Young people today are faced with so many challanges. The older generation need to assess what decisions they made that could have contributed to today’s challanges and what decisions were not made that could have prevented these challenges. The challanges range from Social, mental, economic and health. Challanges incoude among others: Suicide, Unemployment, Poor Education, Family problems, Wayward thinking and more.
Life does not get better by chance, it’s a choice you have to make that when an opportunity to sell your future for a bowl of soup, you will resist the temptation and the urge to bend your back too low to break it.
When you get to a level where your name becomes a conversation starter in boardrooms, tea parties parties and friends’ zones... just know your accountability levels have doubled! You are not living for you anymore, but you have become their moral campus. As a parent, Freind, spouse, manager or leader, you should know that you no longer live for you. There are other people who find reference for their life through your actions and behavior
“It is reported that 50% of professionals are two years behind the breakthroughs in their indistry.” If you are not growing, you are dying. The best way to keep growing is to keep on challanging yourself. Be intentional about it. To get any of my products: Coaching session, subscribing to the Online School of Self Mastery, or to get a copy of my books, email admin@ngmafarafara.co.za
Whatever you repeat to yourself becomes your reality. Whatever you expect with confidence becomes your own self-fulfilling prophecy. You can play a trick in your mind by repeatedly telling and exposing yourself to positive information that creates a pattern of what you want to be... the work at it to make it real... once you hit your first success, the next one becomes easy.
What is the value of your time? The value of an hour is built on accumulated knowledge prior to the hour.
“The greatest tragedy in life is no death, but what we let die in us while we yet live”... When you don’t dream, you become satisfied with the crumbs from your master’s table. A dreamless person a one who has given up on his life and given himself to be a tool in the hands of a dreamer. In this Episode I share with you 6 poweful insights about a dream.
Success is a choice you make by constantly exposing yourself to more information and experiences that stretch your mind. A stretched mind never goes back to its original position... it stays expanded. In this episode I share with you 9 tips on how to increase positive exposure that will help you condition your mind for more, for better and for greatness.
“The greatest weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed”-Steve Biko. The mind determines how low you or how high one goes. It has ability to fabricate reason for no action when you do not actively condition it to benefit you. In the four levels of mental conditioning, I show you how the level of mental conditioning affect your altimate end.
You were born a progressive person, until the day you decided to become stuck. There is no poverty for a person who had Made an investment in his mind.
AFRICA is an opportunity for the world... yet Africans eat the crumbs of the wealth they sit and walk on. It takes one to identify a problem, package it well and sell it to create wealth. But to do it sustainably, one needs to know how to constantly solve current and emerging problems in the market place and in society...
What comes to your mind when you hear names such as Trevor Noah, Robert Mugabe, Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey? What comes to people’s minds when people hear your name? Being exciptional is a choice you make to be great at what you do so that no one affords to ignore you... Note this... It’s a Choice!
If you keep on doing what you have been doing for the past five years, you will keep on getting the same results. So many people want to change the world, but they do not want to change themselves. Did you know that almost everything you do is a result of a form of habit that you developed over a certain period... now things just happen without your conscious application...
This is part two of Being Busy is an Excuse. Excuses will cost you more than attempting to do the things you make excuses against. Take time to develop yourself, count the cost of excuses and change your life little by little
Often saying “I’m busy” is an excuse against being more effective and a negative incentive for comfort, yet you cannot show results of your being busy.
With most pains that we go through, there is a hidden pleasure thereafter. However, to enjoy the pleasure, you need to understand that you have the power to make a choice in any given circumstances. With every choice you make, there is a downside to it and an upside. Whether you gravitate towards the downside of your choices or the upside depends on your pain, risk and excuses threshold balance...
Whenever you conceive a new goal, action, intention, dream or plan, your mind goes to work overtime to produce evidence of pain related to the new action. The evidence of pain has been passively recorded in your subconscious mind through past failures or abandoned attempts. What it does not do is to “actively” find pleasure related to that pain once you have gone through it. You have to actively pursue whatever goal, even if your mind naively says “it will be painful” Becuase that short-term mental, emotional, or physical pain is the only price to be paid for the long term pleasure you have been hoping for or dreaming about.
Telent that is not celebrated cannot be rewarded. A goal or dream that is not put to the test cannot be rewarded.
No man has ever achieved great results alone. In This episode, Nhlanhlaand Rebecca are in conversation on how powerful good Association is to anyone. You are the sum total of the people you spend your time with. Man was not created complete. He was created with something missing in him that can only be found in others. What is missing in you is found in somebody else. There are certain elements of your dream that you can do by yourself. But there are people assigned to be part of your dream, and those people are located in Strategic places. Our ability to connect with others is what makes us powerful.
This is session 3 of the 3 part series on the power of Showing up. In this session we talk about GETTING READY TO SHOW UP. I’m in conversation with Rebecca Phala on Energy FM. I introduce to you that “Showing up up sounds easy”, but you may have to show up a million times to reach your desired ending. Its gonna get tough and rough, but it is still gonna get good. however, you have to be intentional in your way of showing up .you . Get ready to show up. Note this is a piece of the long audio clip to help you. It ends before you expect it to