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Mid Life Crisis isn't just buying a new car! Known to those in the trenches, MLC starts with depression and way too often ends with destruction like you have never imagined, AND....most sadly it's caused by the one person you are closest to and have trusted the most to share and build your life with. NO ONE IS IMMUNE, most of us thought we would NEVER end up divorced, many of the guests you'll hear from had been happily married over 20, 30 and even 40 years! Learn what red flags to look for in YOUR relationship, learn what to do and what NOT to do if your partner appears to be in limerance or showing the signs of MLC. We will also be talking directly with people who are presently in MLC and will share what it's like to live through this most challenging time of their life. These are the stories you won't hear anywhere else, so grab your beverage, get comfortable and join us as we hear the untold stories of MLC.
The stories and events discussed in this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered legal or professional advice. Any names, locations or identifying details have been changed to protect privacy. Any similarities to actual persons, living or dead, or real events are purely coincidental.
The information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Always consult with a qualified expert regarding any decisions related to your specific situation. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host or the podcast creators.
The stories and events discussed in this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered legal or professional advice. Any names, locations or identifying details have been changed to protect privacy. Any similarities to actual persons, living or dead, or real events are purely coincidental.
The information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Always consult with a qualified expert regarding any decisions related to your specific situation. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host or the podcast creators.
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Welcome to our very first Thanksgiving Episode - all week we have been touching on reminders of all the wonderful things in our lives even at the darkest time of being dragged through MLC. There is still so much to be grateful for and in today's episode we speak with Kenda-Ruth Stumpf of MidLifeCrisisMarriageAdvocate.com who reminds us to look at this time as a time of transition, clarity and while our spouse struggles with finding their identity we have the opportunity to reinvent ourselves! We can once again pursue our passions often put aside during marriage and child-rearing. Kenda-Ruth says Crisis = Danger and OPPORTUNITY. So let's focus on opportunity, it's YOUR TIME now and you truly can live with intention and grace. Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Gratitude Week!
In this podcast episode, the host encourages listeners to find gratitude despite being engulfed in chaos. Children, often the unseen heroes amidst midlife crisis fallout, deserve recognition for their resilience and strength. The episode emphasizes the power of holding onto truth and resisting the urge to rewrite one's history amid false accusations and narrative changes. It’s a celebration of surviving the psychological turmoil with integrity intact. The message serves as a reminder that even when faced with a circus of lies, staying true to reality can be a profound source of strength.
Celebrating our Grateful Thanksgiving week today we focus on gratitude for the growth that comes from overcoming life's challenges. We reassure listeners that healing is unique to each individual, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging red flags and building a more secure future. We discuss pain as a catalyst for personal rebirth, highlighting the balance between embracing vulnerability and establishing new personal boundaries. Ultimately, it's a call to live authentically, anchoring oneself in reality rather than being swept into chaos.
Gratitude Week takes a bold turn as we dive into the difficult reality of midlife crises. Host Trina Laird leads a heartfelt discussion on appreciating steadfast truths, even when they upend lives. This episode explores the strength found in adversity, the courage of those who choose truth over convenience, and the resilience of children during familial disruptions. A message of hope is spread, promoting self-integrity and healing as formidable responses to crisis.
As we launch Gratitude Week Trina disccusses the shifts from traditional Thanksgiving themes to appreciating clarity, resilience, and the support one receives from non-blood-related family members. This episode emphasizes understanding the generational patterns contributing to crises, highlighting the courage it takes to break these cycles. Listeners are encouraged to cherish the strength built in adversity and value the unyielding support system beyond traditional family lines.
Today's episode highlights the internal struggle individuals face as they attempt to flee from their inner 'monsters,' projecting their fears and dissatisfaction onto those closest to them. With references to popular films and classic literature, this episode underscores a timeless narrative of humanity's battle with internal demons. Midlife Crisis isn't about your spouse escaping YOU, it's really about your spouse escaping THEMSELVES.
Trina hosts Nikki on the 'MLC Bomb Drop and Beyond' podcast, where they dive into the emotional depths of a midlife crisis fueled by infidelity. After a 26-year marriage built on partnership, Nikki's world turned upside down upon receiving an anonymous letter about her husband’s affair. Her story reflects on the unraveling of their relationship, the emotional fallout on her family, and her personal growth journey. Nikki’s experience underscores the hidden emotional battles behind midlife crises and highlights tenacity, healing, and the path to personal empowerment. Nikki is now becoming a coach specializing in helping others surthrive divorce and build a second act they can be proud of!
This episode explores the intersection of midlife crisis and supernatural beliefs, using the story of Mara, whose husband's betrayal led her to a spiritual journey. Despite doctors finding no explanation for her sudden physical symptoms, Mara felt she was cursed after her husband participated in a 'blessing' ceremony in Brazil. By engaging in a cleansing ritual, she reclaimed her peace and alleviated her symptoms. This narrative highlights how, in times of emotional turmoil, individuals may seek spiritual solutions for psychological distress, emphasizing the psychological impact of betrayal and the potential therapeutic role of rituals in finding closure.
In this emotional podcast episode, Karen shares her story of how a seemingly perfect marriage was upended by her husband's midlife crisis. From their meeting in 2001 to a sudden and unexplained departure in 2022, Karen details the impact of her husband's erratic behavior and questionable decisions. Despite moments of happiness, underlying issues such as unprocessed trauma and loss eventually surface, creating a tumultuous and painful journey for the family. Karen's narrative highlights the challenges faced by many spouses left behind in the wake of a partner's midlife crisis.
In this episode of 'Midlife Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond,' host Trina Laird delves into the unsettling reality of midlife crises, particularly the trend where individuals in crisis marry their affair partners. She provides an unfiltered look at how these courthouse weddings are less about love and more about justifying previous betrayals and running from loneliness. Through vivid descriptions of the tense atmosphere and emotional turmoil, listeners are made to see these weddings as performances rather than genuine unions, highlighting the distress and disruption left in their wake for everyone involved.
This episode explores how mlc pushes individuals into a realm of psychological and spiritual darkness, impacting families and communities significantly. The episode discusses the role of affair partners in exacerbating the crisis, offering what seems like freedom but ultimately adding to the destruction. By highlighting these issues, the podcast aims to shed light on the deeper emotional turmoil and provide support for the affected families, stressing the real and lasting impact of midlife crises on loved ones.
In this episode our host aligns the MLC experience with Adjustment Disorder, a recognized condition in the DSM that responds to specific stressors and exhibits intense symptoms just like MLC. By framing the midlife crisis within this psychological context, it emphasizes the importance of early diagnosis and treatment to help individuals navigate personal upheavals and prevent long-term detrimental effects. The conversation pushes for redefining midlife crises as disorder progressions that legal and mental health frameworks should consider, helping save relationships and personal well-being.
This episode describes the progression from destructive chaos to the silent, introspective 'tunnel' stage, where the affected party is physically present but emotionally distant. While the crisis-stricken individual battles an internal war, the podcast advises family members to focus on their own healing journey.
In this episode, the host traces the history of how the term 'midlife crisis' was coined in the 1960s by Canadian psychoanalyst Elliot Jacques. Before becoming part of popular vernacular, midlife crises were often misunderstood and mislabeled as 'second adolescence' or a 'nervous breakdown'. This episode explains how the term allowed for more dialogue and understanding around this developmental stage, while stressing the necessity for its inclusion in the DSM. The host calls for greater awareness and study, asserting that acknowledging this stage's psychological roots will provide better support for those affected.
This episode explores the unsettling reality of midlife crises, highlighted by rumors surrounding Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman's marriage. It discusses how a midlife crisis can lead to unexpected behavioral changes and relationship breakdowns, even in high-profile marriages. Listeners are reminded that they are not alone in experiencing such challenges, and resources are shared to help those navigating this turbulent life stage.
This episode uncovers the hidden layers of midlife crises, focusing on the devastating impact they have on families and relationships. It draws parallels with the psychological thriller 'The Girlfriend', explaining how it mirrors real-life experiences with its portrayal of sociopathy and manipulation. Through detailed analysis, the podcast addresses how these patterns manifest in midlife crises, urging listeners affected by these issues to reach out and share their stories to foster a communal sense of support and resilience. The message is clear: those facing these struggles are not alone, and their voices matter.
This episode continues with Ruth's story as we dive deep into the emotional turmoil of experiencing a spouse's midlife crisis and gender transition. It sheds light on the psychological effects left behind on partners and families, focusing on issues like gaslighting and the feeling of widowhood without a death. Through the personal testimony of a left-behind spouse, listeners gain insight into coping with the drastic changes and loss, while uncovering the importance of support systems for healing. It explores the journey of rediscovering one's identity and the power of shared experiences in overcoming such challenging life transitions.
In our Season 2 Premiere we are introduced to Ruth, a wife navigating the emotional complexities of her husband's unexpected transition into a woman. Amidst their 13-year marriage, Ruth was blindsided by this revelation and found herself grappling with not just marital breakdown, but a dramatic transformation that left her questioning what else in their past had gone unsaid. With three teenagers in the mix, Ruthie shares her attempts to support her spouse while managing feelings of betrayal and confusion as she was told to adapt or leave.
In this episode of 'MLC Bomb Drop and Beyond,' the discussion delves into the perplexing world of midlife crises and their uncanny resemblance to frontotemporal dementia (FTD). The host highlights the emotional turmoil experienced by families and draws parallels between these conditions, using Bruce Willis's diagnosis as a reference point. Listeners are urged to reconsider judgments about erratic midlife behavior and remain vigilant for underlying neurological causes. The episode emphasizes the importance of medical testing over therapy when red flags appear, and stresses leveraging community support and expert resources to navigate these life-altering challenges.
This episode focuses on the intersection of midlife crises, dreams, and unresolved emotional trauma. Sharing her dream analysis, the host highlights the symbolic representation of her marital issues through her pet's imagined escape, aligning it with her husband's affair. The discussion extends to the recurring nightmares experienced by her friend's ex-boyfriend, drawing connections to the childhood trauma of living in a volatile family environment. The conversation emphasizes recognizing red flags in relationships and understanding family patterns to preempt potentially traumatic life events, advocating for introspection and healing in personal growth journeys.
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