I’m Not Sure. But, It’s Okay.
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Join us for 100 personal stories about navigating life while embracing uncertainty. Our focus is on Living Better, Learning Daily, and Leading Boldly.
LaToniya A. Jones (Toni) is in conversation with people --across multiple generations -- who intrigue and inspire her with their self-awareness, epiphanies, transparency, relatable strategies, and resources.
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LaToniya A. Jones (Toni) is in conversation with people --across multiple generations -- who intrigue and inspire her with their self-awareness, epiphanies, transparency, relatable strategies, and resources.
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Adrienne Taylor-Wells shares how her life-shifted due to a traumatic health report in her mid-20’s and why she focuses on reaching fellow millennials, her health, and nurturing wealthy mindsets.
Story 50/100 Highlights:
1. A devastating journey that changed how she eats, moves, and shares with others
2. Connecting her Mindset, Faith, and Action to Live Better
3. Power of supportive groups to be well and build business
4. Earlier personal debt story and government resources (ie, www.investor.gov)
5. Having the right doctor; sharing details to help them "practice" medicine better on you (rate and review)
6. Combatting imposter syndrome .. and much more
🔗 Connect with Adrienne Taylor-Wells:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/tailoredwealthsaver/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adriennedtaylor
Website: https://www.tailoredwealthsaver.com
Podcast: https://www.tailoredwealthsaver.com/podcasts/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TailoredWealthSaver/
How are you "shifting into a higher gear in life"? B. Valaise Smith shares why and how she is prioritizing herself daily by eating to live and building her (mental, spiritual, and physical) strength. She really is tried and true to living better in this season of life. 🔗 Connect with B. Valaise Smith: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/triedandtruefs
IG: https://www.instagram.com/triedandtruefs/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tried-true-financial-services
Even through a hard season - - Denitra Gregory continued to weave a beautiful life story – with her faith walk, husband's partnership, immediate family’s loving support, a fashion and lifestyle brand, and introverted ways.
Chime in to hear how Denitra is living boldly -- while protecting her mental space, navigating her Hodgkin's Lymphoma healing journey, inspiring women to focus on their gifts and tell the world who they are, passionately paying tribute to iconic black women, ditching the hustle life to embrace a softer life – and making every day an event toward being who God called her to be.
✨ Thanks for listening, following the I'm Not Sure. But, It's Okay. podcast, and sharing this story with your network.
💫 Continue to Live Better. Learn Daily. Lead Boldly.
🔗 Connect with Denitra Gregory:
Website: www.unforgettableyoullc.com
IG: @un4gettableyou
FB: Unforgettable You LLC
If you are most familiar with hanging in the background to do your thing, work your magic, and contribute your part to the greater good -- Carlos Johnson's story will offer a bit of motivation and confirmation to step in when colleagues, partners, and those you serve alongside are deflecting, running, resisting the "pain of change" during a necessary growth period. Carlos shares the moment he knew to move forward, why he emphasizes the psychology and practice of engagement for lasting personal and cultural change, and resources (including his new book -- PowerEngage) for your treasure chest.
✨ Thanks for listening, following the I'm Not Sure. But, It's Okay. podcast, and sharing this story with your network.
💫 Continue to Live Better. Learn Daily. Lead Boldly.
🔗 Connect with Carlos Johnson:
Website: https://imageofsuccess.com
Youtube : Coach Carlos The Trainer Image of Success
As we grow into better versions of ourselves, we must consider the impact of what our mothers experienced while we were in her womb.
Tenita Johnson continues to dig deeper into her ancestry, while operating in the space she is given to help both herself and others find purpose in their pain (job loss, fertility, infidelity, suicidal ideation and much more). Tenita authentically shares insight and considerations to Unlearn habits + thoughts that no longer serve you and move toward Leading Boldly in your own life.
Thanks for listening, following the I'm Not Sure. But, It's Okay. podcast, and sharing this story with your network.
Continue to Live Better. Learn Daily. Lead Boldly.
🔗 Connect with Tenita Johnson:
Websites: https://soitiswritten.net https://www.tenitajohnson.com
Email: info@soitiswritten.net
Cell: 313.777.8607
It takes a lot for both men and women to "trust themselves to love again" -- after divorce, with children, and in making a decision to be laser focused on their career. Terrell and Richarne found each other on a dating app and proceeded with caution as they leaned into their new kind of bond, commitment, and a love like no other.
Episode Highlights:
1. Each one's take on / purpose for joining the app
2. Boundaries; decision to clear the table; being honest; allowing each other to "show their real selves"
3. Knowing and supporting each other's love languages [prepare to hear a few tunes]
4. Prioritizing mental health and physical well-being [Richarne is a professional licensed therapist/counselor; Terrell is showing us what he is working with too]
5. How they keep things fun (with each other and family)
6. Quieting the noise -- to do life their way
7. Honoring their co-parenting relationships -- no matter the noise, chatter, and naysayers
🔗 Connect with Terrell and Richarne:
Terrell: https://www.instagram.com/the_tshirt_king/
Richarne: https://www.instagram.com/drshawnthelpc/
Have you ever considered bypassing a great opportunity because of the team dynamics or leadership? What about pivoting as you determine the best work-life balance in every season? Linda Griffin shares how she navigated these scenarios to both lead boldly and live better -- from high school to career to entrepreneurship.
Episode Highlights:
1. Setting daily intentions and routines, while giving yourself grace to adjust when needed
2. What Linda's mentor shared that shifted her perspective toward focusing on Greater Opportunities in every situation
3. Self-awareness, passion, commitment, and impact in this season of life.
4. Transitioning from a Career in STEM / Tech / Leadership to Entrepreneurship
5. How research and support to get "heads in beds" for the Bed and Breakfast / hospitality industry led to speaking at conferences, for professional associations, and a self-publishing business for thought-leaders
6. Our LinkedIn meeting, math and science backgrounds, love of mysteries, travel, and so much more
🔗 Connect with Linda Griffin:
Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/lindagriffin
Instagram: @90dayauthor
Twitter: twiter.com/lindagriffin
Website: https://www.expertauthor411.com/work-with-linda/
They met at a cabaret 32 years ago but grew exponentially during a devastating COVID experience. Ed and Deana Williams share their journey to love and lessons learned about self, marriage, and what matters most in any type of relationship.
Episode Highlights:
1. Her response and his challenge around their first dance.
2. 100/100 rule
3. Gender-roles; family roles
4. Keeping God at the center of love + marriage
5. "Checklist" mentality
6. Considerations for more meaningful relationships when dating for/toward marriage
7. What they learned to embrace and dismiss about each other
Connect with Ed and Deana Williams:
Instagram: @WilliamsDeana | Affirmation Diva Collection
Story 47/100: Jeannette Roberes shares how she is using her intersecting identities as a black woman, mother and professional to affect change (in work, business, and her community) that helps others live better.
Have you considered how your identity affects change in your family and different seasons of life?
Have you ever wondered if your seemingly natural talents are inherited -- a part of your DNA?
Episode Highlights:
1) Reflection, Mindsets, Manifesting, and Productivity
2) The impact of Epigentics and DNA
3) Allyship and Advocating: speech therapy, dyslexia, tech, autism at work
4) Simple ways we can make digital tools usable for all; accessibility
🔗 Connect with Jeannette Roberes on Linkedin
Website: https://www.bearlyarticulating.com/
Story 46/100: Shawn Lee (Founder, Humanitarian, Photographer, Visual Storyteller) shares how one person’s investment in his early photography career led to his journey and joy of investing in others with each "Rock That! Money" self-affirmation and declaration he speaks.
Shawn is on a mission to make society better by building out personal and professional community spaces of belonging, empowerment, and even considering how he can influence policies.
Episode Highlights:
1. How the "Rock That!" declaration and affirmation (to self and others) came to be
2. What the 2022 Humanitarian of the Year Recipient Award really means
3. Reminders to be humble, act with grace and mercy, make the world better than you found it
4. Why we should all -- Keep going through the roadblocks. Leave it all on the stage!!!
🔗 Connect with Shawn Lee
Shawn Lee Studio Photography: https://www.shawnleestudios.com
The Rock That Photography Conference and Trade Show: https://www.rockthatconference.com
@ShawnLeeStudios on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter
Story 45/100: Simone 'G' Giangiordano is evolving through this way of being and sharing strategies and considerations to help you navigate similar experiences or support those near and dear to you -- as they define what works best for them.
Redesigning your lifestyle and way of being while living with an invisible illness is an ongoing journey.
Life and business "as usual" is not an option.
Family, friends and those in your community may never understand. But, self-awareness and boundaries that allow you to Be, Serve, and Receive -- are essential.
Episode Highlights:
1. Stigma around invisible illness
2. Self-compassion
3. Thriving through her Cycle of Setbacks experienced in business
4. Setting boundaries according to your body
5. The beauty of late starts
6. Emotional agility, impact of food, reflection
7. How to adjust presentations and business models to serve well and be well
🔗 Connect with Simone 'G' Giangiordano
Website: www.SimoneG.NET
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simonegbalanceup/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/SimoneGBalance
Facebook - Live Life Well: https://www.facebook.com/SimoneG.Live
LinkedIn Personal: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simonegiangiordano/
If you want, visit BalanceUPYourDreamTeam.com for download
Story 44/100 features my cousin, Antonio McCladdie El (husband, father, author, family gatherer, and Big Ideas visionary) sharing how a mindset shift while working in the airline industry led to more focus on preservation --his sons future, self-awareness, family, values, heritage, and expanding his entrepreneurial journey in this season of life (25 years later).
Many of us think about those just in case moments.
But, how often do we take action on what we say is -- most precious, valuable, our big ideas, ways of living better, etc.?
Episode Highlights:
1. Why he reads 10 pages a day, books in rotation
2. Just In Case I'm Not There: Advice From A Father to His Son // + upcoming love letter to daughters (books he authored)
3. Faith, Religion, Black, Moorish heritage
4. What were Blacks practicing before Christianity?
5. Life as a Pastors' Husband
6. Dreams, Decisions, Balance + Change Resistance
7. Helping others find their source of power to live fully
8. Wisdom from Grandmother (95): Our Detroit and Cleveland Memories
🔗 Connect with Antonio McCLaddie El
Facebook: Antonio McCladdie El mAc Global LLC
Website: www.macglobalnow.com | www.antoniomccladdieel.com
Story 39/100: VaNessa P. Thompson has always been an early adopter of technology and social media.
Listen to how using her affinities for gaming and technology to help college students feel a sense of belonging helped her get out of her own head, manage her time better (she works where she is earning her PhD), and expand professional relationships.
Expanding our reach in virtual environments require purpose, strategy and patience.
Episode Highlights:
1. Three ways to teach with TikTok (and decrease the number of emails)
2. Habits of a Reformed Perfectionist (with therapy, Peloton)
3. Beauty of being present + Cultivating platonic relationships
4. Game / Play Tips for Families w/tweens and teens + Tech she would bring back from her teen years
🔗 Connect with VaNessa P. Thompson on LinkedIn, Twitter, IG or TikTok
Story 43/100: Shamone Beasley found his true passion after experiencing burnout during his sales career in the food and beverage industry.
We chatted about how a conversation around potential investments in African made products led to a fulfilling business, organically grown community via social, and more time for everything that's important to him.
Episode Highlights:
1. Finding passion vs Something to sell
2. Coffee in Africa --> Premium product
3. Putting the brand first
4. God as his first + everything
5. Losses vs. Wins
6. Beatitudes (proud man of faith)
7. Self Care
🔗 Connect with Shamone Beasley | Instagram/Facebook: @thebeanbrotherscoffee | www.thebeanbrotherscoffees.com
Story 42/100: Nicoya Ingram (Mom of 8+ an angel; wife of 17 years) is on a quest "to be able to speak to be understood".
She is passionate about reaching and providing encouragement to different audiences. She is leading boldly and helping others learn how to be their best selves.
We chatted about both the blessings and misunderstandings that occur among our most precious relationships when we don't listen attentively, seek understanding, and communicate effectively -- including boundaries and expectations.
Episode Highlights:
1. Adapting to Change as a teen moving from the Bahamas to Minnesota
2. Sign Language and Master Life Coach Certification
3. Remaining Centered: Seeking Peace and Joy, Self Appreciation
4. Family: nurturing, organizing, and celebrating differences
5. Why Change is Good
6. Culture of Respect: Perspectives vs. Opinions
7. Operating on Autopilot (in a passive state)
8. Moving beyond Proving others Wrong (at least about you) to Being Present in Doing (alert/aware)
🔗 Connect with Nicoya Ingram | @Ncouragemeant | www.ncouragemeant.com | nicoya@icreateleadership.org
Story 41/100: Deborah Owens shares the defining moment that led to her mission to help one million Black women identify and execute on ways to move past financial uncertainty toward building their 7-figure investment portfolios; how her mother influenced her Purse of Your Own book; as well as, actionable steps designed to make a connection between what's familiar and the habits of ultra-wealthy families.
Episode Highlights:
1) The difference between being wealthy and rich
2) Moving past decisions rooted in fear and doubt around launching something new
3) What she learned about Intergenerational wealth and first generation inheritance
4) Travel as rest and self-care ... and more
🔗 Connect with Deborah Owens | WealthyU | Get Wealthy Show | deborahowens.com | Deborahowens@verizon.net | 410 903 0575
Story 40/100: Shalika D. Sanders believes that "Self care is a lifestyle" that can be accomplished by striving for a healthy balance, adjusting accordingly, and operating in faith.
We know that we must take care of ourselves in order to show up for our family, friends, community and in business.
Creating beautiful environments, pleasing experiences -- is an ongoing, yet attainable goal for everyone to live out their own version of luxury, every day or as often as they desire.
Episode Highlights:
1) Personal Home Design Aesthetic
2) Sisterhood: The Gift of Gathering with Good Girlfriends
3) Organizational Tools
4) Mother-Daughter bonding
5) Growing as an influencer in the lifestyle and home decor community
6) Normalizing Black Girls and Luxury
🔗 Connect with Shalika D. Sanders @sdsdecor SDSdecor.com
Story 38/100: Dorethia Kelly reminds us that we must continue to be coachable and relevant -- as we coach others with our lived experiences, in business ventures, navigating careers, building community platforms, personal finances, parenting, and becoming the best versions of ourselves.
Dorethia Kelly, MBA is a Financial Expert, Entrepreneur, Author, and Coach
💰 Founder & CEO #MoneyChat
💰Founder & CEO Work • Space • Spark™
🔗 Dorethia Kelly, MBA 💰 For finance and business coaching dorethiakelly.com 💰Meet her subscription box career growth team and community WorkSpaceSpark.com Rate our Show. Learn more about our project at www.NotSureOkay.live
Story 37/100: Monica F. Cox, Ph.D., is a disruptor, trailblazer, change agent, and leader who believes in living an authentic life even if it makes people uncomfortable.
Listen to discover why living in the gray area is not so bad. This gray space (middle area) is where we produce the best versions of our selves and work.
#NotSureOkay Episode Highlights:
1) Sharing pieces of her experience led to a Leadership Mentoring Community on Twitter.
2) Navigating Workplace Trauma.
3) Her invitations and recognition from President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama; Wisdom from Rep. John C. Lewis.
4) Uncertainty and Beauty of Operating in Gray Spaces.
5) Mindset: Personal Values, Alignment, and Boundaries.
🔗 Dr. Monica at her website (https://www.drmonicacox.com/about ) and @DrMonicaCox on social channels.
Story 36/100: Tokiwa T. Smith is "standing in her truth" by integrating rest cycles and gathering in safe spaces with other Black women to fuel her soul.
She has the receipts and capacity – chemical engineer, social entrepreneur, author, and STEM advocate – to navigate philanthropic gatekeepers and build her legacy.
Episode Highlights:
LIVING BETTER
Making rest cycles a normal way of being. Especially as an introvert.
LEARNING DAILY
The impact of culturally relevant mentoring and groups outside of peer, professional, and familial networks.
LEADING BOLDLY
Addressing the inequities of Black Women founders in philanthropy.
Expecting more Black business leaders and politicians to courageously “kick over tables like Jesus did in the temple” — to right wrongs and provide the resources needed to care for its own community.
Note: Matthew 21:12-14; Mark 11:15-18
🔗 Ways to connect with Tokiwa T. Smith
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tokiwatsmith/
Instagram handle: @tokiwasmith
Website: https://tokiwatsmith.com/
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