Kink Buffet

~~~About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the Kink Buffet podcast! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Sir Ezra of House Algos joins us today for a deep dive on (consentual) mental manipulation. The mind is a final and very dangerous playground and he shares how to start or take your exploring further. Look for the book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide To Mental Manipulation For BDSM And Sadomasochism now available for pre-order on http://houseofalgos.com ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Jane Boon has written a pervy novel that we think may have given the Kink Community a solid. Today Manny and Wyo chat with her about negotiations, kink lifestyle experience and how her characters express ways that edgy sexual desires may enrich real life. https://www.janeboon.com/ https://amzn.to/30e50qq Buy Edge Play on Amazon --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

In this episode Manny and Wyo have a conversation about Polyamorous Dating with Dan and dawn on Erotic Awakening Podcast. They have 20+ years in the lifestyle and share about challenges, pitfalls and successes in the search for many loves. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Today Manny and Wyo catch up with their friends Devyn Stone and River who have an affinity for counseling and coaching. They discuss their new practice which focuses on helping Kinksters with mental health needs, Polyamory and BDSM Dynamics. https://www.affirmingmatters.com/ ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

How can kinky play be practiced when the Dominant and submissive spend prolonged periods of time apart? Can a Dom really control things when they are not around? Manny and Wyo share about these kind of experiences from the early days of their relationship and how their relationship dynamic grew to what it is today. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Is there really a difference between a blow job, Deep throating and face fvcking? How does power play factor in? Manny and Wyo discuss the technique and dynamics of fellatio ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Manny had an online business with Web Cam sites and managed Cam models. In this episode he shares about his experience as an online entrepreneur and how people use webcam platformers for kinky play online. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Trust is everything when it comes to relationships. It's especially important when we do this thing that we BDSM practitioners do. Kink brings levels of vulnerability forward that may be unexpected. Manny and Wyo do a deep dive on what works for them and more in this episode. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Which qualities make a good submissive? Manny and Wyo discuss this and people choose submission as a lifestyle ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Manny and Wyo discuss the unexpected themes of Polyamory and Monogamy in the Science Fiction movie Her (2013) about a Man (Joaquin Phenix) that has a romantic relationship with his Computer (Scarlett Johansson). Spoilers are present. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Polyamory seems simple on the surface but execution can be tricky in daily life. Manny and Wyo share the Tree rules they have when handling relationships with each other and new partners. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Consent is not as easy as yes mean yes and no means no when it comes to Kink. In this episode, Manny and Wyo share the FRIES Method (from Planned Parenthood) of consent and apply it to the BDSM lifestyle ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Manny and Wyo lay out a plan to help you best sexual exploration in Polyamory, BDSM/Kink, Power Exchange Relationships. This is will work for Singles and already partnered People. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

The Five Love Languages of Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Service, and Gifts are widely used for Vanilla relationships. In this Episode Manny and Wyo share how a kinky person might intentionally apply Love Languages to their kinks. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Some people like it, some think it's humiliating, others just tolerate it for a partner. In this episode Manny and Wyo discuss the part cum has in their relationship. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Is Aftercare Necessary In BDSM? Manny and Wyo discuss the ways good aftercare improves romance, physical and emotional well-being ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Manny and Wyo answer some questions from a listener about Evaluating Power Exchange Roles. They discuss what has worked well and how they move forward when they don't execute the role of being a Dominant or submissive well. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

Relationship Anarchy is the idea that Anarchist Principles can be applied to relationships. Manny and Wyo talk about how they arrived upon this relationship styles in their Polyamory Journey. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support

BDSM public playspaces and Swingers clubs are made for showing off. Manny and Wyo talk about the range of kinky from educational to artistic and why watching and being seen is sexy. ~~~ About Kink Buffet ~~~ Kink Buffet Podcast is a conversation about Polyamory, Power Exchange, BDSM, and the Psychology Kink. Hosted by Manny (He/Him) and Wyo (she/her). We identify as Polyamorous with an overlapping D/s arrangement which makes our dynamic diverse. We each tried and failed at monogamy and came into this relationship. We continue to meet and allow new people into our lives in whatever way benefits the parties involved and wish to share our thoughts and experience through the show. Visit http://kinkbuffet.com to follow our social media and subscribe to the weekly podcast! For audience 18+ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kinkbuffet/support