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Join Kail Lowry and Becky Hayter as these two rekindle their friendship and navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious in-betweens of life in their 30s. They’ll dive into the joys and challenges of raising families, staying true to friendships, and keeping up with pop culture - all while embracing the unpredictable mix of karma and chaos that life throws at them. With Kail’s unfiltered outlook and Becky’s infectious humor, Karma & Chaos is a refreshing, real, and relatable take on modern adulthood. New episodes every Tuesday!
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The DDC (Dead Dads Club)

The DDC (Dead Dads Club)

2024-11-0458:521

In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast’s launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.  Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the co de BABYMAMA at checkout. SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. We hope you loved this first episode, to learn more about Becky follow her on IG @hayter25 and check out her blog on beckyhayter.com As always, keep up to date with Kail by checking out kaillowry.com & subscribe to the newsletter!
Karma & Chaos Trailer

Karma & Chaos Trailer

2024-10-3000:291

Welcome to Karma & Chaos! Where we will be diving into life in our 30’s, friendships, raising families and so much more! See you every Tuesday!
The End of an Era

The End of an Era

2024-10-2938:531

In this emotional final episode of BMND, Kail and Vee share their decision to close this chapter, offering listeners an inside look at the journey leading to this moment. They discuss how long they’ve grappled with this choice, sharing the challenges, memorable moments, and the incredible connection they’ve built with the Baby Mamas community. Though Baby Mamas No Drama is coming to an end, Kail and Vee hint at exciting new projects and adventures just around the corner. Tune in for an emotional goodbye and a glimpse at what’s next. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA 
Kail and Vee discuss the "three loves theory" and if it fits their experience. Vee finds a toxic facebook group of people trash talking their step kids. Kail reads a story of a controlling husband and explains why women deserve more than they're getting. In Down in the Dm's, a Valentine's Day surprise takes an unexpected turn and a hookup story involving a popular R&B singer. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Good American: http://www.goodamerican.com/bmnd  Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/BABY for up to 50% off and use code BABY at checkout for an additional 15% off. For your convenience Qualia Senolytic is also available at select GNC locations near you. Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: You can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/BABYMAMAS and put in my code BABYMAMAS for both the code AND password for 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included Skims: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
This week on BMND, Vee shares highlights from her recent trip to New York City, where she and her family saw Wicked on Broadway, navigating the chaos of Times Square. She reflects on the importance of decompressing after busy trips and opens up about how having her sister nearby has provided much-needed support. Vee discusses her struggles with control, how therapy has helped her cope with trauma responses, and why letting go has been a key part of her personal growth, all while getting excited for Halloween and spooky season. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
You Can't Uneat a Cat

You Can't Uneat a Cat

2024-10-0801:20:191

This week on BMND, Kail is joined by her friend Toni, who gives an update on everything that’s happened since their last episode together. Toni shares an update on her stepdaughter's involvement in a throuple, sparking a discussion about non-traditional relationships and the complexity of human impulses. Toni opens up about her nearly 20-year marriage, separation, and a brief journey into a same-sex relationship. They also explore the unorthodox dynamic of cohabitating with both her ex-husband and her current partner. Toni's Instagram: www.instagram.com/tonimarie724 Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Skims: Shop SKIMS Bras at SKIMS.com. Now available in 62 sizes (30A - 46H). After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
I Will Always Level Up

I Will Always Level Up

2024-10-0156:011

This week on BMND, Vee hosts solo and shares some exciting family news! She gives a behind-the-scenes look at the Ohio live show and explains why she was the only one who didn’t know about the surprise guest. Vee also answers listener questions, sharing thoughts on her new smile, revealing her dream job before podcasting, the most "Virgo" thing about her, and spilling the details on her go-to shopping spots. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
This week on BMND, Kail and Vee read a coparenTEA from a listener whose mom devised a bold plan to rescue her baby from an abusive ex. Kail discusses an article about Boy Meets World and the episode that left a lasting impact on Danielle Fishel. The hosts also explore how men often suffer in silence when it comes to weight issues and share the advice they give their children about body image. Meanwhile, Vee breaks down an article weighing the risks and rewards of giving kids cell phones at different developmental stages. In Down in the DM's, a listener reveals why she should have trusted her instincts when her boyfriend kept her from meeting his friends and family. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  Naked Wines: So join the Naked Wines community and head to NakedWines.com/babymamas for 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included. As always check out our website http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
This week on BMND, Kail shares an update on a father’s ongoing custody battle after relocating to a different state. In CoparenTEA, a listener seeks advice on managing guardianship over her niece and wonders if she’s handling the situation the right way. Kail and Vee open up about their fears of addiction while discussing the latest Kanye West headlines. Vee also gives her take on the drama between Bre and Chelsea from Selling Sunset. And in Down in the DM's, a listener seeks help dealing with a man who’s driving a wedge between her aunt and the rest of the family. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout.  As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme
Leave Me Wanting More

Leave Me Wanting More

2024-09-1001:02:081

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee share their excitement and nerves leading up to their first live show. They dive into a listener write-in from a mental health counselor who offers valuable insights on therapy and navigating different life stages. Vee reads a co-parenTEA from a stepmom seeking advice on custody issues involving a child who lives in another state. Kail and Vee also break down a co-parenting post from The Shade Room, sharing how they managed Isaac’s birthdays during tough times. Plus, they tackle the spicy question: would they prefer bad sex or no sex at all? And in Down in the DMs, a teacher uncovers a secret between two students, while another listener makes a shocking discovery while cleaning a car for work. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Happy Mammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code BABYMAMA at checkout. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select “Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera” in the dropdown menu that follows.
cumming4u62

cumming4u62

2024-09-0301:11:48

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee address the backlash from a recent viral post, diving into the criticisms and their responses. They also discuss Nick Cannon’s interview with Dr. Bryant, sparking a conversation about multiple partner fertility and some surprising statistics around it. In this week’s coparenTEA, there’s a follow-up from last week’s episode, along with a new dilemma from a listener seeking advice on step-siblings who don’t get along. Vee shares her thoughts after being triggered by a coparenTEA post that caught her attention. And in Down in the DMs, a shocking story unfolds as a woman discovers she’s being cheated on through a series of suspicious emails. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/bmnd Don’t forget to check your emails, if you nominated baby mamas for the people’s choice podcast awards you may be randomly selected to vote in the final rounds. Voting ends on September 6th. As always check out our website  http://babymamasnodrama.com and follow our IGs @babymamasnodramapodcast @Kaillowry @veeautifyme Get tickets to see us in Columbus  http://kaillowry.com with @vibinandkinda thrivin 
I Can't Even Figure Me Out

I Can't Even Figure Me Out

2024-08-2701:13:151

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee dive into a coparenTEA from a listener facing custody issues after a minor argument with their stepson. Vee shares a cautionary tale about the dangers of airing personal matters on social media. The duo also tackles bad advice surrounding anxiety and depression, explores the differences in how men and women experience hormonal cycles, and why they react differently to stress. Plus, Kail recounts her trip to Nobu and debates what popular trends might be overrated. And in Down in the DMs, a shocking story about a woman discovering her on-again, off-again partner has a secret child. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Find the right home at Homes.com 
Don't Leak the Texts

Don't Leak the Texts

2024-08-2001:07:49

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee dive into a coparenTEA from a listener seeking advice on adopting a distant family member who tragically lost her parents. Kail shares her anxiety as Isaac prepares for his first day of high school, leading the hosts to reminisce about their own high school experiences. They revisit Kehlani's co-parenting drama amidst new accusations and leaked texts. They discuss Nick Cannon’s podcast, and Kail reflects on her and Nick's pattern of having children with different partners. In Down in the DMs, a daughter struggles with her parents’ volatile relationship. Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair MixHers: Head to Mixhers.com/BABYMAMAS and use promo code BABYMAMAS at checkout for an additional 10% off your order! SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select “Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera” in the dropdown menu that follows. Find the right home at Homes.com 
Am I the A*shole? Volume 2

Am I the A*shole? Volume 2

2024-08-1301:09:121

This week on BMND, Kail and Vee talk about some of their favorite products, give an update on a past Down in the DM, and dive into some wild "Am I the A*shole" stories. Topics include best friends getting pregnant at the same time, a wedding guest who outshines the bride, a husband with questionable feelings for his stepdaughter, and a new mom who goes topless at the family dinner table—plus much more! Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/BABYMAMA  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA Find the right home at Homes.com
This week on BMND, Vee takes the reins as Kail is out, and she sits down with Jo to catch up on the latest happenings in their life. They share details about a recent date night, Isaac’s disappointing introduction to the entertainment industry, and the arrival of a new furry family member. Jo also dives into listener questions, addressing topics like why he’s rarely in Vee’s stories, common arguments they have, their thoughts on love languages, tips for keeping the spark alive in a relationship, and his favorite things about Vee. Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! AG1: Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/nodrama  BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Hers: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/BABYMAMA  Pair: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair. And mention that Baby Mama No Drama sent you in your post-checkout survey to support us.
I Was A Leech

I Was A Leech

2024-07-3001:01:44

This week on BMND, Kail discusses still experiencing pregnancy scares despite having had a tubal ligation, while Vee shares her thoughts on using an IUD. In the coparenTEA segment, they address a mother's struggle with reclaiming custody of her daughter after asking her own mother for help during a difficult time. Kail talks about the role of co-parenting coordinators and how they can help mediate conflicts between parents. The hosts also explore their feelings about their kids starting to date and their own dating experiences. In Down in the DM's, an emergency room nurse recounts one of her most memorable cases involving a flashlight. Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Find the right home at Homes.com OneSkin: Get started today with 15% off using code BMND at oneskin.co. After you purchase, they’ll ask you where you heard about them. PLEASE support your show and tell them we sent you. SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. Now ava ilable in sizes XXS - 4X. After you place your order, select "Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows.  Link to Vote: https://www.podcastawards.com/app/signup?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabSxQHspmJIoI6FkMCt_xEy88W5NdAv96djDeatroCXzPOaLooZdRS9GU4_aem_r9RpfyxHCiu5d4JMgLGMEQ 
No Phonies at the Funerals

No Phonies at the Funerals

2024-07-2301:04:531

This week on BMND, Kail deals with an egg overload while Vee prepares Vivi for braces. In coparenTEA, a listener struggles with her son wanting to change his last name due to his absent biological father, and Vee reflects on her own feelings about her last name. Kail discusses a disturbing story involving a masked intruder who turns out to be the victim's ex-husband, and Vee talks about reactions to Shannon Doherty's death, questioning how they would feel if someone they had conflicts with passed away. In Down in the DM's, a listener shares her fears about discussing past sexual abuse and its potential impact on family dynamics. Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more!  Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Find the right home at Homes.com
The Manifestation Queen

The Manifestation Queen

2024-07-1601:06:13

This week on BMND, Kail celebrates closing on her new land, while Vee dives into a discussion about the book Verity. In coparenTEA, a listener seeks advice on visitation issues due to relationship drama at her baby daddy's house. Kail and Vee revisit the hot topic of kids and phones, sparked by an article on Parents.com that got Kail fired up, and share the signs they look for to decide if their kids are ready for their own phones. Vee describes her experience with the Olivia Rodrigo cup chaos and explains why Vivi is the ultimate manifestation queen. In the Down in the DMs, a listener's on-again, off-again relationship takes a dramatic turn with a shocking lie.  Please support our show by checking out our sponsors! MixHers: Head to MixHers.com/BABYMAMAS and use promo code BABYMAMAS at checkout for an additional 10% off your order! Shady Rays: Exclusively for our listeners, Shady Rays is giving out their best deal to get ready for the Summer sun. Head to shadyrays.com and use code: BMND for 40% off sunglasses.  Skims: Shop the SKIMS Soft Lounge Collection at SKIMS.com. If you haven't yet, be sure to let them know we sent you! After you place your order, select "Baby Mamas No Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows.  Link to Vote: https://www.podcastawards.com/app/signup?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabSxQHspmJIoI6FkMCt_xEy88W5NdAv96djDeatroCXzPOaLooZdRS9GU4_aem_r9RpfyxHCiu5d4JMgLGMEQ 
This week on BMND, Kail and Vee dive into the DM's with plenty of juicy submissions. In this episode, a listener confirms her instincts about not trusting her father, a pregnancy struggle takes an unexpected turn, and a woman uncovers a shocking secret about her husband. They also discuss a tragic day at the lake, the horror and embarrassment of a child walking in on you during an intimate moment, and much more! Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! AG1: Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/nodrama  Pair Eyewear: Go to paireyewear.com and use code BABYMAMA for 15% off your first Pair. And mention that Baby Mama No Drama sent you in your post-checkout survey to support us. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA Shopify: Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/bmnd  Find the right home at Homes.com
Respect People's Boundaries

Respect People's Boundaries

2024-07-0201:06:573

This week on BMND, Vee reads an update on a scandalous story from a previous episode before the hosts dive into lots of coparenTEA. They discuss stories involving emotionally manipulative bio moms, issues with not getting invited to family events, in-laws who don't respect boundaries, and a mom stressing out her family by dating a former convict, plus much more! Make sure to check out our Instagram @babymamasnodramapodcast! And check out Kail and Vee for more! Email: info@babymamasnodramapodcast.com Please support the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/MAMADRAMA  Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com and use code: BMND for 40% off sunglasses. SKIMS: Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt Shop at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. If you haven't yet, be sure to let them know we sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Sono Bello: ASK ABOUT SONO BELLO'S SPECTACULAR SUMMER SAVINGS GOING ON NOW. Visit SonoBello.com/BMND 
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Lisa

I used to be one of Kail's biggest cheerleaders, now I am so disappointed in Kail Lowry and the quality of her brand as well as her lack of professionalism. Kail doesn't care who she steps on as she continues to try and keep herself in the limelight. It's gross that you pushed Vee out of the picture, it was her podcast too. Touting how authentic, open and honest you are is a complete lie. I can hardly wait for karma to catch up with you. And folks, hit reddit up and search Kail and Becky.

Nov 5th
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Rebecca Braid

just over here having a little cry.... 😭💔🥰

Oct 29th
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Laura Lisby

my hubs got 2 speeding tickets in 1 day, judge sentenced him to 5 days in jail. he did a friday, sat, sunday then got out and went back sat and sunday and got out midnite sunday nite for real!!!

Jan 23rd
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Jill Baird

You guy's make my day love laughing with ya all.. I also want to be cremated. as my husband don't... he had a job in his Older twins where he did trash outs on Repode houses A lot of them were places where homeless people would go. So they were pretty disgusting. A lot of times they would find urns full of Ashes, and they had no choice but to throw them in the dumpster which he felt shitty about!! So I definitely suggest. To spread your loved one's Ashes.... ❤️

Dec 8th
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Jill Baird

I have a very complicated story about in-laws that I would love to share but considering this podcast is a few week's old not sure if I'm still able to share. but would love some feed back not only what your opinions would be but if anyone else has been in my shoe's! this is the first pod cast I have ever commented on. I'm not sure how people reach out where you see it before it's to late?!

Dec 7th
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Laura Lisby

no bevause he wears a ring, they will say hes marroed to someone else will be the next issue

Oct 24th
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Kaylee Iverson

loooooooooveee

Aug 23rd
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Sarah McMahon

love them but holy ads this episode!

Jun 14th
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Rebecca Braid

trash mags were the 'hate follow' of the 90s/early 00s! there's were constantly building up celebs to tear them down!

Jun 6th
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Heather Timm

Loved the solo cast! You did great!

Feb 3rd
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Joshua Rangel

just gawd awful

Dec 19th
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Samantha Allen

you need to lay weed barrier underneath rock and mulch before you put it down and the weeds are much less of an issue ❤️

Oct 21st
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Krisandra Taylor Hendrix

Y'all need to watch Tell Me Lies on Hulu!! Lying, gaslighting, all the things. #FukBoi

Oct 20th
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Laura Jean

making kids share was always weird to me. we always had a communtiy toy box for when nieces and nephews came over, it was a lot more peaceful!!

Aug 13th
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Misty Blair

Can you add the link to vote?

Jul 6th
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Josie Casillas-Martinez

we having in and out in az

Jul 5th
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Yezenia Lopez

chulas!....V you are an incredible step mom. My sister just got a divorce and my biggest prayer is that if the Dad get a new girl she treats the boys with so much love like you do ! Step moms look up to you! do an episode on how your relationship with Kail got to such a special place! Ok. byyyyyeee chulitas

Jun 22nd
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Chelsea Thomas

been following y'all since 16 and pregnant and now I get these podcasts 🥳

Apr 22nd
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Laura Jean

I met my husband when his kids were 10, 14, 17, and 20. The 20 year old and I cannot stand each other and never been able to get along. We just dont speak unless we have to, now that there are grandkids we only are "nice" around the grandkids. Thank God she now lives in Thailand and me in Missouri! The rest of the kids and I get along great and always have!

Apr 5th
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ID18220367

I love your guys pod cast!! Kail I love watching your growth over the years you sis are amazing!!

Mar 24th
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