Marriage Isn't Dead

I am a Gen X father of two Gen Z teenagers. My wife and I have experienced the travel sports/activities grind and maintained a healthy marriage in the process.  It seems like we are in the minority based on what I’ve experienced.  In this episode, I will give you personal details and lessons (good and bad) I’ve learned surrounding travel activities.  If you are a parent and often say “I wish there were more hours in the day” this episode is for you.  Time management, reasonable expectations, and finding balance in family life are the keys to happiness!_____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I’ve been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!  Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

When was the last time you saw an example of a happy marriage in the media? I discuss the negative portrayal of marriage in modern media and the cultural shift away from positive representations. Happy marriages are common and the lack of similar narratives in popular culture is painfully obvious. I talk about the psychology behind this phenomenon and why I think marriage is portrayed in such a negative light. _____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve been a happily married dude for 20+ years. I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life. My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together. In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success! Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

Do you have issues controlling your emotions especially when dealing with difficult people?  In this episode, I discuss how to effectively deal with miserable people and become the master of your own emotions. I give you five useful strategies to handle negativity.  I provide a practical exercise to help you gain control over yourself, particularly in stressful situations like road rage._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I’ve been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!  Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

Infidelity is complicated and one of the most painful things anyone can go through.  I’ve heard many stories from people over the years and after a while you start recognizing similarities.  In this episode, I break down the differences in men and women when it comes to infidelity. I discuss the statistics surrounding cheating, common motivations, and the emotional and sexual factors that contribute to infidelity. Ultimately, I want you to have healthy relationships so you can avoid cheating and perhaps learn why someone in your life cheated._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I’ve been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!  Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

In this episode, I share five personal habits that helped a small-town Iowa kid become a millionaire by age 30.  I’m STILL that same kid and always will be.  My content is centered around marriage and relationships, but I mainly focus on self-improvement as the vehicle of true happiness.  This episode is devoted to helping you achieve financial freedom.  Success can be defined by monetary worth, but I tend to think “success” is simply living a happy and fulfilling life.  I want you to share the same success I’ve had while enjoying yourself along the way!_____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I’ve been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

If you think Netflix and Chill evenings sound boring, this episode is for you! Netflix and chill' can be a very valuable tool for couples to connect and set the tone for more (and better) sex. In this episode, I go over how to better connect, how to setup the evening, and I list plenty of great content to watch. When you Netflix and Chill the right way, it turns into something you BOTH look forward to and will easily translate into better connection/sex._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve been a happily married dude for 20+ years. I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life. My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together. In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Disclaimer: I am not a therapist. My content is for educational purposes only. If you or a loved one are struggling, I encourage you to work with a licensed therapist.

Desperation can be a dangerous and costly problem for some! Over the course of my online experience, I’ve seen many examples of coaches and organizations trying to take advantage of others. In this episode, I discuss the challenges and pitfalls of seeking relationship advice online. It’s important to be cautious about high-priced self-help programs and the need for a critical approach to advice. I share insights on navigating the online relationship landscape and highlight the value of readily available resources._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.“Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

After 20 years of happy marriage, interacting with thousands of people online, and coaching hundreds one on one, I recognize many common traits in happy (and miserable) couples. In this episode, I talk about THREE critical things happy couples have in common. These three traits can be achieved by anyone. You don’t have to be super successful or look like a model to have a happy relationship!_____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

A positive mindset is perhaps the most important aspect of achieving lifelong happiness. In this episode, I identify common negative phrases people use in daily conversations. These phrases can have a huge impact on personal happiness and relationships. I offer alternatives that promote positivity. I cover various aspects of life, including relationships, job satisfaction, and customer service, ultimately encouraging listeners to make small adjustments in their language and mindset for a better life._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Identifying Negative Phrases00:44 'Same Sh*t, Different Day'01:43 ‘Living the Dream’ (Sarcastic)03:18 'Happy Wife, Happy Life'04:25 ‘It’s a Job’05:45 The Customer is Not Always Right

My wife and I recently celebrated our 20th Anniversary at a Sandals Resort in St. Lucia.  I share some relationship-related observations we noticed while we were there. If you’ve ever been to a Sandals or spent some time in the Caribbean, these observations will sound very familiar.  I share various tips about health, fitness, relationships, cultural differences, and the importance of making the most of life in general._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Celebrating 20 Years at Sandals!00:44 #5: Guys, Hit the Gym02:33 #4: 30 Somethings Were Missing03:52 #3: Rude Folks04:55 #2: Laid Back Caribbean Culture05:59 #1: Your Life is Inescapable06:55 Bonus Takeaway: Sex07:38 Summary

In this very personal episode, I share my personal journey with video game addiction and its negative impact on my life and marriage. I explore the cultural significance of video games, the definition and criteria for addiction, and the consequences of excessive gaming. I emphasize the importance of recognizing addiction symptoms and offer insights on overcoming these challenges. I ultimately advocate for a balanced approach to gaming or ceasing gaming all together._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Intro01:03 Definition and Symptoms of Video Game Addiction03:08 Personal Experiences with Gaming Addiction05:07 Marvel Contest of Champions08:30 Marital Issues and Addiction10:05 Recognizing and Overcoming Addiction13:17 The Journey to Recovery and Self-Improvement14:30 Final Thoughts on Gaming and Life Choices

I discuss the critical differences between winners (growth mindset) and losers (fixed mindset). I give you one simple phrase to help you change your life. I emphasize the importance of learning from mistakes, embracing change, and the value of delayed gratification in achieving success. Mindset plays a significant role in personal development and success! I give you a roadmap to take personal responsibility for your situation and work towards positive change._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Growth Mindset Vs. Fixed Mindset05:22 “What You're Not Changing, You're Choosing”08:14 Tips To Make Your Life Better 11:05 Success Redefined: Beyond Financial Gains

I dive into the complex issues surrounding infidelity, particularly focusing on sexual frustration. I give you SIX different tips to work on if you find yourself in a dull or unsatisfying sexual relationship.  I discuss the differing perspectives of men and women regarding infidelity, the importance of communication and conflict resolution in relationships, and when it might be necessary to consider ending a relationship. I emphasize the need for variety and initiation in sexual dynamics, while also addressing exceptions such as past trauma and medical issues that can impact sexual relationships._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Sexual Frustration02:24 #1: Break Out of Routine04:09 #2: Confront Him/Her05:25 #3: Exploring Fantasies06:39 #4: Sexual Initiation07:21 #5: Porn as a Tool08:10 #6: Introduce Toys09:00 When to Consider Ending a Relationship11:51 Exceptions to The Rule14:10 Final Thoughts

Will Consensual Non Monogamy (CNM) ever replace traditional monogamy and marriage? I explore the concept of open relationships and polyamory, discussing its implications, challenges, and the reasons why traditional marriage remains prevalent. These are five different reasons CNM will never replace traditional marriage/relationships based on stats, research, and personal experience. I emphasize the emotional complexities involved in sexual relationships and the societal perceptions surrounding non-traditional arrangements. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Understanding Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) 02:29 #5: CNM Favors Women 04:50 #4: CNM Adds Complexity 07:26 #3: Flawed Family Dynamics 09:20 #2: Social Stigma of CNM 10:20 #1: Sex Is Complicated 12:45 Summary and My Thoughts

Let’s talk sex!  In this episode, I discuss the concept of boring “scheduled sex” and how it can be transformed into exciting sex dates. I emphasize the importance of scheduling intimacy in busy lives, the need for communication, and the benefits of anticipation in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. I provide practical tips on how to create the right environment for sex dates and when to schedule them for maximum enjoyment. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Sex Dates vs. Scheduled Sex 01:48 Why Sex Dates? 02:49 When Should You Have Sex Dates? 05:14 Where Can You Have Sex Dates? 08:00 Important Tips 12:55 Have Fun!

Infidelity is one of, if not the worst thing that can happen in marriage. In this episode, I discuss the complex issue of infidelity in marriages. I highlight the six most common ways affairs begin based on my past coaching experience. I stress the importance of understanding the impact of infidelity on relationships and the necessity of setting boundaries to prevent these situations. I explain my strong stance against cheating and advocate for honesty and communication in relationships. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:07 Old Boyfriend/Girlfriend 02:02 Neighbor 02:55 Kids Sports 04:44 Friend of Spouse 06:10 The Gym 07:48 Coworkers 10:45 My Perspective of Infidelity

I discuss the pitfalls of texting in relationships, emphasizing the importance of face-to-face communication. I highlight how texting can lead to misunderstandings due to the lack of non-verbal cues and tone. I share personal experiences and generational perspectives on communication, offering practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships.  _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

I recently listened to a female therapist in a podcast saying “Marriage makes your lover a relative.” I completely disagree. In this episode, I discuss the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of maintaining attraction, prioritizing relationships, and navigating the challenges of parenthood. I argue against the notion that marriage diminishes romantic connection, advocating for continuous effort and individuality within the partnership. I share personal insights from my 20 years of marriage, highlighting the need for couples to prioritize their relationship and maintain a loving environment for their children. Chapters 00:00 Challenging Conventional Marriage Wisdom 01:58 The Importance of Prioritizing Your Relationship 02:50 Maintain Your Individuality in Marriage 03:40 Don’t Forget to Date Your Spouse 04:42 Navigating Parenthood and Marriage 06:45 Maintain Connection in Marriage 08:00 Maintain Your Sense of Self _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

In this heartfelt episode, I reflect on the tragic murder of Brian Thompson, the United Healthcare CEO whose death deeply affected the central Iowa community where we both grew up. I share my personal memories of Brian, discuss the tribute article I wrote that went viral, and critique the negative responses it received. I explore the broader implications of social media on society, emphasizing the need for empathy and human connection in a world increasingly driven by online interactions. I conclude with a call to action for listeners to engage positively with their communities and to remember the humanity behind the headlines. Chapters 00:00 Remembering Brian Thompson 03:31 The Impact of Social Media on Public Perception 09:48 The Dangers of Online Discourse 14:40 A Call for Humanity and Connection _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

In this episode, I explore the evolution of marriage over the past century, discussing historical, cultural, and technological changes that have shaped modern relationships. Topics include the impact of the Industrial Revolution, agriculture changes, the sexual revolution, no-fault divorce, and technology.  I also address the economic independence of women and the influence of technology on dating and relationships. While marriage has changed, it is not dead!  I offer insights into how to navigate modern relationships successfully. Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:55 Industrial Revolution 03:01 Early 1900s: Cultural Shifts 04:20 WWII and the Baby Boom 05:25 Hormonal Birth Control 06:45 1970s: No-Fault Divorce 07:45 Women in the Workforce  08:30 Gen X and Latchkey Kids 11:25 Mass Exodus of Rural Areas 13:10 Tech Boom and Its Effects 15:27 2000s and Social Media 16:58 2007: Smartphones  18:40 Dating Apps 20:08 Summary and Consequences 24:00 Marriage isn't Dead! It Just Changed _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠