Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids.FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her 'friend' over our relationship.”Source: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/lesbian-myths-debunked FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship?Family Meeting:"I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunately care what people think. She is the woman of my dreams but I don’t know if we can have a relationship if I’m not out the closet yet."https://linktr.ee/leschat

We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!!  There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an out-of-town getaway, enjoying a parent-child date, or even hosting a singles dinner with friends.FAMILY MEETING “My wife/partner of 10+ wants an open marriage and says we want different things because we’re in different places in our life.”FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG:https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE:https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree:https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP:https://linktr.ee/leschat

In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes! Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating girls last year, part of me wants to explore but I also don’t want to fumble the girl I met because she is amazing"⁠ BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat Family Meeting:FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠   TIKTOK: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠  YOUTUBE: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠ Link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 ⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. Tune in for a mix of humor, honesty, and reflections on the wisdom that comes with age. Ashlynn Harris Wide Open Episode - LINK BALI/THAILAND TRIP: Buy an experience, instead of a physical gift for 2025! Mark your calendar for Travel Tuesday 2024, this coming Tuesday, to receive a $50 discount on our trip! Enter code TRAVELTUESDAY50 at checkout on Tuesday 12/3 and Wednesday 12/4 only, so be sure to reserve your spot! Family Meeting: 1. "I have a serious mental illness that I’ve been dealing with for over 10 years. I’ve always taken my meds and I’ve always been fine. If I don’t have any issues managing my diagnosis there really is no reason to disclose this. Am I in the wrong if I’m in a relationship with someone for a few months or 1 year & disclose this?" 2. "I went on a date and I immediately knew I didn’t want to see her again which is why I decided to “practice” telling someone about my mental illness. " FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces. Family Meeting Question 1. "I met this girl recently and when we met I instantly felt a vibe. The day we met I added her on IG and saw she has a gf. We have met up a few times because I give her private boxing lessons. I have a crush, what is your opinion of why she never mentions her gf?" 2. "I was a part of a Christian group at 21 and experienced religious trauma from conversion therapy. I left that group and came out officially at 28. I went through therapy and now at 31 I’m in a place to start dating. I met a girl and she’s great.. Should I get wifed up or keep my options open?" AutoStraddle Post LINK FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram. Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day" • " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very in love with her and we’re inseparable and I feel like we’re flirting and our friends are also saying that.. I used to think that she's straight, but now i’m very confused" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  • IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   • TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  • YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  • Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  • Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ GO OUT & VOTE • Am I registered? https://voter.svrs.nj.gov/registration-check • Make sure you are active & not inactive • Register to vote link: https://vote.gov/

Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc". We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme. Family Meeting 1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…” 2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc)  as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”. LOVE CRAVE VIBRATOR NECKLACE LINK  Family Meeting:  “My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me because she believes she is poly.” “There’s one girl in particular I’ve been hanging out with and have had sex a few times . She said she’s a lesbian when we first met and said she doesn’t sleep with men, and then told me a few days ago she occasionally does sleep with men. Sleeping with men opens up the doors for more STI’s. What should I do?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO LEAVE US A VOICE NOTE VIA TEXT OR VOICEMAIL ‪- CONTACT US AT (862) 786-8233‬  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Family Meeting Submission : CLICK HERE IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode. EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year. Stay tuned Les Chat FAM! We will return shortly. Join our Patreon to stay connected - PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod   Florida News: https://www.instagram.com/p/C06zgEoujKp/   & Florida Video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C04QVC-s8Vz/  Family Meeting Questions My wife & I have been together for 4 years. Over the years, I realized I initiated everything: kisses, dates & sex. In the past 6 months, she has gained 40lbs & refuses to exercise with me or by herself. Between her lack of effort to initiate & her recent weight gain, I’m not as physically or emotionally attracted to her.  My girl told me that she slept in the same bed with her best friend naked because she was hot, this is someone she had se* with, in the past.. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

In this week's episode we welcome our friend Brennah back to Les Chat to deep dive into the tragedies of lesbian dating. Brennah shares some details about how her dating journey has been going and we run through a list of dating icks. The best advice Brennah wanted to leave with us is that letting go of expectations could make dating less tragic. You don't need to find you person right away. Have fun and get to know yourself in the process. Family Meeting: 1. Can y'all talk about WHY we have this weird dating trend where people talk for 3/4 months and then never speak again? 2. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months already. I just found out that she has still kept contact with her past fling. Brennah IG: https://instagram.com/brennahlambert_?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Coming out to your kids as “LGBTQ+” can be a hard conversation. In today’s episode we invite our dearest friend/momma to talk about her experience! We dive into Can you date someone who’s in the closet? How to prepare yourself to come out to your kids.Advice for parents who want to come out to their kids but don’t know how. Do parents need to come out? Family Meeting Questions 1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now but I met a girl who’s a coworker and I think I have fallen for this girl.” 2. “I just found out my fiance, who I have been with for 5 years, has been cheating on me for the last 2 months with my step brother.” Jynette's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fromconcept2closing/ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break. Family Meeting: 1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them." 2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction. Questions to ask your partner: What is something I have done this month that made you feel loved and cared for? Do you feel there’s anything we need to improve in our relationship? Is there anything you need that I haven't been giving you? When was the last time I hurt your feelings and you decided not to speak about it? Do you feel like you still have enough time for your friends and interests? What’s one thing you’d want to change/try out for the next month? Family Meeting Questions: 1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?" 2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment. Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships    Family Meeting Questions “I had been dating this girl for about 2 years, but I started liking her friend…” “My girlfriend does not feel emotionally safe with me” “My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost two years, we go months without any sort of physical intimacy, including hugs and kisses” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”. Card game link: https://theopenup.com/   List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them Family Meeting Questions “I caught my wife emotionally cheating on me with her new friend” “My girlfriend is still married to her ex. She told me she’d get divorced as soon as possible in the beginning of our relationship but it’s been 5 years now.” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples. Family meeting: 1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back? 2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her? Read more about non-negotiables: https://hellorelish.com/articles/relationship-non-negotiables.html https://goodthingsaregonnacome.com/why-are-non-negotiables-important-and-how-to-create-them/#:~:text=By%20setting%20non%2Dnegotiables%20and,live%20a%20more%20fulfilling%20life.&text=Non%2Dnegotiables%20are%20personal%20vows,what's%20important%20in%20your%20life. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact.  In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”. Family Meeting Questions  “I identify as a lesbian, I used to be so passionate about my identity and would always talk/think about it, now, I feel like I could care less. I have less desire to partake in discourse or consume queer media. Even when pride came around this year I just didn't get all that excited about it. Is it wrong to feel this way?  “My partner and I have a very flexible and *healthy* relationship, but sometimes I feel like I haven't enjoyed my young adult life being single, and that's making me nervous…” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic?  Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide) Beducated: https://beducate.me/pd2334-leschat (https://beducate.me/pd2334-leschat) Beducated AI Chatbot:  https://beducated.com/ai (https://beducated.com/ai) Family Meeting Questions: 💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?” ❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master! Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles Family Meeting 1.  "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?" 2.  "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS 1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!" 2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship? Family Meeting Questions 💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed” 💛 “I been involved a girl for 7 months and it doesn’t seem to escalate to anything further” BEDUCATED LINK: https://beducate.me/pd2332-leschat Code: LESCHAT No risk: 14-Day Money-Back Guarantee 1 day free trial 40% off the yearly pass with our LESCHAT coupon code FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  * IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   * TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  * YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  * PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  * Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  * Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..." 3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..." Sources: https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken YOUTUBE VIDEO: https://youtu.be/Cw2qD87KDHc - Breakups don’t have to leave you broken FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners.. 1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit. 2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you. 3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate? Family meeting: 1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?" 2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following… Describing our relationship with our siblings How we came out to our siblings and how that relationship was like after coming out Sibling drama/fighting for our parents attention/favoritism, etc! We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time. Family Meeting Questions “I was talking to a married lesbian for 2 months and her wife found out” “My girlfriend has an ex who has a son and my gf is very attached to him, not sure what to do”. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode.  If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8. Below are some questions we go over.. IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex Family Meeting Story “My gf cheated on me emotionally..” “I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF." PRECIOSA NIGHT TICKETS: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com

We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event! Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE Family meeting: 1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate". 2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out". Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them. Family Meeting Story - "She has slept with over 100 people". IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements... “Homosexuality is a choice” “You can’t be queer and religious” “All bisexuals are promiscuous” And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list. We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute.  The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women. HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon!  Family Meeting Q&A “I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend”. “How long would you be willing to wait for a marriage proposal before calling it quits?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

A vacation is good for the soul and for the relationship. In episode #63 we dive into BAECATIONS! Listen, WE NEED A BAECATION so we’re just gonna reminisce but we also want to talk about our travel experience as a queer couple and everything you need to know before booking that baecation. We dive into our traveling personality, when it’s too early to book that baecation, how often couples should go on vacation, as well as. Safe places to travel for LGBTQ couples - Link The worst places to travel for LGBTQ couples (There are 64 countries that have laws that criminalize homosexuality, and nearly half of these are in Africa. - link) Family Meeting Q&A’s Christianity/Religion & being LGBTQ+: My partner feels as if she cannot be bisexual and also a Christian. Are we breaking up? “Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to break up with my girlfriend”. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  .GAY Domain Link The #DotGayDomain is on a mission to support LGBTQ+ communities by donating 20% of each domain name registration to grassroots organizations and banning hateful sites.  Head over to www.LesChatPodcast.gay and grab your FREE .gay domain and join us in creating an internet where everyone can be themselves proudly! 🏳️‍🌈✨

When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way. In this episode we talk about how work, parenting, home chores, relationships and even the pandemic made friendships harder to maintain as an adult. We also dive into how friendships look after coming out and what it's like to be the only gay friend in the group. Family meeting: 1. My GF and I work for the same company she’s a HR manger and i’m a supervisor but we work in different buildings.The issue is that when i am venting to her about work or some gossip it always turns into a argument because her HR comes out but i have to remind her that I am venting to my GF not HR. 2. I’ve been with my girl for a year and half. She has a daughter who has ADHD. This wasn’t told to me upfront and it has caused some difficulties in the relationship. We’re good overall, but the child is an issue due to lack of respect. How do you find a middle ground or do you walk away? IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ PRECIOSA NIGHT/LGBTQ BROOKLYN PARTY ON 05/13 - TICKETS SipCity Mixer (Philly) Melamixin Sip City (Philly) Philly Gay Girls SipCitySouthJersey TheHouseOfQueers Geneva APP OutLoudSports Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

What’s your fight style? Similar to “love languages” we also have “fighting styles”. Relationships are often associated with the idea of love and happiness.. How do I keep my partner happy? How do I show them I care and understand? How can we “fight” without it turning into a screaming match? There are SO many different online articles and online quizzes on fight styles but we focused on the top 3 by Jay Shetty, “Venting, Hiding, or Exploding”. We also dive into other popular fighting styles/languages and how you can find neutrality and peace. Family Meeting:  ”I’m an 18 year old fem lesbian and she’s a 21 year old bi fem, is the age difference an issue?” "Hello,I’m a closeted bisexual and really want to come out. But I’m afraid that my friends will look differently at me. “ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  FIGHT STYLES QUIZ https://what-is-your-fight-style.scoreapp.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ4Nd872HcXNhv0xj6WBRQsJmTP4oUdDqlMbYPUP4Tv_G5qv-y7El4dmN4  SOURCES https://www.yourtango.com/love/six-fight-languages https://www.thehealthjournals.com/5-anger-languages/ TOPIC ON NASHVILLE SHOOTING https://www.reuters.com/world/us/after-school-shooting-some-trans-tennesseans-face-backlash-2023-03-31/ https://www.instagram.com/teachingisintellectual/?hl=en

Nairobi, also known as Robi is a middle school art teacher who has gone viral on TikTok for the way they manage their classroom, funny conversations with students, tiktok dances, outfit of the day and more!  Pronouns are not something we’ve touched on in this podcast because we wanted someone to come in and educate us and talk about their experience. Robi identifies as non-binary and goes by they/them. So what are pronouns?! It’s what you use to address other people when you’re not using names. The most common pronouns are she/her/hers, they/them/theirs, and he/him/his.  It’s important to respect pronouns because you wouldn’t call someone a different name other than the one they have. In this episode we dive into  💜Robi’s teaching experience/why they became a teacher 💛What students address them as and how Robi corrects them or doesn’t correct them when they say the wrong pronoun, such as “Ms Robi” 💗And more! Family Meeting:  We don’t have any family meeting/Q&A in this episode.  Robi’s Social Media Handles https://linktr.ee/robigotsoles  FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

This episode was a little different, we introduced our "Love without limits" merch and the journey it took to get to this point. While it is still Women's History Month we talked about queer Hispanic history and some badass queer women we should all know about. Also, played one our favorite card games, “We’re not really strangers” where we both answer relationship and couple questions. Special Announcement: Merch goes on SALE to Patreon members on Monday, March 20th and everyone else can shop on Tuesday, March 21st at 12PM EST. Family Meeting:  “I have a gf I love her to death but when she's going through something she pushes me away “ “How can I deal with my gf when it’s that time of the month?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠⁠ TIKTOK: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠⁠ YOUTUBE: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠⁠ PATREON: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod⁠⁠ Our website: ⁠⁠https://leschatpod.com/⁠⁠ Link tree: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/⁠ - ⁠PROMO CODE: LES10 LES CHAT MERCH: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ QUEEN V: https://amzn.to/3ZQugjx

Most of our daily time is spent at work with fellow coworkers, more than we see our loved ones. Our co-workers are the people who relate the most to us because they work side by side for hours throughout the week. It's unrealistic to think that we won’t ever create a bond or develop potential feelings for at least one co-worker. Whether those feelings are on a romantic level or just a pure deep friendship connection you’ll find it hard to keep the vibes as just “business”. So what are the pro’s and con’s of dating someone within your workplace? Jojo and Dayra run through those pros and cons as well as some "DO'S and DON'TS" in the event that you DO decide to cross that line.  Family Meeting: 1. "My wife got super close with a male coworker. They are texting/calling each other constantly. I told her that it’s too much but she told me that I can’t tell her what to do. " 2. "So my girlfriend has been lying to me about her ex..." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ PROMO CODE: LES10

Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go. Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc. Family Meeting: 1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.” 2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?” https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ PROMO CODE: LES10 FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be.  You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc.   We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as…  Having such high standards that literally no guy meets them – and feeling no spark of attraction to any guy who doesn’t meet them  You’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men  Only/mostly being into guys who are gender nonconforming or feminine in some way.   Family Meeting Questions  1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. "  2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health."    Copy of “Am I A Lesbian Google Doc” -   FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:    - IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/     - TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc    - YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/    - PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod    - Our website: https://leschatpod.com/    - Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about. The REALITY of filming a reality show Melanie’s dating life during the show How Melanie got into art/becoming an artist/muralist Tiktok Reference:https://www.tiktok.com/@therealmelpoz/video/7133654642830953770 Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode! Melanie's Instagram  Amazon Prime Tampa Bae's Show Tampa Bae's Trailer COUPLET COFFEE! https://coupletcoffee.com/ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to Dating apps Cat fishes Being ghosted Finding time to date and more! We also get into How do I initiate a conversation with a girl? OR What if I’m awkward or have anxiety? How do I talk to girls on dating apps? I'm fem presenting and I’m into fems, how do I flirt with a girl? How do you know if she likes girls? Is she flirting or being friendly? What if you are not receiving the same love you’re giving? https://beducate.me/pd2306-leschat  Family Meeting Questions “How can I pass the feeling of being scared of having seggs with my s/o?” “My relationships have mostly been with non-Latinas who I never feel a true connection with.. but I’m too insecure to pursue who I want” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat BEDUCATED:  https://beducate.me/pd2306-leschat

BEDUCATED COUPON CODE: LESCHAT https://beducate.me/pd2305-leschat Why does nobody talk about your first healthy relationships after having so many toxic ones? It's ideal to want to build a healthy relationship between you and your significant other. However, no one tells you how HARD maintaining a HEALTHY relationship is! Jojo and Dayra dive into the reality of how they transitioned into building a healthy relationship together. Also, how to continue maintaining a healthy relationship by always being intentional and learning new ways to communicate on the same level. Including 5 examples of healthy characteristics/ signs to leading a healthy relationship as well as 4 foundations to maintaining it. Family Meeting Questions “Dating a 34 year-old female who’s living at home with her parents and she is not out to them. I love her  but it is becoming a turn off” “Where can I find fems that are into fems? FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat BRUJITA SKINCARE https://brujitaskincare.com/

In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more! As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS 1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?" 2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

We all want to be accepted into our partner's family, especially when in a QUEER relationship. In this episode we discuss how important it is to try to have a rapport with your partner's family. We also talk about the following How we met each other's parents/family members. Past experiences when meeting our partner's family. Uncomfortable situations when meeting family. Setting boundaries with our family in order to make our partner feel safe and comfortable. & Steps to getting along with their family (if you’re an awkward person). Family Meeting Questions What are your thoughts on girls who refuse to eat out their partners? “I’m still in love with my ex” “I came out as a lesbian 3 or 4 years ago and haven’t started dating yet. I'm 19 so I can’t go to bars, any tips on meeting women?” Beducated - SAVE 40% with our coupon code: LESCHAT https://beducate.me/pd2302-leschat FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

HAPPY NEW YEAR LES CHAT FAMILY! Can you believe we almost make a year since we started Les Chat? We started our podcast back on January 24th of 2022 and we’re so grateful for all of you! We are BACK like we never left with Season 2 of Les Chat Podcast and we’re coming in with new segments! This podcast episode is a little different from previous episodes. In this episode, Dayra reads a story submitted by a listener. The story gets JUICY, we talk about Long-distance relationships Sharing passwords with your partner Checking your partners location Cheating Let us know what you think about this format, if you like this, we can start sharing more stories in our podcast episodes. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS: No question in this episode because we have a full story! FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well! Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA!  6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_  6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative 6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast" 6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects 6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun  6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride 6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair 6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj 6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela 6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership 6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride 6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer 6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc 6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride 6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride 6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc 6/24/23 - Pride 5K  6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl 6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal  6/23/23 - NYC Pride  NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge Family Meeting Questions “I’ve fallen for a straight girl!” "What would you choose? you find a girl you have an out of this world emotional connection, but zero physical attraction OR you have another girl that connects with you on every sexual level, but you can't show your true self outside the bedroom.” “I’m 21 and I’m dating a 26 year old, but I wasn’t being honest with myself” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons.. For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group.  We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you. Family Meeting Q&A: 1. "Can you be friends with an EX?" 2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"." 3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust." IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

In this bonus episode we talk about our BAD dates stories! Join our Patreon Family! On Patreon we want to connect with our audience on a deeper level by providing more bonus content, vlogs, behind the scenes, monthly zoom meetings, discord chats, live advice, merch discounts, and more! patreon.com/leschatpod We currently have 2 membership tiers, the BABY GAYS for $6 which includes EXCLUSIVE COMMUNITY: Take part in Patreons community, polls, posts, Q&A’s, etc. LES CHAT GROUP CHAT: Join our private Discord group chat. 2x BONUS CONTENT: (Two minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) Q&A FAM MEETING: We’ll answer your family meeting questions in 48 hours via DISCORD. IG CLOSE FRIENDS: More content from us from our Instagram page. VOTES: Give us feedback on future topics, merch & contribute to future episode topics. MEETUPS: NJ/Philly/NYC meetups And our MOST popular one, LES CHAT FAMILY, which includes Everything in the previous tier AND + 4x BONUS CONTENT: (Four minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes including live zoom audio, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) LIVE ZOOM & CHILL: Monthly zoom meetings where we’ll play games, talk shit & bring on your FAV GUESTS! LIVE FAM MEETING QUESTIONS: We’ll chat about your personal questions! MERCH: Get merch discount!

THE START OF 2022: Our vision/purpose of this podcast: - Create a platform for those who didn’t feel represented - “Be the person you needed” for those in the community who didn't have the necessary support - Share personal experiences to help those in similar situations gain other perspectives Things we discuss:  - What have we accomplished? - What have we learned from the struggle? - What have we improved on the most? - What moments were our most/less favorites? - What do we plan to achieve in the upcoming year? - What we want to leave behind - What we would like to take with us into the new year. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS: 1. “I’m dating a new girl and it’s great, but I’m concerned because we don’t have sex as much as we did in the beginning” 2. “My girlfriend’s best friend is her male ex” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Jojo and Dayra get real RAW in this episode and have some difficult conversations. We show the reality of relationship issues and common disagreements between couples. We dive into the "soft girl era" and the following topics, What IS the "soft girl era"? Who started the "soft girl era" trend? Why are people changing their lifestyles to this "soft girl era"? Do you think it's hard to be in your "soft girl" era as a Latina? What is the first step to enter your soft girl era in a relationship where you're both "hard"? We finish off with how we will personally go into our "soft girl era" and how we will hold ourselves accountable in 2023! BEDUCATED http://beducate.me/pd2251-leschat Coupon code: LESCHAT (40% OFF) FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS: Can you be friends with an ex? “My teacher kissed me…” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Soft Girl Era Link: https://www.glam.com/1090415/heres-why-black-girls-on-tiktok-are-entering-a-soft-girl-era/

40 percent of America’s lgbtq+ community say they've been rejected by family members or close friends at some point in their lives due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. In this weeks episode we get into beauty and how we see ourselves. We also dive into… - Plastic surgery - Influence culture and how social media affects our idea of beauty. - Self esteem/confidence  BEDUCATED *  http://beducate.me/pd2250-leschat *  Get 40% off the yearly pass *  Try all the Beducated courses for 1 day free *  New giftcard announcement! * Coupon Code:  LESCHAT FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS * “I recently came out as lesbian in 2018. I started dating a girl the same year and we have been together for 4 years now, which is my first girl relationship. I love her but I’m not in love with her.“ * “Some people just lie so much they cant keep up with their own lies”  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON! * https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator  FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: * IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= * TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ * YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: - https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat

We invite Shaina Negron aka Toushai, a tattoo artist, painter and singer who displays her artwork to more than 200,000 followers on her social media. We talk about how her creative career started, what body painting is like and what inspired her to write her newest song “Tu no me amas”. We also talk about false narratives the internet has about Toushai and her dating “standards.” Dayra mentions a “gay icon” towards the end and we get the scoop on the reality of dating a celebrity. Toushai’s Tiktok 1900’s Video Reference: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR45Ykgc/ FOLLOW TOUSHAI ON SOCIAL MEDIA: https://www.instagram.com/toushai/?hl=en @shaishaikoolaid @toushaink @toushaiart linktr.ee/toushai FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS I was in a situationship where I was putting in more effort than them. How should I move forward w/this person? I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with someone who I thought was my friend. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat