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Welcome to ”In Bed With Alexa,” the podcast where psychologist and sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) explores the diverse realms of sexuality, dating, non-monogamy, queerness, and effective communication. Join candid conversations, expert insights, and real-life stories for a sex-positive and inclusive exploration of intimacy.
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In this episode, I chat with Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re navigating the pregnancies, what they plan to explain to their children, and Yair’s advice for those who have cheated or are new to non-monogamy (he’s now taking coaching clients).
We also delve into what dating a chef is really like, the valuable lessons he’s learned from his sex therapist wife, and how they manage finances in their polyamorous household. Additionally, we discuss his therapy journey and the importance of seeking professional help. This episode offers a deep dive into the complexities and joys of polyamorous life, parenting, personal growth, and the crucial role of therapy in navigating it all.
You can email him at yairlenchner@gmail.com for his coaching services! @chefyairlenchner on IG.
In this episode, I sit down with Cassie Black (@safe.slut), a sex educator, herpes advocate, and adult entertainer. We dive deep into the world of herpes, discussing whether your sex life is over after a diagnosis or if you can still be a safe and empowered slut. Cassie shares her personal story of discovering she had herpes, the stigma surrounding it, and the common misbeliefs and myths that need busting. We also tackle the important topic of disclosure, exploring if and when you should always disclose and the best ways to do so. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand herpes better and break free from the stigma.
Join me for an enlightening conversation with Cory Bush, a non-binary full spectrum doula and sex educator. In this episode, we explore the profound role of a full spectrum doula and the magical aspects of birth, challenging the notion that childbirth must be traumatic. Cory shares insights on why opt-out consent can be beneficial for neurodivergent individuals, and opens up about their non-monogamous and queer journey.
We also discuss how coming off birth control has transformed Cory's life, providing a deeper understanding of body autonomy and self-discovery. This episode is a celebration of empowerment, inclusivity, and the diverse experiences that shape our sexual and reproductive lives.
I'm joined by Portia Brown, a renowned sex coach and educator, for a candid discussion on the importance of vocalizing pleasure in the bedroom. Together, we explore techniques for performing during sex, advocating for your pleasure, and giving and receiving feedback to enhance intimacy and satisfaction.
Join us as we delve into why silent sex can be a turn-off and how to get better at making noise in the bedroom for a more fulfilling sexual experience. Portia opens up about her upbringing and queerness journey, highlighting the transformative power of radical honesty in relationships.
We also emphasize the significance of self-pleasure and exploration regardless of relationship status, emphasizing the importance of owning your sexuality and desires.
I'm joined by the incredible Megan, known as @msgigggles, a fierce fat activist and self-proclaimed hottest whale in the ocean. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, discussing the nuances of reclaiming the word "fat" and challenging societal beauty standards.
Megan fearlessly dives into the harsh reality of the fashion industry's lack of space for plus-sized individuals and offers invaluable insights on what slim people can do to support inclusivity. We explore the complexities of body confidence and share tips on how to become more self-assured in a world that often dictates beauty standards.
But our conversation doesn't stop there! We delve into topics of queerness, the importance of being a supportive "girl's girl," and our mutual love for lingerie as a form of self-expression and empowerment.
I sit down with Billy Procida, the host of The Manwhore Podcast and a seasoned comedian. In this revealing conversation, Billy opens up about his journey from growing up without sexual shame to becoming a figure in the world of sex positivity and comedy.
We delve into other chapters of Billy's past, from enduring bullying up until graduating high school to struggling to escalate casual relationships despite his active sex life. Billy shares candid anecdotes about setting up a gloryhole during the COVID-19 pandemic following NYC's sexual health directives, shedding light on the unexpected twists life can throw our way.
Billy takes us on a humorous ride through his days of webcam work for money, his transition to OnlyFans, and his experiences hosting his own naked comedy show. We also explore Billy's evolving relationship with his body and its impact on his sex life.
In this episode I'm joined by Maxwell Fierce, a non-binary rope rigger, educator, performer, and tattoo artist, for a deep dive into the world of Shibari.
Maxwell brings their wealth of experience to the table as we explore Shibari from every angle. We delve into the nitty-gritty of rope play, discussing how it serves as more than just a kink, but a pathway to self-expression and body confidence. From the intricacies of finding a trustworthy top to the risks involved in rope play, we leave no stone unturned.
But our conversation goes beyond the technicalities as we ponder the profound impact of Shibari on personal growth and liberation. Max shares insightful anecdotes on how Shibari can unlock hidden desires and help individuals embrace their true selves.
As an added treat, Maxwell throws in some playful tips on discovering your "porn name." Go watch the YouTube video for extra footage and a little rope demo!
Welcome to Season 2 of "In Bed With Alexa"! In this debut episode, join me for a dynamic conversation with Dr. Varuna, a distinguished sexual health expert and Allure Magazine's sex columnist, as we delve deep into the realms of sexual discovery and self-acceptance.
Dr. Varuna shares invaluable insights garnered from years of experience, covering a spectrum of topics. From the importance of finding community to navigating the challenges of growing up in a sex-negative culture, we explore the intricate journey of embracing one's identity, particularly in moments when you might not feel "bi enough."
Together, we tackle questions about the dynamics of attending sex parties, whether it's okay to simply watch (honorable mention to Venus Cuffs), and the evolving landscape of body hair acceptance. We'll even dive into the realm of TikTok trends and their impact on modern sexual discourse.
Throughout our conversation, Dr. Varuna emphasizes the significance of advocating for your pleasure and if you need orgasms for truly fulfilling sexual experiences.
Welcome to a bonus solo episode of "In Bed With Alexa"! Today, I'm spilling all the juicy details from my recent swingers cruise adventure.
I'm dishing on everyone I played with, from the 25 year old gorgeous bi woman to the oldest person I have played with. I'll give you the lowdown on the vibe of the ship, the activities that kept me entertained, and spill the tea on how easy (or not) it was to find people to swing with.
We'll chat about the swinging hotspots onboard, dish on the pool parties where things really heated up, and I'll even sneak you into the playroom to see what went down behind closed doors.
Join me for an eye-opening discussion as I sit down with Mistress Shayla Lange, the owner of New York's largest female-owned dungeon, to delve into the intriguing world of BDSM and professional domination.
In this episode, we explore the inner workings of these mysterious spaces. Shayla provides fascinating insights into what her dungeon looks like, what happens during sessions, and the diverse range of requests clients make.
But that's not all – we dive deeper into the nuances of BDSM, discussing common times that dungeons are booked, as well as the ingenious use of mundane objects for inflicting pain. Shayla also sheds light on the taboo topic of water sports and offers invaluable advice for aspiring pro dommes.
Tune in for a captivating conversation that demystifies BDSM, reveals the secrets of dungeon life, and provides practical tips for those looking to explore or enter the world of professional domination.
Get ready for a dynamic conversation as I sit down with Neil Mehta, CEO and Founder of Royal Intimacy, to delve into the intricacies of personal care and cultural influences.
In this episode, we kick things off by discussing the paramount importance of high-quality ingredients in the products we use for intimacy and grooming. Neil sheds light on why it's crucial to be mindful of what we put on our bodies and shares insights from his expertise in the field.
But the conversation doesn't stop there – we delve into deeper topics, such as navigating the unique experiences of growing up with Indian parents and the impact it has on our perceptions of intimacy. We also tackle tough questions, including whether individuals should lower their standards and how to gracefully handle rejection in relationships.
And of course, we can't forget about the practical aspects of intimacy – Neil shares invaluable tips on staying aroused and maintaining pleasure while using condoms, ensuring that every moment of intimacy is enjoyable and fulfilling.
Join me and Tawny Lara, author of "Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze," for a candid conversation that challenges societal norms around alcohol and intimacy.
In this episode, we explore the implications of alcohol on our sex lives and relationships, shedding light on who might benefit from rethinking their relationship with alcohol. Tawny shares invaluable insights on how to navigate dating and intimacy without relying on alcohol, whether you're single or in a committed partnership.
Discover practical tips for approaching sober sex with confidence and learn how to foster deeper connections with your partner while staying alcohol-free. Tune in for an empowering discussion that proves you can still have amazing, fulfilling sex without the booze.
Check out her new mocktail drink here!
To watch the unedited version and read all about my dating life, consider joining my Patreon!
Join me and Lola Jean, holder of the volume squirt world record, as we explore the fascinating world of squirting and beyond.
In this episode, we leave no squirt unturned. Lola Jean shares her expertise on who can do it, how it happens, and how to react when someone else experiences it. We also delve into the two types of squirting, shedding light on this often misunderstood phenomenon.
But that's not all – we also dive into the realm of BDSM and kink, discussing how to vet a good dom(me), empowering individuals to become one and her own personal experiences. Lola Jean dispels misconceptions surrounding being a brat and shares insights into her famous event, Cirque du Squirt.
Join me and Kenneth Play, author of "Beyond Satisfied," as we delve into the intricacies of sexual confidence and resilience.
Once insecure about his penis size, he now helps other discover the secrets to becoming a better lover, including the often-overrated art of squirting (and yes, we even demonstrate the position—clothed, of course!). Plus, learn how to ask for consent, navigate the inevitable bumps on the road to intimacy, including how to get better at handling rejection.
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Joining us today is the enchanting Sophie Saint Thomas, author of "Reproductive Rites: The Real-Life Witches and Witch-Hunts in the Centuries-Long Fight for Abortion Access." In this captivating episode, we delve into the mystical world of witchcraft and its empowering influence on self-confidence. Sophie shares her journey of embracing a child-free lifestyle and finding liberation in her identity as a writer. Tune in for a spellbinding conversation that celebrates individuality, creativity, and the magic of embracing your true self.
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Gabrielle Alexa, non monogamy educator and author of "How to Live With the Internet and Not Let it Run Your Life," joins us for a candid exploration of modern love and relationships. We delve into the intricacies of getting along with your partner's partners (metamours), shedding light on the dynamics of polyamory vs swinging, the complexities of unicorn hunting, and the reality of navigating breakups in non-monogamous dynamics.
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I'm joined by the renowned urologist, Dr. Jed Kaminetsky. We kick things off with an in-depth look at vasectomies, uncovering the facts and dispelling myths around this common procedure. Dive into the nitty-gritty of hormone health as we explore natural methods to naturally optimize testosterone levels and discuss a revolutionary, no-medication approach to treating ED.vDr. Kaminetsky and I also turn our attention to the often overlooked realm of pelvic and prostate health.
Find him on Instagram or this website!
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Things got real, raw, and rebellious with the badass Michelle Hy (@polyamorouswhileasian). We're flipping the script and tearing down the walls on polyamory, giving the middle finger to veto power, and diving into the gritty details of navigating relationships in our own damn way.
Get ready for a wild ride as we slam the door on traditional norms and kick it open to the world of wholesome sex parties. Yeah, you read that right.
So, if you're ready to break free from the chains of conventional love, join us for a no-holds-barred discussion that's as edgy as it is enlightening.
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Joined once again by the fabulous Zachary Zane, we're diving deep into these taboo topics with humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sass. From breaking down bisexual stereotypes to exploring the dynamics of throat-fucing, expert anal tips and navigating the complexities of unprotected sex, this episode is a rollercoaster of exploration and revelation.
A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting "In Bed With Alexa." Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible.
Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't!
Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2350-alexa
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Get ready for some juicy details as Zachary Zane and I spill the tea and take you behind the scenes of our wild adventure at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica —expect all the fun, frolics, and a few surprises! Join the laughter as we dish on everything we got up to, and share our thoughts on who these spaces are perfect for (or maybe not so much). Discover why being surrounded by an amazing community of bisexual folks made this experience so unforgettable.
A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting "In Bed With Alexa." Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible.
Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't!
Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2350-alexa
To watch the unedited version and read all about my dating life, consider joining my Patreon!
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