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Not As We Planned
Author: Tash Gershfield,Carly Harris
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When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com NEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY PATREON EPISODE EVERY MONDAY https://linktr.ee/Notasweplanned Producer: Tristan Hehir
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We answer some intrusive questions we always get asked… also sharing our biggest icks, green flags and teaching men what women really like
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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We are so happy to be back and with a new name and look! We have a big catch up to update you on what you’ve been missing, we hear from the ex husband of an email we’ve shared previously and seeing how he never changed because he’s gone and done it to the other woman!!!
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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When he’s playing away from home with 3 different women, finding out your husband is having an affair with a lesbian, and the continued abuse from the ex wife.
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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Producer: Tristan Hehir
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Learning that sometimes the news we dread is a blessing in disguise, finding love again but losing the naivety of forever, the coparenting dilemma and the micro penis scenario
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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A man’s side of the story, the getaway escape, catching your partner paying for prostitutes and do you tell your friend their husband is cheating
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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We discuss the coparenting holiday, the fuck buddy dilemma when dating a walking red flag, how many chances you should give before it’s time to leave and we talk about having a partner with an addiction problem
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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Talking about the challenges of co-parenting, seeing that therapy can make all the difference and infinitely doesn’t always ruin a relationship
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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Our theory on being ghosted, whether a rape fantasy is a red flag and a major breakthrough from a previous story.
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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When you are to blame for your partner cheating, the 29 year old barmaid, and a dog shit blowj*b
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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Talking about getting the snip, when your partner cheats on you with his ex, working out if money can really buy you happiness and phone full of prostitutes.
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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When you realise you’ve been dating a criminal, trying to catch your sister cheating on her husband and turning lesbian when you’re sick of men!
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Abuse and Rape
We talk about self sabotaging a good thing after dealing with a toxic relationship, the strangest messages you’ve received on dating apps and the sad reality of continuing to stay in a relationship where you see no change.
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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When she finds out her partner is cheating on the other woman with another one, the cheating husband whose dating a 21year old when he has a 19 year old daughter, and sharing an experience that allows her to go no contact
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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When your best friend of 25years starts having sleepovers with your baby daddy, your man finally changes but is it too late and the teenage work colleague who loves a country lane!
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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Marking episode 40 with our first ever live podcast with an audience! We never would have dreamed we could get here and this quickly and that’s because of all our amazing listeners so thank you! We talk about the other woman meeting your kids, how to give a blowjob and being invited to a threesome you weren’t aware of. Here’s to the first of many live events!
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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We talk about second chances and if they really work, befriending the ex girlfriend and girl boss energy vibes only.
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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It's another dating episode and this might be the most shocking one yet! The stories had us on the edge of our seats, in fits of laughter and then a surprise confession from one of the hosts!
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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We share your bad scenarios in your relationships which you found yourself in but still stayed! Normalising staying and it’s not always easy to leave. Witnessing Tash’s new glow and hearing from a now happy couple who took on our advice
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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For the first time we share some updates with you from previous stories we have shared and showing that there is light at the end of the tunnel
Producer: Tristan Hehir
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