Insatiable: Backstage

Uncut conversations from Anchor, where Lori and Smiley interact with listeners. This is where we accept and curate call-ins for the Insatiable podcast about sex, dating and relationships. Listen for more conversation and to go even deeper (ahem) on our favorite topics!

020 Dating single dads/moms

Would you date someone with kids, or if you are a single parent, do you think it’s harder to date?

03-06
15:17

018 Valentine’s Day

1. Valentine’s day: πŸ‘πŸΌ/πŸ‘ŽπŸΌ? #qotd β€’ 2. Unromantic valentines πŸ’” β€’ 3. Giving valentines πŸ’ β€’ 4a. Sankofa β€’ Sankofa β€’ 4b. Love yourself (or a good cause) for Vday β€’ 5a. Black Girl Experience β€’ It’s just another day ❀️ β€’ 5b. Valentine haters β€’ 6a. Dewuan and Only β€’ VDay β€’ 6b. Vday surprise! β€’ 7a. Weekend Watcher β€’ The Day with My Valentine β€’ 7b. The best valentine! ❀️❀️ β€’ 8a. After Tech β€’ You got it right Lori β€’ 8b. Managing multiple valentines? β€’ 9a. Coffee Black Show β€’ Hater ? Valentine β€’ Hater pt.2 β€’ 9b. Every day is Valentine’s Day β€’ Enjoy you β€’ 9c. ❀️ call in more!

02-07
21:29

017 Craziest places for sex

1. Monday! #qotd β€’ Previously on Insatiable... β€’ 3. The craziest place you’ve had sex? #qotd β€’ 4a. Black Girl Experience β€’ Crazy but regular places to have sex lol β€’ 4b. Movie theater is on the bucket list! Lol β€’ 2a. Heated β€’ πŸ”₯ Between a rock and a hard place Q $ A of the day πŸ”₯ β€’ 2b. Down under! πŸŽ‡πŸŽ† β€’ 3a. Dewuan and Only β€’ School spirit! β€’ 3b. πŸ““πŸ“βœ‚οΈπŸ–ŠπŸ“– β€’ 4a. Can men and women be friends? β€’ My BFF is a lady β€’ 4b. The best friends β€’ 4c. The friend ladder β€’ 5. Australia Day β€’ πŸ”₯ β€’ 6. Black girl experience β€’ Accepting apps for platonic male friends πŸ“„ β€’ 6b. Platonic friendships are worth a try IMO β€’ 7. There’s something special about platonic M-F bonds β€’ 8. Girl/guy code vs...truth β€’ 9a. Man of Steel β€’ Crazy places I've had sex 😊

02-06
23:10

016 Women of Value

1. About the other day β€’ Previously on Insatiable... β€’ β™› β€’ 7b. Women of value β€’ 8. For example: Women don't have mileage β€’ 9. For example: Men are about more than their paychecks β€’ ✊🏾 β€’ ✌🏽 β€’ Caught the shade but it’s ok, not mad 😎 β€’ It’s not about words or intentions β€’ 2. Latest response β€’ RayVaughnHEAT response pt.1 β€’ 3. A differing opinion is not an attack β€’ @RayVaughnHEAT response pt.2 β€’ 4. I don’t accept double standards. β€’ RayVaughnHEAT response pt3 β€’ 5. Some folks don’t mind disagreement β€’ 6a. After Tech β€’ I appreciate you and the conversation β€’ 6b. Conversation can be so much fun β€’ 7a. Dewuan and Only β€’ PC Culture. β€’ 7b. Intentions don’t matter, and that upsets people β€’ @RayVaughnHEAT (twitter IG)

02-05
36:35

015 The one who fans your πŸ”₯

1. https://soundcloud.com/insatiable-podcast/09-the-most-overrated-sex-positions β€’ 2. iTunes reviews β€’ 3. The craziest place you’ve had sex? #qotd β€’ 4a. Black Girl Experience β€’ Crazy but regular places to have sex lol β€’ 4b. Movie theater is on the bucket list! Lol β€’ 5a. Some wisdom for your Friday β€’ Will Smith: Feed your flame β€’ 5b. Knowing who to walk away from β€’ 6. An honest evaluation β€’ 7a. Rayvaughnheat β€’ β™› β€’ 7b. Women of value β€’ 8. For example: Women don't have mileage β€’ 9. For example: Men are about more than their paychecks

02-03
23:26

014 Just a friend

1. Can men and women truly be friends? #qotd β€’ 2. The reasoning β€’ 3. If one person wants to have sex, it’s a no β€’ 4. Can you be friends after sex? β€’ 5. How to manage friends when you’re dating β€’ 6a. Reggie daily quota βœ… β€’ Friendship and Adoration β€’ 6b. Different definitions of friendship β€’ 7a. Dewuan and Only β€’ πŸ˜† β€’ 7b. Who are these friends tho?! β€’ 7c. Edward Norton in Spike Lee’s 25th Hour β€’ 8a. Can men and women be just friends? β€’ Trust β€’ 8b. People who think all men cheat β€’ 9a. The checklist β€’ Previously on Insatiable... β€’ 9b. Burn your shopping list β€’ Date or employee β€’ Date or employee β€’ 9b. Picky people sell themselves short

02-02
33:05

013 After the sex

1. Trying to blend in with the morning people β€’ The Real Compatibility Challenge β€’ 2. How do you sleep after sex? #qotd courtesy of Weekend Watcher β€’ 3. Hump day romance? β€’ Personality conundrum β€’ 4. Y’all got me in a mood now πŸ’• β€’ 5a. Black Girl Experience β€’ Hold me zaddy! β€’ 5b. Team cuddles β€’ πŸ› β€’ 6. Separate beds? Yes/no? #qotd p. 2 β€’ 7. Wet spot http://www.amazon.com/shop/itsmelori

02-01
12:12

012 The other man/woman

1. The other woman/man #qotd β€’ 2. His wife messaged me β€’ 3a. PDE-Life β€’ There are Rules to this Game....whasssup from AK! β€’ 3b. Some people have to work for it β€’ Qotd response β€’ 3c. Healthy competition? β€’ 3d. Competition vs. loyalty? β€’ 4a. Realiteespeakzzz β€’ Jerry springer version of the other womanπŸ˜±πŸ€”πŸ˜‚πŸ’–πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ€œπŸΎπŸ€›πŸΎ β€’ Dr Phil version of the other womanπŸ‘ΈπŸ’ͺ🏾✌️🏾 β€’ 4b. We learn to catch the early signs β€’ 5. So many stories tho β€’ 6a. Kingofuptown79 β€’ Sloppy cheaters β€’ 6b. Sloppy cheaters: πŸ–•πŸΌ β€’ 7. It all goes back to possessiveness β€’ 8. Until tomorrow 😘

01-30
21:51

011 The friend code

1. What’s your friend code? #qotd β€’ 2a. AfterTech on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Romance capitalism β€’ 2b. All’s fair? β€’ 3a. Black Girl Experience on the πŸŽ™ β€’ May the best man win πŸ₯‡ β€’ 3b. When is it off limits? β€’ 4. The friend code depends on who your friends are β€’ 5a. Coffee Black Show β€’ Holla at β€’ 5b. Not the homies β€’ 6a. Jojo Rae β€’ Loyalty

01-27
11:03

010 Delaying sex?

1a. The sex reporter β€’ Sensationalism β€’ 1b. The why β€’ 2a. #qotd from After Tech β€’ Can ppl get better at sex? β€’ 2b. Delaying sex β€’ 3. Getting to know each other through sex β€’ 4a. Open relationships. Can you do it? β€’ QOTD open relationship β€’ 4b. What would it be like β€’ He would be my boyfriend, but I’m single πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ˜‚ β€’ 4c. Playing fair β€’ Your relationship need jealousy β€’ 4d. Even the best get stepped out on β€’ Levels to it β€’ 4e. I guess I’m dating the wrong guys? πŸ˜‚ β€’ You got in the shower before hitting the sheets β€’ 5a. My precious β€’ It All Comes Back To Education & Role Models πŸ•ΊπŸ» β€’ 5b. A different way to think about it β€’ I might’ve had a few drinks before this: β€’ 5c. She said women aren’t precious 😱 β€’ RE: Women are not here for y

01-25
49:58

009 Open relationships

1. Could you have an open relationship? #qotd β€’ 2a. Replay: Where the anchor holds β€’ It All Comes Back To Education & Role Models πŸ•ΊπŸ» β€’ 2b. Women are not here for you β€’ 3a. Dewuan and only! β€’ 1/2 β€’ 2/2.. oh yea one more coming! πŸ˜† β€’ 3b. Paralyzed by fear of rejection β€’ 4a. King of Uptown on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Asap β€’ 4b. When you know, you know β€’ 5. Acting on desire β€’ 6a. The Coffee Black Show β€’ As long as it takes β€’ 6b. A YEAR?! β€’ 7a. Raycast on the πŸŽ™ β€’ QOTD β€’ 7b. Opening a relationship to save it? β€’ 8. Voluntary commitment β€’ 9a. Action 25 on the πŸŽ™ β€’ 3. Are you looking for a date or an employee? β€’ Date or employee response β€’ 9b. Burn your shopping list β€’ 10a. SaffaBrit on the πŸŽ™ β€’ RE: Women are not here for you πŸ€” β€’ 10b. Critical thinking πŸ”‘ β€’ 11a. KMc on the πŸŽ™

01-24
58:30

008 Waiting for sex

Bump it in deep 😬 β€’ 1. How long would you wait for sex? #qotd β€’ 2a. After Tech on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Only one? β€’ 2b. We ask for truth, but can we handle it? #marriage β€’ 3. Are you looking for a date or an employee? β€’ 4. The date who never makes a move (why?!) β€’ 5a. KMc on the πŸŽ™ β€’ QOTHD part 1 β€’ QOTHD final part β€’ 5b. Not that type of girl β€’ 6. Wait a few dates, or a few months? β€’ 7a. A Public Service Announcement β€’ 7b. This is not the way β€’ 8a. Lotus on the πŸŽ™ β€’ [RE] How long would you wait....?! πŸ˜’ β€’ 8b. When celibacy backfires β€’ 9. Zero sexual tension β€’ 10a. Raycast on the πŸŽ™ β€’ QOTD β€’ 10b. 30-day grace period β€’ 11a. Weekend watcher on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Marriage and Scripting β€’ 11b. The perfect analogy for love? β€’ 12a. Positive Gaming on the πŸŽ™ β€’ 12b. Talking about intentions=πŸ‘πŸΌ

01-23
58:15

Controlling jealousy

1. TGIF β€’ That does happen β€’ 2a. Oops, wrong hole 😯🀣 β€’ You gotta heavy vocabulary β€’ Keep it up. β€’ 2b. How does that work tho? β€’ 3a. MoMac on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Choosing to be sensible is the only choice really have β€’ 3b. Control β€’ 4a. Black Girl Experience β€’ Wrong hole fool! β€’ 4b. Can you feel the difference between holes? πŸ˜‚ β€’ 5a. Dewuan and only β€’ Trust β€’ 5b. Don’t make your jealousy someone else’s problem β€’ 6. To stay or leave: a calculation β€’ 7a. Lee knows best β€’ 7b. The worst reason to stay with someone: history β€’ 8a. Action 25 β€’ Why am I the only one who misses this? β€’ Blockbuster Video β€’ 8b. The No-Suspense Generation β€’ 9. https://soundcloud.com/insatiable-podcast/08-one-last-time-before-marriage β€’ 10a. After Tech β€’ Smiley's Diet Perspective β€’ 10a. Is marriage always good for you? β€’ 11a. On Blockbuster β€’

01-20
31:54

Staying with a cheater

Keep listening β€’ 1. Would you stay with a cheater? #qotd β€’ 2. Judgement from other people #cheaters β€’ 3. We have to be real with ourselves #cheaters β€’ 4. Show us some love on My Anchor Intro β€’ Insatiable: Let’s talk about sex πŸ†πŸ‘ β€’ 5a. Echoing Black Girl Experience β€’ 5b. Committing to misery β€’ 6a. Where the anchor holds β€’ Weighing in on the Insatiable QOTD β€’ 6b. Retribution β€’ πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ maybe I’m this way because I’ve never been in love β€’ 7. Introspection and flexibility β€’ 8a. Dewuan on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Cheater’s oath β€’ 8b. Going too far β€’ 9. Catching him in the act β€’ Great job Lorrie! Keep it up! β€’ 10. Why all the sex talk β€’ 11a. MoMac on the πŸŽ™ β€’ If I was cheated it would be shocking β€’ Cheated continued blah blah blah β€’ 11b. The blame game

01-19
30:29

First time the worst time

Bump it in deep 😬 β€’ 1. Your first time πŸ†πŸ‘ β€’ 2. The first time can suck β€’ 3a. Black Girl Experience on the πŸŽ™ β€’ First time the worst time πŸ˜‚ β€’ 3b. Keeping it real for the virgins β€’ 4a. KMc on the πŸŽ™ β€’ Dating while insatiable part 1 β€’ Part 2 β€’ Final Part 3 β€’ 4b. Giving up sex for love β€’ 5. Is it ok to sleep with other people if your partner doesn’t want sex? β€’ 6a. Pers on the πŸŽ™ (hey girl!) β€’ A sexuality β€’ Dealbreakers and compatibility β€’ 6b. To accept or not accept asexuality β€’ 7. Straight men don’t groom? β€’ 8a. The Coffee Black Show πŸŽ™ β€’ Straight booty call β€’ 8b. Booty call etiquette

01-18
20:38

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