Let's Get Real

Life can get hard when you’re 20-something facing new challenges and relationships! If you’re looking for a relatable and comedic perspective on life and love, join Ashley and Brenda as they dive into their own lives to give you real ass advice on dating, adulting, and everyday experiences! It’s about to get real. New episodes every Monday!

We’re Not Really Strangers | Ep. 74

This week, Ashley and Shaquille are back with part 2 of last weeks conversation! In this episode, they dig deeper into eachothers minds, discuss friendships, dating fails, and then pull cards from the popular game “We’re not really strangers”.

07-19
46:48

Something Different ft. Shaquille | Ep. 73

This week, Ashley is joined with another guest. She sits down with Shaquille to get the male perspective on some hot topics! They unpack his unique view on platonic relationships, Ashley opens up about her recent dating failure, and they both discuss why chivalry is dead is westernized culture. This episode is something different than what you’re used to, but it’s definitely worth a listen!

07-12
49:25

Toxic Love & Relationship Cocooning | Ep. 71

This week, things are a little different! Ashley’s on her own today and ready to spill it all. She recaps you on her 3 day bender at Toronto pride (while still recovering) and then gets into some more serious topics such as toxic relationships and relationship cocooning. A term invented by Shan Boodram to explain the transformational phase that comes after going through a breakup. Definitely an episode you don’t want to miss! Check out Shan Boodrams episode of Lovers and Friends: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RbiIBqFa1ODAKKSZV6Mqc?si=pfFa9_YNT7iBJcijr8E4iw

06-28
44:11

Are my Standards too High or am I Picky? | Ep.70

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss dating standards. They break down their own list of dealbreakers and preferences, and share some relationship stories. Are standards non-negotiables? Can someone’s standards be too high? Are preferences just as important? Hear their opinions on these topics and more, on this weeks episode of Let’s Get Real.

06-21
46:10

Cutting Someone Off | EP. 69

This week, Let’s Get Real dives into the topic of cutting someone off. Ending a relationship isn’t always easy, and Brenda and Ashley are here to help! They share stories and advice on cutting off friendships, significant others and even family ties. (The right and *wrong* way to do it). They also discuss setting boundaries, and knowing when it’s time to let go. This is definitely and episode you don’t want to miss!

06-06
46:48

Overrated vs. Underrated pt. 2| Ep.68

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley share their opinions on popular trends and whether they’re overrated or underrated! They debate topics such makeup sex, selling foot pics, reality tv and more. Are these topics worth the hype in their eyes? Find out what they think this week on Let’s Get Real.

05-30
59:58

Does Pretty Privilege Exist? | Ep.67

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss pretty privilege and it’s effects on society. They share their own experiences, and how their outward appearance affects how they are treated. Is pretty privilege an advantage, or disadvantage? Is it even real? They answer these questions and many more, this week on Let’s Get Real.

05-23
42:40

Girl Code | Ep. 66

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley get into the rules of Girl Code. What is off limits? Is dating an ex ever okay? They answer these questions and more, and even break down the 10 rules of Girl Code. They also share stories on some former friends who broke the code! This is definitely an episode you don’t want to miss.

05-16
53:06

Do Nice Guys Finish Last? | Ep. 65

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss the topic of nice guys. Do nice guys finish last? Do most girls love a bad boy, or is that a myth? They share their own personal stories and debate the topic this week on Let’s Get Real.

05-10
53:41

What Gives you the Ick? | Ep.64

In this weeks episode Brenda and Ashley revisit the topic of “the ick”. Ever been so turned off by someone that you can’t ever look at them the same? Usually over petty or gross moments that will change the way you view your crush forever! The Ick. Brenda and Ashley share hilarious storytimes, and talk about how to get over an “ick”. Is it the point of no return?

05-02
43:19

Are you the Problem? | Ep. 63

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley discuss toxic friendships and relationships. The topic of “Are you the problem?” is debated and Brenda and Ashley share personal stories and experiences from their own failed friendships and relationships. If you’re struggling with losing friends, or being perpetually single - this is the episode for you!

04-25
52:01

Overrated vs. Underrated | Ep. 62

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley share their opinions on popular trends and whether they’re overrated or underrated! They debate topics such as falling in love, moving out, famous celebrities and more. Are these topics worth the hype in their eyes? Find out what they think this week on Let’s Get Real.

04-18
48:14

Does Everyone Need a Hoe Phase? | Ep. 62

In this this episode, Brenda and Ashley talk “hoe phases”. Should every one have a hoe phase? When is the right age to put it to rest? Is it necessary to get it out of your system in order to commit? Hear their thoughts on this topic and more in this weeks episode!

04-11
34:50

Is he a Fuckboy? | Ep. 60

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley talk all about fuckboys! They share their own crazy experiences and give crucial advice on how to spot one before you’re in too deep. They also have an exciting new announcement they’ve been keeping for weeks and are finally ready to share. You don’t want to miss this episode!

04-04
59:40

What Women Secretly Wish Men Knew! | Ep. 59

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley expose what women secretly wish men knew in the world of love and relationships. They discuss the small things that men should be doing to please their woman, and give lots of specific and hilarious examples! Whether your single or dating, this is definitely and episode you don’t want to miss!

02-28
25:23

Life During Highschool | Ep. 44

This week, Brenda and Ashley revisit their high school experience. Ashley talks about her trap house encounter at 17, and Brenda shares the details on her first love! They tell you about who they were in highschool and what led them to where they are now. This is an episode you don’t wanna miss!

02-27
48:50

Am I the Asshole? | ep. 58

In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley read popular posts from the Famous Reddit thread, “am I the asshole?” They share hilarious story times, and debate over many controversial topics. If you’re a fan of AITA, This episode is for you!

01-31
01:00:32

Feeling Lost in Your 20’s | ep. 57

Contrary to popular belief, the 20s are not the best years of your life. They’re actually a shit show. This week, Brenda and Ashley normalize that by opening up about their own lives and experiences as a 20 something. They discuss feeling lost, goal setting, finding your purpose, dating and more!

01-24
01:00:00

Why We’ve *Really* Been Gone + Toxic Relationship Cycles | ep. 55

No you’re not imagining things, Let’s Get Real is back in your subscription box, and ready for a new season! After a long hiatus, the girls are back and ready to share their thoughts on life, love, and daily struggles. This week they discuss their absence, and talk about the toxic cycle of on and off relationship dynamics.

01-10
51:21

Where We’ve Been... | Ep. 53

They’re back! In this weeks episode, Brenda and Ashley fill you in on what’s been going on since they’ve been gone! Ashley talks all about her drunk nights, Brenda started a summer project, and the two have some stories to tell! They also give some advice and answer listener questions!

07-19
49:49

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