Let’s Make Sense of It

In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of friendship and ask the tough questions. Are friendship rosters a sign of immaturity or just boundaries with style? Do some women intentionally keep their friends single? Should loyalty mean cutting someone off just because your friend did? And could you be with someone who doesn’t believe in giving gifts at all? We break it all down with honesty, laughs, and real-life takes. We get into this ad much more. Tap in—you might rethink your cir...

In this episode, the crew dives deep into The Art of Emotional Detachment—when it’s healthy, when it’s harmful, and why so many people are mastering it in today’s dating scene. We also ask the tough question: Why is everybody single looking for the same thing, but nobody can seem to find it? From the struggles of the infamous “Mr. Nice Guy,” to whether accountability can actually be taught, we get real about the patterns that keep us stuck. Plus, we break down how single girlfriends might be ...

The team is back for another week, and we get into a lot of topics. We touch on the topic of trauma dumping from both views, the listener and the person that's getting the trauma dumped on them. Do opposites really attract or is that a myth? We also touch on the topic of the guy that shows up during a womans healing stage and how it can be hard for that guy. We have our "Ants Tweets" segment, black parents not letting daughters date till their 20s, bad first dates and much more. So, sit back ...

Yes, we have been on a little hiatus, but your favorite podcasters are back and it's a new year! As we get back into it, we talk about which low vibration conversations we should leave in 2024. We touch on the topics of how long is too long to be in the talking stage. We also touch on having, finding, making, and spending time and what they all mean. Can someone being a breadwinner of their family cause you to not want to date them? We touch on this, things grown women love and much more. So,...

We missed you guys, but the team is back after a little hiatus! We get into the topic of what is someone's breaking point when it comes to relationships, friendships and just life in general. We ask the question why is the relationship only at risk when the woman is unhappy? Are men softer or are women harder in today's society? Is love a good enough reason to stay in a relationship? We get into these topics, our "Make Sense of this Scenario", "Ant's Tweets" segments, and much more. So, sit b...

The team is back after a little hiatus, and we are right back to the advice giving. We get into the topic of is it appropriate to take a significant other to a restaurant you took a previous person? Which is harder to do, moving on, letting go, or starting over? Do you believe the narrative "we experience people differently"? Is a women's sex drive based on how you treat her? Could you stay with someone if your parent didn't like you? Does having three babyfathers/baby mothers lower a person'...

Join us Vance & Ashley for our first live podcast show, a night of laughter, great conversation and special guest. Sit down with us and join in as we discuss topics on everyday life, relationships, and the craziness of the world we live In. As always we're giving, 'The truth you don't want but definitely need! Ticket Link Below!!! https://citywinery.com/philadelphia/events/lets-make-sense-of-it-presents-something-to-talk-h41po5

The team is back for another episode as we speak on the topic of being a trauma survivor. Whether its everyday life trauma, relationship trauma, family trauma etc. we speak on it all. We also speak on the topic of different types of anxiety and how certain things can affect your everyday life. We get into what are the signs that a woman and a man need to mature. Women hate to see another woman bring the best out of a man she failed with, do you agree? We speak on these topics and much more. S...

The team is back and this week we touch on the topic of Emotional PTSD. We speak on the effects that has when it comes to relationships and dealing with people. We speak on why sometimes unhealed people are jealous of people who are healed. We ask the question is courting and tricking the same? Also, what is the top five reasons a person isn't ready to date. We touch on these topics and many more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all.

The team is back, and we are on the road as we had a chance to sit down with the owner of Arts and Class Spa and Studio Candace(@candaceraycan). Candace is a license Esthetician, and she gives us insights on skincare, her start in the beauty industry, do's and don'ts when it comes to skincare, entrepreneurship, and much more. We also get into our topics which include what is love and isn't vs lust. People raised on survival will do anything to you vs a person raised on love will do anything f...

Finally, we are back at it and we get into the topic of setting boundaries. We break down setting boundaries when it comes to family, work, relationships and much more. What’s worst your partner comparing you to an ex or being insulted by your partner? Also we break down what immediately tells you a person had a traumatic childhood? We get into these topics, bitter single people, why people say being single and fine is a red flag and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of...

In this episode we are back and joined once again by Bridgette(@bbcarodine) as we catch up and get into an array of topics. We touch on uncomfortable conversations that need to be had in the black community. We also touch on six unpopular relationship opinions and selective morality. What are some red flags that caused you to stop talking to a person? What's the pettiest reason you've stopped talking to a person? We touch on these topics and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense...

The team is back after a couple month hiatus, and we are ready to get back to it. In this episode we discuss the long term and short-term effects of a breakup. We break down the 5 stages of rejection. We break down women's intuition and why sometimes it can't sense when a man is unhappy. We get into single mother hate and explain why now a days that's such a big thing. We also discuss why some people should just remain single and why people who know they aren't ready for marriage still ...

In this episode we get into the topic of people changing in the relationship over time and how some people go about dealing with that. We break down the Keke Palmer situation and give our thoughts. We discuss being strong vs struggling and we sometimes confuse the two. Is there a such thin g as being a conscious cheater? We break that down as well as women's intuition vs being insecure. We also break down why men need to have more d**k discipline and self-respect. We break all that down and m...

We are back for another we and we touch on the saying of "It Couldn't be Me" and how sometimes we judge others or don't give the benefit of the doubt. Whether it's how someone raises kids, being a single parent or getting cheated on just to name a few we break them down one by one. We also ask does someone ever really mentally overcome being cheated on. You're healed and secure with yourself so what's next? We give you advice on what your next step should be getting back into the dating world...

It's been a while, we missed all of you, but the team is back. We get right back into it as we discuss your limitations and how far you are willing to go in certain scenarios and situations. We ask the questions is there anything off limits when it comes to an argument? "If you put your kids first in everything you do, you will forever be single" do you agree? Your best friend is dating your brother and she has a one-night stand on the girl's trip, you sticking to girl's code or snitchi...

The team is back, and we get into the topic of what truly makes someone the catch or the full package. "Love is the happiest thing ever but also causes the most pain" and we break down this quote. Can someone speak not having a relationship into the air? Who determines a person's "dating value"? What is the hardest truth you've learned in life? We get into this, our "Last Thought" segment about depression and much more. So, sit back and listen as we make sense of it all. Shout out to our sp...

The team is back after a few weeks, and we get into an array of topics. We break down what exactly it means to be a "nice guy" and whether you agree with it or not? We break down "healing from someone you're currently co-parenting with" and why it isn't talked about enough. Is being financially irresponsible a turn off for you? Is it a waste of time to date someone you don't see yourself marrying? We get into the topic of women doing wifely things for a boyfriend and where exactly shoul...

The team is back as we discuss the topic of knowing your value and worth. "A high value woman cares about what's inside your heart and a low value woman care about what's in your wallet" do you agree? We discuss the "90 Day Rule" and whether that's really still a thing? Do you believe all long-term relationships happen from an immediate connection? We discuss this as well as what exactly the ups and downs of a relationship really is. We get into this and much more. So, sit back and list...

It's been a few weeks, but the team is back, and we got an array of topics. We discuss the topic of adults chasing the popularity they missed out on as teenagers. We also discuss a person telling a child to keep a secret between them young and how that can be a slippery slope later in life? Taking dating advice from women who hate men instead of women who enjoy the men they date could actually be negatively affecting your dating life, we discuss this. Is it disrespectful if your w...