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A podcast hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone to share what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. People new to the lifestyle or new to the idea that BDSM and love can mix will find something to learn or realize they're not alone in their experiences or feelings.
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In this week’s episode, a kinky couple has gone through a few shifts in their relationship and now things are a little off. Can they go back to normal? Here’s the question: My sub...
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This week, we talk about the thing that anyone who’s ever had a D/s relationship knows…life will definitely interfere with your power exchange. In this episode, we talk about some of the most common...
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A submissive isn’t having a good time during scenes with their nervous Domme — and is getting more and more frustrated. Here’s the question: Hello! So I’m in a relationship with a woman who...
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We’ve been getting the same type of question recently…Where do I find a Dom? How do I find a submissive? So let’s talk about it this week. In this episode: Thanks to Flure for...
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A kinkster wants to take things further with their partner – who isn’t interested in being a submissive. Here’s the question: My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years. We have...
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You’ve figured out you’re kinky, met a partner (or talked to your current partner), and negotiated a power exchange. Yay! And also…there are a few challenges to be aware of as you navigate your...
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This week, we’re answering a question from a submissive who wants to get back to a more primal, CNC, sadomasochistic way of playing with their partner but old memories from another relationship are holding...
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In the next episode of our Back to Basics series, we’re discussing consent in D/s relationships. In this episode: Get the Kink Bundle while it’s available! Check out the Loving BDSM Etsy shop. This...
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This week, a kinkster wants to get back into their local community but wants to avoid someone who seems to be an unsafe kinkster. Note: Content warning for brief mention of suicide, abusive behavior,...
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We’re starting a new “back to basics” series for power exchange. The topics may be things we’ve talked about in the past, but with 400+ episodes, it’s probably been a while since we talked...
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This week, a Daddy Dom worries that they aren’t being a good Dom because they promise fuckery at the end of the day and then change their mind. Here’s the question: Am I unreliable...
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We asked for your questions over at that handle we hate on Instagram, and you delivered! In this episode: The Kinkery is having a sale through Labor Day! JB’s vanilla Etsy shop “sponsored” us,...
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We’re a bit late to our own party, but we’re celebrating our 9th podcast anniversary! We’re sharing things we’ve learned, discovered, and figured out about ourselves and our power exchange relationship after nine years...
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This week, a kinkster is figuring out their switchy self but isn’t sure how to navigate wanting different things in different ways than their partner. Here’s the question: My husband and I have been...
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With great power comes great responsibility…or something like that. The weight of the responsibility a Dom carries can sometimes feel like pressure, so let’s talk about it. But it’s worth noting that the power...
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After life got in the way, this kinky couple is ready to get back to their fuckery – including free use – but the Dominant partner isn’t initiating, even after plenty of communication. Here’s...
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Anyone and everyone can experience imposter syndrome. While it’s most common in professional settings, it’s definitely possible in personal situations – like your kink life. In this episode: The Kinkery exists! What is imposter...
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We’re willing to bet that this question comes up more than some Dominants are willing to admit. Here’s the full question: What should you do if you’re a dom who doesn’t want to take...
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This week, we react/respond to BDSM questions shared on the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: Oh yeah, Kayla has a vanilla Etsy shop that’s book-themed. If you’re into that kind of thing....
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A kinkster wants to know when the right time is to take things from dating apps or Fetlife to in person. Here’s the question: How do I know when to move from a dating...
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Hi guys, I wanted to thank you for the podcast. I have a question, did you have another channel before? Cause I see episodes from 63 not before
you can not have a set of balls and not be a man according to biological science lmfao
I love BDSM and I think it's just awesome and you can't do without it if you want to really rest your body and soul. But it's often hard to find even an interlocutor on the subject, because it's often taboo and people try not to talk about it publicly. But I found a great social network here https://bdsmlr.com/ where you can discuss this topic with anyone, there are all like-minded people. It's cool and nice for me personally. I recommend it.
not all the episodes loaded. starts at LB063 here. I found LB001 at https://lovingbdsm.net/2015/08/27/anyone-can-be-kinky-lb001/
So, I don't think completely skipping dungeons is a hard red flag. I feel like listening to the reason is make or break on that. For me, my local dungeon was open all of Covid and I'm no longer comfortable going there because it said a lot of their stance on saftey. Which I feel is super valid. You are right that there could absolutely be a red flag in refusing if it's some creep doing bad stuff they don't want to see in public. But, I don't think the entire act in itself is a red flag.
That was an hott episode
Really great advice!
Oh I'm so glad I found this podcast!
I don't mind if my SO plays with himself IF he thinks of me.NOT looking at all of the free porn photos, that no matter your age, that is so accessible from the web......Im so sick of sex and naked people, screwing like idiots all over the internet.I really like the D&S, I'm just not that much into toys or videos.I just want real, live,wild, passionate sex......So where did it go?
Omg I just found this podcast and I looooove it
I'm enjoying listening to you both so mush. and learning so much
I am a daddy dom and more people need to listen to this cause it's true
Where to begin? Kayla and John are real, honest, and relatable. For the first time in my life I feel normal. thank you, both, for helping me to not just feel "ok" but to feel like I belong, like it will all be all right, and for giving me the strength to believe that it's acceptable to want to give in.
This made me feel so amazing as a Sub. Thank you so much.
This podcast is the only one I listen to. It’s so informative and I’ve learned things about myself I didn’t know. Keep up the great work. ☺️
this Podcast is awesome and its very helpful
Thank you so much for posting these!!
Thank You. This blog is exactly what I need.
My girl got he hooked. John and Kayla are funny, witty and honest. I listen while I'm at work and have learned a lot about myself and the life style
Hi Kayla & John! I'm new to the bdsm community; however, I've recently engaged in a loving relationship with my DaddyDom , who's broached the opportunity for us to have a DDLG relationship as well. I relate to the "Little" identity; however, I'm also feisty, sassy, have a strong personality and have also identified myself as being a switch and a Warrior Princess Submissive. I'm in need of assistance on how to ease myself into Little mindset with my DaddyDom. looking forward to your thoughts and guidance! ❤🙏❤ kindest regards, Boo Bear Little