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Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
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In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes! Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating girls last year, part of me wants to explore but I also don’t want to fumble the girl I met because she is amazing"⁠ BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat Family Meeting:FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠   TIKTOK: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠  YOUTUBE: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠ Link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 ⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
118. Dear Younger Self

118. Dear Younger Self

2024-12-0255:01

In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. Tune in for a mix of humor, honesty, and reflections on the wisdom that comes with age. Ashlynn Harris Wide Open Episode - LINK BALI/THAILAND TRIP: Buy an experience, instead of a physical gift for 2025! Mark your calendar for Travel Tuesday 2024, this coming Tuesday, to receive a $50 discount on our trip! Enter code TRAVELTUESDAY50 at checkout on Tuesday 12/3 and Wednesday 12/4 only, so be sure to reserve your spot! Family Meeting: 1. "I have a serious mental illness that I’ve been dealing with for over 10 years. I’ve always taken my meds and I’ve always been fine. If I don’t have any issues managing my diagnosis there really is no reason to disclose this. Am I in the wrong if I’m in a relationship with someone for a few months or 1 year & disclose this?" 2. "I went on a date and I immediately knew I didn’t want to see her again which is why I decided to “practice” telling someone about my mental illness. " FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces. Family Meeting Question 1. "I met this girl recently and when we met I instantly felt a vibe. The day we met I added her on IG and saw she has a gf. We have met up a few times because I give her private boxing lessons. I have a crush, what is your opinion of why she never mentions her gf?" 2. "I was a part of a Christian group at 21 and experienced religious trauma from conversion therapy. I left that group and came out officially at 28. I went through therapy and now at 31 I’m in a place to start dating. I met a girl and she’s great.. Should I get wifed up or keep my options open?" AutoStraddle Post LINK FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram. Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day" • " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very in love with her and we’re inseparable and I feel like we’re flirting and our friends are also saying that.. I used to think that she's straight, but now i’m very confused" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  • IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   • TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  • YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  • Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  • Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ GO OUT & VOTE • Am I registered? https://voter.svrs.nj.gov/registration-check • Make sure you are active & not inactive • Register to vote link: https://vote.gov/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
108. Fem VS Femme

108. Fem VS Femme

2024-07-1542:06

Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc". We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme. Family Meeting 1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…” 2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
94. Queer Baiting

94. Queer Baiting

2024-03-0401:10:08

What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc)  as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”. LOVE CRAVE VIBRATOR NECKLACE LINK  Family Meeting:  “My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me because she believes she is poly.” “There’s one girl in particular I’ve been hanging out with and have had sex a few times . She said she’s a lesbian when we first met and said she doesn’t sleep with men, and then told me a few days ago she occasionally does sleep with men. Sleeping with men opens up the doors for more STI’s. What should I do?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO LEAVE US A VOICE NOTE VIA TEXT OR VOICEMAIL ‪- CONTACT US AT (862) 786-8233‬  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Family Meeting Submission : CLICK HERE IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode. EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year. Stay tuned Les Chat FAM! We will return shortly. Join our Patreon to stay connected - PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod   Florida News: https://www.instagram.com/p/C06zgEoujKp/   & Florida Video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C04QVC-s8Vz/  Family Meeting Questions My wife & I have been together for 4 years. Over the years, I realized I initiated everything: kisses, dates & sex. In the past 6 months, she has gained 40lbs & refuses to exercise with me or by herself. Between her lack of effort to initiate & her recent weight gain, I’m not as physically or emotionally attracted to her.  My girl told me that she slept in the same bed with her best friend naked because she was hot, this is someone she had se* with, in the past.. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
In this week's episode we welcome our friend Brennah back to Les Chat to deep dive into the tragedies of lesbian dating. Brennah shares some details about how her dating journey has been going and we run through a list of dating icks. The best advice Brennah wanted to leave with us is that letting go of expectations could make dating less tragic. You don't need to find you person right away. Have fun and get to know yourself in the process. Family Meeting: 1. Can y'all talk about WHY we have this weird dating trend where people talk for 3/4 months and then never speak again? 2. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months already. I just found out that she has still kept contact with her past fling. Brennah IG: https://instagram.com/brennahlambert_?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
Coming out to your kids as “LGBTQ+” can be a hard conversation. In today’s episode we invite our dearest friend/momma to talk about her experience! We dive into Can you date someone who’s in the closet? How to prepare yourself to come out to your kids.Advice for parents who want to come out to their kids but don’t know how. Do parents need to come out? Family Meeting Questions 1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now but I met a girl who’s a coworker and I think I have fallen for this girl.” 2. “I just found out my fiance, who I have been with for 5 years, has been cheating on me for the last 2 months with my step brother.” Jynette's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fromconcept2closing/ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
84. Should We Take A Break?

84. Should We Take A Break?

2023-10-2301:05:27

Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break. Family Meeting: 1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them." 2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction. Questions to ask your partner: What is something I have done this month that made you feel loved and cared for? Do you feel there’s anything we need to improve in our relationship? Is there anything you need that I haven't been giving you? When was the last time I hurt your feelings and you decided not to speak about it? Do you feel like you still have enough time for your friends and interests? What’s one thing you’d want to change/try out for the next month? Family Meeting Questions: 1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?" 2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
82. Emotional Safety

82. Emotional Safety

2023-10-0247:32

What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment. Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships    Family Meeting Questions “I had been dating this girl for about 2 years, but I started liking her friend…” “My girlfriend does not feel emotionally safe with me” “My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost two years, we go months without any sort of physical intimacy, including hugs and kisses” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
81. TV Lesbianships

81. TV Lesbianships

2023-09-2555:14

We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”. Card game link: https://theopenup.com/   List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them Family Meeting Questions “I caught my wife emotionally cheating on me with her new friend” “My girlfriend is still married to her ex. She told me she’d get divorced as soon as possible in the beginning of our relationship but it’s been 5 years now.” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples. Family meeting: 1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back? 2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her? Read more about non-negotiables: https://hellorelish.com/articles/relationship-non-negotiables.html https://goodthingsaregonnacome.com/why-are-non-negotiables-important-and-how-to-create-them/#:~:text=By%20setting%20non%2Dnegotiables%20and,live%20a%20more%20fulfilling%20life.&text=Non%2Dnegotiables%20are%20personal%20vows,what's%20important%20in%20your%20life. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
78. Hypothetically Speaking

78. Hypothetically Speaking

2023-08-2801:03:29

There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact.  In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”. Family Meeting Questions  “I identify as a lesbian, I used to be so passionate about my identity and would always talk/think about it, now, I feel like I could care less. I have less desire to partake in discourse or consume queer media. Even when pride came around this year I just didn't get all that excited about it. Is it wrong to feel this way?  “My partner and I have a very flexible and *healthy* relationship, but sometimes I feel like I haven't enjoyed my young adult life being single, and that's making me nervous…” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
77. Lesbian Slang

77. Lesbian Slang

2023-08-2146:26

Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic?  Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide) Beducated: https://beducate.me/pd2334-leschat (https://beducate.me/pd2334-leschat) Beducated AI Chatbot:  https://beducated.com/ai (https://beducated.com/ai) Family Meeting Questions: 💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?” ❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
76. Flirting Styles

76. Flirting Styles

2023-08-1459:12

We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master! Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles Family Meeting 1.  "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?" 2.  "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
75. Before I Came Out

75. Before I Came Out

2023-08-0755:20

What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS 1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!" 2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship? Family Meeting Questions 💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed” 💛 “I been involved a girl for 7 months and it doesn’t seem to escalate to anything further” BEDUCATED LINK: https://beducate.me/pd2332-leschat Code: LESCHAT No risk: 14-Day Money-Back Guarantee 1 day free trial 40% off the yearly pass with our LESCHAT coupon code FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  * IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   * TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  * YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  * PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  * Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  * Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
73. The Best Of Breakups

73. The Best Of Breakups

2023-07-1701:04:12

In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..." 3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..." Sources: https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken YOUTUBE VIDEO: https://youtu.be/Cw2qD87KDHc - Breakups don’t have to leave you broken FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
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