Filters are not always bad, if you already understand the cultural background or likes and dislikes of the person you are to meet, we can use this to get personal with them, make the opposite person comfortable early on in the conversation.So do listen to filters and adore them as they are part of that person , and use it to know the person better
Energy is the churning force that connects deeply with information that the body is sharing and uses this force to endorse wellness to the conversation.How to use this energy to your benefit is the question we need to answer..
One thing that is very important and a basic hygiene to be a good listener is to have that genuine intent of a listener.