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A podcast hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone to share what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. People new to the lifestyle or new to the idea that BDSM and love can mix will find something to learn or realize they're not alone in their experiences or feelings.
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We had technical issues last week which kept us from recording this episode, but we’re back! (Technically with new technical problems but those don’t impact the podcast, lol.) This week, we’re giving updates from...
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This week, we look at some of the most recent viral trends that borrow from kink and ask, “Is kink becoming mainstream?” In this episode: Kinkery is having a Labor Day sale! Use code...
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1After multiple weeks locked out of our own email inbox, we’re finally back in and celebrating by answering the questions that were waiting for us just like we would for our Monday Q&A episodes...
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This week, we’re responding to questions and situations from the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: There’s still time to enter the podcast anniversary giveaway. Can a Dom “take away” a safeword? My...
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Somehow, someway, we’ve managed to keep the chaos going for exactly 10 years! In this week’s episode, we take a look at how we got here, then we do our “job” of helping folks...
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We’ve spent the past couple of months using the free version of the Obedience app, and now we’re ready to share how we’ve used it and how it’s helped us. Spoiler: We like the...
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This week’s episode is a “ripped from the pages of our life” kind of topic. We recently had a long conversation where Kayla shared some of what she needs as a submissive, but JB...
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A non-kinky version of “princess treatment” has gone viral recently but when there were comparisons made to power exchange, we decided to learn more. Here’s what princess treatment is – according to the original...
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This week, we’re answering more Therapy Jeff questions – this time “unhinged” relationship questions. In this episode: Register for a free BDSM bootcamp: Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Therapy Jeff is a therapist on IG...
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All kink carries some level of risk but certain activities are known to be genuinely dangerous. Should kinksters who engage in these scenes – with full consent from both parties – be “allowed” to...
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Thanks to Xetheriel aka X for this week’s topic. Let’s talk about how to incorporate kink into special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. In this episode: Thanks to X for this week’s topic. Spending...
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This week, we share – with each other and y’all – things we’ve figured out about ourselves that has changed over time. Not much to “learn” from this one other than that if you’ve...
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We took an unscheduled break last week because Kayla got sick, but we’re back with a ranty BDSM Reddit response episode! In this episode: We’re on our new summer schedule. Subscribe to the Kinkery...
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This couple has been going through it for the past few years and have spent the past year in couples counseling, but they’re not where they were before. The submissive partner worries they may...
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We’re back from an extra long break and we’re easing in by answering your kinky questions! In this episode: We’re starting our summer live stream schedule the first week of June – 7pm ET...
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A submissive was introduced to BDSM by a former partner, but their relationship ended before any kinky exploration. Here’s the question: I met a Dom by accident on Tinder. He suggested I look into...
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To us, the best way to be consistent in your power exchange – as a Dom or sub individually and together – is with a routine. In this episode, we’ll talk about the factors...
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A switch who’s new to topping keeps apologizing when their partner expresses (consensual) pain. Here’s the question: I’ve recently discovered my Switch side and Impact Topped for the first time at a kink event...
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Whether you’re a parent (now or in the future) or you are a caregiver for an adult in your life (now or in the future), it’s going to impact your power exchange. This week,...
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This submissive knows they need to move slowly into D/s but nothing’s happening at all. Here’s the question: I’m 28 and am just figuring out that I want/need a Dominant partner. I’ve been kind...
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Hi guys, I wanted to thank you for the podcast. I have a question, did you have another channel before? Cause I see episodes from 63 not before
you can not have a set of balls and not be a man according to biological science lmfao
I love BDSM and I think it's just awesome and you can't do without it if you want to really rest your body and soul. But it's often hard to find even an interlocutor on the subject, because it's often taboo and people try not to talk about it publicly. But I found a great social network here https://bdsmlr.com/ where you can discuss this topic with anyone, there are all like-minded people. It's cool and nice for me personally. I recommend it.
not all the episodes loaded. starts at LB063 here. I found LB001 at https://lovingbdsm.net/2015/08/27/anyone-can-be-kinky-lb001/
So, I don't think completely skipping dungeons is a hard red flag. I feel like listening to the reason is make or break on that. For me, my local dungeon was open all of Covid and I'm no longer comfortable going there because it said a lot of their stance on saftey. Which I feel is super valid. You are right that there could absolutely be a red flag in refusing if it's some creep doing bad stuff they don't want to see in public. But, I don't think the entire act in itself is a red flag.
That was an hott episode
Really great advice!
Oh I'm so glad I found this podcast!
I don't mind if my SO plays with himself IF he thinks of me.NOT looking at all of the free porn photos, that no matter your age, that is so accessible from the web......Im so sick of sex and naked people, screwing like idiots all over the internet.I really like the D&S, I'm just not that much into toys or videos.I just want real, live,wild, passionate sex......So where did it go?
Omg I just found this podcast and I looooove it
I'm enjoying listening to you both so mush. and learning so much
I am a daddy dom and more people need to listen to this cause it's true
Where to begin? Kayla and John are real, honest, and relatable. For the first time in my life I feel normal. thank you, both, for helping me to not just feel "ok" but to feel like I belong, like it will all be all right, and for giving me the strength to believe that it's acceptable to want to give in.
This made me feel so amazing as a Sub. Thank you so much.
This podcast is the only one I listen to. It’s so informative and I’ve learned things about myself I didn’t know. Keep up the great work. ☺️
this Podcast is awesome and its very helpful
Thank you so much for posting these!!
Thank You. This blog is exactly what I need.
My girl got he hooked. John and Kayla are funny, witty and honest. I listen while I'm at work and have learned a lot about myself and the life style