Comparison is the thief of joy. In this episode of IF A HEART COULD SPEAK, we discuss how grief can enter our lives from feeling the loss of what we think our lives should be vs what it is. The idea of what we think our lives should be comes from living vicariously through the lens of someone elseβs experience. But Iβve learned that thereβs no such thing as a life thatβs better than mine. So this time, All eyes on me, but all eyes are mine.
In this episode of IF A HEART COULD SPEAK we talk about radical forgiveness. My heart has been through many trials and the lesson on the other end has always included forgiveness. Forgiveness of others, forgiveness of myself, and forgiving God because I know I needed the revelation at the end of my detriment. & so I forgive to heal, but it was never easy which is why itβs so radical. Still I had to because God forgives.. what about you?
In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss Love and devotion. This is a beautiful dialogue with my Partner in Love, Boo Bear, where we speak about love as more than emotion, but an action, and how to do it within our relationships even when itβs difficult.
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Maybe youβre not like me, maybe you donβt want to fight the urge to go over the deep end. Maybe you need the crash out to release the pent up frustration.. I get it! & Iβm here with you.. itβs okay not to be okay. Itβs okay to let loose and spiral out of control sometimes. Cuz youβre human and earth is a ghetto place.. So letβs say you do crash out, and youβre somewhere in a ditch, laying face down in some wet stinky mud.. & you feel hopeless still and confused.. so what now? In this episode we discuss life after a crash out.. this is your self help manual to get you off of your face and back on your feet.So front one HeartBeat to another, Babe itβs time to get up! π«β¨
In this episode we discuss the urge to Crash Out when life gets tough..Iβll admit, Keeping a balance in life is kinda hard for me. Because itβs like Iβm constantly weighing one thing against the other trying to find an equilibrium, that feels too hard to maintain. Some days I want to tip the scales and go all the way to the polar end of a thing - spiraling to its depths at full capacity, even with knowing that if I land wrong, Iβll crash and burn.. still, inevitably rising out of a lava bed covered in my own ashes. I know Iβm a Phoenix.. but thereβs only one way to prove it π¦βπ₯β€οΈβπ₯β¨ so sometimes I wanna crash out.. but will I?
In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss divine timing, and trusting the process of your manifestations unfolding in a timeline that is beyond your control. Rejection may be redirection, and a delay is not a denial.. what you desire, desires you. Trust that things are still working in your favor, even when you canβt see it β¨
In this episode of If A Heart Could Speak, we discuss making the grand exit from survival mode. Embracing life from the lens of love, and retraining our brains to operate from a space of softness π«β¨
BLVCK-MAIL is now If A Heart Could SpeakAfter almost 3 yrs of a hiatus, we are back! & thereβs been a rebrand. Youβre probably wondering where Iβve been and why I went.. this episode is the βTell Allβ π€ Anywho, welcome back Chy Lights! Itβs time for us to ignite on a whole other level β¨
Set Aside Time To Reflect. In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, we learn about how pausing allows growth to catch up with you. Thereβs power in being still and opening your mind and heart to the lessons that are at bay. Only with being present can we receive them. Here there are a series of questions and guidance on how to you pause and receive divine messages.
Believe In Yourself. You must see value in yourself to add value to yourself. This chapter focuses on how to build self esteem in order to manifest your dreams
Develop Self Awareness. You must know yourself to grow yourself. This chapter is about understanding your wants, your needs, your habits in order to know how to grow on your journey. We go over questions and scenarios that open up conversations to bring you closer to self awareness and accountability.
Be An Intentional Learner .. in this episode of BLVCK-MAIL we discuss the power of learning with intention and the 8 gaps that may have derailed you from achieving your goals. We discuss ways to overcome those gaps as well. I believe itβs important to recognize where most people go wrong so that they can get on the right path.
In This Episode Of BLVCK-MAIL I discuss the gift of peace; forgiveness. Itβs not easy dealing with forgiveness. Sometimes you may have to open your heart to forgive someone. Sometimes you may have to put your pride aside to ask for forgiveness. Sometimes you may need to forgive yourself. Either way it goes when you forgive you present a gift of peace. Forgiveness is the acceptance of light.. God forgives, you should too.
In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, I speak about giving up your piece for a piece of shit! Thatβs ghetto af! If a person brings you down, they donβt need to be around. PERIOD! & thatβs on self worth.
On this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, I open up about my blindness to abuse. Abuse is psychological, physical, emotional, and verbal. This is an hard episode for me to post because Iβve never actually spoken to anyone about the toxic side of my relationship. This episode is for anyone who probably doesnβt realize that theyβre in a abusive relationship because there are no clinical bruises. The scars a spiritual, your soul is stained. But you can heal
Letβs be honest, Anxiety can be a real a bitch! In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL, I speak about my personal experience with anxiety. I speak on how it kicks my ass daily, and how I conquer it daily. This is a good episode for anyone who battles anxiety, the people who may think theyβre crazy some days. Youβre not alone! & guess what, Anxiety Aint Got Nothing On You β¨
This was a conversation with my dear friend. She was told me her sister likes to say sheβs a broke Millionaire and I had to break down the power of THE WORDz
In this episode of BLVCK-MAIL I speak about how expectations can ruin your experience. I give advice on how to allow life to flow with ease.
Hello, Chy Lights π‘!! This episode of BLVCK-MAIL is about fertile grounds! Many times we ask for blessings yet our lives are not prepared to receive them. I give you tips on how to put yourself in position to receive the things you want and need. It all starts with a fruitful foundation.