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Joy Fueled and Jesus Led

Joy Fueled and Jesus Led
Author: Toni M Daniels
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Inspiring stories and practical tools to help you live Joy fueled and Jesus led in all areas of your life. How can we be the church every day in such a way that is simple, viral and transformational? Toni shares with you how real-life intersects with Divine presence in ways that touch the heart, bring hope to the soul, and compassion to the world.
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How pre-conventional impulsivity looks differently in Toni than in Matt. And ways it be harnessed by Love for our good and God’s glory.
Breaking down Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development helps Matt and Toni make sense of some of the strong emotions going on inside of her when she comes up against rules-based Christians, why some people are so afraid of the Way of Love and how often our motives (even Toni's) are really about avoiding pain.
In this new series Struggling to Stay Joy Fueled and Jesus Led, Toni invites you into conversations between her and her husband, Matt Daniels. These conversations are going to be completely unplanned, where Toni shares something that recently triggered her and then asks Matt to help make sense of what is going on.
In this episode, Matt helps Toni understand why some institutional churches shut down a movement like Godly Play when it is actually creating true character transformation among their congregants and children, and in turn creating Vibrant Families of Jesus. for more information about Godly Play go to https://www.godlyplayfoundation.org/
In this “Struggling to Stay Joy fueled and Jesus Led, Toni and Matt discuss the dangers of believing that God desires us to run fast and far to complete the great commission. What if we are to run when He says run and rest when He says rest and wait when he says wait? How would that change the way we approach ministry and the way we do or do not judge others?
In this episode, Toni has the joy of interviewing her good friend, colleague and fellow author of Relational Revolution and Joy Fueled, Dr. Kent Smith. A professor of 30+ years at Abilene Christian University and co-founder of LK10 and the Eden Center for Regenerative Culture, Dr. Smith has lived a lifetime experimenting with learning communities and is a master architect of creating communities that can love and lead well together with each other and with God. The inability to healthily make decisions together has brought about more division and corruption of power in the church (and world for that matter) than almost any other issue. Dr. Smith shares with us his journey into what he has coined “Divine Governance” and how it creates a way for the Kingdom of God to break forth as a result of every voice reflecting the image of God.
If you are interested in learning more, see the links below. And of course, if you would like to belong to a community of practice learning and implementing these skills, sign up for an intro call with LK10.com today.
Eden Center for Regenerative Culture
Sociocracy For All
LK10.com
In this last bonus episode with Dr. Lehman, he continues with reasons 4 and 5 of why the Immanuel Approach is the most amazing plan in the world for people in high-stress environments like refugee camps, prisons, orphanages, recovery centers, shelters, military bases, etc?” We are not called to reduce stress as Christians. We are invited to reframe it and shift from a toxic relationship to stress to one of challenge that brings deep life meaning and satisfaction. Dr. Lehman shares how he lived in functional deism for many years before discovering the living presence of Jesus in his life! They also discuss the role of relational anger in social justice. The Immanuel Approach lived out in a community like LK10 promotes helps reframe stress in order to build resilient, vibrant Jesus-led communities. If you would like to cultivate this type of relationship with God and belong to a people committed to this kind of heart-to-heart connection together, see these links for possible next steps.
LK10.com
Immanuel Approach Basic Training
https://www.immanuelapproach.com/immanuel-approach-book-now-available/
Alive and Well
Face to Face Ministries
In these bonus episodes with Dr. Lehman, they jump right into the deep end of heavy emotions during our check-in, which allows Toni the opportunity to model how LK10 holds space for and responds when people share deep pain. Please listen with caution if you are sensitive to losing a close one. Listen in as Karl models how to handle grief, and Toni models how to show up for people grieving. Then, Karl begins explaining the 5 reasons whythey Immanuel Approach is the most amazing plan in the world for people in high-stress environments like refugee camps, prisons, orphanages, recovery centers, shelters, military bases, etc?”
The Relational Revolution is underway and consistently interacting with the living, active, real-time presence of Jesus is an essential component of the cultural shift God is inviting His body into. If you would like to cultivate this type of relationship with God and belong to a people committed to this kind of heart-to-heart connection together, then see below for possible next steps:
LK10.com
Immanuel Approach Basic Training
https://www.immanuelapproach.com/immanuel-approach-book-now-available/
Alive and Well
Face to Face Ministries
In this 3rd interview part with Dr. Karl Lehman, co-founder of the Immanuel Approach, we discuss what Dr Lehman has not yet had a chance to say. Covering topics such as how the Immanual Approach creates secure attachment that changes the way we practice church together, transforming us into the relational and loving community Christ transforms us to be. We even pray Lk 10:2 for God to send laborers for the harvest. Stay tuned for one more bonus episode with Dr. Lehman coming soon.
The Relational Revolution is underway, and LK10’s newest book outlines how connecting with the live, active presence of Jesus is crucial to this movement. Being able to sense God comforting us, soothing us, giving us His perspective, and directing our steps is how we become hope-bearers in the world today. Relational Revolution: 5 Shifts to Rediscovering Church as Heart-to-Heart Connection will launch on April 18th for just $.99. Sign up with THIS PRE-RELEASE LINK to be notified as soon as the book is released so you can get your copy. Also, browse below for more resources on the Immanuel Approach.
Immanuel Approach website and Book
Alive and Well
Face to Face Ministries
In this second part of an interview with Dr. Karl Lehman, co-founder of the Immanuel Approach. we hear where the Immanuel Approach is heading, what resources are available for free, and Dr. Lehman's deep heart motivation for why he gives so much of his time and resources away for free
LK10’s newest book outlines how connecting with the live, active presence of Jesus is crucial to this movement. Being able to sense God comforting us, soothing us, giving us His perspective, and directing our steps is how we become hope-bearers in the world today. Relational Revolution: 5 Shifts to Rediscovering Church as Heart-to-Heart Connection will launch on April 18th for just $.99. Sign up HERE to be notified as soon as the book is released so you can get your copy. For more resources on the Immanuel Approach visit these links:
Immanuel Approach website and Book
https://www.immanuelapproach.com/immanuel-approach-book-now-available/
Alive and Well
Face to Face Ministries
This is the first of a three-part interview with Dr. Karl Lehman, co-founder of the Immanuel Approach. Dr Lehman is a board-certified psychiatrist with twenty-five years and more than forty thousand hours of clinical experience.
He has worked tenaciously throughout his career to integrate faith-based emotional healing with insights provided by psychological and neurological research. Dr. Lehman is also deeply committed to his own growth and healing. His personal struggle to connect with the living presence of Jesus really has paved the way for millions to sense God with them consistently and more predictably.
It is my great joy to share with you Dr Lehman’s passion and life’s work that brings hope to the world every day.
LK10’s newest book outlines how connecting with the live, active presence of Jesus is crucial to this movement. Being able to sense God comforting us, soothing us, giving us His perspective, and directing our steps is how we become hope-bearers in the world today. Relational Revolution: 5 Shifts to Rediscovering Church as Heart-to-Heart Connection will launch on April 18th for just $.99. Sign up HERE to be notified as soon as the book is released so you can get your copy. For more resources on the Immanuel Approach visit these links:
Immanuel Approach website and Book
Alive and Well
Face to Face Ministries
This is part 2 with Chris Coursey, co-founder of THRIVEToday Relational Skill Training. Here we jump right into how churches are more hungry than ever for relational skill training and younger people are motivated to train so they can be change agents in their communities. Chris also shares what he did when he was publicly attacked. His process is crucial to Christians learning to respond in love.
If you are just tuning in and don’t know what we mean by Relational Revolution, go back to episode 28 for an overview and grab LK10’s upcoming book called Relational Revolution: 5 Shifts to Rediscovering Church as Heart-to-Heart Connection. It is due to release on April 18th for just $.99. Sign up here to be notified when it is released so you can grab your copy.
This is the first of a two-part series with Chris Coursey, an ordained minister, pastoral counselor, published author, international speaker, and friend. He and his wife, Jen, lead and design the THRIVEToday Training Program that uses brain-based exercises to train leaders, families, and communities in the 19 relational skills and the Immanuel Lifestyle. They are passionate about helping people acquire the skills to make relationships work.
In this first part, Chris shares the history of THRIVEToday, what it is, how it came about and its unique contribution to the Relational Revolution.
If you are in any kind of leadership role, from parent to president, and want to learn how to love even your enemies and lead non-anxiously, you will not regret shoring up your maturity skills with THRIVEToday’s premiere leadership training. Go to www.thrivetoday.org for more information. And check out any one of Chris Coursey’s 6 books that help you apply relational skills in your daily life.
In part 2 of an interview with Ray Woolridge, exec director of Life Model Works, Toni shares the importance Life Model Works has had in her personal journey and in LK10. She then turns the conversation to Ray’s involvement in writing Escaping Enemy Mode. His experience as a Brigadier General speaks volumes as he confronts toxic masculinity and mental health issues in the military. He courageously shares his personal journey towards valuing a relational way of being leaders in the world today.
Connecting with Ray and hearing about his journey was inspiring and weighty. If you are needing a stronger scientific and theological basis for living church relationally, LifeModelWorks.org might be your next step.
Recorded just 5 days before Christmas, Ray Woolridge, exec director of Life Model Works shares his personal journey to LMW and how they are uniquely resourcing the Relational Revolution, offering not only the most foundational resources merging relational brain science and scripture but also focusing on transforming churches into whole-brained relational communities in the institutional church and beyond.
It was such a joy to check in with Ray and hear God’s precious words to him “It is enough.” And get a sneak peek at some books on the horizon! Look for part 2 next week.
If you are needing a stronger scientific and theological basis for living church relationally, as well as possible consulting go to LifeModelWorks.org
In this episode, John White and Toni break down some of LK10’s unique practices, why they are so revolutionary, and how LK10 connects and equips Christian Leaders in community to facilitate Joy fueled Jesus-led local communities.
Do you need a community that can run with you as you train and seek to grow in this relational revolution? Do you long to feel confident in being church with the communities you are involved in? Then LK10 is your next step. Sign up for an Intro call today at LK10.com.
Today, Toni introduces John White, her friend, colleague and mentor. He is also the founder of LK10, Host of Stories Of the Revolution and co-author, with Kent Smith and Toni, of Joy-Fueled and Relational Revolution coming soon. In this episode, John and Toni sense God’s heart for them and share how LK10 is sourcing the Relational Revolution by merging soul care and mission into a church expression that produces spontaneous sustainable transformation.
If you need a community where you can grow a secure hesed attachment, and you want to see sustainable transformation in your own life that spontaneously flows into the lives of those around you, sign up for an intro call with LK10 today and begin your relational revolution.
Today, the interview with Dr. Wilder gets weighty as he offers the key to ending the polarization we find in the church today. What is necessary in order for Christians to stay relational with other Chrisitians even when they seem to be filled with fear, anger or even hate for others. When “soul murder” as Wilder calls it is encouraged within some church contexts, how do we not see those Christians as enemies and shut down on them?
Do you have an interactive connection with God? Can you sense God’s presence all the time, no matter where you are or what is happening around you? Can you feel His thoughts about others and let him change the way you feel and think about others? If you do not have a streaming heart-to-heart connection with God and yet want one, enroll for training today with LK10 where you will find resources and a community of practice to help you develop the not only the skills but also the automatic habits necessary to stream God’s presence continuously without interruption. lk10.com
Last week we began a new series on Resourcing the Relational Revolution where you heard a little about the different people and organizations that have been fueling the value shifts that are helping people rediscover church as healthy heart-to-heart connection.
Today we have the honor of hearing from Dr Wilder, one of the thought fathers behind this Relational Revolution. Dr. Wilder founder of Life Model Works, has co-authored many books including his latest Escaping Enemy Mode, written with Ray Woolridge.
In this episode, we check in and listen to God together, following God’s lead into a discussion about how elevating your own status can easily trigger enemy mode in others. Dr wilder answers questions such as, "Is competitive thinking automatically enemy mode?" And "What would be different if we could form healthy attachment with our enemies?"
This was a deeply challenging and encouraging time with Dr. Wilder. If you are ready to learn how to escape enemy mode and love those who think differently than you, pick up Escaping Enemy Mode today and begin understanding God’s call for His body to love instead of hate.
There are several organizations that are resourcing the Relational Revolution through producing content and training. In this episode, I fill you in on several of the vital source organizations and share what they offer and their differences.
In following episodes, I will interview the founders of these organizations to more fully share what their organization does. You will also learn what their unique contribution is so that you can see how they complement each other and what your next steps are for training.
So much of life is out of our control and it can be tempting to grasp at solutions to feel stable and good about ourselves. What does it look like instead to face these struggles in relationship with God through our community? In this episode you get to be a fly on the wall during one of Toni's communities of practice to see how they showed up for her in a time of difficulty.
Toni's Leader Team is a community of practice that meets twice a month. Attunement is one of the rounds. What do we do when someone checks in with heavy emotions? We ask the person what they need most from us and then we give them multiple choices. In this snippet, Toni kicks off the attunement round concerned for her son. Hilary, so beautifully offers the question (with multiple choices). When Toni chooses the listening option, Hilary follows up with "What question do you want us to listen on?" LK10's way of responding to heavy emotions is modeled beautifully, and you can see how powerful the listening time was for Toni. Go here for the article on Responding to Heavy Emotions. If you would like to find a community of practice to belong to, sign up for an Intro Call with LK10.com today.