MissPerceived

Leah Ruppanner is a no-nonsense Sociologist from the University of Melbourne on a mission to dispel society’s biggest and most divisive gender myths. In MissPerceived, Leah will tackle pervasive questions and draw upon decades of academic research and evidence to debunk the gender myths that benefit no one - showing that women aren’t better than men at seeing mess or multitasking, and that men aren’t bumbling caregivers who can’t change a diaper or find the keys. MissPerceived will show how as a society we use these myths to explain gender inequality and maintain the status quo. Leah doesn’t shy away from tough topics and touches on all those messy conversations about life including sex, relationships, work, parenting, and self-help. MissPerceived showcases how we got here, where we need to go next, and how to get there.<hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

The Mental Load: "Where Are We Now?" (w/ Haley Swenson)

The mental load isn’t just about managing household tasks and mental to-do lists —it’s about carrying the weight of everything happening around us. From the rise of AI to the cost-of-living crisis and threats to democracy, our cognitive and emotional burdens are shifting in ways we’re only beginning to understand.In this episode, Leah and Haley Swenson from the New America Better Life Lab dive into the meaning of "mental load," who carries it, and whose responsibility it is—individuals, families, organizations, or governments. We also explore how partners share (or don’t share) the load and what solutions exist for a more balanced future.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

03-27
49:15

Is Menopause Still a Workplace Taboo?

Menopause is a natural transition in life, but should you talk about it at work? In this episode, Leah dives into the latest research on menopause in the workplace, your reproductive rights, and the policies (or lack thereof) supporting women through this stage. How do symptoms impact your career? And what does this mean for your identity at work? Tune in for expert insights on navigating menopause on the job.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

02-25
20:30

Do Queer Couples Share Housework More Equally?

Do queer couples break free from traditional gender roles, or do old patterns creep in? In this weeks episode, Leah explores how LGBTQIA+ partners divide housework compared to heterosexual couples. Is the split more equal, or do unseen forces shape who scrubs the dishes and who takes out the trash? Tune in for an academic deep dive into love, labour, and the politics of domestic life!Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

02-18
24:36

Gift-Giving: A Timeless Love Language or An Outdated Burden?

Love languages say gifts = love, but should we rethink the way we give? Women often take on the emotional and financial labour of gift-giving—planning, making, and wrapping—while men’s gifts can sometimes feel like a quick fix for deeper issues. And with rising costs, is the pressure to give even sustainable? In this episode, we unpack the gendered side of gift-giving, the financial weight of presents, and whether it’s time to break free from the expectation that love = stuff. Tune in as Leah discusses the politics of presents!Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

02-11
21:18

Are Men Smarter than Women?

In this episode, we break down the science of intelligence—cognitive, emotional, and beyond—to challenge outdated stereotypes. Is intelligence a spectrum? How do we measure it? And why do we still equate IQ with superiority? Tune in as we dismantle the myths, explore the biases, and reveal what intelligence really looks like. Who’s smarter—men or women? Or is that the wrong question entirely?Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

02-04
29:52

Are Workplace Friendships a Problem?

Can friendships at work boost connection or blur the lines between professional and personal life? In this episode, we dive into why workplace friendships matter, their impact on productivity, and whether they foster belonging or complicate boundaries. Tune in as Leah explores the surprising role of camaraderie in the workplace!Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

01-28
20:35

Are Women’s Friendships Fragile or Fierce?

In this episode, Leah explores the research on the power of women’s friendships—how they evolve, fade, and transform over time. We delve into why society often undervalues these special bonds in favor of romantic relationships and examine the unique ways friendships sustain and empower women. From moments of shared laughter to unwavering support, discover how these connections help women navigate challenges and celebrate life’s milestones.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

01-21
23:58

Do Women Gossip More than Men?

Do women really gossip more than men, or is that just another stereotype? In this episode, we unpack the loaded word “gossip” and explore its surprising role in strengthening social bonds. Why are women often judged harshly for it, while men seem to get a free pass? And is it even gossip—or just sharing information that matters? Join us for a thought-provoking chat on the power, perception, and potential of a little juicy conversation.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

01-14
31:23

Who's the CEO of Your Family?

"Who keeps the family ties from unravelling? From buying gifts to organising holiday dinners, kinkeeping often falls on mothers, stepmothers, aunts, and oldest sisters. But why is it mostly women? In this episode, we dive into the unsung labour of kinkeeping, explore the roles women play in holding families together, and uncover what the research reveals about this invisible work."Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

01-07
14:59

Are New Year's Resolutions BS?

Happy New Year! Join Leah for our first podcast of 2025, where we'll be diving into why resolutions often fail, the difference between bold goals and bite-sized ones, and the strategies that actually work to make your goals stick all year long. If you’re ready to ditch the guilt and set yourself up for success, this episode is for you!Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12-31
16:45

Can Women Thrive in Tomorrows Workplace?

As workplaces evolve, what does the future hold for women? In this episode, we dive into how women are positioned in the changing job market, the skills they’ll need to thrive, and whether the future of work is truly equitable. From automation to AI, we unpack the trends shaping women’s careers. Don’t miss this thought-provoking episode about the challenges, opportunities, and road ahead for women at work.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12-17
16:14

Do women have higher pain thresholds?

Are women really better at handling pain, or is it more complicated than that? In this episode, join Leah as she dives into the fascinating world of pain thresholds, exploring the biological and social factors that shape how men and women experience pain. From hormones to social conditioning, discover what research reveals about gendered perceptions of pain—and why it matters. Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12-03
24:08

Are women's mental loads heavier?

Join us for a special live recording of MissPerceived, where Leah explores the complexities of the mental load and examines whether the invisible burdens of daily life contribute to burnout. Join us as we engage with our live audience through interactive polls and thought-provoking questions to investigate how this experience varies among different groups, including women, parents, and caregivers, and uncover the connections between mental load and burnout.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11-21
49:59

Are men dirtblind?

Do men really not see mess, or is there more to it? In this episode, we explore the 'dirtblind' debate—are men just wired differently, or is it all about gender roles and societal expectations? Join us as we unpack the myths, norms, and realities behind housework, cleanliness, and the invisible labor that keeps homes running.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-29
13:01

Are intelligent women more likely to stay single?

Today we ask: Do more intelligent people struggle to find a partner? And are highly intelligent women more likely to stay single? Join us as we dive into the complex intersection of intelligence, relationships, and the challenges smart women face in love. Can brains really complicate the heart?Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-22
24:55

Is BMI bullsh*t?

In this episode, we dive into the shady origins of the Body Mass Index, exposing its gender bias, discriminatory roots, and why it's a flawed measure of health. Discover how a centuries-old equation became mainstream—and why it's time to ditch it for good.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-15
21:07

Are Women More Burnt Out Than Men? Understanding the Mental Load

Join Leah as we explore why burnout is an epidemic among women. Is it a gender issue, is it all because of the kids, or is something deeper at play? Tune in as we dive into the causes, consequences, and solutions of reclaiming balance in a post pandemic world.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-08
23:52

Are Dads Being Shut Out of Childcare? Breaking Down the "Maternal Gate"

Have you heard of 'maternal gatekeeping'? Join Leah as she dives into how control over parenting decisions can impact the division of labor and whether it perpetuates gender gaps in childcare responsibilities.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-01
23:27

Do Women Have Fewer Orgasms Than Men? Understanding the Pleasure Gap

In this weeks eye-opening episode, we share awkward laughs and blushing moments as we talk about the "orgasm gap"—is it really true that women have fewer orgasms than men? We unpack the facts around gender, age, and even sexual orientation to find out more about the big 'O'. Get ready for a fun, candid conversation that sheds light on a topic people don't talk about nearly enough!Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-24
19:01

What’s Holding Women Back at Work? Breaking Down 5 Career Barriers

In this episode, we dive into 5 common phrases women say that are unknowingly holding them back—like "I'm sorry for unloading on you" and "I don't want to step on anyone’s toes." We unpack the myths behind these statements, why women need to stop using them, and how ditching them can empower you to own your voice. Get ready for some serious truth bombs and a confidence boost!Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcastFollow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-17
21:31

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