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Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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1Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.” But these stories aren’t true. And it’s so important to reframe these moments so we don’t get swept up in our frustration. In today’s episode, I share the 10 best pieces of advice I’ve gathered over the years to help you get over your dating disappointment . . . and give you hope. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice? Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain? All of this may help. Maybe. It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following the behavior of the people around us can make us feel even worse. So. . . let’s pause. Take a breath. Get our s**t together again. It’s nearly 2025. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around. But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins. Here’s what you need to know to finally move on. . . --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating strategy when you feel like your on a timeline because of your biological clock. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ▼ Connect with Andre ▼ Know Thyself Podcast → https://www.knowthyself.one/ Youtube → @Andreduqum Instagram → @andreduqum
What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new episode, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if you need help convincing your heart as well as your head, these steps will give you the courage you need to do it. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out? Yep, it’s totally normal. Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact situation. It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem or to think you somehow have to figure out what’s going on in their head and convince them to make the right choice. Instead, I want you to do this... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
I had so many amazing conversations while promoting my new book "Love Life" in 2024, and this month I want to share some clips from a few of my favorites with you. In this conversation, I talk to entrepreneur and best selling author Ed Mylett (@EdMylett) about the model for REAL self-love (and why it's so difficult), how to achieve both outer confidence and deep inner confidence, exercising real self-care on your worst days, how stop comparing yourself with others, and more! ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Check out Ed's podcast "The Ed Mylett Show"
Have you ever been in a one-sided relationship? Where you are always giving more and the other person takes your effort for granted? And looking back, has this pattern always existed? In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of what’s really going on, and how you can connect to your value and speak your needs. Whether you’re struggling with insecurity or just looking to get out of the never-ending giving rut, this is for you. ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?” Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out. Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s video is a must-watch. I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now. Be sure to let me know which one you try first in the comments! --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
In this special episode, as we come into the final month of the year, I want to sit down and share some of my personal thoughts and lessons from 2024. Whatever challenges or struggles you've gone through this year, I hope this encourages you do your own reflection of the last 12 months and gives you a few helpful steps you can take into 2025. Take this moment now and give yourself the gift of some time spent looking back at what takeaways you can learn from your own story. And as always, be kind to yourself. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
Why does it feel nearly impossible to leave a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in a narcissistic relationship (whether it be romantic, a friendship, or a family member) you know how hard it is to leave. In today's episode, I dive into this subject . . . and how to avoid the common traps that often keep us stuck in these toxic dynamics. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze every message they sent with your friends. You’d worry when they went silent for several hours, constantly checking your phone, looking for signs of hope. Suddenly, you become a person you weren’t before: needy, anxious, possessive—and you can feel that energy making you more and more helpless. I know what this is like, and trust me: if you ever want to build a great relationship without playing games, you need to break out of this mindset fast. Here’s how you change it... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response). In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find the balance between meeting enough people to give yourself options but also investing in the right person when they come along. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com -- Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Follow Audrey @theaudreyhussey
How do you find out where you really stand with someone? It's often hard figuring out how someone else sees your relationship potential, and finding the answer early on can save you a lot of time and unnecessary heartbreak. In today’s episode, I share 6 ways to know if someone is serious about you, no matter which stage of dating you’re in. By the end, you’ll know how to separate genuine intention for commitment from mere attention. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break? You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them? In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to. If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need... I’d really appreciate it if you would share this video with as many people you care about as possible. I believe that if a video like this was given to all of us at the beginning of adulthood, it would save us all years of unnecessary suffering. ----- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being unreasonable, or are you? In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the nuances of having friendships with your ex, when to see it as a problem, and how to have honest conversations that set your boundaries and express your feelings to your partner. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do anything right in their eyes. And if they break up with you? It only leaves you with more confusion. So what’s the right move in this situation? Should we stand up to them? Try to convince them with facts? This is just one of the 7 reasons why you can never expect to get true closure from a narcissist—and what you can do to give closure to yourself—that I share in today’s new episode. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t learned to manage. “But doesn’t love solve everything?” Well, not exactly. What often happens is that these toxic patterns slowly undermine every chance at love we find (or at least make the search much harder than it needs to be). In this week’s Rewind episode, I want to share the three most common behaviors that can scare someone off before they have a chance to truly fall for you. Avoid these, and you’ll find it much easier to let someone see your best qualities and build a healthy, happy relationship. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
How do you stop obsessing over someone you’ve recently started dating? When someone seems to tick all our boxes, it can be hard to NOT become flooded with thoughts of a possible future together. We anxiously wait for their text. We put them on a pedestal . . . and as a result, potentially push them away. In this week’s episode, I share 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly. By following these steps, you’ll be able to keep your value and actually enjoy dating instead of getting stuck in anxiety. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them. We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation. We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that seems like too much to ask. Or is it? I've seen people make this way more complicated than it needs to be, so let’s simplify things. If you're tired of texting endlessly and want to create a real connection through conversation, here are 3 killer techniques to get them to pick up the phone and call you... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
Today it's my pleasure to sit down with the excellent Oliver Burkeman (@oliverburkeman), author of the new book "Meditation for Mortals", which I've found myself recommending to all my friends and family as his work has hugely influential on me in recent years. We sit down to discuss: - Why "settling" in relationships is necessary - How to find your Life Task - How to get over perfectionism - The power of intuition vs. reason - Being more present in your life + acceptance - Giving up on the illusion of "arriving" - How to get through difficult things, anxiety, and deal with your flaws And more! ►► Grab a copy of Oliver's wonderful new book Meditation for Mortals ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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Dear Audrey, dear Matthew, What a pleasure to listen to this new episode of your podcast. Thank you very much for your inspiring words, your view of telling another person about an ultimatum was new for me and I am thinking a lot about it. Yes, you want another person to choose you without the pressure of an ultimatum, this has a totally different quality and you know the other one is taking the new relationship serious, without having an advantage of marriage and affaire. KR from Germany
that was amazing Matt. could totally identify with her. Now I feel much better that I made my boundaries clear and broke up with the one who was not willing to change his behavior
I’m loving ‘Love Life with Matthew Hussey’! His insights are incredibly refreshing and practical. Matthew’s advice is always on point, and I appreciate how he addresses both the emotional and practical aspects of relationships. https://smartlink.ausha.co/custom-packaging-texas/eco-friendly-custom-packaging-solutions
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I agree sometimes there are some cases that they fight and do surprising things to have us and as soon as we lower our guard, they disappear and say that the dream of being with you is much better than reality. At these times if we aren't stable mentally, we think, does our true self push people away? 😑
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Funny. I'm listening to this on 4th May 😂
Hi Mathew. Thanks for all the help you offer to women.Your advice and insights have been eye-opening and life-changing for me. Recently I asked the guy I had been dating for a month to prove that he was legally divorced. I said it on the phone, though! Not very tactful, I know. My friend had checked his background and she had found out his divorce hadn't been documented. When I insisted, he broke up with me angrily. I still miss him and wonder if I made a mistake. What do you think?
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Clear, logical, practical, and healthy advice. I think this episode is quite valuable.
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