Life Engineering

Most marriages don’t end in crisis—they plateau at good. Functional. Comfortable. Fine. But good isn’t the goal.In this heartfelt, practical conversation, Gabriela and Bhaskar unpack why high-achieving couples often let the relationship ride in the backseat—and how to bring it back to the front with vision, commitment, and rituals that make love stronger over time. Drawing on their engineering minds, spiritual practice, and decades of coaching leaders and couples, they share a clear path from “fine” to legendary.You’ll hear about the honeymoon illusion vs. real unconditional giving, the micro-frustrations that quietly erode intimacy, and what it means to be “all in” as allies. They also preview their intimate, six-couple Power Couples Retreat—a no-fluff, deeply experiential portal for radical transformation.What You’ll Learn:Why high performers drift into “agreeable business partners” at home—and how to reverse itThe engineering mindset for love: vision → measure → course-correct → repeatWhat real commitment looks like when emotions fluctuateHow to turn triggers into a bridge of awareness (Me → You → Our → Us)Why “talk therapy” alone isn’t the point—and what experiential protocols can unlock quicklyThe role of noble masculine energy (clarity, steadiness, devotion) alongside feminine wisdomResources & Links:- Power Couples Retreat — Oct 23-26 2025 • Applications now open • Limited to 6 couples- If your marriage is "just good" but you’re ready for great, apply for the Power Couples Retreat: intimate, experiential, and designed to create momentum that lasts. Spots are limited to six couples to preserve depth and transformation.👉 PowerCouplesRetreat.comGabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

Part 2: The Parent Playbook to Raising Money-Smart KidsMoney talks don't just shape marriages - they shape the next generation. In this episode of Life Engineering, I sit with senior wealth advisor Steve Sebag to break down a practical, values-first approach to raising money-confident kids: the Save/Spend/Give system, modeling generosity, smarter allowances, when to pay for "above & beyond," and how to introduce investing and compound interest early-without overwhelm or shame.Key takeaways:Start as soon as they can count. Use three jars: Save / Spend / Give to make money tangible.Model what you want to see: intentional purchases, tipping, generosity, trade-offs.Allowances teach budgeting; tie extra pay to above-and-beyond work (not basic chores).Make money talk normal, not taboo; secrecy breeds anxiety.Introduce investing & compounding early-$50/month + time beats later perfection.Calibrate support: ask, "Is this empowering or enabling?"Let culture & values guide big choices (tuition vs. home vs. business), not comparison.Aim to pass financial wisdom, not just wealth: earn → budget → invest → give.About Steve:Steve Sebag is a Senior Wealth Advisor & Senior Portfolio ManagerWith over 25 years of experience in wealth management, Steve Sebag is a distinguished professional in the financial landscape. A graduate of the John Molson School of Business, he holds a degree in Finance and the Chartered Investment Manager (CIM®) designation. As a founding partner of SKS Investment Partners, Steve leads the Montreal practice, specializing in crafting strategic wealth management solutions for high-net-worth clients and affluent families.Steve is passionate about developing financial strategies tailored to the unique goals and aspirations of each family he serves. Beyond finance, he's a philanthropist, a community leader, and the co-founder of FIX, a program supporting young people facing serious challenges, including addiction.- https://skspartners.ca/- https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevesebag/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

Part 1: Money & Marriage: How Couples Build Trust with MoneyMoney fights aren't about spreadsheets - they're about identity, safety, and trust. In this episode of Life Engineering, I sit with senior wealth advisor Steve Sebag to unpack why money is so emotional, how secrecy erodes trust, and the practical structures couples can use to get aligned. You'll learn when to combine vs. keep discretionary funds, why "fair" rarely means 50/50, how a budget creates freedom (not restriction), and the one 30-minute ritual that upgrades both communication and finances.Key takeaways:Money is rational and emotional. Childhood scripts and identity shape how we spend, save, and talk.Combine most, keep a little. Share household finances; give each partner a guilt-free discretionary bucket."Fair" ≠ 50/50. Contributions should reflect income, responsibilities, and changing seasons.Talk early, then often. Secrecy around money signals bigger relationship risks.Budget = freedom. Rules reduce chaos and create clarity about choices and trade-offs.Financial literacy for both. Both partners should know accounts, plans, and next steps (create a digital vault).Advisor = kind, not "nice." Tough truth now > bigger pain later.About Steve:Steve Sebag is a Senior Wealth Advisor & Senior Portfolio ManagerWith over 25 years of experience in wealth management, Steve Sebag is a distinguished professional in the financial landscape. A graduate of the John Molson School of Business, he holds a degree in Finance and the Chartered Investment Manager (CIM®) designation. As a founding partner of SKS Investment Partners, Steve leads the Montreal practice, specializing in crafting strategic wealth management solutions for high-net-worth clients and affluent families.Steve is passionate about developing financial strategies tailored to the unique goals and aspirations of each family he serves. Beyond finance, he's a philanthropist, a community leader, and the co-founder of FIX, a program supporting young people facing serious challenges, including addiction.- https://skspartners.ca/- https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevesebag/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

Ever feel your career is thriving while life outside work slips through your fingers? Dr. James Bryant spent 20+ years as a civil engineer (National Academies/TRB) before turning his systems lens toward leadership and life.When his second child arrived at 26 weeks, three questions changed everything:Do you want to win at work?Do you want to win at home?Are you?In this conversation, James and Gabriela dismantle the myth of static “work-life balance,” introduce dynamic balance (think: riding a bike), and share the Engineer’s Blueprint for Success—a practical path to reclaim time, prevent burnout, and lead with intention in both arenas.What You’ll Learn- The three questions that expose hidden misalignment- Why “balance” fails—and how to practice dynamic balance & rhythms- The Engineer’s Blueprint: Focus → Visualize (including obstacles) → Design → Execute- Early burnout signals leaders miss (vacations that don’t refresh, relational shortness)- How to separate identity from output: human being, not human doer- Turning work skills into home wins (communication styles, check-ins, decision hygiene)- Bringing your partner with you on big career moves (support ≠ same dream)About James:Dr. James Bryant—Founder and CEO of Engineer Your Success LLC, a boutique leadership training and coaching firm dedicated to helping executives and business owners recover lost time, increase productivity, and create true work-life balance.With over 20 years of leadership experience in both the private and public sectors, James has developed proven strategies to help leaders free up their time and energy so they can focus on what matters most—not just in business, but in life. - https://www.engineeryoursuccessnow.com/- https://www.linkedin.com/in/jbryant2/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

What if the key to your leadership potential has been within you since the day you were born? What if your life story holds a leadership fingerprint — a unique pattern of values that, once uncovered, can guide you to lead with clarity, trust, and purpose?In this deeply moving episode of the Life Engineering Podcast, Gabriela Embon sits down with David Lapin — global thought leader on leadership, culture, and ethical business transformation, and author of Lead by Greatness.Raised in apartheid South Africa, David worked alongside Nelson Mandela’s government and business leaders to draft one of the world’s first corporate ethics codes, still in use today. Through his company, Lapin International, he helps leaders around the world align strategy with character and culture with purpose so they can navigate complexity without losing their soul.Together, Gabriela and David explore:✨ How to uncover your leadership fingerprint by mapping your values from your life story✨ Mandela’s transformational lesson on dignity — and how it shaped David’s view of human greatness✨ Why most of us unknowingly abandon our greatness, and how to reclaim it✨ The ripple effect of personal growth: why your inner alignment impacts thousands of lives beyond your reach✨ How leaders can grow businesses without losing their soul — and why “efficiency” isn’t the same as greatnessDavid also shares practical wisdom on meditation, reflection, and aligning your daily choices with what truly matters to you — so you can lead with purpose in times of uncertainty.This episode will leave you with goosebumps, new clarity, and a deep sense of possibility.📌 About David Lapin:David Lapin, is a global thought leader on leadership, culture, and ethical business transformation, and the author of Lead by Greatness. Raised in apartheid-era South Africa, David worked alongside Nelson Mandela’s government and leading business figures to draft one of the world’s first formal corporate ethics codes—still in use today. As founder of Lapin International, he now helps leaders and organizations around the world align strategy with character and culture with purpose, guiding them to navigate complexity without compromising who they are.📚 Connect with David Lapin:• Website: https://www.lapininternational.com• Book: Lead by Greatness – https://amzn.to/4kxb7gU • LinkedIn – Personal: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidlapin• LinkedIn – Lapin International: www.linkedin.com/company/lapin-international/ • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LeadbyGreatnessVideo/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

In this inspiring episode of the Life Engineering Podcast, Gabriela Embon is joined by Valerie Greene, master relationship coach and expert in emotional connection, to explore how couples can move from conflict and disconnection to safety, trust, and deep intimacy.Valerie shares her proven process for helping partners break painful cycles, heal from past hurts, and cultivate the skills to truly hear and see each other. Whether you're struggling with constant arguments, emotional distance, or uncertainty about your relationship's future, this conversation will open the door to hope and possibility.💡 In This Episode You'll Discover:Why most couples get stuck in the same recurring conflicts-and how to break the pattern.How unhealed emotional wounds show up in relationships (and what to do about them).Practical tools to create safety and trust even during tough conversations.The surprising role curiosity plays in reigniting connection.Why healing yourself is key to transforming your relationship.📌 About Valerie Greene:Valerie Greene is a relationship coach, speaker, and writer who helps couples and individuals create thriving, passionate, and fulfilling relationships. Her work blends deep emotional insight with practical tools, empowering clients to communicate authentically and love more deeply.📚 Connect with Valerie Greene:Website: https://coachvaleriegreene.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valeriedanielleGabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

What if your life was your greatest creative project?In this electrifying episode, Gabriela sits down with Pia Leichter —creative partner, author of Welcome to the Creative Club, and founder of Collective Studio—to unravel what it really means to live creatively.From her nomadic upbringing and journalism days in Sri Lanka to creative directing for top global brands, Pia's path has been anything but conventional. But what ties it all together is her belief: creativity is not something you earn—it's something you reclaim.This conversation dives deep into:Why creativity isn't a talent—it's a birthrightThe neuroscience behind the imagination networkHow structure-loving professionals can reconnect to play and innovationThe power of micro-experiments and "not knowing" as a creative portalHow we can choose the next act of our lives, no matter where we are now Whether you're a lawyer, artist, entrepreneur, or simply human—this is your invitation to reawaken your creative spirit and design a life with no regrets.Pia Leichter is a creative partner, published author, certified coach, and entrepreneur. Her path has been anything but ordinary: a recovering nomad, she's reported as a journalist in Sri Lanka, graduated summa cum laude from NYU, and worked as an award-winning creative director for some of the biggest brands in the world. Now, as the founder of Kollektiv Studio, she's uniquely positioned to co-create wild visions and ventures. She recently published Welcome to the Creative Club, a book that challenges everything people thought they knew about creativity. Praised by Google's Global Head of Creative & Innovation as "life-changing" and by iconic fashion designer Betsey Johnson as "a wild ride," this part-memoir, part-guide invites readers to make life their biggest art project and reclaim their creative power.📚 Connect with Pia Leichter:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pia.leichter/Website: https://substack.com/@pialeichter LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pialeichter/Get a copy of her book:On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Welcome-Creative-Club-Biggest-Project/dp/B0DPJ8L4NM/ref=sr_1_1On Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/p/books/welcome-to-the-creative-club-make-life-your-biggest-art-project-pia-mailhot-leichter/22087658And the audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/Welcome-to-the-Creative-Club-Audiobook/B0F6VZCWT4 Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebsite: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

Have you ever looked around at a life that seemed "good on paper" - but deep inside, you knew you were stuck?In this heartfelt and soul-stirring episode of Life Engineering, Gabriela sits down with Dr. Alisa Whyte - #1 International Bestselling Author, Mindset Disruptor, and creator of the SHYFT Framework™ - to explore what it really takes to break free from misalignment, reclaim your voice, and rebuild a life that reflects your highest truth.Dr. Alisa opens up about the moment everything changed: infertility, a miscarriage, a quiet but life-shifting conversation with her husband, and the decision to choose herself - for the first time. What followed wasn't just survival, but a powerful reinvention that now helps others move from stuck to unstoppable.✨ In this episode, you'll discover:What it means to make a conscious shift in the midst of heartbreak, confusion, or career crisisWhy leaving isn't failing - it's often the first step toward alignmentHow the SHYFT Framework™ helps you stop spiraling, heal hesitation, and take back your territoryWhy clarity is found in motion, not perfectionHow to know if you're compromising your peace - and what to do about itWhether you're navigating a breakup, a career pivot, or simply feel off-track - this episode is a permission slip to pause, realign, and rise.🎁 Plus, Dr. Alisa shares how you can access her free SHYFT starter kit and join the Mindset Mastery 360 movement.Takeaways:Everyone experiences moments in life where they feel lost.Choosing to prioritize oneself is a powerful step towards transformation.The Shift Framework helps individuals navigate their journey from stuck to unstoppable.Clarity often comes through movement and action, not just contemplation.Living is about choosing alignment, not merely avoiding failure.External validation can cloud one's true voice and purpose.Healing involves letting go of past habits and beliefs that no longer serve you.Possibilities expand when you ask 'what if' instead of 'I can't'.Taking territory means standing firm in your purpose and mission.Every setback can be reframed as a strategy for future success. Self-worth can be affected by physical discomfort.Alignment with your body is crucial for optimal health.Making shifts in diet can lead to better alignment.Taking congruent actions leads to a path of miracles.Misalignment often feels like compromising your true self.Letting go of past relationships can be necessary for alignment.Every decision made is based on the information available at that time.You are not starting over; you are building on your experiences.Conscious choices are essential for personal growth.Dr. Alisa Whyte is a #1 International Bestselling Author and a dynamic Workforce, Life, and Business Strategist. As the creator of the SHYFT Framework™, she equips individuals to move from stuck to unstoppable by removing limitations and designing a clear, actionable roadmap toward their next level. Known as the #1 Mindset Disruptor, Dr. Alisa is the founder of Mindset Mastery 360 and host of the top 1% podcast Mindset Mastery Moments. Her work blends real-world strategy with deep inner shifts to help people engineer not just success - but fulfillment. Today, she's here to help you SHYFT into your power and take back your territory - starting now.📚 Connect with Dr. Alisa Whyte:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alisawhytespeaksWebsite: https://alisawhyte.comGabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

Are you secretly second-guessing your prices? You're not alone—and you don't have to stay stuck. In this powerful episode of the Life Engineering Podcast, host Gabriela Embon sits down with business strategist and financial guide Laura Zavelson to unpack why so many women entrepreneurs chronically undercharge—and what to do instead.With over 25 years of experience helping Gen X experts turn their brilliance into financially stable businesses, Laura shares the real reason pricing feels so emotional for women and how to rewire your money mindset from the inside out.You'll learn:Why most coaches have a hidden revenue gap—and how to fix itWhat your "enough number" is and how to calculate itHow to shift from charging by the hour to offering transformational programsWhy undervaluing your work affects not just your income, but your impactPractical strategies to raise your rates without losing your soulWhether you're just starting out or scaling your coaching practice, this episode will help you lead your business with clarity, confidence, and intention.About Laura:Laura Zavelson, MBA, is a corporate finance escapee, turned serial entrepreneur, former professor of entrepreneurship, and now business guide for GenXperts. She helps GenXers who are laid-off, pissed-off, pushed-out or burned-out capitalize on their expertise and experience to build a business as a coach, consultant or independent expert. She draws on 25+ years of experience to deliver client getting and business building strategies that are both proven and practical. Her videos, articles, and programs are designed to be easy-to-follow roadmaps to financial stability, flexibility and freedom so her clients NEVER, EVER have to be out there looking for a job again.📚 Connect with Laura Zavelson:Email: laura@laurazavelson.comWebsite: https://laurazavelson.com/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

In this deep and soul-stirring episode of the Life Engineering Podcast, Gabriela is joined by Joanna Horton McPherson—speaker, educator, truth-teller, and founder of the Madre Tierra Foundation. Together, they explore how the stories we tell ourselves shape our identities, our confidence, and our capacity to lead and serve.From Joanna's personal journey of discovering her voice through theater at the age of 13 to her life-changing work in coaching women leaders, this conversation is an invitation to revisit the narratives that no longer serve us—and to reclaim authorship of our lives.Whether you're a leader, speaker, or someone yearning for more truth and impact in your life, this episode is for you.🔑 What We Explore in This Episode:The power of story as a healing and transformational toolHow acting and stage presence taught Joanna to trust herselfThe difference between method acting and Meisner's emotional honesty techniqueHow to recognize and shift limiting internal narrativesJoanna's process of helping clients "research" their inner truthThe impact of ancestral narratives and generational healingThe connection between clarity, confidence, and choiceHow women leaders can find their voice and live their legacyWhy we must speak to those who are ready to hear usAbout Joanna Horton McPherson: Executive Speaking Coach for Mission-driven LeadersSince 2011, Joanna has partnered with boards and individuals across the globe to craft strategies to change lives for the better. Joanna specializes in mission-driven organizations.As a social justice advocate, she supports humanitarian initiatives aligned with the UN Sustainable Development Goals.Certified in Sustainable Investing from Harvard Business School, Joanna is an accredited investor committed to deploying ethical and sustainable business principles such as profit-sharing and collective wealth-building.Joanna currently serves as president-elect for the National Association of Women Business Owners (NAWBO) Phoenix chapter.📚 Connect with Joanna Horton McPherson:Website & Newsletter: joannahortonmcpherson.comJoin her upcoming virtual workshops and speaking circleStay tuned for her upcoming book: And Now You Must Mean It – a guide for women leaders on the inner journey to authentic voice and impact.Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSchttps://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

What if the voice in your head—the one filled with doubts, fears, and old stories—isn't really you?In this powerful episode of the Life Engineering Podcast, Gabriela Embon sits down with Executive and Life Strategies coach, Speaker and Bestselling Author Martine Cohen to explore how we can break free from mental loops, subconscious programming, and self-imposed limitations.After a traumatic brain injury forced Martine to relearn how to navigate the world without the filters of her mind, she uncovered something extraordinary: the freedom that comes when you strip away the layers of fear, perfectionism, and false identity.Together, they discuss:The difference between decisions and true choicesHow our subconscious often runs the show—and how to reclaim authorityThe concept of the "inner boardroom" and how to raise self-awarenessHow to stop making fear-based choices and start aligning with truthThe power of curiosity, self-compassion, and mindset in daily lifeTools to challenge your thoughts and reconnect with your inner selfWhether you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from who you are—this episode is your invitation to step into self-trust, presence, and internal freedom.About Martine:Martine has been an attorney for over 25 years with a love for everything strategy. A pivotal turning point in her life catapulted her onto an extraordinary journey of profound awareness, self-discovery, and freedom. In the process, she gained a unique understanding of the inner workings of the brain, which ultimately led her to successfully heal herself energetically – from the inside out.Today, Martine guides individuals, professionals, and executives to become the leaders of their lives and experience success from the inside out. When she is not writing or speaking about reclaiming your personal power, you'll find Martine enjoying time with her family, volunteering, practicing yoga, meditating, and enjoying cappuccinos from around the world. Connect with Martine: https://martinecohen.com/No more Layers book: https://martinecohen.com/no-more-layers-book/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

In this deeply inspiring conversation, Gabriela sits down with Dan Bowling, president and founder of The Genesis Company, to explore what it truly means to lead with purpose. From growing a global, award-winning business to feeding over one million children and rescuing hundreds of girls from human trafficking, Dan’s story is a testament to what happens when success is redefined through service.Dan opens up about the personal turning point that changed his definition of fulfillment forever, his journey of faith, and how “creating a better story” became the soul of his leadership model.💡 Whether you're a founder, a leader, or simply someone seeking deeper meaning in your work and relationships, this episode will challenge and uplift you.📝 What We Cover in This Episode:Why redefining success starts with who you become—not what you achieveHow Dan maintains 100% employee retention and a culture of serviceThe flywheel of belief, consistency, and momentum in businessBuilding a life of no regrets by honoring your purposeCreating a home, a company, and a legacy rooted in servitude and graceHow to teach your children spiritual alignment through presence and prayerThe vow of unconditional love—and what it looks like in real life leadershipDan Bowling is the president and founder of The Genesis company, a globally recognized consumer products commercialization firm. Under his leadership, his firm has redefined what success looks like for CEO’s and founders by using his company to serve as many people as possible, starting first with his own team, then his clients, and also his community.The Genesis Company has not only earned prestigious accolades such as Inc Magazine’s “Best of” winner three times, but also won Sales Firm of the Year in 2024, and a Global Award for its industry’s Amazon division. But, what he’s most proud of is that he has a 100% employee retention rate and his firm is has fed over over 1 million children, saved 200 girls from human trafficking, and provided domestic abuse counseling to 100 kids.Connect with Dan Bowling:The Genesis Company: https://thegenesiscompany.com/Email: dan@thegenesiscompany.comGabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSchttps://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

In this deeply insightful and empowering episode, I sat down with trauma-informed dating and relationship coach Meleah Manning to talk about what it really takes for driven, independent women to attract and build a healthy, emotionally connected relationship—without compromising their ambition, identity, or standards.Together, we explored the hidden patterns that hold high-achievers back in love, the tension between masculine and feminine energy, and the surprising truth that love requires a different skill set than career success. Meleah shared her personal story, her client experiences, and the practical steps women can take to stop dating on autopilot and start creating intentional, soul-aligned love.If you've ever been told you're "too much," "too independent," or you've struggled to find a partner who truly matches your depth and drive—this episode is your permission slip to want it all and build it consciously.📝 What We Cover in This Episode:The #1 reason independent women struggle in loveWhy doing more, giving more, and proving yourself doesn't work in relationshipsThe key difference between chemistry and compatibility—and why you need bothHow masculine/feminine energy dynamics show up in datingPractical ways to soften, receive, and trust againThe Relationship Inventory exercise to break old dating patternsMeleah's Intentional Dating Method for attracting your ideal partnerHow to shift from "corrective dating" to true self-alignmentWhy taking radical responsibility transforms your love lifeEncouragement for women who think it's "too late" to find love💬 Favorite Quote:"It's safe to put your walls down. Love doesn't require perfection—just your presence and your willingness to show up differently" – Meleah ManningTakeawaysAmbitious women often struggle to find partners who match their emotional availabilityIndependence can sometimes push love away if not balanced properlyVulnerability is essential in love, contrasting with the achievement mindsetMany women confuse chemistry with compatibility in relationshipsRecognizing personal patterns in dating can lead to healthier choicesCompatibility is about harmony and shared values, not just common interestsTaking responsibility for one's role in relationship dynamics is crucialThe intentional dating method helps women filter potential partners effectivelySelf-love is a continuous journey that influences relationship successIt's possible to have both safety and passion in a relationshipMeleah is a certified trauma-informed dating coach for women.Her work focuses on helping driven, highly independent women attract an emotionally available, committed partner who matches their level of ambition and values.Connect with Meleah Manning: https://www.meleahmanning.com/Email: Meleah@sistersthatstray.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/meleah_manningGabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

On this episode of the Life Engineering Podcast, host Gabriela Embon sits down with Karen Covy, a divorce coach, consultant, mediator, and recovering divorce attorney, to explore how to navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and empowerment.While Gabriela is passionate about helping couples build strong, lasting marriages, she acknowledges that not all relationships last forever—and when a marriage does end, the way you navigate that transition is just as important as how the relationship was built in the first place. In fact, three of the four pillars from her book, "Becoming a Power Couple", apply even after divorce, particularly when co-parenting or maintaining a respectful relationship with an ex-spouse.Karen shares her unique perspective on shifting from a traditional legal approach to a coaching and mediation mindset, helping people avoid unnecessary conflict, make informed decisions, and create a better outcome for themselves and their families.💡 Why the divorce system is broken—and how to navigate it in a way that protects your well-being and future.💡 The biggest mistakes people make in divorce and how to avoid them.💡 How to manage the emotional toll of divorce while making sound legal and financial decisions.💡 Why mindset is everything—shifting from a victim mentality to a growth-oriented approach.💡 How to approach co-parenting with respect to minimize conflict and protect your children.💡 How to transition into your next chapter with clarity and confidence.Whether you’re facing divorce, supporting someone who is, or simply curious about how to make empowered choices in any life transition, this conversation will give you the insights and tools to move forward with strength and grace.TakeawaysDivorce is not just a legal process; it's emotional and socialEmotional healing is crucial before making legal decisionsMindset can significantly influence the divorce experienceEducating oneself about the divorce process is essentialChoosing the right process and lawyer is vital for a smoother divorceConflict, not divorce itself, harms childrenCo-parenting requires respect and communication post-divorceMaking decisions based on values leads to better outcomesIt's important to find peace during and after divorceDivorce can be an opportunity for personal growth and empowermentKaren Covy is a divorce coach AND CONSULTANT, MEDIATOR, author, speaker, collaborative divorce professional, and a recovering divorce attorney.She has decades of experience helping people navigate through divorce and make decisions designed to get them a better outcomeConnect with Karen Covy: https://karencovy.com/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSchttps://www.gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

Have you ever met someone whose life sounds like a movie script? Full of resilience, reinvention, and unexpected twists? Someone who has faced unimaginable adversity—yet turned it into success, impact, and purpose?In this episode of, I sit down with Cristian Ray Flores, a former refugee turned global recording artist, entrepreneur, and leadership coach to uncover the powerful mindset shifts that allow people to thrive—no matter where they start.Cristian's journey—from surviving a military coup and civil war to building a global career in music, business, and coaching—is nothing short of extraordinary. His insights will challenge the way you think about resilience, uncertainty, and success.🔥 In this episode, we explore:✅ Escaping war & hardship—Cristian's powerful backstory from refugee to rock star✅ The addiction to certainty—why we crave it, and how to break free✅ How life's biggest challenges prepare us for our purpose✅ Why "success" often leads to emptiness if we ignore personal growth✅ The fallacy of "borrowed stories"—and why most people aren't truly living their own lives✅ Why the most fulfilled people embrace uncertainty✅ Antifragility: The key to using challenges to become stronger, not weakerThis conversation is eye-opening, inspiring, and packed with wisdom. Whether you're an entrepreneur, creative, leader, or someone simply looking to break free from limiting beliefs and step into your purpose, Cristian's story and insights will change the way you see challenges.What if the very obstacles you're facing are the doorway to your next level?TakeawaysCristian's life story is filled with resilience and transformationOvercoming adversity can lead to a unique perspective on lifeThe addiction to certainty can hinder personal growthAntifragility allows individuals to thrive in the face of challengesSpirituality plays a crucial role in personal developmentLetting go of attachments can lead to greater growthSuccessful people often need guidance to navigate their inner workFaith is a common trait among the happiest individualsCoaching can redirect the trajectory of one's lifeWorld changers possess a unique drive to make an impact. The borrowed story is a common trap for many individualsSelf-awareness helps in recognizing the gap between borrowed and true storiesMotivation can often be fueled by external validation rather than internal passionLiving a borrowed story can prevent individuals from being their authentic selvesTransitioning through life's seasons can be challenging & confusingThe sage season is about investing in others and sharing wisdomCrystallized intelligence increases with age, offering new perspectivesMost people compromise and aim for the middle, which is crowded and competitiveEmbracing your true story unlocks your full potential and giftednessCourage is essential for creating and living your own storyChristian Ray Flores is an entrepreneur, international recording artist, philanthropist, and elite performance coach. His remarkable journey—from a child refugee in Chile, growing up in Africa, to achieving pop success in Eastern Europe—has shaped him into a dynamic and inspiring speaker.Holding a master's degree in economics and fluent in four languages, Christian co-founded Third Drive Media, producing award-winning content and securing substantial funding for startups. Through the Ascend Mission Fund, he has led impactful humanitarian initiatives in Mozambique and Ukraine. As the founder of Xponential, he empowers leaders to achieve and sustain peak performance.Connect with Christian Flores: https://www.xponential.life/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christianrayflores/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/

What if the difference between success and failure isn’t talent, resources, or even luck—but what happens inside your mind?In this episode, I sit down with Gary Chupik, a mental performance coach, leadership strategist, and former pastor, to uncover the mindset shifts that separate the elite from the average. Whether you’re an athlete, entrepreneur, or someone striving for personal growth, this conversation will challenge the way you think about success, resilience, and mental toughness.✅ The true role of mindset in success (it’s more than you think!)✅ Why some people push through challenges while others get stuck✅ The Playbook for the Mind—a strategy used by elite performers✅ How mental performance impacts business, careers, relationships, and even marriages✅ The surprising crossover between high-performing athletes and entrepreneurs✅ How to train your mind for efficiency, focus, and execution✅ Practical tools to break through mental blocks and take control of your thoughtsGary also shares his personal journey, including insights from his neurodiverse marriage, and we discuss the role of faith, resilience, and purpose in navigating life’s challenges.Whether you’re looking to elevate your career, improve your relationship, or develop unshakable confidence, this episode is packed with wisdom you won’t want to miss.Takeaways The difference between success and failure is often mindset. People often don't aim high enough in their lives. A game plan for mental performance is essential for success. Mental strength is a suite of skills, not a single trait. Emotional regulation is crucial in relationships. Managing different life domains leads to better performance. Investing in your relationship is like making deposits in a bank account. Being a cheerleader for your partner enhances the relationship. Neurodiverse marriages present unique challenges and strengths. Success leaves clues that can guide personal growth. The divorce rate in neurodiverse marriages is high due to misunderstandings. Efficiency is a key value that can enhance productivity. Communication is essential for improving efficiency in relationships. The CAPE protocol helps individuals manage overthinking in high-pressure situations. Integrating prayer and faith can enhance mental performance. Surrendering to a higher power can provide peace and direction. Choosing your response to life's challenges is crucial for personal growth. Timing can significantly impact success in various endeavors. Building a strong mindset is essential for overcoming obstacles. Connecting with a coach can provide guidance and support for personal development.Gary is an international speaker, writer, Professional Member of the Association of Applied Sport Psychology, Certified Professional Leadership Coach through the ICF (International Coaching Federation), ordained minister of 28 years, and Chaplain of the Seattle Thunderbirds for 7 years. Gary’s client list includes players, coaches, and executives from the Houston Texans, Washington Huskies, Idaho Vandals, Stanford University, USA Figure Skating, Seattle Mariners, Limitless Minds (Russell Wilson’s company), Houston Texans, National Motocross Association, Crossfit Olympics, and more. He’s worked with high-performers in business from Microsoft, the FBI, police/fire, Amazon, Keller Williams Real Estate, Thrivent Financial, Boeing, NTT Global, and many more. Gary is a sought-after speaker, coach, and consultant. Connect with Gary Chupik: https://www.elitemindsetnation.com/Take the Elite Mindset Assessment (Use code ELITE50 for 50% off): Elite Mindset AssessmentFollow Gary on Instagram: @EliteMindsetEmail: Gary@ EliteMindsetNation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/elitemindset/Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering coachWebiste: https://gabrielaembon.com/Email: Gabriela@GabrielaEmbon.comBecoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/

In this short but meaningful Valentine’s Day special, Gabriela dives into a fundamental question: What are we missing in relationships?Despite living in a hyper-connected world, many couples feel disconnected in their own homes. The answer, she believes, lies in true and deep connection—not just on special occasions but in daily rituals that nurture love and intimacy.💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:✔️ Why connection is the foundation of a thriving relationship✔️ How couples who feel truly connected handle conflict as a team rather than opponents✔️ Why modern relationships need rituals now more than ever✔️ Small yet powerful rituals to incorporate into your daily life (from morning hugs to weekly date nights)✔️ How rituals slow us down, deepen love, and protect what truly mattersKey Highlights:Love isn’t built on grand gestures alone—it’s nurtured in the small, intentional moments that create lasting connection. This Valentine’s Day, go beyond flowers and chocolates—choose a connection ritual that strengthens your relationship every day. 🎧 Listen now and start creating your own love rituals!📌 Mentioned in This Episode: Becoming a Power Couple: Four Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriage (Gabriela’s book) The importance of small, everyday gestures in love Simple rituals to deepen connection💖 What’s one small ritual of connection you practice or want to start? Drop a comment below or share your thoughts with me! ⬇️✨👉 Follow & Subscribe:Stay connected for more insights on building legendary relationships!#PowerCouples,ValentinesDay,RelationshipGoals,DeepConnection,LoveRituals,MarriageMatters,ThePowerOfConnection,LifeEngineering✨ Loved this episode? Share your biggest takeaway in the comments or tag us on social media! Would you like to add any personal touch or tweak the tone? 😊Takeaways- Connection is the foundation of a thriving relationship.- Many couples feel disconnected in their own homes.- True connection is built in everyday moments.- Rituals can help ground and protect relationships.- Creating daily rituals can enhance connection.- Simple gestures can make a significant impact.- Rituals help couples slow down and be present.- Choose meaningful rituals for your family.- Connection rituals can lead to more harmony.- Valentine's Day is an opportunity to deepen connections.Becoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/Gabriela Embon BSc.https://gabrielaembon.comhttps://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembonhttps://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynethttps://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

On this episode of The Life Engineering Podcast, Gabriela Embon had an inspiring conversation with Jessica Rice, an ICF-certified coach, entrepreneur, and visionary leader. Together, they explored profound insights about purpose, leadership, and aligning your life with your unique talents. Jessica introduces her Amplify framework, which helps individuals discover their purpose and create a vision for their lives. The conversation emphasizes the significance of personal development, authenticity, and the impact of serving others. Key Highlights: 1. Jessica's Journey from Software Engineering to Coaching Jessica shared how her technical background in software engineering evolved into a passion for leadership and business coaching. Her journey was fueled by overcoming personal adversity and realizing the need to align her life with her deeper calling. 2. Discovering and Embracing Your Gifts Gabriela and Jessica discussed the importance of uncovering one's natural talents and strengths. Jessica emphasized how recognizing her visionary thinking and big-picture planning abilities allowed her to step into her true purpose. 3. The Amplify Framework – 5 A’s of Leadership Development Jessica introduced her Amplify Framework, which includes: - Aligning personal purpose with professional goals. - Architecting a compelling vision. - Amplifying visibility through strategic positioning. - Activating networks for support and growth. - Achieving momentum with sustainable practices. 4. Overcoming Blocks to Leadership Jessica shared common challenges leaders face, such as imposter syndrome, fear of failure, and the inability to delegate. She highlighted the importance of doing the inner work to embody the leader you aspire to be. 5. Creating a Life of No Regrets Gabriela and Jessica explored the profound idea of living intentionally. They encouraged listeners to align their professional and personal lives with their purpose and to serve the world authentically. 6. A Vision of Service Both hosts shared how focusing on serving others and creating impact brings clarity and fulfillment. Jessica reminded us that purpose is not about us—it’s about how we serve the world with our unique gifts. Takeaways Jessica Rice transitioned from software engineering to coaching to better serve others. Many leaders struggle with imposter syndrome and don't fully recognize their gifts. The Amplify framework helps individuals align their purpose and vision. Authenticity is crucial for leaders to show up effectively. Personal development is a journey that requires self-discovery and alignment. Shifting from a doing mindset to a leading mindset is essential for growth. Purpose is often about how we serve others, not just personal goals. Creating a life of intention leads to fulfillment and happiness. Understanding one's unique gifts can help in overcoming self-doubt. The journey through adversity can lead to greater self-awareness and purpose. Jessica Rice is the founder of Jessica Rice Coaching, a transformative coaching practice dedicated to helping leaders, entrepreneurs, and visionaries amplify their influence, align with their purpose, and build impactful legacies. She is also the owner of Rowan and Hazel Co., an online shopping site dedicated to supporting women’s authentic style and giving back to the community, as well as a speaker, co-author, and host of the Hello You Show. As a certified ICF coach, Jessica combines over 15 years of experience in corporate leadership, business strategy, and design with cutting-edge coaching methodologies. Her work has influenced industry leaders at organizations like PayPal, Uber, Airbnb, and Lockheed Martin.

In this heartwarming episode, Gabriela and her dear friend Shari dive into the deeper purpose of relationships. They explore how our closest connections, especially marriage, are divinely designed to help us grow, heal, and resolve our karmic patterns. Shari shares profound insights from her 35-year marriage, highlighting how our spouses serve as mirrors, triggering us where we need to do the work and guiding us toward self-awareness and transformation. Together, Gabriela and Shari unpack concepts like navigating conflict, supporting your partner's vision, and learning to find harmony even in moments of challenge. Collaboration in writing reflects teamwork in marriage. Karmic relationships help us grow and resolve issues. Every person in our lives serves a purpose for our growth. Conflict in relationships can build trust and intimacy. Communication is essential for understanding each other's needs. Doing personal work enhances the quality of relationships. Complaining can be a form of cleansing and detoxifying emotions. Recognizing triggers can lead to personal growth and better communication. Supporting each other's individual journeys strengthens the marriage. The legacy of a healthy marriage impacts future generations. Join us on a journey as we cover the world of life coaching; topics that will be discussed in this series: practical life coaching techniques life coaching business developing your vision course correction personal development and improvement Gabriela Embon BSc https://www.coachingacademy.net https://www.facebook.com/coachingacademynet https://www.instagram.com/coachingacademynet https://www.facebook.com/gabriela.embon https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielaembon https://www.youtube.com/@coachingacademynet

In this deeply personal episode, I have the privilege of sitting down with Marsha Vanwynsberghe, NLP Trainer, Author, Speaker, Podcaster, and Boutique Publisher. She is the six-time Best-Selling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why.” We dive into her story and lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse, which is where her journey and business began. We talk about the strength it takes to accept what life throws at us and how crucial it is to move forward, even after the hardest moments. As a mother, Marsha shares the emotional challenges of carrying the weight of caregiving and the importance of asking for help. Her story is one of resilience and owning her choices, and she reminds us all that vulnerability is a strength. Marsha emphasizes the importance of embracing vulnerability and sharing our stories as authors. She encourages listeners to rewrite their stories and become the version of themselves that can bring their new story to life. Takeaways The subconscious mind holds the power to reframe thoughts, stories, and limiting beliefs. Sharing vulnerable stories can lead to healing and connection with others who have similar experiences. Taking action is essential for personal growth and bringing ideas to life. Asking 'why' keeps us stuck in the past, while focusing on 'what' action steps can create change. The title of Marcia's book, 'Why? Why Not!', reflects the shift from asking why to taking action and creating change. Acceptance is key to moving forward after difficult experiences. Taking ownership of our choices empowers us to make positive changes. Mothers often feel the pressure to be the sole caregiver and struggle to ask for help. Embracing vulnerability and sharing our stories can be transformative. We have the power to rewrite our stories and become the version of ourselves that can bring our new story to life. Sound Bites "When you start to unpack that and change that story, you can step into your outspoken version of yourself" "It's about accepting and as you said, what's next? How do we move forward after this? But it's that acceptance piece that is so difficult" "Taking care of me gave me a fighting chance with what we were walking through" Marsha Vanwynsberghe is an NLP Trainer, Author, Speaker, Podcaster, and Boutique Publisher. She is the six-time Best-Selling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why.” She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse, which is where her journey and business began. Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Write Your Damn Book Mastermind, Coaching Programs, and Own Your Choices Own Your Life podcast, Marsha teaches people how to reframe and reprogram their thoughts, beliefs and stories to Become OUTSPOKEN. Marsha’s work is centered around the power of taking radical responsibility, owning your choices and through this work, helping others to share their message in the world. She believes that we are all connected through our stories and is passionate about helping others to let their authentic selves be seen so that they can build platform businesses that create massive impact through coaching, speaking, writing, podcasting or publishing.