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Men, Explain is a bold, unfiltered podcast where two men and two women come together for candid, thought-provoking conversations about gender, relationships, and the realities of modern life. Hosted by MediaCorp Radio DJs Sonia Chew and Avery Aloysius, each episode explores a different theme—from career ambitions and financial independence to dating, societal pressures, and navigating love in the digital age. By tackling real, relatable issues, we aim to bridge the gender divide and leave listeners with fresh perspectives, new insights, and maybe even a few mind-changing moments.
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“Do what you love” sounds great — until life gets in the way. In this episode, we talk about what happens when passion meets practicality. For one, it’s about building a career from the ground up; for the other, it’s about creating stability for a family. We explore how men and women weigh risk, responsibility, and purpose differently and what “chasing your dreams” really looks like when bills, expectations, and burnout enter the picture. Tune in and watch Home Run, every Wednesday 9.30PM on PropertyGuru’s YouTube and Channel 5! #HomeRunSGSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
“Do what you love” sounds great — until life gets in the way. In this episode, we talk about what happens when passion meets practicality. For one, it’s about building a career from the ground up; for the other, it’s about creating stability for a family. We explore how men and women weigh risk, responsibility, and purpose differently and what “chasing your dreams” really looks like when bills, expectations, and burnout enter the picture.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Men, Explain has always delved into men’s thoughts, feelings, and relationships. In this special episode, we go behind the scenes with an ex-producer to explore the evolution of the show and its most memorable moments. From early lessons to lasting insights, we reflect on what producing years of conversations about men has taught us, and test how well we really understand them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all know kids should just be kids — but what about the ones who end up acting like parents? In this episode, Sew and Rainier sit down with us to unpack the struggles of being the “parentified child.” From growing up too early to the subtle differences between sons and daughters carrying that weight, we explore how those childhood roles shape identity, relationships, and adulthood.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all know the stereotypes—boys are louder, girls are more soft spoken, but how much of that comes from the classrooms we’re placed in? From learning styles and academic performance to social pressures and confidence, we explore whether separate classrooms set students up for success or just reinforce old divides. In this episode, we unpack the debate between co-ed and single-gender schools with guests Fauzi and Leah.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all know the basics—trust, communication, respect—but what about the unspoken rules that shape real relationships? In this episode, we dive into the grey areas couples actually fight about, from tracking your partner’s phone to mismatched financial goals. With guests Dyce and Ce, we explore emotional non-negotiables, love languages, and the quiet compromises that define modern love. Are these hidden rules helping relationships grow—or just testing their limits?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 2 of this special crossover episode, Germaine and Sonia turn the tables, putting Avery and Joakim in the hot seat to answer their most burning questions about men. When you have a best friend of the opposite gender, you get a rare, unfiltered look into how they really think — and this time, nothing’s off-limits!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this special crossover episode, 987 Radio DJs Germaine Tan and Joakim Gomez join their radio partners Sonia and Avery on Men Explain for some brutally honest BFF banter. Having a best friend of the opposite gender means rare, unfiltered access into how men and women really think, and this time, nothing’s off-limits. From burning questions to hilarious debates, both duos puts their friendship to the test in this tell-all episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Married life is never easy. Through the challenges of living together, building a family, balancing careers and keeping the romance alive, it can often feel like the two of you against the world. But maybe that’s the beauty of it. In this episode, guests Adrian (Xiao Ming) and Xin Lei open up about what nine years of marriage have looked like for them and what they believe is the key to making it last. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
While cohabiting before marriage might be the norm in many parts of the world, it’s still far from common amongst Singaporeans. In this episode, we chat with guests Edwin Goh and Rachel Wan about what it’s really like to live together — from discovering each other’s quirks to navigating the fine line between closeness and codependency, this is an unfiltered look at love under one roof.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Everyone has something to say about gender—but what happens when you're the ones making the content that sparks all the debate? In this episode, we sit down with Chow Jiahui and Nicholas (Hargaohunk) as they unpack the realities of navigating misandry, misogyny, and viral hate. From dating hot takes to dealing with stereotypes, they share what it’s like being at the center of the conversation. Is the backlash ever fair—or just another double standard?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
They say don’t mix business with pleasure—but what happens when your business partner is also your life partner? Are decisions truly 50/50, or is it a constant battle over who gets to wear the business pants in this partnership? In today’s episode, we’re joined by Jaime and Justin from The Paper Bunny, to break down the unique dynamics of couples working together. They’ll share their challenges, experiences, and, of course, answer the ultimate question: Has working together ever put their relationship on the line?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Have you ever found yourself saying, "Sorry, just a quick question..." or "This might be a dumb idea, but..." at work? If so, you're not alone. Many women unconsciously over-apologize, over-explain, and self-censor in professional settings—but why does this happen, and how can we break the habit? In this episode, we explore workplace communication habits with Nic and Siyu, uncovering why some may feel the need to soften their words while others speak more freely—and what this means for one’s confidence and perception in the workplace.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Society has a lot to say about love and marriage—but do men and women feel the pressure to settle down in the same way? In this episode, TSL Amanda and Bolin join Sonia and Avery to dive into the unspoken expectations surrounding relationships. From the double standards of being single to whether marriage is still seen as the ultimate goal, they’ll break down how these pressures shape our choices, challenge outdated norms, and explore whether settling down is truly for everyone.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What does it mean to be the “right” kind of idol—and who gets to decide? In this episode, WhyLucas shares what it’s like joining an idol survival show - ChuangAsia and how talent isn’t the only thing that matters. We dig into how the idol industry defines worth, the unspoken rules around beauty and masculinity, and what it really takes to survive in a space that rarely makes room for difference.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Everyone talks about the hustle of starting a business—but what happens when you’re a Gen Z boss leading a team that’s just as young (or even younger) than you? In this episode, we sit down with Dewy Choo & Rayyan as they get real about the struggles of being a young entrepreneur. From where the money comes from to how to break into the industry —they share what it really takes to lead at a young age. Is being a young boss an advantage, or does it make leadership even harder? Let’s find out.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Leadership isn’t one-size-fits-all, especially when you're balancing the demands of work and home life. In this exclusive episode, we sit down with Singaporean politicians Jamus Lim and He Ting Ru as they share their personal experiences navigating leadership in two very different worlds. How do their leadership styles shift between the boardroom and the dinner table? When do they take charge, and when is it time to step back?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Why do some men 'forget' how to do basic tasks like laundry, cooking, or planning a date? In this episode, Nic and Joie from The Hop Pod join Sonia and Avery to explore weaponized incompetence. Is it a real problem, a gender stereotype, or just laziness? We break down the facts and get to the heart of this controversial issue.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We’re often told what beauty should look like, but are the standards for men and women different? In this episode, Amanda and Bolin join Sonia and Avery to unpack the double standard in beauty ideals. They’ll talk about how these expectations affect both genders, how we define beauty, and how we can challenge these norms to promote a more inclusive and realistic vision of beauty.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We’ve done an episode on friendships between opposite genders. However, the lines do get blurred when one or either party gets into a relationship. Should friendship change with your relationship status? In this episode, we invite 2 besties, Atiqa and Khair, to dissect further on situations people find themselves in when managing their partners and best friends.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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