Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter

This week Kail and Becky talk about Salem getaway, newborn updates with Becks, a shocking hernia misdiagnosis, bike-riding mishaps, fertility journeys, and navigating grief over past relationships. Expect unfiltered laughs, heartfelt moments, and a dash of chaos.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week Kail and Becky are catching each other up and us. The ladies discuss everything from managing expectations, to financial literacy and how much they are both terrified of Chat GPT but use it frequently.In this week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos a friend's horrific comment has Kail and Becky spiraling and wondering would you wait for your friend to get pregnant?To write in your Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos submissions email info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this emotional episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail shares the news sparking a raw conversation about abandonment, closure, and complicated family ties. She and Becky explore what it means to seek answers from someone who may never give them and whether showing up is healing or harmful.Plus, they touch on elopement guest list drama, the Coldplay cheating scandal, and a “Karma or Chaos” bake sale takedown you won’t forget.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR.HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In one of the rawest Karma and Chaos episodes yet, Becky opens up about becoming a mom as a non-birthing parent. From the emotional intensity of watching Leah give birth to grappling with unexpected feelings of disconnection, identity shifts, and grief, Becky shares it all; tears, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty.Kail and Becky also talk about how nobody prepares you for five outfit changes a day, the first tar poop and more. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or not instantly bonded as a parent , this one’s for you.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more athttps://www.skims.comForia: Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/KARMA OR use code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they’re already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.Send your Karma or Chaos stories to info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week gets real. Leah - Becky's wife is dilated - contractions are happening, and somehow we still find time to talk nipple piercings, donor siblings, and whether it’s weird to donate sperm to a lesbian couple you know in real life. Plus, we unpack the parts of grief no one talks about, why breastfeeding broke us, and how monkeys might just be avoiding taxes.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ENCORE: we are running back one of your favorite episodes! (This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss fiances in a realtionship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about wether or not college is necessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know)To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMAQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Kail and Becky are back with hummingbird drama, bisexual awakenings, and a chaotic Pride Month breakdown. They weigh in on Fletcher’s controversial switch-up, the double standards working moms face, and whether bringing a third into your marriage is karma or chaos. From Twitch debates and poly relationships to parenting realness and queer identity, this episode is chaotic...of course.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. Mint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week on Karma and Chaos, labor is looming, crackers are criminal, and someone might be getting a bat tattoo.Things take a turn (as they always do) when a conversation about induction leads to imaginary attic pets, religious trauma, and why giving a queer couple a prayer book could be a little upsetting. The girls also unpack internalized homophobia, breaking generational cycles, and why Pride is about way more than parades; it’s about being loud, being seen, and knowing who you are.And don’t worry, we’ve got an Is It Karma or is it Chaos submission that includes some FBI-level iPad snooping, unsolicited screaming, and a messy friendship implosion over a rekindled marriage. Spoiler: someone got dumped, and someone got the last laugh.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaHiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more athttps://www.skims.com/karma IndaCloud: If you're 21+ use code Karma for free shipping plus 25% off your first order at indacloud.coSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work. They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents—like feet pic requests, zodiac placements, period stories, and whether eating a gallon of butter is ever the right choice. This one’s unhinged in the best way.Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a reminder to be kind, respectful, and maybe… keep your feet to yourself.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersTempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail opens up about therapy breakthroughs, the emotional fallout of betrayal, and how one teacher changed the trajectory of her life. The duo also tackles a jaw-dropping “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” submission involving cheating, steroids, and a long-kept secret. From post-nut clarity to lesbian merch and Pride prep, this episode is raw, funny, emotional and as always absolutely unfiltered.To get your pride merch head to kaillowry.comTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU journeys, and eating disorders.The two also dive into a listener-submitted “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” about a baby daddy’s ex-wife making TikToks at a wedding chaotic or just content creation?Get your merch at kaillowry.comTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting our show by checking out our sponsors!Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat safety, high chair habits, baby bibs, and why you should never underestimate neck cheese. Plus, they brainstorm a heartfelt new business idea, talk facelifts vs. genetics, and end on a laugh-out-loud Karma or Chaos listener submission that involves some truly wild bathroom drama.To submit an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Strong Cell: Go to strongcell.com and insert code (Karma with a K) to get 20% off.SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more athttps://www.skims.com/karma Mint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking thebank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it means to love someone who isn’t a good partner, the emotional toll of being the “energy suck,” and the real talk around step-parenting struggles. Plus, they break down the pros and cons of homeschooling, whether people know how miserable they are, and yes; how many chuggas come before choo-choo. As always, it’s a little bit of chaos and a whole lot of heart.For Pride merch head to kaillowry.comTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors.  BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Becky’s in town and chaos ensues; in the camper, at the mall, and on the Harley. From prom suit adventures with Isaac and a Cheesecake Factory feast, to biker gang names, nesting mode, and conversations about love, loss, and legacies—this episode is peak Karma & Chaos. Plus, the duo gets personal about relationships, parenting styles, baby prep, digital memories, and their thoughts on saying “I’m proud of you.” If you’re here for the laughs, feels, and unfiltered friendship, you’re in the right place.The new season of For The Hayter is out now! Subscribe to listen!To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25To support the show check out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaTempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaStrong Cell: Go to strongcell.com and insert code (Karma with a K) to get 20% off.Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!Sitter City: Go to sittercity.com and take the guesswork out of finding care. Breathe easier knowing your kids are in good hands. Visit sittercity.com today.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.