 2

2019-11-1100:36:58

We are back with a couple more takes on topics that have caught our attention around the world. We are a couple and we each have one take on something to share in this episode. We get pretty deep as we talk about the NCAA and playing college athletes and the Rodney Reed case in Texas. Essentially we end up talking about institutional racism. 
Collabing as Parents

Collabing as Parents

2019-11-0400:34:12

We are two months into parenthood and have learned a lot about our ourselves and how we make a powerful team of two. There have been a few bumps in the road of parenthood because we have no clue what we are doing… but who does?! In this episode you'll hear a short update on how we are handling our new lifestyle as parents, the ways we collab as parents, and how we continue to push gender roles.  What We Talked About in this Episode: How we are handling parenthood  For two people who did not plan on kids, we are doing really well We continue to integrate Linc into our lives and not the other way around (stay tuned to Instagram for his appearance at a gala this week!) The best examples of collabing as parents In the hospital Night time Eagles games Bath time Church The opportunities we have found to push gender roles
EP 59: Q3 Goals Check-In

EP 59: Q3 Goals Check-In

2019-10-2100:31:09

We love setting goals. For 2019, we set some lofty goals for our new business together. We have been checking in on our progress every quarter of the year. In this episode, we chat about our progress through the 3rd quarter. We have been thrown some curveballs this year, but we have made adjustments and we are on track. Our check-ins have been key to our success. Learn more about our progress and about how to have a goals check-in in this episode.  What We Talked About In This Episode: Our 2019 Business Goals Finding out we were pregnant was a curveball, but we have made adjustments and are on track for most goals Goals Complete 2 consulting or philanthropy projects - We are on track to accomplish this one Kicking off one this week Speak together 4 times We have accomplished this already and we will over achieve on this one Made a lot of progress in Q3 Build social media presence Have been a bit inconsistent on this one, especially in Q3 Grow email list by 250 subscribers Adjusted this one during our Q2 check-in Still inconsistent, but made more progress in Q3 Stay consistent with our podcast We have done good with this one, even with having a baby Blog every week We get an F for this one, but in the episode we decide to close strong and blog 8 times before the end of 2019 Host online course We pushed this one to 2020 in Q2 check-in Write book We pushed this one to 2020 in Q2 check-in
EP 58: Connecting To A City

EP 58: Connecting To A City

2019-10-1400:30:59

We are lucky to live in the great city of Austin, Texas. People often ask us about Austin so we decided to dedicate an episode to the city. But the episode turned into one about how to get connected in a new city after speaking to a friend who is struggling to connect with people after moving away from Austin. This episode more than anything is about connection and moving towards something rather than away from something. What We Talked About In This Episode: We’ve been wanting to do an episode about Austin because we love our city and people ask us about it all the time We moved to Austin at different times We both found a way to get connected We are not music people or outdoorsy people or ACL or SXSW people We are not your typical weird Austinites, but we love the community here A friend just moved to a new city and is having trouble making friends We talk about how to get acquainted to a new city How we got connected in Austin Moving toward something rather than running away The overall theme of the episode Connection We are need to be in a place where we are connected We don't connect enough with poeple anymore
EP 57: Birth Story

EP 57: Birth Story

2019-10-0700:35:42

Life has gotten real over here! Our son is now 4 weeks old! This is our first time recording an episode since he was born. In this episode, we share the birth story of Lincoln Foles Alaniz-Moyer. We begin at our 38 week doctors appointment and end with a baby! There is lots that happens in between. 
EP 56: Dreams For Our Child

EP 56: Dreams For Our Child

2019-09-1600:27:13

This is a very special episode as it was recorded straight from the delivery room on the day our first child was born. We thought we would share our hopes and dreams for our little guy who entered the world about 10 hours after this was recorded. We never wanted kids, but this is our reality and after this episode and our Lincoln being born we now realize he was our missing LINC in our now Team of Three.  What We Talked About in this Episode: Our hopes and dreams for our child - Lincoln Foles Alaniz-Moyer We want him to be a good human We want him to be proud of being bi-racial  We want him love traveling We want him to be a servant leader We want him to connect with his community We want him to be a real part of our lives Lincoln was born at 7:50pm on the day this episode was recorded: 9-9-2019. He was 8 pounds and 5 ounces and 20 3/4 inches Check out our social media for all the pics! @BashleyMoyer on Instagram and Billy & Ashley Moyer on Facebook.
It should come as no surprise that we love professional development books around here. And a favorite we have in common is Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni. While many of these apply directly to relationships, we modified the dysfunctions to our relationship in this episode. Tune in to hear more about how absence of trust, lack of communication, fear of conflict, lack of commitment, and little fun impact our relationship. What We Talked About in this Episode: BABY WATCH- Baby Bashley is <1 week from his due date, and when you listen to this episode Ashley is either being induced or baby has arrived! Catch us on Instagram (@BashleyMoyer) to stay up-to-date Our shared favorite book - The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni Be sure to check out all our favorite professional development books in Episode 47 While many apply directly to relationships, we thought we would adapt and adjust the 5 dysfunctions to our relationship How the Absence of Trust can set a relationship up with a bad foundation When Lack of Communication impacts our relationship How Fear of Conflict creates to artificial harmony How Lack of Commitment leads to keeping score and making sure everything is 50/50  When we are having Little or No Enjoyment/Fun/Love our relationship is not at its best
EP 54: Couple of Takes

EP 54: Couple of Takes

2019-08-2600:28:35

Get to know us in a different way as we sound off on a particular issue or event. We each bring up a topic that the other has no idea about and have a free flowing conversation around it. Join us this week as we chat about Andrew Luck doing "such a millennial thing" by retiring at 29 years old and the lack of creativity in movies and TV. What We Talked About in this Episode: BABY WATCH- Baby Bashley is 3 weeks from his due date and looking healthy. We are hoping for an early exit so Ashley can enjoy sleeping on her stomach again Ashley addresses the lack of creativity in movies and TV, but how we as consumers eat it right up ...Lizzie McGuire reboot anyone? Billy brings up Andrew Luck's retirement and a particular tweet claiming his retirement as a "millennial thing to do"
In a previous episode (EP 50), we laughed our way through our pet peeves with each another. We often don’t take the time to sit back and appreciate one another. So this week we are switching it up and chatting about the ways we make each other better. Listen in as we each list off 4 ways we have become #bettertogether. What We Talked About in this Episode: How our previous episode on pet peeves inspired this episode (episode 50) The ways Billy makes Ashley better He keeps her informed on current events Why read the news when you can just ask Billy? He helps her toughen up while recognizing her emotions He knows the right  He helped her find her voice Ashley is less passive and less of a people-pleaser now ...even if she is the stereotypical enneagram 2 ‘The Helper” who focuses on the needs of others first He helps her push her limits in various skills Ashley has a lot of self-doubt going into public speaking, but Billy provides reassurance that she has been asked to be there to share her expertise The ways Ashley makes Billy better She encourages him to keep trying in friendships & relationships he values She gets him to try new things and loosens him up a bit Have we ever mentioned how he created an hour-by-hour itinerary for our honeymoon?! She pushes him to more often step up as a leader She opened his perspective on diversity issues in the US
EP 52: Passion and Purpose

EP 52: Passion and Purpose

2019-08-1200:26:44

We often talk about our shared passion for education and learning. But finding your passions and purpose isn't always easy. In this episode, we share our four steps for uncovering your passions & purpose. We discuss how going through these steps has helped us discover our own purpose that we are living out daily. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our shared passion for education & life-long learning and where it came from The steps we took to discover our passions & purpose Examining your talents and abilities - What gifts have you been given? Ashley cares for people and connects with them Ashley is a gifted facilitator Billy has a gift for public speaking and writing Looking back on your life story Ashley used to play school as a kid and her dad was the first in his family to go to college Billy started speaking about goal setting at 7 years old Spending time in quiet reflection  This step is the most difficult and happens at the same time as the first two steps Billy shares how a car accident helped him better understand this step Finding a coach or mentor Coaches you pay for, mentors are usually free These people help guide you and hold you accountable Billy wrote a whole book about purpose called Retreat to Success: Living Your Life on Purpose. Email us a Collab@BashleyMoyer.com for a free copy!
EP 51: Pet Peeves

EP 51: Pet Peeves

2019-08-0500:31:05

We're getting a bit personal this week! We all have pet peeves about the people we love the most and we are opening up about our biggest annoyances with each other. Luckily, we both took the conversation in good stride and giggled our way through this episode. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Completing a full year of this podcast and a few changes we plan on making Occasionally, we will throw in an episode that shares a little bit more about us personally & our relationship - like this week! Billy's pet peeves about Ashley  Her lack of concept of time Her lack of communication when she is out and about She loves to putz around! Ashley's pet peeves about Billy His obsession with being early to everything  His impatience while driving His inability to give an opinion on dress/attire
It’s our 1 year podcast-iversary! One goal we succeeded with was keeping up with this podcast- yay! Some other goals did not fare as well. In this week’s episode, we chat about not hitting goals and what to do when this happens. Grab our download to guide you through this process at bashleymoyer.com/goalsrevisited. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our failure to meet some of our 2019 goals The process we use to assess our progress to our goals - Reflect, Examine, Adjust Billy slides into coach mode and walks Ashley through our process
EP 49: Q2 Goals Check In

EP 49: Q2 Goals Check In

2019-07-1500:34:12

Despite some big life changes, we impressed ourselves with our Q1 progress towards our goals. But how did we do in Q2? In this week's episode, we look back at April, May, and June and our progress towards our goals and we update you on those big life changes. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: An update on what we've been up to We're still processing bringing in a little one in September We moved to the suburbs! We travelled to Philly and Hawaii (babymoon)  Our progress towards our 2019 goals Complete 2 consulting or philanthropy projects  Speak together 4 times Build social media presence Grow email list to 1,000 subscribers Stay consistent with our podcast Blog every week Host online course Write book
EP 48: Spouse to Partner

EP 48: Spouse to Partner

2019-06-2400:29:39

Strong marriages come down to great partnerships. But since starting our business, we've noticed a few things we do differently as partners in business in addition to being partners in life. Join us as we talk through a few instances where we have noticed ourselves operating differently than before. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com.
EP 47: Our FAV Books

EP 47: Our FAV Books

2019-06-1700:41:43

Ask and you shall receive - This week is a listener request! We are a little surprised it took us this long to dedicate an episode to our favorite personal & professional books. This week, we share each of our 3 favorite books, when we first read them, and the impact they have left on us. What books have made a significant impact on you? Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Billy's favorite books As a Man Thinketh by James Allen The Leadership Challenge by James Kouzes and Barry Posner Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck Ashley's favorite books Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni The Turnaround by Billy Moyer
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Ashley Flores

"it's always better with a woman in power"...100% agree Billy! ...Great episode you two!

Sep 15th
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Louise Blazucki

The podcast has a slow take off, but I'm going to hold on and keep listening to see how Ashley and Billy grow. I am surprised at the vocalized pauses and the slow tempo, but it must be a big transition from public speaking to podcasting. I'm ready to learn how they work through conflicts, especially with their busy schedules.

Aug 11th
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