Meet Us At The Bar

Welcome to another lock in ladies and gentlemen. This week Paris is sitting in for Dean. We’re sure you’ve seen it and we had to discuss it - Kanye West and his recent antics and whether we have any sympathy for the backlash he’s currently receiving for his recent T-shirt wearing antics. We also dip into the jar at the bar and find what the team masturbated to last - contains a very interesting answer! 👀Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US - Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

We're back at the bar for another week of drinking and fun.This week we're joined by friend of the bar Anna whilst we dissect some interesting and very bizarre stories but before we get there - let me ask you this...IF you were in a relationship for 3+ years and they did something grand to make you think "wow" - what would that grand gesture be?Abs has also fallen into the rabbit hole of Reddit and the fascinating stories people share on there. He reads out a few stories and the rest of the bar have the chance to guess what happens next but also get to have their say on what they would do in that scenario - prepare to be shocked by some of these!Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

We’re back at the bar this week for another lock in episode - usually it’s just the boys but this week Chris wasn’t available so friend of the bar Anna stepped in for him. As is customary with the lock in chats, it’s no hold barred opinions. After Queen Elizabeth II passing we had to discuss the funeral and what that meant for us and for the history books. On a lighter note whether prince William chooses has his bald patch hairstyle by choice or not. We revisit drunk dial where Anna has to call someone in her phone book and ask a question we have posed to her (this one isn’t to be missed 👀)We also discuss whether women find dick size important and if they would compromise on a hung fella for true love and much much more. Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

 This week we're joined by friends of the bar Molly and Aaron.Aaron has a successful platform called "raising boys 2 men" which highlights all of the difficulties around being a single parent and how to successfully co-parent.With our own Chris being a single parent we thought it was only right to have Aaron on along with Molly who is a single mum to talk the good, bad, the ugly about co-parenting.All three stories are coming from different angles from a planned pregnancy to falling pregnant unplanned with your partner and falling pregnant in a casual relationship.We get to deep dive in to each scenario and tackle various topics.Topics:- Finding out your partner is pregnant and the fear of sharing with friends/family- Whether the man has the right to ask the woman for an abortion or let his feelings be known about not wanting the child.- Bonding with the mother during pregnancy even if you are not together.- What is successful co-parenting- Whether or not custody should be split 50/50 and much moreMeet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Bank holiday weekend is over, carnival is over…Makes no difference to us because we didn’t go much to Chris’ disappointment and anger! Did you head to carnival this year? - there was some negativity in the media this year as there is every year surrounding carnival when in fact it’s a tiny percentage of the event. Hear how we can change this perception. We also discuss the crazy issue of Andrew Tate and him officially being cancelled and allegedly having his accounts frozen. Is this an extreme measure for someone who shared their views online?Is he someone you would want to ban your children from watching?Is he truly misogynists like people online claim?We breakdown what this could mean for the world going forward and the true value of roles models for young men!Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

This week we’re joined by friend of the bar Gen! Gen shares some amazing stories of her experiences with DMT and Ayahuasca. Ayahuasca is a South American psychoactive and entheogenic brewed drink traditionally used both socially and as ceremonial spiritual medicine among the indigenous peoples of the Amazon basin. Peru was the destination for this psychedelic and spiritual experience - an experience that is supposed to completely open your mind and open your “third eye”. Gen openly shares her story and what led her to making the decision of wanting to try this experience and how it caused ego death, how it felt like this hallucinogenic sent her into a new dimension and how it helped heal some open wounds from early life.  Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

This week we welcome friends of the bar Jasmine and Carol. Strap in as the pair give us some of their secrets from being a professional bodyguard and training in Poland for hours on end with firearms.This episode is not one to be missed as we introduce our new segment “Drunk Dial” where we ask the guests to call someone in their and we give them instructions on what to say. Topics:- Only Fans- Why I became toxic - Drunk DIAL!- The worst things men have doneMeet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Murad Merali must have woken up this week in complete horror - his secret past has been exposed for the world to see.Trending #1 in the UK on Twitter within a few hours and trending #2 worldwide.For those who do not know Murad is a social commentator who rose to prominence commentating on reality tv - namely Love Island and with this grew his popularity.Over the years he has been very outspoken in his defence of racial abuse, stereotypes and unfair situations people of colour face on shows like Love Island.HOWEVER it turns out Murad has a secret past of his own that allegedly includes race shaming amongst other things during sexual activities that he was paid for at the time.As we are all used to now, when something comes out online, the person in question does a reaction/apology video.We discuss his apology and also delve into what makes the perfect apology and what is needed to show how sincere you are and gain forgiveness.Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

If you haven’t heard of him already, we’d like to introduce you to 5yffe who joins us at the bar this week. An up and coming artist with extraordinary penmanship and style - we talk through the come up, how he got into writing for others before stepping inside the booth himself. A moving story about losing someone close to him that drove his desire to succeed. The good and the bad about the industry, being independent and much more. Our usual skullduggery pulled from the Jar at The Bar that initiates a difference of opinion 👀Should we normalise forgiving cheaters????Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

 As three close friends it would be insane not to know when your friends would lie for you or not right?! We have never spoken about this so we have no idea whether we would lie to protect each other or keep each other out of relationship problems!! There are some times in life where you need a friend to back something you have done but what is too much for them to lie about?What would you do?!We also touch on the topic of co-parenting after a break up - should you live together in the same house after breaking up for the benefit of the child or is it better to move out and co-parent in different households?Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Have you ever paused and thought “all black people like this, surely I have to like it too?” Subliminally you’ve questioned your blackness. From things as small as supermalt to the partners you get with, anything may make you question it or perhaps have you wondering what others think of your blackness. We discuss the things that have made us questions ours and the things that would make us question others. Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Before you go any further, head to bdsmtest.org - do the test at the same time as listening to this episode.We're joined by friends of the bar Sara and Adam for another unfiltered conversation about EVERYTHING!!Adam and Sara have both lived abroad for years so share their experiences and differences with living in the UK and how that may have affected them.We discuss whether we would mind being called a "sneaky link" or if its offensive.What sort of unfiltered chat would this be without discussing sexual preferences, porn habits and categories - listen to one of us telling a story about how we experienced a spontaneous rimming situation. Was it enjoyable or did it end in a fight?Have you experienced a spontaneous rimming session? Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Now this may seem like an easy topic to discuss but actually when you are in the thick of the talking stage - lust, fantasy, desire, great chat  has taken over your mind and you put your basic needs to one side for that time...UNTIL... you are deeper into the situation and realise there are some things about the other person that do not work with your lifestyle, values, needs or wants!We sit down to discuss the 9 things we think you shouldn't compromise on in a relationship and will help you avoid long term misery!Tune in to find out what these are. Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

She's A 10 But … or He's A 10 But …, What a game this is! In this weeks episode we find ourselves playing 'The Rating Game', which is spreading like fire across TikTok and Twitter.We also continue the conversation on the epidemic sweeping across the gym world where men are being 'called out' for alleged inappropriate behavior towards women training.  This time round we watch a video of a exchange in the gym between a frustrated women and two men and give our reaction on the matter.Finally we add our two pence on whether problems in the relationship should be discussed with friends!Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Hands up if you’re a single man…Hands up if you’re a single man that’s been accused of having a load of girls on the go just because you’re single…Hands up if you’re a woman that’s levelled that accusation at a man 👀…That’s just one of the myths we feel single men are tarnished with. We decided we’d discuss this plus some other myths that get thrown around about single men and why they may or may not be true!  Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

This weeks episode we’re joined by Kali who became an overnight TikTok personality for recommending women shouldn’t withhold sex on a first date 👀We got the chance to sit down with her to discuss some of her crazy dating stories and escapades - we also touch on relationships with male figures and how that can have an impact on your life.Topics:- Becoming a TikTok personality!- Feeling free enough to tell the world your sex stories- Crazy sex stories- Daddy issuesThe jar at the bar questions:- Should humans merge with AI?- If you could meet an historical figure, who would it be?- What advice would you give your future self?Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Dean is back from ANOTHER period of annual leave - he brings us up to speed on all things Coachella and what it's really like. Some of the best and worst performers, as well as al of the weird things.There has been a lot of talk online recently about women being approached in gyms so we break down what is the right and wrong thing to do if you want to approach a woman in a gym and list the best/worst places you could possibly approach a woman.We also discuss double standards and whether you can ask for a womans weight if she asks you for your height - depending on your confidence, both parties may be sensitive to both questions but is ok for a woman to ask but not men?Topics:- What coachella is really like- Can you ask a womans weight if she asks for your height?- Men and women double standards- The best and worst places to approach women!Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

This week we begin by speaking to friend of the bar Luke - a business owner and former Muay Thai fighter - Luke has lived through the experience of depression for various reasons which led to an attempt to take his own life.We're fortunate enough to have him on to hear his story and spread his message of awareness towards mental health and how to overcome it.There are plenty of mental health services or charities who can help - you can also find more info via the link below.https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/mental-health-services/get-urgent-help-for-mental-health/ You can also find a therapist here - https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/ Topics:- What led to the suicide attempt- Is suicide a selfish act?- Do we all need a purpose in life?- Effects of anti-depressants The jar at the bar questions:- Who is the person you most trust in the world?- Who would you be if you could be someone else?- What is your biggest regret?- What would you say is your guilty pleasure? Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

Fellas - you're about to sleep with a lady for the first time pretty early doors  and she pulls out a condom on you. What are you thinking and doing?Does it put you off or do you go through with the deed? - Listen to what Twitter is saying on this!We discuss what we would do as well as go through all of the top voted sex positions in the UK and much much more. Topics:- Getting kidnapped whilst working for Sky- The differences between amateur and professional boxing- Girls pulling out condoms on the first time- Black men not being attracted to black women- Top sex positions- The Ultimatum  Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com

In all honesty, we have been waiting a while for this one to come around because we knew it would be fun!We're joined by Lauren who is stripper in Shoreditch - she gives us the lowdown on what it is like being a stripper - the good, the bad, the funny.We ask all those bizarre questions like "What is the stripper etiquette amongst the dancers?"This is not one to be missed, hear some great stories and some fun games.Topics:- Life of a stripper - Is stripping degrading?- Sleeping with someone on the first dateThe jar at the bar questions:- Do you remember any character defining moments from your childhood?- would you date you, if you met you?- Is it better to believe or to know?Meet Us At The Bar is a safe space - or so you may think.From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them  but remember they may have had a couple of drinks.FOLLOW US -Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/meetusatthebarpodTwitter - https://twitter.com/MeetusatthebarFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/MeetusatthebarpodHosts:Abs - https://www.instagram.com/aceboogzChris - https://www.instagram.com/davidson_no5Dean M.F Johnson - https://www.instagram.com/deanmfjohnsonSend Questions & get in touch: muatbpodcast@gmail.com