Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

<p>Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)</p>

Episode 671: Is My Bar Too High?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who has a high bar for potential partners Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-19
34:25

Episode 670: Acting Out After Being Left On Read

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who doesn't want to be in her ex's bridal party Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-17
37:32

Episode 669: My Boyfriend is Threatened By My Journal

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't like that she has a past Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-15
39:29

Episode 668: Caught in a Cycle of Emotional Hunger

Sam and Sierra answer a letter frome someone who is wondering if she chose the wrong guy Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-12
32:05

Episode 667: Can a Work Crush Ever Be a Good Thing?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is taking solace in a work crush Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-10
32:50

Episode 666: Are Long-Lasting Relationships Inherently Better?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if a longer relationship will lead to a better one Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-08
31:58

Episode 665: Navigating An Overly Negative World

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is seeking care in an uncaring world Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-05
32:11

Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on vacation with her boyfriend and now maybe wants to just break up Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-03
31:14

Episode 663: Panicking Over A Potential Proposal

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is panicking now that an engagement is on the table Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12-01
30:37

Episode 662: When People Pity Your Happy Single Life

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who is happy being single even though the world doesn't want her to be Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-28
28:49

Episode 661: The Shame We Carry

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who, like all of us, is holding onto shame she doesn't need to Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-26
31:24

Episode 660: My Boyfriend's Brother's Girlfriend Hates Me

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend's brother's girlfriend hates her Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-24
32:58

Episode 659: We're Not Meant to Hold Lightning

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has been left holding all the terrible thins her dad did to her mom Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-21
29:48

Episode 658: You Can't Compartmentalize Your Way Out of This

Sam and Sierra answer a letter whose married boyfriend's mother is about to pass away Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-19
29:49

Episode 657: The Familiarity of Self-Isolation

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who self isolates instead of seeking support from their friends Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-17
31:40

Episode 656: It Could Be Different This Time

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like every new relationship is the same old story – and they know how it ends Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-14
30:01

Episode 655: When Self-Soothing Isn't Enough

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner won't introduce them to her friend who is also her ex Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-12
28:16

Episode 654: Missing His Kids More Than Him

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is grieving not being in her ex's kids' lives anymore Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-10
32:44

Episode 653: Responding Instead of Reacting Isn't Always Easy

On this main-feed release of a recent Patreon episode, Sam and Sierra talk about trying to be present in their relationships Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-07
36:58

Episode 652: Changing Relationship Patterns

On this main-feed release of today's Patreon episode, Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to try new patterns with her partner Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11-05
32:50

Manion Edwards

I need some advice

12-19 Reply

ID24177482

I think of killing myself

12-08 Reply

Rhiannon Mason

I'm listening on castbox not Spotify?

01-20 Reply

KaxaAF

wow is that first letter me? 😬 oy

01-31 Reply

Casey Casto

To address a previous comment about this content being unqualified advice, the hosts state their “surgeon general’s warning” at the beginning of every single episode, that they admit they are not mental health professionals and this is not professional advice - they are their thoughts and opinions on life, love and relationships. It’s clear that they both have immeasurable experience in therapy and they are sharing what works for them, all the while consistently recommending listeners to reach out to actual licensed mental health providers.

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