For today’s episode, “30 Signs That Someone Isn’t Interested: Avoid Being Used or Confused,” I briefly address the viral sister Hong fiasco. I’m breaking down Natalie Lue’s brilliant list of red flags that show when someone is lukewarm, unavailable, or stringing you along. If you’ve ever found yourself making excuses, waiting for mixed signals to turn into clarity, or holding on to crumbs of attention, this episode will give you the clarity (and courage) to walk away with your self-worth intact.Natalie Lue Blog: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01 💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
For today’s episode, “Fuck Yes or No: The Dating Filter That Changes Everything,” I’m sharing a powerful concept made famous by Mark Manson, a simple yet game-changing rule: if both people aren’t a “Fuck Yes” about being with each other, it’s a no. I’ll walk you through how this mindset can save you from endless grey-area situationships, stop you from settling, and help you focus on building connections that are genuinely mutual. Mark Manson blogpost: https://markmanson.medium.com/fuck-yes-or-no-6e95a409545b📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01 💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
If you feel dating apps are a chaotic mix of hookup culture, mixed signals, and emotional whiplash, you’re not alone. Social media is overflowing with women and even men venting about how hard it is to find someone intentional about dating. Not just someone who can hold a conversation or make plans, but someone who’s actually looking for a genuine romantic connection, this one’s for you.📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Missing your ex doesn’t mean you made a mistake, it means you’re human. In this episode, we talk about why it’s normal to miss someone who wasn’t good for you, how to sit with that feeling without acting on it, and how to move forward without shaming yourself for still caring.📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
For today’s episode, titled “Signs someone is emotionally underdeveloped and why constant texting isn't as meaningful as you might think.” I share how I was able to learn that the guy I was in a situationship with was emotionally underdeveloped, and why you have to look at the whole picture when getting to know someone new, rather than focusing solely on the messaging aspect. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01 💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
In this episode titled "Why Men Decide To Ghost You When Things Are Going Well", I break down the psychology behind this frustrating pattern, with insights from dating coach Elliot Scott. If you’ve ever been blindsided after things seemed to be going great, this one’s for you.Elliot Scott: https://medium.com/@Elliotscotttext📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
In this episode of Dating in Paris, Patty sits down with one of her besties, Viktoria, to discuss dating apps, how to be properly approached in person, and to compare dating in Paris and in Vienna in 2025.📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Feel free to email me at: pattu.v01@gmail.com
How to Leave a Situationship. Four years later, I can promise you - the only way out is through. In this episode, "I spill the tea" about reconnecting with my situationship from 2020 only to learn he is still the same emotionally unavailable guy, and much more...📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Today’s episode is about the fear of quitting online dating — and whether being single forever is really the question we should be asking. We unpack the myths behind dating apps, why they profit from our pain, and how chasing love through them can leave us feeling exhausted and stuck. Shani Silver: https://medium.com/@shanisilver📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Does sleeping with someone too soon hurt your chances of a real relationship? In this episode, we dive into why making a man wait for sex helps filter out those who aren’t serious. Featuring insights from dating coach Evan Marc Katz and real-life experiences, we explore how setting boundaries can protect your heart and energy from early on. Evan Marc Katz: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Ever dealt with someone who keeps you hooked just enough but never chooses you? In this episode, we break down breadcrumbing—what it is, why people do it, and how to spot the signs early. If you've ever been left on read for days only to get a random “miss you” text, this one’s for you.Fernanda Calvo: https://shorturl.at/Zh0WL📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
In this episode of Dating Paris, I dive into the frustrating cycle of ghosting: why men do it, why they come back, and what to do when they do. I share my own experience, plus tips on setting boundaries, avoiding time-wasters, and making sure you’re not treated like an afterthought. If you’re tired of being ghosted, this one’s for you!📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Today’s topic is all about Patterns That Expose When Someone Isn’t Serious About You , how to spot the red flags, and tell if someone is just keeping you as a backup. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
On today's episode, I will be describing five signs to watch out for when you are starting to get to know someone. Licensed therapist Todd BaratzInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
In this episode, we dive into the evolution of dating in Paris—exploring what it's like in 2025 (spoiler alert: it's not as fun as you'd hope) and comparing it to the dating scene in 2018. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01 💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
This episode is a heartfelt celebration of the love story that often gets overlooked: female friendships. I share stories of the women who’ve carried me through heartbreak, existential crises, and everything in between, and also why girlfriends are true soulmates. From Marseille memories to birthday surprises, this is a reminder that the most powerful love in our lives isn’t always romantic.📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01 💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Why do men always seem to reappear after pulling back? In this episode, we break down the psychology behind why men return—whether it’s for validation, the ‘grass wasn’t greener’ realization, or just plain loneliness. If you’ve ever received a ‘hey stranger’ text out of nowhere, this one’s for you.📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
Today’s topic is all about letting go without rewriting the past — how to stop questioning whether they ever cared, avoid overthinking, and find peace after a breakup. We’ll dive into the ways we distort reality when we’re hurting and how to move forward with clarity instead of doubt.Natalie Lue Blog: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
In this episode of Dating in Paris, I break down one of the most common (and frustrating) excuses in dating: “I’m too busy.” Is he truly overwhelmed with work, or is he just not that into you? I share personal experiences, insights from dating experts, and practical tips on how to respond without chasing or overanalyzing. If you’re tired of wondering where you stand, this episode is for you! 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com
In today’s episode of Dating in Paris, I’m opening up about one of the hardest relationship lessons I’ve learned: what it’s like to date someone emotionally unavailable—and why I’ll never do it again. In this episode, I’ll share:✨ The three painful lessons I wish I had known sooner.💔 Why being “the cool, chill girl” never works.📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@pattu-v01💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com