Messy Situations

Messy Situations is the podcast where your favorite sister shares her unfiltered thoughts on messy topics.

Yanni's Story

I'm back with another episode....finally! This week's episode I have a special guest, my friend Ayanni! During this week's episode my friend share's her story and gives us a life update about where she is mentally, her relationships with family and friends, and her hopes for the future. Enjoy this weeks episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

03-13
01:15:50

Random Thoughts of the Week

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I send my condolences to Tina Turner & Jacky Oh. I also share my thoughts about British Williams fraud case. During this week's episode I share my thoughts on work place harassment, club etiquette for women, and thirsty men in the club. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

06-05
33:04

My Black Is Beautiful

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions about Tokyo Toni & Blac Chyna's relationship. This weeks topic is about my encounter with a black man who celebrated my blackness but was disgusted with the additives that black women use these days. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

05-19
30:42

Vet 'Em Right

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions on how I felt about Nick Cannon's response to RTT getting canceled and eating around the tissue. This weeks topic is about vetting someone intentionally and realizing the superficial questions don't teach you about a persons character. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

05-05
28:29

Don't Forget About You Sis

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my thoughts and opinions on how this Shanquella Robinson case is playing out. This weeks topic is about motherhood and how it made me fall into a deep depression because I didn't establish boundaries. I also share how I got out of it and ways that I choose me unapologetically. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

04-14
24:29

Wanna Be Poly?

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I touch on doing things right by societies standards and ending up alone and unhappy and also resolving miscommunications between siblings. This weeks topic is about my point of view on polyamory and how I can and cant understand why people live that lifestyle. If I would indulge or not and my reasons why. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share

04-07
24:24

Fight Your Own Battles

I'm back with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I congratulate Blac Chyna on her transition back to Angela. In this episode I'll share a little story time and how repeating conversations can lead to the destruction of relationships and being mature enough to have hard conversations with people when your feelings get hurt. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations. Comment, subscribe, follow & share.

03-29
25:30

Unlearning Bad Habits

I'm backkkkkk with another episode and for this week's Red Hot Topic I share my opinion on the Mexican kidnappings and Bishop Whitehead. This week is all about unlearning bad communication habits some of us witnessed as a child. I share how those bad habits effected me and my reasoning for wanting to undo those bad habits. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

03-10
33:05

Reason's Why I Joined The Military

Your favorite sister is back with another episode and for this week's history lesson I talk about how General Marcelite Harris career was so inspiring to black military members today. I also share the reasons why I joined and how I'm thankful for the decision I made to join at 17. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

02-27
25:19

It's Black History Month

Your favorite sister is back with another episode and is ready to celebrate Black History Month! This week for the Red Hot Topic I give a little history lesson about a Black way maker that doesn't get the shine she deserves. I also speak on the recent situation with the Memphis police and how i feel about all of it! Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

02-07
30:35

Family Introductions

Your favorite sister is back with another episode and a special guest! This week we me and my husband discuss introducing potential love interest to our families and whether or not doing so is still considered sacred. We also touch on Nick Cannon and his village of baby mommas. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

01-07
30:57

2022 Recap/Lessons

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This weeks episode is all about how 2022 was for me and the lessons this year taught me and where I want to be in the new year. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

12-31
33:00

Mad Maddy

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week I share a story about a new friendship quickly went south and other random messy situations from Coach Stormy to trending TikTok relationship drama. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

12-16
29:37

Protecting Your Peace

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week I talk about how important it is for me to protect my peace. How dealing with my triggers and going to therapy helped me get to a space where peace is my priority over all things. Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

10-24
29:26

One Year of LA Livin'

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week with my special guest Lay, we discuss what it's been like livin' in LA for one year.  The highs and lows of moving cross country away from our families, trying to fit into the LA scene, and being a dark skin women in the land of dreams.  Enjoy the episode. Comment, subscribe, follow & share. Follow the pod on IG at @_messy_situations

10-03
33:32

Let's Get Married

Your favorite sister is back with another episode! This week is about I give my opinion on men who seek out young women. I also talk speak on whether on not as a women you should be expecting your man to propose to you. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_restricted=1  Comment, subscribe, follow & share.

09-19
27:49

Lunch With A Coworker

Your favorite sister is back with another episode. This week I share my recent experience of going to lunch with a coworker of the opposite sex. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_restricted=1  Comment, subscribe, follow & share.

09-05
28:54

Dream Chaser

Your favorite sister is back with another episode. This week I speak on being a dream chaser in my mid 20s and what my options were growing up with big dreams. Enjoy the episode. Follow the pod on IG at https://www.instagram.com/_messy_situations/?__coig_restricted=1  Comment, subscribe, follow & share.

08-16
16:56

Be Black & Be Proud

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! This week we talk about how our feelings towards black people who fake like they mixed and they not. Black girls wearing colored contacts in 2022 and the token black person among their group of white friends. Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG at _messy_situations. Comment, like subscribe, follow & share.

06-20
22:01

Trap Church's

Your two favorite sisters are back with another episode! In this episode we share how we feel about these 2022 churches. How it's hard to find a good church these days, the music has changed and how the vibes are way different as we've gotten older. Enjoy the episode. Follow us on IG at _messy_situations. Comment, like subscribe, follow & share.

06-13
23:07

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