Kinky in the Real World

This episode of the Monsterfucking Files explores the slippery, slimy and salacious ways of alien abductions and tentacular creatures. Some notes from the episode: Slime Stories on Literotica: https://tags.literotica.com/slime/ Specific story that Becca read and mentioned: https://www.literotica.com/s/i-was-spelunking-in-a-cave-one-day "V" the tv series Becca mentioned - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/V_(1984_TV_series) Luna talks about Alien Resurrection Scientist Dr. Jonathan Gediman (played by Brad Dourif) Sadly Becca was unable to locate any actual "tentacle" gangbangs. Could be an opportunity for someone! Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠⁠ You can find us on:⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Google Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠⁠⁠

Another Kinky Q & A! In this episode, Luna and Becca answer their listener-submitted questions and musings. HUGE thanks to everyone who write in with questions - we adore you!!! thehalfheard asksed: So here's a fun question... As someone beginning to dip my toes back into the dating scene - which feels somewhat terrifying nowadays - at what point do you think someone should admit to having these kinds of interests, especially when it's more than just kinky sex that you're looking for, when it's more lifestyle oriented side of things? Could really use some advice on this topic. dread-loxx asked: So just listening to episode 2 Which is fantastic btw And you drop the line nudity isn’t sexual. And mention nudity on beaches in Europe,I had a little giggle because I live in Qld Australia. And with alllll of our fantastic beaches there’s not one in our state that’s clothing optional/nude. In so many ways we are very Americanised over here thisgingersnapped50 asked: You lovely women need to do a podcast on feeding fetish. 🤗 That’s a thing…right? 👀 Asking for a friend 😂 Anonymous asked: Can someone PLEASE LET PEOPLE KNOW that ordering someone to “cum for me” will most likely end In frustration or with someone faking an orgasm. Anonymous asked: Advice for someone who’s SO USED to cumming by themselves-with a vibrator and porn? I am very worried I won’t be able to cum WITH a person ever again without those things?? Help me get out of my head! Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠ You can find us on:⁠YouTube⁠, ⁠Spotify⁠, ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Google Podcasts⁠, ⁠Amazon Music⁠ ⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠

Join Luna and Becca in an introduction to the various facets of "Mommy Kink", the MILF phenomenon, and the older female/younger male dynamic. Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠ You can find us on:⁠YouTube⁠, ⁠Spotify⁠, ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Google Podcasts⁠, ⁠Amazon Music⁠ Want to help support us creating the podcast? You can ⁠donate here⁠ or check out some of our ⁠kinky merch!⁠ ❤️

Join us for a conversation about BDSM, poly relationships and the kinky life with another real life Domme, the delightful Mistress Maye! Maye has been a poly, slightly switchy Domme for 10 years and cohabitates with her boy, z-the-sub. She dabbles in some paid content but is genuinely into kink, and passionate about breaking down male shame surrounding submission/femininity. She’s a frequent face and her local dungeon and has too many kinks to list! Check out all of Maye's links here - https://linktr.ee/mistressmaye Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠⁠⁠ hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠⁠⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠⁠⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠⁠⁠ You can find us on:⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Google Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠ Like what we do? ⁠⁠⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠

The Monsterfucking Files return! In this episode we run wild with werewolves and all primal, beastly powers of nature. Some things we mention in the podcast: Becca and Luna's picks for movies that introduced them to the sexiness that is werewolves: Becca was "The Company of wolves (1984) and Luna was Dracula (1992) Otherkins - see the Wikipedia page Primal Play on Kink.com (with Garett Nova) Alpha, Omega, and Beta dynamics - also referred to as the Omegaverse (see Wikipedia page) Oh the TOYS! Tons to be found online, but here is a quick link to some on etsy to check them out - Werewolf and beast dildos TAKE THE POLL! Werewolves vs Vamps? We'd love to hear your thoughts, so feel free to email/DM us! Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠⁠ You can find us on:⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Google Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠⁠

Gather around for a special STORYTIME episode... Our own Becca's certified steamy account of a real bathhouse gang-bang experience! Things of Note: Becca mentions Jennifer Zurba, a sex educator. You can check out her at http://jenniferzurba.com/ Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠⁠⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠⁠⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠⁠⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠⁠⁠ You can find us on:⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Google Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠ Like what we do? ⁠⁠⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠

Real Domme in the house! In this episode we welcome a wonderful new guest and lifestyle Dominant, Céline, @yourgfdgirlfriend from tumbr! She joins us from Germany, taking time out of her busy law student schedule to talk to us about her experiences and her thoughts on GFD - Gentle Female Domination. Céline has 8 years in the BDSM community, knowing early on her power as a dominant woman. Lots of great insights in this episode! "Don't invest in someone as much as you like them... Invest in them as much as they invest in you." ~ @yourgfdgirlfriend⁠ Wise words, indeed. Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠⁠ You can find us on:⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Google Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠ Like what we do? ⁠⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠

Another Kinky Q & A! In this episode, Luna and Becca answer their listener-submitted questions and musings. HUGE thanks to everyone who write in with questions - we adore you!!! Anonymous (aka the Gift Goblin) asked: Is it wrong of me to enjoy it when men want to buy me things??? 😳 At first I would say “noooooo!”” I can buy my own things-thank you very much!” But then I gave In this one time…and it was SUCH A TURN ON!!! I feel a bit guilty over it though. Anonymous asked: Do you believe it’s possible for two people to remain happily married for 50 plus years….while remaining monogamous? Married at a young age….all that growing and changing that happens. thisgingersnapped50 asked: I am dying to know- Squirting….fact or fable? Something that is faked for porn purposes? Another way to make women feel inadequate-when they are unable to? Or something that a few select women are just genetically blessed and able to do?? For the Peener Pod: How is “premature” defined? If a woman is warm and wet, I can hang in there, however, if she moans I’m going to be triggered. My poor wiener is connected to my ears. Looking forward to the upcoming RODcast. As 1.5-2 incher soft, 4.5-5 incher happy, I'd be interested to learn of any small peen kinks that celebrate the petite phallus. These last 2 question were talked about in Episode 8 - Explore a Kink: A really BIG episode about Dicks! Anonymous asked: Do you think that it is inevitable for peoples kinks to turn more extreme over time? To always want to push the envelope just a teensy bit more? NOTES: Becca mentions a book "A General Theory On Love" by Dr Thomas Lewis, Dr Fari Amini, and Dr Richard Lannon Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠ You can find us on:⁠YouTube⁠, ⁠Spotify⁠, ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Google Podcasts⁠, ⁠Amazon Music⁠ ⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠

The Monsterfucking files are diving deep with mermaids(folk), nagas and all manners of halflings! Some things we mention in the podcast: Naga dildos on etsy! So many cool ones, and like we said, we have never tried these and are in no way affiliated, but still so cool we had to share - LINK HERE Becca's obsession with her fanfic continues! Here she mentions a Selkie story and a Merman one that she read and really loved recently. We forgot to talk about it, but Becca found a Shape of Water dildo! (again zero affiliation and we've never tried it) Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! ⁠hello@kinkyintherealworld.com⁠ or message us on tumblr at ⁠@kinkyintherealworld⁠ You can find us on:⁠YouTube⁠, ⁠Spotify⁠, ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Google Podcasts⁠, ⁠Amazon Music⁠ ⁠Buy us a coffee or a Beer! ⁠

In this episode, #2 of the Monsterfucking Files, Becca and Luna explore the undying and powerful sexual appeal of vampires and their ilk. NOTES! Luna and Becca debate whether Bram Stoker's Dracula can do sunlight - Yes! (Luna 1 : Becca 0) (from Wikipedia): Dracula is much less powerful in daylight and is only able to shift his form at dawn, noon, and dusk (he can shift his form freely at night or if he is at his grave). The sun is not fatal to him, as sunlight does not burn and destroy him upon contact, though most of his abilities cease. The sun that rose on our sorrow this morning guards us in its course. Until it sets to-night, that monster must retain whatever form he now has. He is confined within the limitations of his earthly envelope. He cannot melt into thin air nor disappear through cracks or chinks or crannies. If he goes through a doorway, he must open the door like a mortal.— ⁠Jonathan Harker⁠'s journal, Dracula, Chapter 22His power ceases, as does that of all evil things, at the coming of the day. Only at certain times can he have limited freedom. If he be not at the place whither he is bound, he can only change himself at noon or exact sunrise or sunset. — Mina Harker's journal, Dracula, Chapter 18 Becca wanted to add this link in for Luna - Renfield Fanfic!! Luna mentions a movie that Becca wanted to look into and hadn't seen - Let The Right One In (2008), and found out there was a TV series on Showtime! Becca talked about Buffy the Vampire Slayer Fanfiction - for Buffy/Spike goodness she recommends Nautibitz (it's an old archive but SO good!) Luna and Becca looked up "vampire sex toys" and found this! They are in not affiliated with this business, nor have they tried it, but just thought is was cool. Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! hello@kinkyintherealworld.com or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld You can find us on:YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music Buy us a coffee or a Beer!

Introducing the Monsterfucking Files: A series on monsters and their undying, kinky appeal. Becca mentions a few things in this episode in case you want to dive deeper: some great examples of scary women monsters in the Netflix series Love, Death and Robots. Season 1, episodes "Sonnie's Edge" and "Beyond the Aquila Rift". AND something she is SUPER JAZZED about, a new-to-her style of porn that she was all "TAKE MY MONEY" about, an audio creator that does NSFW stories with characters from her favourite obsession, My Hero Academia - YUZUYA!! Relevant here because he does a few Vampire and Animal Hybrid AUs that are to die for! (Alternate Universe). You can find his SFW content HERE on YouTube. Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! hello@kinkyintherealworld.com or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld You can find us on:YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music

"Get naked for REAL!" ~ Luna Luna and Becca have a conversation about the practice and mindset of Tantric Sex. It is all about enhancing your sexual connection - with yourself and your partner, so you can have REALLY great sex. Becca mentions a great dance program called The World Groove Movement, you can check that out here - https://theworldgroovemovement.com/ (get out of your head and into your body, baby!) Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! hello@kinkyintherealworld.com or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld You can find us on:YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music Want to help support us creating the podcast? You can donate here or check out some of our kinky merch! ❤️

Grab your lube! Becca and Luna get extra cocky with an in-depth discussion on strap-op sex.

In this weeks episode, Luna and Becca answer a question from an anonymous writer, asking:  "What are your thoughts on “poly under duress”?" They discuss poly, monogamy and just plain good ol' relationship habits.  Becca mentions a book she read about heartbreak (which she recommends to anyone going through it): Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey by Florence Williams

In this lengthy episode, Luna and Becca address the wild array of fun sizes, shapes and kinks penises 'come' in.  Some links from the episode you may want to check out:  How To Do It (on Slate.com) with Stoya and Rich: https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it The depilatory cream that Luna talked about: Barenuts - https://nutcare.com/products/bare-nuts Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! hello@kinkyintherealworld.com or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld

In this episode we answer two fabulous listener’s comments: @curvycandyyyy wrote in: The podcast feels like sitting with cool friends in a café and a lot of fun to watch! I’m not sure this fits the theme or audience. It’s a thought about when you are first introduced to kink there’s an entry exam you didn’t study for asking what role you are. I wish for less emphasis on titles, more on living the experience. If you don’t know, you don’t grow…it takes time. I love to break the stereotype of being a little as a mature *smirk* adult. I can appreciate there is controversy depending on what you call the dynamics. The fetish world spun me around trying to explain this “role” to me vs me defining myself. When I tell someone I have a little side, they associate that with something too innocent (baby-ish) or much more taboo than I am. I am not submissive by nature, I am not into age play or regression, I am not the picture of represented littles I see in the lifestyle (age, size, etc.) All these things I know aren’t cookie cutter but it does bring challenges finding friends in common without bias. It can be frustrating when you feel misunderstood for an involuntary mindset vs a role you aren’t playing. I still struggle now & then how to bring both the lion with the lamb forward in kink. I am continuously learning thorough self-discovery whatever is inside me sexually is not meant to stay little. Thanks for thought-provoking conversations I didn’t know I was missing. I look forward to future episodes. Best! @chillifour Wrote us with: Loved listening to Ep2 about finding Huster magazines in the woods. I had that experience of finding torn pages in bushes and trees. My first copy of Hustler still enjoying it’s staples was in my grandparents bedside cabinet, along with a dog-eared copy of The Story of O. I’ve grown up becoming more and more aware of my desire for kink and a need on my submissive side. Do you think early subconscious experiences gives us permission to act upon what we discover consciously about ourselves at a later time? Loving the podcast by the way - I have so many comments on it! :) Thank you both SO MUCH for the fabulous conversations!

A saucy conversation about vaginas in need of some extra sauce! A great question from an Anonymous listener: Good evening to you both! I am writing about an issue that isn’t  necessarily kink related-still sex related though. I am a woman in my fifties with a pretty high sex drive, and although it is high-I am unable to achieve a decent amount of wetness and if I do-I can’t seem to maintain it. I know, I know-that’s what lube is for! I have it, I use it.  My boyfriend is terribly turned on by me being wet without the use of lube.  Do you have any suggestions for a non-hormonal fix for this issue? I do currently take ashwaganda supplements, but I don’t see that making a difference. Thank you for any advice you can give-and I love this podcast! ❤️💖🔥 Thank you so much for bringing this important topic up! Some of the information we talked about in the podcast: Buck Angel - the trans Male porn star talks about vaginal atrophy https://buckangel.com/blogs/news/tranpa-trans-male-vaginal-atrophy You can also find his specially designed lube on his site - we have not tried it nor are we affiliated, but we found it interesting and relevant. Ashley Winter MD || Urologist https://twitter.com/AshleyGWinter https://www.odelahealth.com/

An intimate conversation with special guest, Misty LovesFun, about her multifaceted and fluid explorations in sexuality, gender, and kink.  And for more information (than you may want) on Misty and the pineapple, you can check out her profile on Porn Hub - MistyLovesFun  Or you can connect with her on her FetLife (a social media for kinky people) - @mistylovesfun, or at Club Eden - @mistylovesfun

In episode #4 of Kinky in the Real World we discuss how traditional porn trends can affect real life sex, kinky dynamics and exploration. We love porn, but not all porn is created equally. We talk about some sites we love and why. Here are a few of the sites we talked about and some that are note worthy: Cockyboys - gay male awesomeness that we both give a 5 out 5 Kink.com  - whatever flavour of kink you like, there is something for everyone. This site was actually Becca's first paying for porn experience. She still gives it a 5 out of 5 Literotica  - free erotic fiction. We recommend looking at the ratings of stories to find the good stuff in whatever genre you enjoy.  bellesa.co - a women friendly pornhub type set up Pornhub - a classic. And Canadian. (sheesh we are a bunch of pervs up here)  Pure Taboo -  definitely worth a look MATH Magazine - Porn roots, in magazine form! Their mission: "MATH enables sex-positive experiences through radical inclusiveness, community, and high-caliber collaboration. Our flagship book series features explicit artwork and writing for an increasingly connected and sexually liberated world. We believe in pleasure for all." - who doesn't love that!  Have questions or thoughts about porn you'd love to share? We'd love to hear from you!! Email us at hello@kinkyintherealworld.com or visit us at https://www.tumblr.com/kinkyintherealworld and send us a message! Love what we do and want to buy us a coffee each month? We set up a Patreon! 

More questions have been sent in, and we address 2 of them in this episode! One from whatever-the-mess (tumblr), who asks us what aspects of D/s (Dominance/submission) do we enjoy the most, and what is it about the dynamic that attracts us to it. Our next question comes from female-led-relationship (tumblr) who asks us how we feel about Fin-Dommes (FinDom) and Financial Domination - an interesting, and sensitive topic for some. Urban dictionary describes Findom as: a shortened combined version of the term Financial Domination, similar to Femdom which is short for Female Domination. Financial Domination is a fetish of power exchange which involves the transfer of money from sub to Domme as an act of ultimate submission, as money is the ultimate representation of power in our modern society. Have questions about kink? We'd love to answer them! Drop us a question on our tumblr at Kinky In The Real World or email us at hello@kinkyintherealworld.com - we'd love to hear from you!