Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood

(Video episode available on Spotify and YouTube)Ig: / elaminalexandra13  ⁠⁠  / literallymylifemgtgpodcast  ⁠Tiktok: ⁠  / chicagobarbie...⁠ask   Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... My Life: The Newsletter: ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...This week, I’m breaking down the toxic fairy tale of Carrie and Mr. Big and why situationships—like the one I’ve been navigating—are the worst thing for our hearts (and our confidence). We’re talking about:The Carrie Bradshaw effect and why she was never the blueprint.How to break the cycle of mixed signals and half-love.The emotional rollercoaster of being “almost” chosen.Your Ask Alex questions on love, dating, and knowing when to walk away.If you’ve ever been caught up in a “what are we?” situationship or wondered if you were asking for too much (you’re not!), this episode is your sign to put your crown back on.

(Video episode available on Spotify and YouTube)Ig:   / elaminalexandra13    / literallymylifemgtgpodcast  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chicagobarbie...Ask Alex form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA...Literally My Life: The Newsletter: https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...In this episode of "Literally My Life," Alexandra dives into the transformative power of internal glow ups versus the allure of external changes. From personal anecdotes about choosing silence over clapbacks to the wisdom of journaling and prayer, she explores how true transformation begins within. Discover why the best glow-ups come from healing eras, not just hair salons, and how embracing your emotions can lead to lasting peace. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on growth, resilience, and the journey to self-discovery.

(Video Episode available on Spotify and Youtube)IG: https://www.instagram.com/elaminalexandra13/https://www.instagram.com/literallymylifemgtgpodcast/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chicagobarbiepresents?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAsk Alex form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf7wfs0VrPq3T1yZP-TKAKA8ZhWM57bygSvuvY9G2TH8qsYhA/viewform?usp=sf_linkLiterally My Life: The Newsletter: https://substack.com/@alexelaminchicagobarbieIn the Season 3 premiere of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m opening up about what it means to chase your dreams while quietly healing from heartbreak — the kind that leaves you crying in nail salons and still showing up like nothing’s wrong.We’re talking about being seen as a person instead of a possession, choosing boundaries over breadcrumbs, and finding strength in softness.This isn’t about perfection. It’s about permission — to feel, to grow, to glow.Tune in for an honest convo on career, heartbreak, and the rebirth of girlhood.💿 New era. New episode. Same girl, but different.

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymy... ⁠⁠   / literallymylifemgtgask   Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...This episode is so close to my heart. I sat down with Aashyrah and Bree to talk about everything we wish we knew growing up—girlhood, confidence, friendships, heartbreak, and just becoming that girl in our own way. If I could write a letter to my younger self or speak to every little sis out there trying to figure it all out… this would be it. We laughed, got vulnerable, and kept it all the way real. I hope you feel seen and heard after listening. You’re never alone in this.

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)VOTE FOR AASHYRAH HERE: https://danceicon.org/2025/aashyrah-bennett?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZinohRsIakKqxa21zKtglCLf2z-fkgqprj7TnJYuyKvfMGemoLbyZD4k8_aem_3y5qPoLfEBAn7RqH2iaSowAashyrah"s YT: https://youtube.com/@aashyrahsanaa?si=tGQ1wKzyqyHZJ8U_Aashyrah's IG: https://www.instagram.com/aashyrahsanaa?igsh=MTU2Z2Fta28wOG52ZA==Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymy... ⁠⁠   / literallymylifemgtgask   Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...From being diagnosed with Erb’s Palsy as a child to becoming a dancer, YouTuber, and a finalist for Ciara’s music video, Aashyrah is proof that no obstacle can stop you when you’re determined to win. In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, she opens up about her inspiring journey, the challenges she’s faced, and how she’s pushing past every barrier to chase her dreams.But success doesn’t come without haters. We also dive deep into the mean girl epidemic, fake friendships, jealousy, and how to know when it’s time to walk away from toxic people. Whether it’s shade from so-called friends or silent competition, we’re breaking it ALL down.🔥 PLUS! We need your help to get Aashyrah into Ciara’s music video! Vote for her, send us proof, and we’ll give you a special shoutout on the pod! 💖

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymy... ⁠⁠   / literallymylifemgtgask   Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...Let’s talk about it ALL—birth control, periods, sex for the first time, boys, hygiene, and the things nobody prepared us for! In this episode, I’m joined by my best friend of seven years, Skyy, for a raw, unfiltered convo about the girlhood topics we had to figure out on our own. We’re breaking down everything from the best birth control options to dealing with period horror stories, setting boundaries with boys, and keeping it fresh (yes, we’re talking hygiene too!). Plus, I’m answering your Ask Alex questions with my signature big-sister advice. No shame, no judgment—just the real talk you need! 💖✨ Have a question or story to share? DM me for a chance to be featured in Part 2! 🎧

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymylifemgtgpodcast/?locale=no&hl=enTiktok: ⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@literallymylifemgtgAsk Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO...Amazon Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally...Newsletter: ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of choosing silence over reaction and faith over worry. Discover how not reacting to the people and situations around you can be a powerful form of emotional control. We also explore the concept that you can either pray or worry, but you can’t do both at the same time. Tune in for practical insights on cultivating inner peace, letting go of stress, and embracing a mindset that empowers you to stay calm in the face of life’s challenges.

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠  / ⁠⁠  Tiktok: ⁠⁠  / literallymylifemgtg⁠⁠  Ask Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO...Amazon Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally...So many of us struggle with surrendering our lives completely to God—myself included. In this episode, I open up about my journey with control, trust issues, and the fear of feeling powerless. I’ve battled mental health struggles and addiction, but I’m learning that the key to true healing isn’t holding on tighter—it’s letting go and giving it all to God.We’ll talk about why surrendering feels so hard, how to release the guilt and shame that keep us stuck, and what happens when we finally leave our problems at the foot of the cross. I’ll also answer Ask Alex questions from you all and end with an inspiring message about Abraham’s unshakable faith—because if he could trust God with his greatest blessing, why can’t we?It’s time to stop fighting battles that were never ours to begin with. God’s plan is always greater than ours—so why are we still holding on?

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠  / ⁠⁠  Tiktok: ⁠⁠  / literallymylifemgtg⁠⁠  Ask Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO...Amazon Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally...Newsletter: ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...As Valentine’s Day approaches, love is in the air—but what doesreal love actually look like? In this deeply personal episode, I break downCiara’s Prayer lyric by lyric, using it as a guide to explore healing from heartbreak, overcoming loneliness, and redefining love through faith.Right now, I’m struggling—with addiction, with a love that’s long gone, and with the shame that’s keeping me from running back to God. But just like Ciara prayed for a love that was patient, kind, and godly, I know I need to pray for the same—not just in relationships, but in how I love myself.We’ll talk about:💔 Finding purpose in pain and trusting God when love has left you broken.🙌 Learning to wait for the love you deserve instead of settling for less.👑 Reclaiming your worth—because you are a queen, a warrior, and a child of God.🙏 A powerful prayer for healing, surrender, and stepping back into faith.And of course, I’ll be answering yourAsk Alex questions about love, self-worth, and relationships. If you’ve ever felt lost, lonely, or unworthy of real love, this episode is for you.✨Because love isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the person who’s ready to receive it. ✨Tune in now. 🎙💖

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/literallymylifemgtgpodcast/⁠⁠Tiktok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@literallymylifemgtg⁠⁠ Ask Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO-T5HHczeLZcvm9erJWLUayUY8UEW_rAH8OIRPiY/edit?pli=1#responses⁠ Amazon Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literallymylifemgtg?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_aipsfshop_KCQ7V560ZZMG7LH89MYX&language=en_US⁠ Newsletter: ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchicagobarbie⁠ In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m diving deep into what it means to let go of negativity and focus on what truly matters. Forget the haters at school—I’m all about prioritizing my relationship with God, nurturing my inner circle, and gaining fresh perspective as I grow my social platforms. Join me as I share how shifting my focus to self-worth, faith, and purpose is transforming my mindset and helping me rise above the noise. If you’re ready to stop worrying about what others think and start building a life you love, this episode is for you!

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY AND YOUTUBE) Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/literallymylifemgtgpodcast/⁠Tiktok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@literallymylifemgtg⁠ Ask Alex form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO-T5HHczeLZcvm9erJWLUayUY8UEW_rAH8OIRPiY/edit?pli=1#responses Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/literallymylifemgtg?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_aipsfshop_KCQ7V560ZZMG7LH89MYX&language=en_US We’re back, girlies! After a two-week break, I’m excited to bring you this special video episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood. Let’s talk about letting go. In this episode, I’m getting real and personal about the things I’m releasing in 2025—like the shame that’s held me back, the lust that’s distracted me, and the anxiety that’s weighed on my spirit. I’m also tackling overconsumption, whether it’s too much shopping, too much scrolling, or just doing too much, period. This is about creating space for peace, purpose, and joy. I’ll share the lessons I’ve learned, practical tips for letting go, and how we can all step into 2025 feeling lighter and more aligned. It’s raw, it’s unfiltered, and it’s the reset you didn’t know you needed. Grab your journal, tune in, and let’s grow together!

In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m sharing a full update on where I’ve been and what’s been happening in my life since my last episode. From my personal transformation and getting baptized to the exciting rebrand of the podcast, we’re covering it all. I’ll be reflecting on how I’m finding my balance between sharing my life in the public eye and keeping parts of me sacred. It’s no secret that living as an influencer or public figure can feel like your personal life is for sale, but how do we protect our privacy while remaining authentic? In today’s Barbie’s Debate, I’m diving deep into this question—can you live your truth publicly without feeling like you’re losing yourself in the process? I’ll share my thoughts on why privacy is just as important as transparency and how I’m learning to navigate the fine line between the two. We’ll also discuss some hot topics from the world of sports, especially the Chicago Bulls’ season opener and local high school football playoffs. Then, we’re getting into girlhood empowerment, faith, and how the lessons we’re learning can shape our futures. As always, I’m bringing you some listener questions in Ask Alex and exploring everything from self-love to career dreams. Glory be to God for guiding me through this journey—join me as we talk about faith, growth, and how we can all live boldly and authentically in a world that loves to watch. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@literallymylifemgtg?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Instagram: Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood (@literallymylifemgtgpodcast) • Instagram photos and videos Ask Alex: Ask Alex anonymous "Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood" newsletter: https://substack.com/@alexelaminchicagobarbie Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/literallymylifemgtg?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_aipsfshop_KCQ7V560ZZMG7LH89MYX&language=en_US

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ ⁠ / literallymy...⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠ / literallymylifemgtgask ⁠ Alex form: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica..⁠.Today’s episode is super special because I’m officially kicking off my birthday series: 17 Things I Wish I Knew at 17. In Part 1, I’m getting real about the biggest lessons I’ve learned this year — from faith, friendships, and healing, to finding my worth and protecting my peace. This is truly everything I wish someone had told me before stepping into this next chapter of my life. Grab a coffee, get cozy, and let’s have some real girl talk. 💌

In this episode, we dive into the exciting and challenging experience of returning to in-person school after a long period of virtual learning. I share my personal journey of adjusting back to physical classrooms, reconnecting with friends, and navigating the new social dynamics of senior year. Plus, I give you an inside look at my campaign for senior class treasurer—why I’m running, what I hope to accomplish, and how the in-person environment is helping me connect with classmates face-to-face. Tune in for tips on balancing academics with extracurriculars, insights into my campaign strategy, and answers to listener questions about handling the transition back to school life. Whether you're also navigating a return to in-person learning or just curious about my campaign, this episode is full of relatable moments and inspiration!

In this episode of "Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood," we dive into the complex dynamics of big friend groups and explore why they often don't work out. Drawing from personal experiences, including the story of my old friend's old friend group, I discuss the common issues that arise in large social circles, such as communication breakdowns, clashing personalities, jealousy, competition, and the struggle to form deep, meaningful connections.I share my decision to prioritize real friends over being part of a large group and highlight the benefits of having a smaller, closer-knit circle of friends. You'll learn how to identify true friends who are consistent, honest, supportive, and positively influential in your life.I also opened up about a recent conflict with a long-time friend, revealing how this experience helped me realize the importance of authentic friendships. Moving forward, I discuss my approach to maintaining and nurturing these relationships and encourage listeners to evaluate their own friendships and prioritize quality over quantity.Tune in to hear personal stories, valuable tips, and heartfelt reflections on the importance of genuine connections. Plus, engage with the episode by sharing your own experiences with big friend groups and identifying true friends. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share the podcast, and stay tuned for exciting upcoming content!

In this transformative episode of "Literally My Life: My Guide To Girlhood," I share my journey of letting go of people pleasing, living up to others' expectations, and not prioritizing my mental health. I'll also discuss my recent decision to seek professional mental health support and how a family reunion in Atlanta played a pivotal role in my journey. This episode is about embracing change, prioritizing self-care, and taking control of your own happiness.

In this episode, we tackle the universal struggle of caring too much about what others think. We'll explore why we care so much, how it affects our lives, and practical steps to build confidence and self-acceptance. This episode is about empowering you to live authentically and embrace your true self. Remember to follow @literallymylifemgtg on Instagram and Tiktok to stay updated on all things My Guide To Girlhood.

While filming “Get To Know Me” I promised to be more vulnerable and to talk a little bit more about my personal life. Well, here am I venting about everything from self tans to senior year. Follow @literallymylifemgtg on instagram!

I’ve been doing this podcast for 17 weeks now and have yet to talk about myself or why I started this podcast. In this episode, I talk about my hobbies, professional journey, and goals for the podcast.

This episode, based on the famous movie title, talks a lot about my personal dating rules that I personally believe all women should follow.