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For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.

Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.

Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.
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When Clare Cory was a young girl, she dreamed of love. But by the time she turned 50, she hadn’t found it. Still, she took a look around and found she was happy and looking forward to the future. Clare fell in love with life. She saw flowers bloom, watched sunlight sparkle on the water and held her cat on her lap. Her heart was full.And then, as Clare faced cancer and was about to turn 60, romance arrived.On today’s episode, Clare explains how she fell in love when she least expected it. Listen until the end for an update on Clare’s love story.This episode is adapted from Clare’s Tiny Love Story from 2024, Finally Finding “The Magic.” Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.
The holiday season is upon us. It’s a wonderful time, but if we’re being honest, it’s also a little stressful. Whether you’re worried about hosting a big family gathering, talking with cousins who have very different perspectives on politics or awkward questions from prying aunts, the holidays are full of complicated relationship dynamics. On this episode of “Modern Love,” Nedra Glover Tawwab, a therapist, responds to questions from listeners about making the holidays just a bit more tolerable. Tawwab is the author of “Drama Free,” a guide to having better relationships with family, and the forthcoming book “The Balancing Act,” which is all about creating healthy dependency within relationships. She tells us why Black Friday is her practice’s busiest day of the year, and how we can all take control of our own holiday experience.  How to submit a Modern Love Essay to the New York TimesHow to submit a Tiny Love Story Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.
Explore the trials and tribulations of love in these deeply personal essays. A collaboration of The New York Times and WBUR in Boston, Modern Love: The Podcast features the popular New York Times column, with readings by notable personalities and updates from the essayists themselves. Join host Meghna Chakrabarti (WBUR) and Modern Love editor Daniel Jones (NYT) -- and fall in love at first listen. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.
Comments (237)

Jejj

‼️ Good episode- her books are also great.

Nov 27th
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Elyas Arsanjani Toroqi

Please upload more episodes

Nov 23rd
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Paz Ibarra Muñoz

What on EARTH did I just listen to?! I will not be reading a memoir from an abuser's perspective

Sep 29th
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Hamed zahedi

i can't say "I love you" to my best friend, so I'll say it here. I love you man 🖤

Aug 20th
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Willie Mwaniki

it's been 5yrs and I'm still in love with this episode it just talks to me and now it's my togo to wonder how meg is funny thing I have a friend named meg and well l don't know how she's doing either we also met the same year I think it's still the best episodes I've listened to not much but some of it's lines I have then in my mind thanks modern love

Aug 7th
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Willie Mwaniki

it's been 5yrs and I'm still in love with this episode it just talks to me and now it's my togo to wonder how meg is funny thing I have a friend named meg and well l don't know how she's doing either we also met the same year I think it's still the best episodes I've listened to not much but some of it's lines I have then in my mind thanks modern love

Aug 7th
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Willie Mwaniki

it's been 5yrs and I'm still in love with this episode it just talks to me and now it's my togo to wonder how meg is funny thing I have a friend named meg and well l don't know how she's doing either we also met the same year I think it's still the best episodes I've listened to not much but some of it's lines I have then in my mind thanks modern love💕 #modernlove

Aug 7th
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Paz Ibarra Muñoz

Oh Celine has said Past Lives was semi autobiographical too

Jul 7th
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Zahra Baratpoor

what a beautiful story 💕 It really touched me

May 26th
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Jejj

💜

Apr 3rd
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mahya

Love this episode soooo much🩵

Feb 20th
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Jejj

I loved this episode- these 36 questions got me through a rough time, and this article is a good reminder to stay open to the possibilities. 💖

Feb 14th
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Riana

alright let me understand this, they had sex once? and he's totally GAY. but they had sex one time, right? do they sleep with other people?

Feb 11th
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steve

18:56

Feb 2nd
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steve

4:10

Feb 2nd
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Paz Ibarra Muñoz

Surreal that a tech company would actually build something they saw on Black Mirror. It's like that meme about the Tornent Nexus.

Dec 17th
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Shahrzad Hashemi

This episode was insanely beautiful

Dec 16th
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Jejj

This was a fascinating listen- based on the title I was ready to be disgusted, but by the end I had a totally different set of emotions. Talk about trying to make lemonade out of lemons, and his outlook about it all is impressive, I don't think I'd be so magnanimous.

Nov 25th
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Pâmela Garcia

I was shocked by the story, before listening I was angry with him but during the episode I'm able to understand him. I don't completely agree but his attitude is acceptable. It's worth listening. Thanks for the opportunity to improve my English listening to real and interesting stories.

Nov 25th
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Jejj

This episode was heartfelt and heart wrenching; the title is definitely clickbait-y, but the interview is artfully conducted to tell the story well.

Nov 21st
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