Lights On with Carl Lentz

In this powerful episode of the Lights On podcast, Carl and Laura Lentz dive deep into some of the most challenging and relatable aspects of their journey. From navigating life in the public eye to the intricacies of rebuilding trust, their candid conversation is packed with insights and humor. 🔹 Why do people go back into ministry so quickly? Carl's take on who’s truly qualified and what it takes to heal will have you questioning everything. 🔹 Therapy Access: Laura opens up about the importance of therapy and what to do when you can’t afford it, sharing eye-opening stats about how few people actually receive help. 🔹 Triggers & Healing: As they approach four years since their most challenging season, Carl and Laura reflect on the journey. Laura’s heartfelt words—"I see your pain because I know it so well"—offer a glimpse into their commitment to healing and growth. 🔹 Marriage Moments: From funny stories about infidelity books to the real talk on handling conflict and intimacy, this episode shows the ups and downs of their marriage with raw vulnerability and a touch of levity. 🔹 Christians & Compassion: Carl discusses why Christians often "shoot their wounded" and his heart for putting the victim first, a topic that challenges the status quo of public perception. 🔹 Access to Phones: Should partners have phone access? Carl and Laura’s honest take on transparency in marriage might surprise you and even go into the FULL disclosure process they did. Don’t miss this episode—it’s an honest, raw, and hopeful look at what it means to grow through pain, rebuild trust, and prioritize what truly matters. 💬 Watch now and be encouraged! 🎧🔥   GET TIX TO MY LIVE CONVO WITH TIM ROSS IN ATLANTA THIS SATURDAY: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-basement-w-tim-ross-friends-live-tickets-1036341223497 Join our discord for community: https://discord.gg/7x2MUqvUVX Get the episodes before anyone else: https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing   MUSIC BED ID SONG: MB012ATMWFJMORU

In this powerful episode of Lights On, Ben Houston and Carl Lentz sit down for a raw and vulnerable conversation about their time at Hillsong Church. The two reflect on the highs and challenges they experienced while leading in one of the most influential church communities in the world. Carl opens up about the fallout he faced during one of the most difficult seasons of his life and how, when the dust settled, Ben was one of the only people who remained by his side. Their stories highlight friendship, loyalty, and the importance of standing by someone when life hits the hardest. With honesty and grace, Ben and Carl peel back the layers of their struggles, faith, and personal growth, providing a glimpse into moments the public never saw. Tune in to hear how these two leaders found strength in vulnerability and forged a deeper bond through adversity. This episode of Lights On promises to inspire with stories of redemption, resilience, and the kind of friendship that endures through the darkest seasons.   Chapter Markers: 0:00 - Introduction 1:22 - Guest Introduction and Context 3:50 - Adjusting to Changes, Facing the Hardest Parts, Navigating Church 15:53 - What Would Ben and Carl Do Differently? 23:47 - Ad: Download the BSIDE App - https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing 24:35 - A Son Watching the Fallout 29:32 - That Wasn't Fair Towards Ben 32:19 - You Came Anyway 34:11 - Every Story Has Many Sides, Choosing the High Road 37:58 - Ben's Burnout 50:21 - Finding Health, Finding Sanity 51:18 - What Helped Ben Clear the Cloud 55:24 - Final Remarks and Conclusion

In this powerful and thought-provoking conversation, Carl Lentz sits down with Dr. Anita Phillips to dive deep into the topics of fear, trauma, trust, and self-kindness. Together, they explore the personal and spiritual barriers that hold people back from living their full potential. From understanding the role of pain in transformation to unpacking the impact of unchecked trauma, this discussion sheds light on how to break free and find healing. Dr. Anita Phillips, a renowned therapist and faith leader, offers profound insights on how fear and trauma shape our lives, while Carl Lentz opens up about his personal journey of overcoming judgment, discovering self-kindness, and trusting God in difficult moments.   Get the BSide App today! Download & Subscribe for AD-free content, exclusive eps, live events, & community https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing

Become a BSider today: https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing   In this episode of Lights On with Carl Lentz, Carl is joined by his wife, Laura Lentz, for an open and heartfelt conversation. Together, they tackle tough questions like "Is Hillsong a cult?" and dive deep into personal challenges, including navigating trust issues in relationships. Laura & Carl answer questions like "Is my partner a sex addict, and what should I do?"   The conversation also explores overcoming triggers and how to manage them without letting them take control of your life. Despite the heavy topics, Carl and Laura share moments of laughter and hope, creating a safe and encouraging space for listeners. Tune in for an episode filled with authenticity, vulnerability, and inspiring takeaways for healing and growth.    

In this powerful conversation, Carl Lentz sits down with one of the world’s top life coaches, Jason Jaggard, to dive deep into some of the most important aspects of personal growth. They discuss the highs and lows of marriage, the complexities of relationships, and how to effectively overcome shame. Jason also shares some of the most impactful tools for self-leadership that you can start applying to your life today.   Want to catch me and Tim Ross at a LIVE SHOW? Get Tix here for 9/27 Basement Live Show https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-basement-w-tim-ross-carl-lentz-preston-morrison-live-tickets-1012855296457?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl 🔔 Subscribe for more impactful conversations #bside #bsideapp #lightsonpodcast   Don’t miss this insightful and transformative discussion! #CarlLentz #JasonJaggard #Marriage #Relationships #SelfLeadership #OvercomingShame #PersonalGrowth musicbed id MB01FT8APLEGA8F

In this powerful episode, Charlamagne Tha God and Carl Lentz sit down for a raw and honest conversation about infidelity, finding freedom, and navigating anxiety. They dive deep into their personal journeys, the mistakes they've made, and how they've found healing and growth along the way. From overcoming mental health challenges to rebuilding trust in relationships, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration for anyone on a path toward self-improvement and redemption. Don't miss this thought-provoking discussion! Want to catch me and Tim Ross at a LIVE SHOW? Get Tix here for 9/27 Basement Live Show https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-basement-w-tim-ross-carl-lentz-preston-morrison-live-tickets-1012855296457?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl 🔔 Subscribe for more impactful conversations #bside #bsideapp #lightsonpodcast

In this episode, Carl and Laura Lentz sit down with Brant Cryder for a powerful conversation about faith, family, and navigating the fashion industry. Brant opens up about how 9/11 impacted his faith, the importance of living with purpose, and maintaining integrity in a demanding career. They also dive into topics like repentance, leading with kindness, and handling controversial issues with grace. This inspiring and insightful conversation is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and humor—Lets go! Download BSide & Subscribe Today https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing     Download BSide today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/pHAUS4zDvR     Want to give financially to the BSide? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp     Download BSide today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522     Download BSide today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1

In this compelling episode of Lights On with Carl & Laura Lentz, join Carl and Laura as they sit down with Joshua Fields Millburn, the visionary behind the acclaimed Netflix documentary "Minimalism" and co-founder of The Minimalists. Together, they dive deep into the journey of facing and accepting oneself, exploring the emotional and psychological clutter that often hinders our true identity. They discuss the complexities of managing relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and how to declutter not just your physical space but your mind and spirit as well. This conversation is a powerful exploration of what it truly means to live authentically, embrace simplicity, and navigate the chaos of modern life with clarity and purpose.   Get 30% off on the B-Side app TODAY! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing • CODE: BSIDE30 at check out • until end of August     Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/pHAUS4zDvR

In this powerful and raw episode, Carl and Laura Lentz sit down with Charles Metcalf, Executive Pastor of Transformation Church, for an open and honest conversation about some of the most challenging aspects of life. Together, they dive deep into topics like suicidal ideation, the journey to finding your voice, and overcoming anxiety. With heartfelt vulnerability, they share their personal experiences, struggles, and the lessons they've learned along the way. Whether you're dealing with similar issues or just looking for inspiration and hope, this episode offers a candid look at how to navigate life's toughest moments. Don't miss this impactful discussion that could change the way you view your own challenges and opportunities for growth.   Get 30% off on the B-Side app TODAY! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing • CODE: BSIDE30 at check out • until end of August   Get help TODAY! Go to  www.betterhelp.com/bside & use code BSIDE at check out!   https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&slug=bside&utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=2687&utm_term=bside&promo_code=bside&landing_page_img=https%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FWqIkpJh.jpeg&aff_channel=podcast&discount_rate=10&discount_period=P1M&date_interval=P1M&percentage_off=10&amount=1&amount_spelled_out=one&unit=month&gor=start   Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522     Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9     Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp     Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522     Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1

In this compelling episode of the Lights On Podcast, Michael Todd and Carl Lentz sit down for an unfiltered conversation about leadership, redemption, and navigating faith in the modern world. Together, they share personal stories, insights on overcoming challenges, and their thoughts on the future of the church. Whether you're looking for inspiration, wisdom, or a fresh perspective, this episode is packed with powerful moments you won't want to miss. Tune in and join the conversation!   Get 30% off on the B-Side app TODAY! • CODE: BSIDE30 • until end of August   Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522     Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9     Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp     Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522     Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Music: we-want-it-all-feat-omega-sparx-instrumental-txsh-musicbed MUSIC BED SYNC ID: MB01GSIUC9FYBJG

🔦 Lights On With Carl Lentz: Get Vulnerable with Carl & Laura Lentz! 🔦 In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of "Lights On," Carl Lentz sits down with his wife, Laura Lentz, to share an intimate look into their personal journey of healing and growth. Carl opens up about his experiences and the challenges he faced while being overly paced in life and ministry. Together, they reflect on the pressures that come with a high-profile life and the impact it had on their relationship. Laura joins Carl in a candid conversation about their renewed bond, the steps they've taken to rebuild their relationship, and the importance of slowing down to truly heal. This episode is a testament to the power of resilience, love, and the commitment to personal and mutual growth. Join Carl and Laura as they offer valuable insights and encouragement to those navigating similar paths, emphasizing that no matter how difficult the journey, healing and renewal are possible with faith and determination.   Get 30% off on the B-Side app TODAY! • CODE: BSIDE30 • until end of August Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9 Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1        

🔦 Lights On With Carl Lentz: Get Vulnerable with Carl & Laura Lentz! 🔦 Join Carl and Laura Lentz as they dive deep into the questions you've been asking! In this special episode, they open up about their journey and share candid insights on stepping into new opportunities, navigating tough decisions, and handling temptation. 🌟 How do you step out into something new? 🌟 When do you know to stay or when to go? 🌟 Tips on handling temptation and staying grounded in faith.   Don't miss this intimate conversation that promises to inspire and encourage. Get exclusive early access to the episode by downloading the B-Side app and subscribing to our platform! Subscribe now and turn your Lights On with Carl Lentz! 🎧 #LightsOn #CarlLentz #BSideApp #PodcastInterview #DeepConversations #bside #bsideapp #carllentz #lauralentz   Chapter Markers 0:00 - Introduction 1:03 - Making an Impact and What Lies Ahead 3:55 - Discoveries Made From Doing the Podcast 6:56 - The Issue of Cussing in the Family 11:07 - What Carl and Laura do for Work Now 13:11 - Something The Lentz's Enjoy About Their Life Now 15:13 - The S*x Conversation with Their Kids 19:05 - Download the BSIDE App 19:51 - Practical Things Carl and Laura Have Done to Rebuild Trust 25:50 - Feeling Insecure, Getting Defensive, and Staying or Leaving 33:02 - Reaching Out to the Other Woman 35:03 - How Carl Deals with Temptation Now 38:32 - What to do Instead of Weaponizing 41:27 - Combating Temptation 43:14 - The Bare Minimum or the Full Details? 46:00 - How to Practically Regulate After Trauma 48:42 - What The Lentz's do for Fun 50:27 - Did Laura Think About Leaving? 52:37 - The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Trauma 53:35 - Signs of Healing: How do you Know if you're Healing? 56:25 - Narcissism and its Traits 59:58 - Church Leaders: Why They Didn't Speak Publicly About What Happened 1:02:22 - Discovery: Getting Healthy is Hard   MUSIC BED SYNC ID: MB01N33CJNEAZPO

In this episode, Carl Lentz dives into some of the most pressing issues faced by parents of teenagers today. The discussion covers: Parents with Teens: Understanding the unique challenges and dynamics of raising teenagers in the modern world. Teen Suicide and Eating Disorders: Shedding light on these critical issues, providing insights, and offering support to parents dealing with these serious concerns. How to Reach Your Teens: Practical advice and strategies to foster open communication and build strong, trusting relationships with your teens. How to Stay Motivated as a Parent: Tips and encouragement for parents to stay resilient and motivated, even during tough times. Join Carl Lentz as he brings compassion, expertise, and valuable advice to help parents navigate the complex journey of raising teenagers.   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp   Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-...   Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/de...   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp

In this raw and revealing episode, Carl and Laura Lentz, joined by their daughters Charlie and Ava, have a heartfelt conversation about healing and family resilience. Carl opens up about his journey to true healing, and the Lentz family discusses the struggles and pain they faced behind the scenes during their scandal. In an honest and surprising moment, Charlie and Ava ask their parents about their sex life after healing, leading to an insightful and open dialogue. This episode dives deep into the complexities of family, love, and recovery, offering a unique perspective on overcoming adversity. 0:00 - Introduction and Context 1:51 - The Lentz's Journey as a Family: The Girls' Perspective 4:14 - Getting to a Place of Forgiveness 8:22 - The Biggest Party in Florida 10:40 - Communicating After the Trauma, How Charlie Found Out 16:40 - Download the BSIDE App 17:26 - Say Goodbye 20:13 - Laura and Carl: Figuring out the Best Way for the Kids 23:37 - The Importance of Being Honest 26:20 - How Ava Found Out 30:13 - What Ava And Charlie Found Out About Laura 31:54 - Starting Over: When to Trust Again 34:04 - Intimacy and Trauma 38:42 - What Ava And Charlie Found Out About Laura 41:53 - Powerful Honesty, and Fighting Frustration 45:05 - What Ava Thinks of Marriage Now 47:02 - We Know too Much 49:36 - What Charlie Thinks of Marriage Now 51:40 - Vulnerability, Accountability and Honesty

Find Dr. Amen https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/?hl=en   In this enlightening conversation, Carl Lentz sits down with renowned psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen. Carl is a patient of Dr. Amen, & he dives deep to explore crucial topics related to mental and physical well-being. They dive deep into: Addiction: Understanding the roots of addiction and effective ways to overcome it. Creating a Healthy Brain: Tips and strategies to nurture and maintain a healthy brain. Avoiding Marijuana Consumption: Insights into the effects of marijuana on the brain and why avoiding it can be beneficial. And Much More: Additional advice and wisdom on living a healthier, more balanced life. Dr. Amen, with his vast expertise in brain health, provides invaluable guidance and practical tips that can transform your approach to mental wellness.   Whether you're struggling with addiction, looking to enhance your brain health, or curious about the impact of marijuana, this conversation is packed with actionable advice and thought-provoking insights.   Don’t miss this chance to learn from two influential voices on how to lead a healthier, more fulfilling life.   Start your 7 day trial on the B-Side App today! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp   Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9   Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522   Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp

Carl & Laura Lentz have a vulnerable conversation with the therapist who walked with Carl over the last 4 years since his infidelity & life transition from Hillsong. Prepare your hearts & minds- this one is going to help a lot of people!   Start your 7 day trial on the B-Side App today! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9 Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp

It's time to turn the lights on. Welcome to episode 4! Laura Lentz has a hard conversation with Carl Lentz. SEX, TRUST, SALVATION, & more...Let us know how this speaks to you! Start your 7 day trial on the B-Side App today! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9 Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1 Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp

It's time to turn the lights on. Episode 3 is loading!!! The last four years have been a whirlwind of heartbreak, devastation, healing, & restoration. I, Carl Lentz, am beyond excited to have a space where we can all turn on the lights & address our darkness. Thank you for joining us for episode 3. Let us know how this portion of the story speaks to you. We will address how we navigated parenting during this fragile time, how our children opened up about their perspective over the past few years, and more. Start your 7-day trial on the B-Side App today! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/pRKTgv7A3B Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-... Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/de... Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp

It's time to turn the lights on. Welcome to episode 2!!! The last four years have been a whirlwind of heartbreak, devastation, healing, & restoration. I, Carl Lentz, am beyond excited to have a space where we can all turn on the lights & address our darkness. Join me for episode 2- let me know how it speaks to you. We will be addressing all things Rehab, hidden secrets, healing, experience with Hillsong, & more.. Start your 7 day trial on the B-Side App today! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9 Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp

After 4 years, Carl & Laura Lentz are ready to open up to the world.   Welcome to Lights On with Carl Lentz. We will deep dive into the dark season that how now turned to light for the Lentz'. This episode is a no-filter, raw & honest conversation to bring hope, & provide a space for safety. Join us, and let's turn on the lights together. Start your 7 day trial on the B-Side App today! https://www.bsideapp.com/pricing Join our Discord: https://discord.gg/twESwgg9 Download B-Side today on Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Download B-Side today on Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US&pli=1   Want to give financially to the B-Side? https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp