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This podcast is hosted by Billy and Ashley Moyer, AKA Bashley, a millennial couple committed to their careers, lifelong learning, and philanthropy. Bashley believes that TOGETHER they can achieve more. This weekly show is about how they find success as a team of two in business and life in general, and how their differences make them stronger.
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EP 47: Our FAV Books

EP 47: Our FAV Books

2019-06-1700:41:43

Ask and you shall receive - This week is a listener request! We are a little surprised it took us this long to dedicate an episode to our favorite personal & professional books. This week, we share each of our 3 favorite books, when we first read them, and the impact they have left on us. What books have made a significant impact on you? Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Billy's favorite books As a Man Thinketh by James Allen The Leadership Challenge by James Kouzes and Barry Posner Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck Ashley's favorite books Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni The Turnaround by Billy Moyer
EP 46: Recognition

EP 46: Recognition

2019-06-0300:31:09

Thank you notes, awards, and words of affirmation. All of them are various forms of recognition. But what do you do when you feel undeserving or oppositely, when ego gets inflated? Listen in as we chat about the various forms of recognition, how we handle it, and how we make sure we give it right back out. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: The different types of recognition How we handle recognition That pesky Imposter's Syndrome and why we now think it's all fake (hint: it means you're spending too much time focusing on others' accomplishments The good and bad side of recognition A challenge to you - who is someone you can thank or recognize in your life?
EP 45: Routines

EP 45: Routines

2019-05-2800:27:57

Routines. When we are following them, life is good. Right now our life is chaos and we are making it worse because we have not routines. In this episode, we discuss some of the causes for this, the areas of our life most needing a routine, and our solutions and some new routine ideas. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Some causes for our lack of routines We are still processing being pregnant We recently moved (see above) Ashley also moved offices The areas of our life needing new routines and our solutions   Commuting Looking an entire week out Leave earlier Our business, Bashley Collaborative Utilizing the extra time in the car for planning Ultimately, we need to improve communication as we settle into our new place and new news!
EP 44: Rejection

EP 44: Rejection

2019-05-2000:30:26

Turn-down. Brush off. Nix. No matter how you say it, rejection is never a fun thing to experience. Sometimes you can control it and other times you cannot. In this episode, we share some of our first experiences with rejection, some recent ones and our ways to try and overcome it. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our early experiences with rejection For Billy, being rejected from his top choice college For Ashley, it was being rejected (and rejecting) new classmates after moving More recent rejections Our first proposal under our business Bashley Collaborative Difficulty reaching out to a sibling due to fear of rejection Job and board applications Tips for overcoming rejection Let yourself feel those initial emotions (anger, sadness, etc,), but recognize that you have to pull yourself out of it Remember that some situations you can control and others you cannot Don't let the fear of rejection paralyze you from taking action
EP 43: Working Marriage

EP 43: Working Marriage

2019-05-1300:29:39

Working with your spouse is not something to take likely. There's seeds that get planted along the way. And a strong foundation can lead to a successful business and marriage. In this episode, we reflect on the seeds that were planted that set us up to want to jump into business together. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our early influences The example Billy's parents set as volunteer youth ministers Early relationship How we grew from supporting one another to working together Supporting each other in each of our jobs Collabing on various philanthropic projects Every marriage is a working marriage Every (strong) couple is constantly working together to ensure their marriage continues and is healthy
EP 42: Our Ego Is Showing

EP 42: Our Ego Is Showing

2019-04-2900:32:53

Ego is a dirty little word and we are dedicating an entire episode to it. We recently noticed others disguising their self-serving actions as the acts of a servant leader. We then challenged ourselves to look inward and determine how our egos affect us. In this episode, we discuss the dirty side of our egos, what our ugly egos look like, the ways it affects our relationship, and how it impacts others and our leadership. Plus for some reason, Billy snorts in the middle of this episode. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Examples of ego and self-serving leadership The ways ego interferes with our relationship For Billy, its putting himself into every situation and giving advice or a coaching session when Ashley shares a struggle or issue For Ashley, it's an inability to apologize when in the wrong out of fear of looking like the lesser person Why Billy snorts in the middle of a podcast episode How ego disables us as leaders Our shared “my way or the highway” mentality that possible stems from an egotistical view of being the smartest person in the room Reminding ourselves why we are doing what we do For Ashley, is it for praise? For Billy, is it for power? What reality star reminds Ashley of Billy Hint: They have a massive ego
We talk a lot about goals, action, and achievement on this podcast. But we are human. There are things that hold us back from being our best selves. Rather than pointing the finger at external obstacles, we are looking inwards and sharing the ways we hold ourselves back. There is lots of vulnerability in this episode. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Looking at external factors that gold you back is easy, but it’s hard to look internally The biggest obstacle to every goal is yourself The ways we hold ourselves back For Billy, it is thinking too far in the past He overanalyzes his past actions and their impact on the present For Ashley, it is being too concerned with what others perceive There is an interesting balance of managing credibility and maintaining humility For or us together, it is being too comfortable with one another We fall into our roles and do not challenge ourselves
EP 40: Q1 Goals Check-In

EP 40: Q1 Goals Check-In

2019-04-1500:36:10

Back in episode 38, we discussed some changes with our plans for 2019. But just how much did those changes affect our progress on our 2019 goals? In this week's episode, we take you through each of our joint goals & action steps and grade our progress over the last quarter. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our 2019 started off really strong, but come February we were thrown a major curveballs The effects of this curveball on our work habits Our progress towards our 2019 goals Complete 2 consulting or philanthropy projects Speak together 4 times Build social media presence Grow email list to 1,000 subscribers Stay consistent with our podcast Blog every week Host online course Write book
EP 39: We Re-Do Dreams

EP 39: We Re-Do Dreams

2019-04-0800:39:17

In this episode of I Do, We Do, we re-do one of most popular episodes. We each share and discuss 10 new dreams and work them out together in order to add to our official combined Dream List. We love dreaming and setting goals. Hopefully hearing us go through this process will show you just how simple it is. Click here for a free Goal Setting for Partners download. What We Talked About in this Episode: We each share and discuss our 10 dreams Ashley’s Dream List See the Northern lights Take a trip with both sets of parents... and pick up the tab Take an immersion trip into a cultural trip (like SBE) Learn Spanish Make a large philanthropic gift somewhere Own property = (i.e.  owning a building downtown, a chunk of land, etc.) Have an impact on education policy; provide a lot of testimony like policy change locally, at the state, or national level Speak to a large group of people (thousands) Make a career change for the challenge Host an international exchange student Billy’s Dream List Live in Center City Philadelphia Go to the Kentucky Derby Live in another country Write a novel (wrote 4 business leadership related books) Star in a musical Own a Philly sports team Make a 6 figure donation Play a basketball game in the Palestra arena in Philadelphia Have a beer with Chase Utley Run for political office “We talk a lot about our problems, we complain a lot about our problems, but rarely will people step up and do something to put a stop that problem. Added to Combined Dream List Take a vacation with both sets parents... and pick up the tab Spend a significant amount of time in another country to culturally immerse ourselves See the northern lights Go to Kentucky Derby Learn Spanish Speak to a large crowd together → turn into a goal Make a 6 figure gift House an international student “Have an open-mind. Be excited for your partner’s dreams. Push them. It’s okay to question them a little bit, but don’t tear them down right away.” Ashley is motivated by Will Smith’s recent YouTube video, because he preaches the importance of how you should do things that scare you so that you’ll grow   “If you can be disciplined and write down everything you truly want to do and discuss it with your partner, it leads to a lot of “ah-hah” moments.” “It’s not about whether you need more of in life, because you should be happy with who you are and where you are. This is about whether or not you want something more and if you want more then you really are searching for growth.”
EP 38: Change of Plans

EP 38: Change of Plans

2019-04-0100:27:29

We put together our best plan ever for 2019. We got off to a great start crossing off action items for our most important goals. We were holding each other accountable. We were communicating. We were collaborating. We knew for sure 2019 was our year. And then our plans changed. In this episode, we share what happened to change our plans for 2019. This is a must listen episode!
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Ashley Flores

"it's always better with a woman in power"...100% agree Billy! ...Great episode you two!

Sep 15th
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Louise Blazucki

The podcast has a slow take off, but I'm going to hold on and keep listening to see how Ashley and Billy grow. I am surprised at the vocalized pauses and the slow tempo, but it must be a big transition from public speaking to podcasting. I'm ready to learn how they work through conflicts, especially with their busy schedules.

Aug 11th
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