Men Becoming Better Men

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Andrew Heatherly, founder of Wiser Divorce Solutions and host of The Gray Divorce Podcast. Together, they unpack the financial and emotional challenges of navigating midlife divorce and how to turn adversity into a path toward personal growth and purpose. Andrew shares actionable insights on avoiding common financial pitfalls, rebuilding social connections, and using tools like the Japanese concept of Ikigai to discover your life’s purpose. Whether you’re in the middle of a divorce or simply seeking a fresh start, this episode will equip you with the strategies to rebuild with confidence. Don't miss this powerful conversation on reclaiming your life and redefining what’s possible after setbacks. Get Your Life Together in 6 Months course: https://tr.ee/xE4ryn2DAa Private Men's Community: https://tr.ee/5kPIFlPLCu Andrew's Website: https://www.transcendretirement.net/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob, The Relationship Engineer, dives deep with Jonathon Aslay, one of America's top midlife dating coaches and author of What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?. They discuss the journey of self-discovery, healing from emotional wounds, and how finding purpose can transform your life. From navigating the challenges of online dating to cultivating emotional resilience, Jonathon shares powerful insights for men looking to reclaim their identity and deepen their relationships. Whether you're feeling lost in life, struggling to connect with others, or wondering how to love yourself, this episode offers actionable advice and inspiration to help you show up as the man you’re meant to be. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Feeling like you were abandoned or cast aside after divorce? You’re not alone—and there’s a way forward. In this powerful episode, Bob welcomes Josh Tomioni, coach, podcast host, and father of three, to discuss the hard truths about navigating life’s toughest transitions. From overcoming contentious divorces to rebuilding purpose and identity, Josh shares his journey of failure, healing, and rediscovery. Together, they break down the five biggest traps men face during and after divorce, from self-care neglect to unhealthy relationships, and offer actionable insights to reclaim masculinity and authenticity. Josh also reveals how embracing failure can become a badge of honor and how men can connect with their true purpose, free from societal noise. Don’t miss this raw, eye-opening conversation that will challenge and inspire you to keep moving forward. 🎧 DM “Ebook” to Josh on Instagram @TheDerelictPodcast for your free copy of his guide to overcoming divorce traps! And join the MBBM Private community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this deeply personal episode, I share my untold story of navigating a 19-year ill-fated marriage, battling depression, and losing myself to bad habits and a lack of purpose. From being out of shape and isolated to finding my true calling and rebuilding my life, I’ll walk you through the drastic changes I made to reclaim control. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that doesn’t align with who you are, this episode will show you that transformation is possible—and it starts with one decision. Tune in for practical insights and inspiration to take the first step toward the life you deserve. Join the private MBBM community at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/ And find out more about the Men Becoming Elite Men Mastermind at: https://www.menbecomingbettermen.com/general-8 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this compelling episode of Men Becoming Better Men, The Relationship Engineer sits down with Sophia Torrini, a certified neuro-change consultant and emotional freedom technique (EFT) practitioner trained by Dr. Joe Dispenza. Sophia shares her powerful journey of overcoming chronic illness and limiting beliefs to lead a purpose-driven life, helping others do the same through neuroscience, trauma-informed techniques, and reality hacking. Discover how EFT can release emotional blocks, rewire your brain, and improve mental clarity, even for the most skeptical men. Sophia also discusses the science-backed benefits of tapping, its roots in clinical trials, and how it helps shift trauma into empowerment. Whether you're stuck in a cycle of stress, battling unprocessed emotions, or seeking alignment with your life's purpose, this episode delivers actionable strategies to help you reclaim your power. Stay tuned for insights on rewriting your personal narrative and tools for becoming the man you were meant to be. 👉 Don’t forget to join our free Men Becoming Better Men community HERE --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this transformative episode of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast, The Relationship Engineer is joined by Matt Cook, a health and sex researcher with over 25 years of experience and the head of the largest alt health online university. With insights that have helped over 80,000 people, Matt dives deep into how men can reclaim their purpose, improve their relationships, and achieve peak health and vitality. Key topics include: The surprising link between purpose, sex drive, and success. How to overcome struggles with intimacy, pornography, and low testosterone. Simple lifestyle changes to boost health, motivation, and relationships. Why most relationship advice fails—and the real secret to lasting intimacy. Practical tips for creating a life of abundance and love. Matt shares actionable strategies from his new book, Masculine Maximizer, and offers insights into improving men’s physical and emotional well-being. Whether you're seeking to reignite your marriage, overcome personal struggles, or live out your life's purpose, this episode provides the roadmap to becoming the best version of yourself. Connect with Matt Cook: Website: DailyMedicalDiscoveries.com Sign up for Matt's daily newsletter and receive a free copy of Masculine Maximizer. Connect with Bob, The Relationship Engineer: Join the Men Becoming Better Men community via this LINK Follow the podcast for weekly episodes that tackle the toughest challenges men face. Visit www.menbecomingbettermen.com for more about programs and offerings Be sure to like, subscribe, and share this episode to inspire more men to live with purpose, confidence, and integrity. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this episode of The Men Becoming Better Men Podcast, we get real about the silent struggles many men face in their marriages—constant criticism, emotional disconnection, and the toll it takes on your mental health. I share my personal story of living under relentless pressure, feeling trapped in a 14-year dead bedroom, and the path that led to deep depression. But more importantly, I reveal how to break free from these cycles, reclaim your integrity, and start living with renewed purpose. Ready to make a change? Join me as we explore actionable steps to rebuild your life and relationships. Don’t forget to join my free private Men Becoming Better Men community via the link in my bio and grab my free eBook to get started. Links: https://linktr.ee/therelationshipengineer Website: www.menbecomingbettermen.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this powerful episode of Men Becoming Better Men, host Bob Wischer and guest Patrick Casey tackle some of the toughest questions men face today: discovering purpose, overcoming fears, and navigating life's biggest challenges. Patrick opens up about his own journey toward purpose, the obstacles he's overcome, and the strategies he's used to confront fears and find growth. This episode is packed with actionable insights and real talk for any man looking to break free from limiting beliefs and step into a life of confidence and direction. If you're ready to move past feeling "stuck" and start showing up as the man you know you’re meant to be, tune in to get inspired and take action! Bob's Links: ⁠https://linktr.ee/therelationshipengineer⁠ Pat's Links: Website: ⁠patrickcaseyjr.com⁠ Instagram @patrickcaseyjr Facebook: Patrick MC Jr --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

In this episode, I'm joined by speaker, podcaster and coach Kevin Palmieri and we dive deep into the journey from feeling like a failure to reaching next-level success. We'll explore the urgency of stepping into your true purpose, maintaining self-awareness, and overcoming the fear of disappointing others—especially other men. With personal stories and practical advice, we'll challenge you to assess how important your life events are and push you to become the person you needed at your lowest point. Kevin's website: www.nextleveluniverse.com Bob's website: www.menbecomingbettermen.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

We kick off our first special guest interview with Felice Mathieu a highly experienced marriage and family coach who has dedicated over 25 years of his life to studying relationships. We discuss life's purpose and meaning, facing our fears and how men should be more like Clark Kent then trying to be Superman. To connect with Bob, email: menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com or visit www.menbecomingbettermen.com To connect with Felice, visit his website: marriagesharing.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Struggling to keep promises to yourself or feeling like you’re living a double life? In this episode, I break down the real reasons why your personal integrity is holding you back and reveal the steps to rebuild trust in yourself. It’s time to stop making excuses and start living in alignment. Ready to become the man you’re meant to be? Tune in now! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

How many of you are feeling frustrated, ignored, or completely disconnected from your wife? How many of you are avoiding even trying anymore because you’re tired of being rejected or feeling like a failure? This isn’t about the number of times you’re having sex—it’s about that nagging emptiness that makes you question, ‘Is this really what my marriage has become?’ If this hits home, then you need to listen up, because we’re going to unravel why this is happening and, more importantly, how you can start turning things around. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Coach Wisch and Steve O unpack the results of our group poll about which of these relationships is the most important to focus on. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Have you ever thought “why am I reacting that way or why am I attracting this same person in a different body?”  Yes, there is almost always a lesson there to be learned and until we learn that lesson then it will continue to show up in all different levels of our relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Anger…we all have it, from the guy who cuts you off in traffic, to coworkers who don’t do their jobs, and on and on, I could list dozens of situations that get my blood boiling. But my question to you today, is why? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Today Nicole welcomes special guest Grant Magers to the podcast to tell us about his journey to becoming a better man. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Men need intimate relationships with both women and other men. We are not made to do life alone. Tune in to hear both the male and female perspectives on this topic! Contact us at menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com to provide feedback or ask questions of Bob or Nicole! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

For men to realize what is causing a lack of control of one’s thoughts and emotions and is a serious degradation of personal power! To connect with Bob, visit ⁠www.menbecomingbettermen.com⁠ or email menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com or join the MBBM private Facebook group: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/overc... For Nicole: Join her community The RISE of the Masculine Private Facebook Group:⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/87425... IG: ⁠https://instagram.com/iamnicoleharmony TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@nicoleharmony Website: ⁠www.nicoleharmony.com⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

This weeks podcast is Nicole with her special guest Steve Love. He experienced a profound awakening almost 10 years ago. He will be opening up and sharing how years of suppressed anger lead to rageful outbursts, contemplation of suicide and ultimately the end of his marriage. He will be sharing his own 4 stages of anger, how he moved through the rage and diffused his anger and the commonality of “spiritual bypassing” anger and rage within the spiritual community. Connect with Steve: https://www.instagram.com/mestevelove?fbclid=IwAR1LkLd4g3JP7yh7KPuGjbug1V25igPag3eZwwe_lVUg5qTgq3xUH1UGAK4 To connect with Bob, visit ⁠www.menbecomingbettermen.com⁠ or email menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com or join the MBBM private Facebook group: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/overc... For Nicole: Join her community The RISE of the Masculine Private Facebook Group:⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/87425... IG: ⁠https://instagram.com/iamnicoleharmony TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@nicoleharmony Website: ⁠www.nicoleharmony.com⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support

Anger…we all have it, from the guy who cuts you off in traffic, to coworkers who don’t do their jobs, and on and on, I could list dozens of situations that get my blood boiling. But my question to you today, is why? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/menbecomingbettermen/support