Love Life With Matthew Hussey

There are breakups that hurt . . . and then there are the ones that feel like they’re splitting your life in two. In this episode, the Love Life Podcast team unpacks the kind of pain that’s so shocking and overwhelming that you can barely make sense of it—the heartbreak that leaves you questioning everything you thought was real. If you’ve ever been blindsided by a breakup, this conversation is for you. You’ll learn what you can do when the pain feels unbearable and what your greatest power can be right now. Whether you want to know how to steady yourself, who to trust with your heart, or how to begin rebuilding, this episode will help you find your footing again.---►► A gift for Love Life Podcast listeners: Get 14 days of FREE access to the Love Life coaching program and explore masterclasses, live coaching, real tools (including Matthew AI, for those moments when you can’t stop spiraling), and a community that can help you heal: LoveLifeClub.com►► Our go-to holiday gift for anyone we love: Check out Cozy Earth’s unbelievably soft bamboo pajamas and the blanket Matthew and Audrey keep on their sofa year-round. Use code LOVELIFE for up to 40% off at CozyEarth.com before December 12 (or 20% off anytime)! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over someone who barely knows you exist, or clinging to a connection that’s all spark but no substance, this video with Lisa Bilyeu is going to hit home. In it, I break down the four levels of attraction . . . and reveal which ones matter most.You’ll learn how to stop overinvesting in situations that aren’t going anywhere, how to recognize when you’re confusing impact with character, and how to stop grieving someone who was never your person to begin with. If you’re done wasting time and ready to build something real, don’t miss this.---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE: GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder.---►► Every Friday, Matthew Hussey writes a personal letter to help you strengthen the three most important relationships in your life—with others, with yourself, and with life itself. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the first “fight” in a new relationship isn’t a red flag at all? Maybe it’s your first real chance to see how you both show up when things get real . . . and whether you can grow together on the other side of it. This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew breaks down the early conflicts most of us dread, why attachment styles hijack our reactions, and how a moment that feels like the end of chemistry can be the beginning of something deeper.You’ll walk away with tools for arguing in ways that build respect and actually bring you closer. If you’re dating, in a relationship, or hoping to be one day . . . today’s podcast may be your new secret weapon.---►► Last chance to grab our Black Friday special: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, your personal coach for navigating love and relationships (seriously, this is like having Matthew Hussey in your pocket 24/7!) Sign up now at Askmh.com►► Hunker down in your coziest PJs with a warm, snuggly blanket. Treat yourself and your loved ones by going to cozyearth.com and use code LOVELIFE for 40% off before December 12. Your holiday list: complete. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brave enough to date? Then you’ve almost definitely run into ghosting, inconsistency, or someone who disappears then pops back like nothing happened. It hurts the most when hope runs low, and love feels like a race everyone else got a head start in.The issue? We obsess over “Do they like me?” when the real power question is “Do they respect me?” Standards aren’t just defense—they’re offense. Delivered with warmth and a bit of humor, they spark attraction instead of shutting it down. And in this episode, you’ll learn how to do just that.---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’ve been seeing someone for months. They give you attention, consistency, and intimacy—but when it comes to commitment, they always have a reason why “now isn’t the right time.” Sound familiar?In this episode, Matthew Hussey coaches a listener through one of the hardest situations in dating: when someone gives you just enough to keep you hooked, but never enough to move things forward. You’ll learn how to separate reasons from reality, protect your time and energy, and finally stop waiting for someone who isn’t ready to say yes to you.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship that’s “almost” something real, this conversation will give you the clarity—and confidence—to move forward without regret.---►► Unlock the secrets to transforming your dating life with our free "Casual to Committed" training. Discover practical strategies to move from casual encounters to meaningful relationships. Don't wait—start your journey to commitment today at GetCommitment.com ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, Matthew and Producer David dig into a big question: Is stoicism helping modern relationships . . . or shutting them down? They unpack how the pressure to stay “strong” can make men harder on themselves for having emotions, why vulnerability creates deeper connection, and how anxious impulses in early dating can quietly sabotage attraction. They also break down what helps couples grow together instead of drifting apart, and how sharing what you want—without turning it into a demand—can actually bring you closer.----►► Get 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI with Matthew’s Black Friday offer! Ask unlimited dating and relationship questions, any time of day. Sign up at AskMH.com►► Join the waitlist for Sync, Matthew’s AI-supported matchmaking app for intentional daters, at TalkToSync.com►► Comfort that lasts well beyond the holidays: Treat yourself and your loved ones by going to cozyearth.com and using the code LOVELIFE for 40% off before December 12. Holiday shopping, sorted. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most people think attraction is all about chemistry or confidence, but they overlook one of the simplest tools we have: a well-placed compliment. One genuine line, said at the right moment, can dissolve tension, spark a real connection, and make someone feel truly noticed in a way they haven’t in a long time.In this episode, I’m talking about why compliments hit so deeply—especially for men—and how they can completely change the way someone experiences you. If you’ve ever wondered what actually sticks with someone or how to close the gap with a person you like, this is going to give you a totally new way of thinking about attraction.---►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again. Try Matthew AI for FREE at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re deep in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you’re fighting for something worth saving—or holding on to something that’s slowly breaking you down.In this episode, Matthew shares 3 powerful questions that will help you see your relationship more clearly and know whether it’s time to stay or walk away. You’ll also learn the “dark pairing” traits that quietly erode your confidence and happiness over time—and how to spot them before it’s too late.If you’ve ever felt stuck in the fog of confusion, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to make the right choice for your peace of mind and self-respect.---►► Matthew Hussey’s free Three Relationships newsletter isn’t just about dating—it’s about creating a life you love. Get practical advice and heartfelt wisdom delivered to your inbox every Friday. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if tiny habits could completely change your love life? In this week’s Love Life Podcast, we break down the small, everyday actions that quietly create more confidence, more connection, and way more opportunity. You’ll learn about “micro missions” that can lead to new friendships, relationships, or simply a more fulfilling day, plus other simple shifts that make dating feel lighter and more intentional. We also answer a Love Life Line question about knowing when a relationship is genuinely right for you, followed by a new round of “Steve’s Sleeves” on the bad habits that can hold us back. ---►► Get access to my Black Friday special TODAY: 14 days of FREE access to Matthew AI, where you can get your specific dating and relationship questions answered 24/7! Sign up now at AskMH.com►► Join the waitlist for Sync, our AI-driven matchmaking app for intentional daters, at TalkToSync.com ►► For Love Life listeners, Cure is offering 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting curehydration.com/LOVELIFE and using promo code LOVELIFE at checkout! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week’s episode looks at why even highly intuitive people can miss the signs of a partner living a double life. I share the story of a woman who spent 17 years in a marriage without suspecting a thing—not because she wasn’t perceptive, but because love can dull the very instincts meant to protect us.I also break down the psychological trapdoors that make us overlook what’s right in front of us. The goal isn’t to make you suspicious; it’s to help you trust those moments of quiet discomfort instead of dismissing them. If something has ever felt “off,” this video will help you understand why.---►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question Now at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever feel like you’re stuck dating people who never fully show up?Maybe they’re avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on, hoping things will change.In this episode, Matthew unpacks why we get attached to people who can’t give us what we need and how to break free from that pattern for good. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your self-worth, spot emotional unavailability early, and start saying “no” faster—so you can finally say “yes” to something real.---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed, for FREE at GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is love really easier to find in Chicago than in Los Angeles? Or is it all in how you show up? In this week’s all-new Love Life episode, we unpack the myths and realities of dating in different cities—and what your zip code might (or might not) have to do with your love life.Plus, we tackle a Love Life Line question from a listener in her 50s who’s navigating the tricky waters of dating men who prefer much younger partners. Is this a red flag, or should she keep an open mind?---►► If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving more than you’re getting, this free Masterclass is for you. Discover how to turn something casual into something real at getcommitment.com  ►► Give the gift of comfort that lasts well beyond the holidays. Head to cozyearth.com and use code LOVELIFE to get 40% off before December 12 . . . the perfect time for holiday shopping! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode tackles a topic that’s as raw as it is real: “I no longer want to hear dating advice from conventionally attractive people.”That line, from a recent British Vogue article, struck a chord with many people, and for good reason. So much dating advice comes from people who’ve never had to face what it’s like to be overlooked or rejected again and again. When you’ve never had to climb from the bottom of the mountain, “just be confident” isn’t advice . . . it’s a reminder of how far the gap really is.This week, we’ll explore what dating looks like when the playing field isn’t level, and how rejection shapes our self-worth. It’s not about bitterness—it’s about honesty, empathy, and finding strength in our own story.---►► Find Your Person WITHOUT Having to Go Through All the Wrong People to Get There. Save Your Spot in My Free 60-Minute Training, Dating With Results at DatingWithResults.com►► Get Stephanie's Books at amazon.com/Fattily-Ever-After-Living-Unapologetically/dp/1784883441 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people.With over 1,300 comments from listeners sharing their biggest dating anxieties, we unpack the most relatable ones and offer real, practical ways to reframe them. You’ll hear us talk about:What it really means when someone wants intimacy but avoids emotional connectionHow to slow down without feeling like you’re “falling behind”Why obsession isn’t chemistry — and how to trust yourself more in the processThe mindset shift that turns “what if I get hurt?” into “what if I stay grounded?”If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking a text, reading too much into mixed signals, or getting attached too fast — this one’s for you.---►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.