Moby Sugar's Croonings

Do you stay?  Do you leave?  But the kids? Family? Friends? Finances?   At 7 p.m. US Central Time tonight, we will be talking matters of the heart join us as we converse on this topic. I believe enough is enough with folks hurting, so make sure you join and let's swap tales.

Could you be attracted to the wrong person? Who are you secretly crushing on? Are there such things are Secret Relationships?? Why the hush on such?  We'll talking about these in the next hour. Be sure to join us live in the studio or on Facebook live MobySugar!

Blended families are tough to work with as we have seen in one of our previous shows.  This, however is a totally new dynamic and the question the writer has is "Will this relationship work out?" Join us on Tuesday night as we discuss the pros and cons of this seemingly precarious situation.  8:30pm folks!!! We all could learn a thing or two!

We have touched on the Abuse in so many spheres on our shows but never in this way!!! This next show promises to be very enlightening as we would be having join us a former victim and advocate for abused folks in the person of BUKOLA ORIOLA. She has lived the sordid life and now lives to tell her story as she educates the masses on this heinous act of Human Trafficking not many people are open to or even willing to talk about.  We are very excited to have her join us, so make ita point to be a part of the show as well next Tuesday! We all could learn a thing or 2!

Last week we dealt with the ladies. This time around, we'll delve in to find out what a Nigerian Man wants in his Wife.  What qualities makes a lady a Wifey Material to our men folk? How do they go about on this search? What Qualifies or Disqualifies a Wife material?  I am particularly interested as a female so join me and the crew Tuesday night at 8pm Central time and let's swap tales ?? Ps: Yes, I'm pimping my Bro! ??

As in!!!! The struggle is real yo!!! We are not just talking Naija men are scarce, NO!!! We're talking quality dudes!! A dude with an awesome job, correct credit, classy bloke, healthy a God lover, compassionate, passionate, romantic, selfless, generous, kind, caring, lover of kids.....the list goes on jare!!!  Ok so these are my own quantifiers of a "Quality Naija Chap" lol... This Tuesday, we will be looking at what makes a man a "Quality Husband Specimen" and truly if they are scarce? Maybe we're just looking in the wrong places and we've been jaded for so long and just don't know how to search or be sought out properly.  Join us at 8:30pm Let's swap tales!

Hmmm....       Hands raised up for those who read or watched the book/movie!  Anyhoo... It's another confessional night on the show come Tuesday at 8:30pm Central time.  Would you sign a contract as you enter into a relationship to keep all your knowledge and experience of said relationship a secret?  Would you allow yourself to be whipped just so you can say you've experienced something weird in a relationship/marriage?  Seriously, did this book/movie get Naija folks any more curious??? Hmmm... Btw...the movie was banned in Naija after one week of viewing!!!  Come share your thoughts and and opinions on this topic.. Let's swap tales ????

Seriously what is this world turning into?  Am I just an old school romantic?? What happened to "Princes in shining armor"??? Like seriously! This is really upsetting to hear in this world and age that we live in that a lady buys or pays for her own Engagement/Proposal Ring? Are you kidding me? I totally understand that these rings are expensive yes! But there are other options, no be by force!!! Was reading up on a blog how a lady got proposed to by her boyfriend with a ring SHE BOUGHT!! She called off the whole thing and now folks are breathing down her neck to take things easy. Seriously??? In that case, she might as well marry herself andbuild a family herself!!!  Ok I'll save my venting for the show on Tuesday! Join us at 8:30pm Central time as we pieces this yarns....??????

Since last week was a bust with folks on vacation, we bring to you this week....?? GHOSTING.. So...... Y'all have been dating or talking for a while, probably still in the "Getting to know yourselves" phase of your relationship and poof!!!! They're gone!!! No phone calls, no messages, no social media connections? What do you do?? Btw boo.... You have been GHOSTED!!! Join us tomorrow night at 8:30pm as we discuss this trend in relationships. Yes! It is indeed a trend and NO, it's not something you did!  ????????????

So...... Y'all have been dating or talking for a while, probably still in the "Getting to know yourselves" phase of your relationship and poof!!!! They're gone!!! No phone calls, no messages, no social media connections? What do you do?? Btw boo.... You have been GHOSTED!!! Join us tonight at 8:30pm as we discuss this trend in relationships. Yes! It is indeed a trend and NO, it's not something you did!  ??????

What would you do if you are this lady? Her wedding/marriage dilemma with her family  just has my jaw dropping! Me, I know what I'll do sha??  join us at 8:30pm Central time as we chat!  www.blogtalkradio.com/mobysugarscroonings 914 338 0831 call and join our convo!    Lady and her Fiancé live in the states, been planning her wedding since her engagement last fall. Sending money to her family to get things in order for the wedding as it would take place in Nigeria and her family resides there. Now the thing here is, this is her "Step-Family" Step Mum and Half Sister.    So..... ol' Girl reach Naija only to find out.... All the money she and beau have been sending is spent! No wedding plans or anything to that effect! And they can't account for how the monies was spent! Her wedding is next week!!    She so far has "uninvited" her step family and they are now calling her names, saying she is selfish, stingy and inconsiderate for not sending enough money to them.    Should she call the wedding off? Postpone, start from scratch? She has only 1 week now!   Story culled from www.nigerianweddingblog.com The pictures used have no attachment to the story in anyway. All Google stock.

My past is not something I'm particularly proud of. I have done some things I'm so not proud of. Back in college I was one of those girls that did "runs". It  started as a way to augment what my parents gave me and it later blew up to become a life style. To the extent that  people knew I was "Animashaun" but to be quite honest, it didn't bother me then because I had a nice car, clothes and lots of money to complement the work that most of my mates didn't have. After college, I met a couple of guys that got serious but somehow they always seem to find out my past and then quit the relationship. So I decided to move to America to change environment. It's been tough but I finally met a guy that loves me to bits and wants to settle. He is Nigerian and has contacts in Nigeria and alsowent to college there so it's only a matter of time before he finds out about my past. Should I lay it all down on the table for him before he finds out himself?   Disclaimer: None of the images used depict personally attached stories. All images are Google stock.

Here we go again folks... I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now and we are practicing abstinence. We've talked at length on so many topics but I have something I am yet to share with him. My Mum and Brother died from Aids 2 years ago. Ever since I have developed a phobia for getting close to men for fear passing any STI to him or even him passing an STD to me. I am yet to share this with him and we are getting closer daily. I really like this guy and would like to do the proper thing. Is it too early to ask for an HIV test? How do I even bring up the topic? Please help!!!

My Ex terminated his parental rights to avoid paying for child support which I was fine with because I can and do take care of my daughter. He has always disappointed the poor girl, no visits, no hugs, no relationship with my child so why even bother? Out of the blues he messaged me that he had a terminal disease and would like to visit his daughter, I agreed. He cut the visit pretty short and I vowed not to let my child go through that pain ever again. Only for me to find not long ago that he had a family, was settled and doing well. I am very upset and bitter that he could not love his first child just because!!! He will never see his child again! Am I wrong for now not wanting him to ever see his daughter again???  Join us tonight at 8:30pm Central time. Let's swap tales..

Whoop!!! We got 2 topics hence..... Double Header no pun intended!  Lol.... Topic 1 A lady asked, "It's my birthday next month and I really want to get a tattoo to celebrate myself but my husband says No! Should I still go ahead, after all it's my body?"  Topic 2  My Ex terminated his parental rights to avoid paying for child support which I was fine with because I can and do take care of my daughter. He has always disappointed the poor girl, no visits, no hugs, no relationship with my child so why even bother? Out of the blues he messaged me that he had a terminal disease and would like to visit his daughter, I agreed. He cut the visit pretty short and I vowed not to let my child go through that pain ever again. Only for me to find not long ago that he had a family, was settled and doing well. I am very upset and bitter that he could not love his first child just because!!! He will never see his child again! Am I wrong for now not wanting him to ever see his daughter again???  There you have it folks!!!! Join us at 8:30pm Tuesday lets swap tales! Btw.... I have a tattoo ??????

Its another day to reach out to our wonderful listeners and contributors, so  Misi sent us this topic!  In this age of timeless dating....yes!!! A term coined ?? we see folks dating for 3 to 9 years without a proposal in view. Indeed there are talks of an eventual marriage but ol' boy is still yet to pop the question. Poor chic has been waiting, dreaming or even planning her fairy tale wedding but dude is not asking.... So how do you get him to propose? Is that even something you as a lady have to scheme up?  Join us on Tuesday night at 8:30pm as we discuss this! Let's swap tales!!!

I saw this write up the other day on one of the social networks about a lady who met her husband's girlfriend. It really baffled me that she didn't say anything to her hubby or even the lady at the point they all met.....riding in his car!!! So the question comes to mind, "Women, what will you do in her shoes????" Start up a conversation, fight or just be silent like the said lady was? Join us tonight on the show let's chat!

Is this really a point of contention?  My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters. Lately my wife has been bugging me about trying for a boy to carry on my family name but to be quite honest, I don't want any more children. I am very content with my princesses and college tuition is not getting any cheaper!  Now, my wife and  mother have joined forces against me about having a male child because I'm an only son. My house is always on fire over this now. Please help because I truly can't afford anymore children!!! Join us tonight at 8pm as we discuss..... let's swap tales!

Where do you begin???  This is the plight of a friend who only recently discovered that the children he has fathered for 11 years are not his! Precious little kids now caught up in the crazy mix that is as a result of their mother's trysts.  Gist had been going on for years amongst their mutual friends and family as to the true parternity of the kids. His wife was known as an "Animashaun" a term used to discribe a promiscuous lady in Western Nigeria. The husband in question had ignored all that he's heard over the years, giving his wife the benefit of doubt that she wouldn't do that to him or the family.  At his mother's sick bed just before she passed, she made him promise to find out if he was the father of the kids, ages 11 & 7. He finally heeded his mother's plea and did a DNA test. YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!!!  He married his wife while she was 4 months pregnant with their first child against friends and families advice and now is caught between a rock and a hard place. Seeking our thoughts on what he should do next?  Join us on Tuesday night at 8pm as we discuss. Let's swap tales..

Sowing your royal oats can get one in a lot of trouble especially if you're not ready to deal with them. Such is the case of a friend of mine, here is his tale.... I'm a single guy of marriage age but I still haven't found that special woman to settle down with, while waiting, I have been playing the field. Recently I got a cold call from an Ex-fling who happens to be a Family Friend (we've messed around a few times) saying she is pregnant for me.  I do not want to marry her but at the same time I don't want to have a child out of wedlock. My mom is ecstatic about the news because the girl's mom is one of her BFFs. Matter of fact she is already shopping for Aso-ebi and planning a quick wedding. Thing though is I do not love this girl. My mom is awaiting my go ahead to plan things in full gear, what do I do or say?? There we have it folks!!! What should this brother do??? Join us on Tuesday as we swap tales and learn a thing or 2??