2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive Moms

Are you an adoptive mom who’s lost (or just misplaced) those loving feelings? Planting seeds of love is more than just going through the motions but compassion fatigue or other obstacles can make it feel like that’s all you can manage to do. This episode is part of a series on “Planting Seeds” of love, growth & learning in the midst of challenges of post-adoption life. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen offline anytime.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Embracing acceptance over accountability offers a transformative perspective for Christian mothers navigating the journey with their adopted teenagers. This approach does not imply condoning negative behaviors but fosters an understanding that these actions often stem from deeper, unresolved issues. Moving towards acceptance allows mothers to establish clear personal boundaries while promoting healing and growth, creating a nurturing environment that reflects their commitment to their faith and family values. By implementing an acceptance lens, these parents can cultivate space where genuine connection and growth can flourish, counterbalanced personal boundaries. As part of the Authentic Modeling Method this shift gives adoptive moms a peek into a powerful approach that can be transformative within a context of unconditional love and forgiveness. This method not only transforms the way mothers interact with their teenagers but deepens their own faith journey, drawing them closer to the essence of Christ's teachings on love and service. >>>Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Adoptive moms often find themselves in challenging situations, especially when it comes to managing defiant, disrespectful, and sometimes dangerous behaviors in their adopted teenagers. Traditional approaches lean heavily towards an accountability lens, believing that enforcing consequences for misbehavior will bring positive change. But this method, though seemingly logical, can actually escalate tensions further. This episode along with part two on this same topic encourages the adoptive mom in this situation to explore an alternative approach to how she views problematic behaviors in the home by viewing problematic behaviors through a new lens of acceptance. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

As the Easter weekend approaches, it's crucial for adoptive mothers to consider their expectations in light of the reality of their family dynamics. This episode emphasizes the importance of acknowledging that not all family members might share the same enthusiasm or faith, leading to potential disappointments and tensions. By setting realistic expectations and focusing on personal worship and connection with God, listeners can experience a fulfilling Easter regardless of their family's level of participation. Podcast host Dawn Baggett advises moms to plan their Easter celebrations with achievable goals for a more peaceful and meaningful holiday, and reducing the chances of conflict and frustration. The emphasis is on the value of individual spiritual growth and the power of prayer in bringing families closer, both to God and to each other. Ultimately, the message is one of hope and faith, encouraging listeners to trust in God's timing and work in their lives and the lives of their loved ones. Dawn underscores the importance of not placing undue pressure on the Easter weekend to magically resolve family differences but instead to cherish the occasion as an opportunity for personal reflection and connection with God. Adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms group. To do that click the following link — http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Journaling about your role as a mom/adoptive mom can illuminate the realistic aspirations and challenges you face in this pivotal role. This exercise encourages mothers to distinguish their maternal responsibilities from other aspects of their personal identity, acknowledging that they are more than just a mom. It stresses the importance of having grounded, realistic expectations while also recognizing one's desires, skills, and limitations. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group; or to apply for private coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist

It’s important to identify misplaced guilt and blame that you as an adoptive mom may face, but not always to strike out in defensiveness. When we know that Someone more powerful and able than we are has our backs, we can rest in that knowledge, setting a powerful example to our children and others. Read more in the companion blog at dawnbaggett.com and join the free Facebook Group for Level One support with the join link below; Level Two support for adoptive moms is available with my private coaching program available to group members. Click here for group access: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Adoptive families often navigate a complex landscape of skepticism, fueled by misperceptions and misunderstandings that can threaten the very foundation of family life. The uniqueness of your adoptive family may highlight these challenges further, drawing skepticism from external observers and creating internal pressures. Adoptive parents are encouraged to remember their identity and faith, recognizing they are not alone and that their battles are not merely physical but spiritual. Dawn’s mission is to stand in the gap for second moms. In addition to this podcast Dawn hosts a free Facebook group and offers private post-adoption coaching. Learn more at dawnbaggett.com

When behaviors escalate, especially in the teen years, adoptive moms in particular, may be finding themselves scrambling to hold their child accountable, when it feels that no one else is doing so. This can lead to what I call an accountability trap. Learn more on this episode of Second Moms Circle. In addition to following this podcast you may find more Biblically based support for you as an adoptive mom in our free Facebook group, Circle of Second Moms. Here’s the join link: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

When you understand their need for autonomy and you build belief into their need for acceptance that lays the foundation for relational resilience when accountability issues arise. When we become an adopted family, a blended family, we interject vulnerability to uncertainty and doubts around acceptance, not only with the new children but with our biological children as well. Listen to more about these heightened vulnerabilities in adoptive families or go to dawnbaggett.com to read the companion blog post. If you’d like support with your second mom experiences join the Circle of Second Moms free Facebook group at https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group for targeted support from a Christian worldview today.

This episode discusses how the natural drive for autonomy in adolescence can get flipped into overdrive in complex adoptive families. To join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Minor conflicts can morph into major clashes that are almost impossible to resolve for adoptive moms. Listen to this episode to learn more. If this describes your experience and you’d like to join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Raising a child with moderate to severe attachment trauma can be like a dense fog for adoptive moms. Listen to this episode to learn more. If this describes your experience and you’d like to join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Discover 4 Biblical ways adoptive moms can pursue peace during Christmastime and beyond in this episode of Second Moms Circle. If you’d like additional support join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group. And visit dawnbaggett.com for more.

Planning ahead can help protect your peace during the holidays. While there are many practical things to plan for, such as grocery lists and special events, don’t forget to plan for peace as well. Consider the disruptions you anticipate and what is robbing your peace currently. Is it external factors or internal struggles? If you’re looking for guidance and support in navigating the complexities of being an adoptive mom during the holidays, consider joining a program like Success For Second Moms. This 12 week program is designed to provide practical strategies and support with like-minded Christian women and a safe environment. Remember, by prioritizing your peace, and seeking the resources and support you need, you can experience a more peaceful and joyful holiday season. If you like this episode, please leave a review and if you’d like to learn more about how help adoptive moms through post adoption Christian coaching visit My website at dawnbaggett.com.

Are you unsure about how to best respond to your child’s rebellious behavior? Have you received conflicting advice? Listen to this episode which dives into the topic of parental responses to rebellion by looking at two familiar Bible passages.

Learn about stumbling blocks and how to deal with them in this episode of Legacy Living Today for Second Moms. Consider following the show and leaving a review to help others find it too.

This episode presents four ways to stand up to self doubt as a second mom in a complex adoptive or blended family. For further support contact dawn@dawnbaggett.com or visit dawnbaggett.com. You can also follow Dawn on Instagram and Facebook and join her free Facebook group with weekly livestreams. Are you looking to work with Dawn? Hop on a clarity call to talk about how she can support you further with targeted coaching for second moms.