It Takes A Village

Practical, expert advice on how to tackle the challenges of modern parenting.

Bullying: preventing and addressing

Whether your child is being bullied, or your child is being a bully, Dr Karyn Healy has advice. She is an Australian registered psychologist who has worked with schools, parents and children to prevent and address bullying, and resolve conflict. She co-authored a family programme to address school bullying called the Resilience Triple P program. Dr Healy says parents can help children manage conflict.

09-19
19:34

Play with your food, and don't disguise vegetables

When Jennifer Anderson became a mother, she - like many new parents - realised the uphill battle that can be mealtimes. Getting young kids to eat their greens, voluntarily, isn't always straightforward - and advice on how to encourage them is polarising. Do you force them to sit and finish their plate, bribe them with dessert... and at what point, do you just give up on the brussel sprouts? But Ms Anderson, a registered dietician, took that angst, and honed in on a specialty in feeding children and picky eating. She founded Kids Eat in Color - a resource to help families feed their children, from their first bite of solid food right through to elementary-aged nutrition needs.

09-12
19:14

With so many education apps - how can parents know which ones are good?

The phrase "there's an app for that" certainly applies in the education space - one estimate puts numbers available on the Apple and Google Play stores at nearly 400,000. But are they any good?

09-05
18:15

Do sticker charts help or harm?

The big question for many parents of young children is - how can I get my kids to do what I'm asking them to do?

08-28
17:01

Parenting: the impact of traditional masculinity on boys

New York Times contributor Andrew Reiner writes about traditional roles previously assigned to men and boys affects their lives.

08-22
19:36

Maggie Dent: Queen of Commonsense Parenting

Maggie Dent is known as the Queen of Commonsense Parenting. She's a former high school teacher, counsellor, mother of four sons, grandmother of seven, author of numerous books and the host of the ABC podcast Parental as Anything. Her latest book is called Help Me, Help My Teen. And Maggie's coming to Auckland next month for two public sessions: Mothering our Boys and Calming Today's Anxious Kids. Send questions for Maggie to 2101 on text or email ninetonoon@rnz.co.nz

08-15
27:12

I'm a helpful dad, so why do the kids only want mum?

Parenting commentator Nathan Wallis joins Paddy Gower to talk about what to do when child only wants the other parent.

08-07
13:51

Lucy Foulkes: Why teens behave the way they do

Dr Lucy Foulkes is an academic psychologist at the University of Oxford, and her new book draws on decades of research to reveal why teens behave they way they do.

08-06
28:42

Parenting: How to talk to your children about setbacks

A University of Auckland led study has investigated how parents discuss setbacks with their children - and the correlation with a child's fear of making mistakes.

08-01
16:07

How not to lose your cool with your kids

Tips and tricks for keeping your cool with your children.

07-25
17:51

Helping teens make peace with anxiety

Clinical and health psychologist Dr Toni Lindsay says anxiety is a bit like chocolate: a little bit is ok, but too much can make you spin out.

07-18
23:49

Parenting: when preschoolers struggle with speaking skills

Wellington speech and language therapist Christian Wright discusses the different spoken language stages preschoolers go through as they learn to talk.

07-11
21:03

Parenting: How to carry the mental load

Psychologist Jacqui Maguire discusses tips and advice for parents struggling to carry the mental load of parenting, family life and work.

06-27
22:59

Is my kid old enough to watch this show?

How young is too young to watch Stranger Things (M with a content warning)? What do you tell a 16-year-old who wants to watch Euphoria (R18 so actually illegal for those 17 and under)? To make informed decisions about safe family viewing, parents should take into account not only ratings and content warnings but also their child's individual sensitivities, says Kate Whitaker from New Zealand's Classification Office.

06-19
15:18

Parenting: navigating kids and devices

When Rob and Zareen Cope's four children began wanting phones and screens, the pair decided to dive into the research. They travelled overseas talking with experts and made a documentary. Today, the Cope's company - Our Kids Online - educates parents about the dangers of handheld devices and the internet-age, and how best to mitigate them. They spoke to around 500 parents in Wellington last night.

06-13
22:09

Baby Food Bible: Parents' go-to guide for the start of baby's food journey

Starting baby on solids can be a daunting prospect, no matter how many kids you have - since every child's food journey is different. Baby led weaning or spoon feeding? How to introduce potential allergens into their diet? How much is enough? Australian-based duo Julia Tellidis and Lauren Skora are a clinical nutritionist and baby nutrition consultant who have have teamed up to create what they've called 'Baby Food Bible'. In addition to extensive information about the whens and hows of introducing solids to a baby's diet, it's also chock-full of recipes designed to appeal to the fussiest little eaters.

06-06
16:31

Parenting: How to help children make their own decisions

How do you encourage children to start making their own decisions? And at what age should they be able to do this with confidence? First off, it's all about helping them build "decision-making scaffolding", education specialist Mark Osborne tells Nine to Noon.

05-30
17:42

Tamariki wellbeing and ways to document it

Gratitude journals have been embraced by some adults in recent years - but what about children? An electrician turned writer, and an Auckland teacher have now created a wellbeing journal for tamariki - Piki te Ora. Hira Nathan trained as an electrician, it is still his day job, but has always had a passion for writing. He has already written a bilingual gratitude journal for adults- Whakawhetai. And now Hira has teamed with Pike te Ora co author, Jessie Eyre who is a teacher at Western Heights School in Henderson.

05-23
15:54

Parenting: Tips for when adult children move back home

One in every three people between the ages of 18 and 34 still live at home with their parents, according to Stats NZ. How do you navigate sharing household costs with adult children who've either returned home or never left?

05-15
15:34

Parenting: Helping kids with a healthy competition mindset

Melbourne-based provisional psychologist Darren Godwin says tween and teens athletes and their parents can benefit from the same sort of assistance pros get to deal with ups and downs.

05-08
19:09

Sonny Darvishzadeh

Why are we forcing children to eat the foods they hate? Why don’t we want to learn to see it as a natural feedback?

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Fiona Van Tuyl

Hi Kathryn, team and village. I'm surprised to find no comments in here. Love this podcast, really good content. Look forward to more.

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