It's Mostly Just Different

An exploration of techniques and insights on bettering your relationships.

Engaging the Angry: Safely Working Through Conflict

On this episode, Tom and Isabel take a closer look at how to safely engage persons who have a short fuse, jump to conclusions, and struggle to control their anger.

11-25
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Navigating the Emotional Minefield: Understanding Coping Mechanisms for Children & Adults

On this episode, Tom and Isabel examine the various triggers and coping mechanisms used by both children and adults, and offer their insight into positive and healthy processing.

11-25
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The Challenges of Closed Systems

On this episode, Tom and Isabel explore the importance of finding commonalities with those who think differently.

02-27
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Why Being 'Right' Shouldn't Be Your Goal

Why Being ‘Right’ Shouldn’t Be Your Goal: Humanizing ‘isms and Creating a Path for ChangeIf ‘winning’ an argument is at the heart of your disagreements with others, it may be time to take a step back and reassess. On this episode, Tome and Isabel unpack how ‘being right’ can ultimately lead to increased tension and dysfunction in a relationship.

02-03
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The Origins of Mansplaining

Tom and Isabel discuss the origins of 'Mansplaining,' and how to navigate conversations when it arises.

01-23
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I Don't Want You're F***ing Apology

On this episode, Tom defends his view that apologies aren’t all they’re cracked up to be.

01-13
54:50

Nothing Moves Without Empathy

Tom and Isabel discuss the need for empathy while tackling tough topics .

01-06
57:44

Everybody is Defensive

Understanding your inherent biases, and how they impact your communication with, and understanding of, others.

01-06
39:33

Who Talks First? Communication for Positive Change

Who Talks First? Communication for Positive Change In the inaugural episode, therapist Tom Burke and Isabel Estolano discuss the basics of engaging in tough topics of conversations.

01-06
49:58

Episode 1: The Power of Understanding

Tom and Isabel begin with an overview of the IMJD podcast, and discuss the power in seeking understanding others' points of view.

04-03
50:16

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