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Productivity, Parenting, and Education for Moms with Adult ADHD
Are you overwhelmed by the never-ending to do list of motherhood? Are you burnt out and barely keeping your head above water? Are you confused and frustrated by how all the other moms make it look so easy? And somehow you're still floundering despite trying even harder...
Your purse is as overflowing as your mind, you never feel like a good enough mom, and you don't dare have anyone over to visit to witness your messy home. You just want the best for your kids, but you can't figure out how to manage the chaos, both in your mind and in your house.
Oh, I've been there, mama. Some days, I'm still there. Parenting with ADHD is hard!
We want to be structured for our kids, yet we can't seem to stay consistent even for ourselves. But I'm letting go of everyone else's perception of a "good mom" and stepping into loving who I am a little more each day. Will you join me?
Whether you have ADHD like I do, or think you might, here is your permission slip to let go of the pinterest worthy visions of organization and structure fit for everyone else. Let's do life like our brains do life: creatively, lovingly, and with all your might. Moms with ADHD have a superpower of always trying their best, even when it doesn't pan out.
How do I know? I have known about my ADD for over twenty years, and I want to share all of this hard-earned ADHD knowledge with you, making your adjustment a lot easier and faster than mine was.
What does Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder look like in women? We'll dive into emotional regulation, motivation, executive function, hormones, medication, and natural treatments. Women with ADHD share their diagnosis stories with us, whether inattentive, hyperactive or combined, from childhood through adult diagnoses. We also talk about ADHD's so-called friends like depression, anxiety, addiction, disordered eating, other learning differences, and what I've learned through therapy and CBT.
Science is my jam and learning about how our brains work through the lens of scientific research helps us understand who we are. ADHD is not just for little boys; it looks different in girls.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is a neurological medical condition, not an excuse for lazy, stupid, unmotivated people to not live up to our potential. Let's agree to throw that thought in the trash.
Once we understand how our brains work, we can dive into the practical strategies like structuring our day, minimalism, money, nurturing our relationships, daily rhythms, using a planner, and improving our sleep. I want to help you build your version of a joyful family life.
We talk about everything from ADHD to Zebras, because that is how Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder works: to us, our thoughts are clearly connected, but non-linear to everyone else. I want you to love being a zebra in a world full of horses. We were born as unique, gorgeous creatures, not meant to blend in with the usual nor mundane.
When we embrace who we are and how our brains work, we can figure out how to live out lives successfully and in turn, lead our families well.
At the end of the day, we just want to be good moms. Spoiler alert: you are already a great mom.
If you're ready to see that with your own two eyes, hit play and listen in as we love ourselves a little more each day of our ADHD lives. ADHD does NOT mean you're doomed to be a hot mess, mama!
You CAN rewrite your story from shame spiral to success story, and I'll be right here beside you to cheer you on!
With love, Patricia Sung, a fellow mama with ADHD
Free Resources and Transcriptions at: motherhoodinadhd.com
Connect with Patricia Sung on Instagram: www.instagram.com/motherhoodinadhd
Join like-minded mamas in our Successful Mama Meetups online community: https://www.patriciasung.com/meetup
Sign up for community, courses, coaching, and tons of free resources to learn about ADHD: www.patriciasung.com
Are you overwhelmed by the never-ending to do list of motherhood? Are you burnt out and barely keeping your head above water? Are you confused and frustrated by how all the other moms make it look so easy? And somehow you're still floundering despite trying even harder...
Your purse is as overflowing as your mind, you never feel like a good enough mom, and you don't dare have anyone over to visit to witness your messy home. You just want the best for your kids, but you can't figure out how to manage the chaos, both in your mind and in your house.
Oh, I've been there, mama. Some days, I'm still there. Parenting with ADHD is hard!
We want to be structured for our kids, yet we can't seem to stay consistent even for ourselves. But I'm letting go of everyone else's perception of a "good mom" and stepping into loving who I am a little more each day. Will you join me?
Whether you have ADHD like I do, or think you might, here is your permission slip to let go of the pinterest worthy visions of organization and structure fit for everyone else. Let's do life like our brains do life: creatively, lovingly, and with all your might. Moms with ADHD have a superpower of always trying their best, even when it doesn't pan out.
How do I know? I have known about my ADD for over twenty years, and I want to share all of this hard-earned ADHD knowledge with you, making your adjustment a lot easier and faster than mine was.
What does Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder look like in women? We'll dive into emotional regulation, motivation, executive function, hormones, medication, and natural treatments. Women with ADHD share their diagnosis stories with us, whether inattentive, hyperactive or combined, from childhood through adult diagnoses. We also talk about ADHD's so-called friends like depression, anxiety, addiction, disordered eating, other learning differences, and what I've learned through therapy and CBT.
Science is my jam and learning about how our brains work through the lens of scientific research helps us understand who we are. ADHD is not just for little boys; it looks different in girls.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is a neurological medical condition, not an excuse for lazy, stupid, unmotivated people to not live up to our potential. Let's agree to throw that thought in the trash.
Once we understand how our brains work, we can dive into the practical strategies like structuring our day, minimalism, money, nurturing our relationships, daily rhythms, using a planner, and improving our sleep. I want to help you build your version of a joyful family life.
We talk about everything from ADHD to Zebras, because that is how Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder works: to us, our thoughts are clearly connected, but non-linear to everyone else. I want you to love being a zebra in a world full of horses. We were born as unique, gorgeous creatures, not meant to blend in with the usual nor mundane.
When we embrace who we are and how our brains work, we can figure out how to live out lives successfully and in turn, lead our families well.
At the end of the day, we just want to be good moms. Spoiler alert: you are already a great mom.
If you're ready to see that with your own two eyes, hit play and listen in as we love ourselves a little more each day of our ADHD lives. ADHD does NOT mean you're doomed to be a hot mess, mama!
You CAN rewrite your story from shame spiral to success story, and I'll be right here beside you to cheer you on!
With love, Patricia Sung, a fellow mama with ADHD
Free Resources and Transcriptions at: motherhoodinadhd.com
Connect with Patricia Sung on Instagram: www.instagram.com/motherhoodinadhd
Join like-minded mamas in our Successful Mama Meetups online community: https://www.patriciasung.com/meetup
Sign up for community, courses, coaching, and tons of free resources to learn about ADHD: www.patriciasung.com
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Do you feel like you're already running on fumes – and it’s barely breakfast time? You’re not alone. In this conversation from the Happy Mom Summit, I talk with JoAnn Crohn of the No Guilt Mom Podcast about what really drains our energy as ADHD moms – and how to recharge in realistic, doable ways. Spoiler alert: it’s not about naps and bubble baths (unless you love those). It’s about understanding your own patterns, recognizing the difference between physical, mental, and emotional energy, and creating a rhythm that actually works for your brain. We also dig into how ADHD makes energy management trickier, why asking for help feels so hard (but matters so much), and how to tell the difference between when you need to push through… and when you need to rest. Plus, I share more about my Energy Recharge Workshop, and why it's one of my favorite ways to help you find your spark again. This episode is your permission slip to stop chasing those unicorn days, and start making peace with what realistically works for you. You are not a robot. Let’s give ourselves some grace. Thank you to JoAnn for sharing this conversation! Listen to the No Guilt Mom Podcast here or on your favorite podcast app: https://www.noguiltmom.com/ Yes, I’m still writing the first book for Moms with ADHD, publishing February 2027. Keep up to date on all things book writing and/or join the beta reader team here: patriciasung.com/book Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-273-adhd-energy-management-for-moms-managing-your-daily-energy-levels-with-joann-crohn-happy-mom-summit Links mentioned in this episode: Get the ADHD Energy Recharge Workshop: patriciasung.com/energy You’re not alone. “This is a chance to invest in yourself and build a community that will empower your future. Worth it!” –ADHD Mama D.B. Our annual all-inclusive ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 just outside of Houston, Texas! And we hope you’re coming, too! I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Having a circle of moms who support you and believe in you matters. Reserve your all-inclusive ticket here: patriciasung.com/retreat Ticket sales close 9/18/25 or when the last ticket is sold.
You start the day with good intentions. “This afternoon, I’m going to drop off this return real quick.” But then you can’t find the box. Or the tape. And now your printer is out of ink. Suddenly, the whole day’s gone, and the box is still sitting by the door. Sound familiar? In this episode—recorded from my car in full chauffeur-mom mode—I’m breaking down why your ADHD brain struggles to finish simple tasks. Spoiler: it’s not because you’re lazy. It’s because what looks like one small task is actually a full project with multiple steps... and no one told us that. I’ll walk you through the three phases of any project (even the “easy” ones): deciding, preparing, and doing. And more importantly, how recognizing those steps can save your time, your energy, and your self-esteem. If you’ve ever beat yourself up over why that return never made it to the post office, this one’s for you. You’re not lazy. Your brain just needs a different approach. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-272-you-are-not-lazy-adhd-why-you-do-not-finish-simple-easy-tasks Links mentioned in this episode: Wanna hear the scoop on what’s going on behind the scenes? Snag a free ADHD resource and sign up for my emails here. You deserve a break. Our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is soon, October 10-12, 2025 in Houston, Texas! You're officially invited :) “Gift yourself the opportunity to meet like-minded people (literally), make instant friendships, and the space to finally be yourself.” –ADHD Mama T.H. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Because you deserve to take care of yourself too. Grab your all-inclusive ticket here: patriciasung.com/retreat
Watching your child struggle is pretty much the worst. Not knowing what to do about it is more than icing on the doo-doo cake. I've got your back, mama! In this episode of Motherhood in ADHD, I dive into the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges of parenting a struggling child. When your child needs help, but you don’t know where to begin, this episode is for you. From dealing with overwhelming chaos to understanding the unique dynamics in a family affected by ADHD, here are my key tips to help you navigate the stress. So, buckle up, mama, because we're about to unpack the struggle bus and turn it into the ambulance you need for support during a crisis. In this episode, I’m sharing the five essential C's for helping your struggling child. First up, we zoom in on crisis management and understanding what’s on fire before taking action. Then, we delve into the critical aspect of self-care for moms because, let's be honest, we can't pour from an empty unicorn mug. We also explore caring for our kids, making sure they find their own spaces to shine and thrive. Plus, we emphasize the importance of building strong connections and boosting our kids' confidence, because every little victory matters. So, put on your driving gloves, grab a cup (or 40 oz travel mug) of coffee, and get ready to drive into a world of empathy, support, and practical advice on nurturing your struggling child. Because among the chaos, you're already a fantastic mom who’s trying her best, and you're not alone in this bumpy journey. ***Note: This episode originally aired in March of 2024. As I write my book on Motherhood in ADHD while my boys are at home all summer (send prayers and patience), I'm sharing past episodes that topped the charts last year. I know these episodes will support you with some integral skills for ADHD and lots of virtual hugs. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-271-kid-struggling-with-adhd-how-to-help-adhd-child-in-crisis Links mentioned in this episode: Episode 120: 4 Things You Should Do To Prepare for Your ADHD Diagnosis Appointment: Taking the fear out of this intimidating and scary step: Q+A Session Episode 158: Symptoms of Inattentive ADHD or Just Your Quirky Personality: What does Adult ADHD look like in women? Free ADHD resource: Get my ADHD Symptoms Checklist here Super stressed and need a break? Come along on our 4th annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat, October 10-12, 2025 in the Texas countryside, located at the Happy Goat Retreat! “Honestly, this was one the best weekends I've had since becoming a mom. I've never felt so seen and understood. I would hop on a plane and go again. No hesitation! I'll follow y’all anywhere, moms.” –ADHD Mama J.Q. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. I take care of you while you learn how to take even better care of yourself, in a way that’s sustainable for real momlife. Because you can take care of your family well when you’re in a healthy place. It’s time to get your ticket: www.patriciasung.com/retreat
Ever feel like if you say no to a good opportunity, you’ll regret it forever? Like the next big thing is right around the corner... and you’ll miss it if you stop moving? I’ve been there. Saying no is hard, especially when your ADHD brain loves chasing shiny new ideas. In this episode, I’m sharing a clip from my friend Jacki Hayes’ podcast where I answered, “What’s the biggest business lesson you’ve learned lately?” And spoiler alert: it wasn’t about business strategy. It was about letting go—of plans, of good ideas, of the fear that saying no means missing out. You’ll hear why I closed something I loved, how I made peace with doing less, and what happens when you create space for what truly matters. And if your brain, like mine, struggles with feeling like every season is forever... this one’s for you. Come take a deep breath with me. You’re not falling behind when you say no—you’re making space for what’s next. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-270-saying-no-and-not-missing-out Links mentioned in this episode: Jacki’s podcast: Here’s What I Learned Super stressed and need a break? We’re learning more about trusting and loving yourself after years of feeling like you don't quite fit the expectations at our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat, October 10-12, 2025, just outside of Houston, Texas! “Honestly, this was one the best weekends I've had since becoming a mom. I've never felt so seen and understood. I would hop on a plane and go again. No hesitation! I'll follow y’all anywhere, moms.” –ADHD Mama J.Q. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. I take care of you while you learn how to take even better care of yourself, in a way that’s sustainable for real momlife. Because you can take care of your family when you’re in a healthy place. Because you can take care of your family when you’re in a healthy place. Get your all-inclusive ticket here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
Do you ever feel like an emotional sponge, absorbing the feelings of others around you? Especially when you’re with someone you care about? Especially when you’re in certain parts of your cycle? Extra especially when they are agitated, frustrated, angry, or anxious? In this episode, we dive deep into understanding emotional regulation, stress management, and the unique challenges faced by moms with ADHD. From absorbing everyone else's emotions to navigating the stress ladder, we'll explore the struggles and I’ll offer practical strategies for finding balance and grace in the midst of the storm. You CAN learn to hear your own signals and trust them, as well as build your stress tolerance to help you regulate during the day, in spite of the rest of your and your family’s stressors! And once you know how, you can teach your kids how to increase their stress tolerance, too. ***Note: This episode originally aired in April of 2024. As I write my book on Motherhood in ADHD while my boys are at home all summer (send prayers and patience), I'm sharing past episodes that topped the charts last year. I know these episodes will support you with some integral skills for ADHD and lots of virtual hugs. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-269-adhd-adult-tantrum-meltdown Links mentioned in this episode: Episode 183: More Than Chore Charts: How to use visual communication to connect with your ADHD child and yourself, even if you're not creative with Laura Matteson More episodes on Emotional Regulation: Episode 72: Emotional Regulation, Executive Function and ADHD Episode 73: Self Regulation, Executive Function and ADHD Episode 102: Emotional Regulation and Support for Overwhelmed Parents with Adult ADHD with Dr. Edward Hallowell Episode 175: Exit the Emotional Rollercoaster: How to Help Your ADHD Child Build Their Emotional Regulation Skills with Dr. Carrie Jackson Episode 182: How I Overcame RSD and Saved My Marriage (and stopped being a yelling, angry mom) Episode 205: Emotional Sponges: How to Stop Absorbing Other People's Feelings by Defining Your Boundaries and Building Your Emotional Regulation Tools - A Behind the Scenes Look into my Small Group ADHD Coaching Program Lighthouse You’re not alone. “This is a chance to invest in yourself and build a community that will empower your future. Worth it!” –ADHD Mama D.B. Our annual all-inclusive ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 just outside of Houston, Texas! And we hope you’re coming, too! I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Put it on your calendar now. There are just a few tickets left, so get yours now. Having a circle of moms who support you and believe in you matters. Register for your all-inclusive ticket here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
Ten weeks. Fifty-five thousand words to go. One big, messy dream. I'm officially writing a book, and I’m on a serious countdown. But let’s be real, life isn’t made up of word counts and deadlines. This season is stretching me in ways I didn’t expect, and I’m reminded (again) how hard it is for me to ask for help. So I’m uncomfortably practicing that skill. In this episode, I’m sharing the behind-the-scenes reality of what it looks like to chase a giant goal as a mom with ADHD. From reworking my timeline and outsourcing laundry to crying on the front curb, this story gets personal. You'll hear how a season of grief, a loving husband, and a research fund created ripple effects that showed up in the most unexpected way over 20 years later. We often don’t get to see how it all comes together, but this week I got a glimmer of hope and encouragement. If you’ve ever questioned whether your hard season means anything… this one’s for you. You don’t need a book deal to matter. Your efforts, your tears, your small wins, they all count. Need some hope today? Come sit with me in the mess. Let’s find the meaning together. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-268-this-season-is-hard-tears-not-wasted Free ADHD Resource: How to Manage Your ADHD Beyond Medication You’re not alone. “This is a chance to invest in yourself and build a community that will empower your future. Worth it!” –ADHD Mama D.B. Our annual all-inclusive ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 just outside of Houston, Texas! And we hope you’re coming, too! I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Put it on your calendar now. Having a circle of moms who support you and believe in you matters. Register for your all-inclusive ticket here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
What “should” you have done already? Finish your degree? Pass your driver’s license test? Make that doctor’s appt? Left the house for school pickup? If you’re constantly thinking “I’m behind!”, this episode is for you. Often it’s literal, as in, “I’m 20 minutes late to my appointment!” But it’s also in the big things, like you “should” have more kids by now or gotten that promotion. You’re not alone! Feeling behind has come up in several discussions recently both in Group Coaching, and in writing my book. What are the patterns showing up in this pervasive problem among women with ADHD? Here’s how to move forward both logistically and mentally. ***Note: This episode originally aired in April of 2024. As I write my book on Motherhood in ADHD while my boys are at home all summer (send prayers and patience), I'm sharing past episodes that topped the charts last year. I know these episodes will support you with some integral skills for ADHD and lots of virtual hugs. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-267-four-reasons-why-you-feel-behind It’s time to take care of you, mama: A whole weekend for you to relax and get away from all your weighty responsibilities, to understand your ADHD mind in community with moms who get it. Picture it: You, me, and 13 other ADHD mamas hanging out all weekend with plenty of acres and your very own adorable tiny home for you to enjoy the peace and quiet, too. Time to relax! Get your ticket now for the 4th annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat on October 10-12, 2025, and I’ll take care of everything once you arrive! https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
But I want to do everything... well. Ever find yourself trying so hard to get it just right… only to realize that you’re missing the whole point?!? This week, I’m sharing some very real behind-the-scenes of my life right now: juggling the end-of-school chaos, trying to write a book I’ve dreamed about for years, and realizing (once again) that perfectionism is still sneaking into the driver’s seat. In this vulnerable episode, I unpack the mental load of ADHD motherhood when the “busy” becomes relentless. I talk about asking for help (even when it feels bougie), redefining what “good enough” looks like, and letting go of the fantasy plan I had in my head. You’ll hear about my new sourdough hobby adventures, the emotional labor of summer transitions, and how I’m learning to hold my goals a little more loosely. Plus, I share what I’m learning from my work with Dr. Sandra Kooij’s team on rewording ADHD diagnostic tools for women to encompass a more realistic and relatable view, plus how that work is shaping the way I understand myself and my capacity. This isn’t a “wrap it in a bow” kind of episode. It’s messy, real, and honest. If you’ve been quietly wondering, “Why can’t I do it all?”, this episode is your reminder that you were never meant to. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-266-no-perfect-plan-letting-good-enough-be-good-enough Links mentioned in this episode: Episode 71 referencing Dr. Sandra Kooij's work: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/071-executive-function-adhd-energy-regulation Ready to get away? Our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 just outside of Houston, Texas! You're officially invited :) “Gift yourself the opportunity to meet like-minded people (literally), make instant friendships, and the space to finally be yourself.” –ADHD Mama T.H. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Put it on your calendar now. Because you deserve to take care of yourself too. Early bird tickets & bonuses close June 1st. Get your all-inclusive ticket here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
How do moms do ALL.THE.THINGS in a methodical, consistent manner? My client asked me this earlier this month. She wanted to see how someone else “does it all” in order to get a better grasp on what it looks like. Plus she asked for an example of a weekly schedule where somebody meal plans, cooks, takes care of their kids, and works part time. “Doing it all” is an overwhelming challenge that so many moms face. In this episode, I’m sharing a clip from our call where I explain how I do it all. Spoiler alert: I don’t do it all at the same time. This episode is a deep dive into real, actionable strategies to build a flexible weekly schedule that fits your unique brain—and your real life, messiness, and all. Reminder: you are not a robot. You’re also not parenting a bunch of predictable and programmable robots. Plus, ADHD is anything but predictable! Unless you’re predicting chaos… Soooo, how do you deal with unpredictability in a job that requires a lot of consistency, such as parenting? You work WITH your brain. Instead of chasing an unrealistic ideal, I’m walking you through a realistic plan that is easily adjusted as your life (and your kids!) change. Lowering the chaos starts with identifying what is most important to you, taking care of yourself, and implementing your foundational schedule in baby steps. Peek behind the curtain as I share my own approach to balancing meal planning, part-time work, household chores, and kid schedules, emphasizing the power of routines, batching, and giving yourself grace when things don’t go as planned. Tune in for: The honest truth on why consistency in motherhood is a myth (and why systems and batching are your new best friends) A step-by-step walkthrough of creating a foundational schedule that works for real humans (messy mornings and all!) Why “bare minimum” isn’t lazy—it’s brilliant Meal planning hacks that even “please-don’t-make-me-cook” mamas can love Permission to do less, love yourself more, and actually enjoy motherhood—even when the doo-doo hits the wall (literally and figuratively) This episode is packed with practical tips for lowering decision fatigue, embracing imperfection, and giving yourself credit for how far you’ve come. Whether you’re struggling with meal planning, juggling conflicting priorities, managing transitions, or just feeling stuck in the chaos, I’ve got your back with honest advice and a reminder: you already are a great mom. Pop in your earbuds, take a deep breath, and let’s figure out together how to keep up with all the things—on your own terms. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-265-how-do-you-keep-up-with-everything-as-a-mom Looking for the kind of support you heard today? Join me for Group Coaching for live, personalized support, or DIY your schedule with my self-paced course Time Management Mastery for ADHD Moms. See Patricia’s Foundational Schedule Spring 2025 Purchase my Foundational Schedule PDF for $5 (this comes with Time Management Mastery for ADHD Moms, so download it inside that course for free) Ready to get away? Our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 just outside of Houston, Texas! You're officially invited :) “Gift yourself the opportunity to meet like-minded people (literally), make instant friendships, and the space to finally be yourself.” –ADHD Mama T.H. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Put it on your calendar now. Because you deserve to take care of yourself too. Early bird tickets & bonuses close June 1st. Get your all-inclusive ticket here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
Today’s episode is inspired by a friend’s surprise at how many ADHD-friendly hacks I use on a daily basis throughout my home. You have enough to do as a mom. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel on problems you’ve already solved in the past. Let’s reuse what you’ve already done! Here are some of my favorite lather, rinse, repeat systems that make life as an ADHD mom a little bit easier. Whether it’s simplifying packing with reusable lists, managing medication with monthly pillboxes, leaning on smart speaker routines to keep the household on track, establishing smoother transitions with my husband, or building efficient errand routines, I’m giving you a peek into the small-but-mighty systems that keep my family – and sanity – afloat. Plus, I want you to feel encouraged to embrace who you are, let go of perfection, and find joy in doing life the ADHD way. Grab your coffee or tea, take a deep breath, and let’s chat! Which of these five tried-and-true ADHD tools would help you to lessen decision fatigue and curb overwhelm this week? Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-264-five-adhd-hacks-make-mom-life-easier Links mentioned in this episode: Download my free Packing Lists and Travel Planning List here Download the 10 Ways to Stay Calm Video and Checklist for free Get my Simple Morning Routines for ADHD Moms course here Ready to get away? Our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 just outside of Houston, Texas! Grab your all-inclusive Early Bird ticket now! “This weekend was nothing short of a dream weekend come true! It was life changing to learn, to witness and experience the bonding amongst a group of women. I felt truly celebrated every moment. To bond with so many women neurodivergent mothers was truly a gift in itself. Only a mother could have thought of that many ways to check off the boxes. "✅treat,✅pause,✅relax" 🧘♂️🧘♂️🧘♂️” –ADHD Mama K.P. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Because you deserve to be taken care of, too. Early bird tickets & bonuses are available until June 1st. Sign up here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
Ever feel like you’re “just too much”—too scattered, too loud, too mistake-prone, too ditzy, just…too all over the place? Maybe you dropped your phone in the ocean and screamed “noooo” until you cried? (Raising my hand slowly…) If so, you’re in the right place. This last couple of weeks has been tough – a sinus infection, perimenopause brain fog, sunburned kids, lost phones, scraped bumpers, too-much-talking children, and waves of “am I too much for everyone?” If you’re a mama with ADHD barely keeping your head above the laundry—err, water—this one’s for you. Here’s what we’re discussing today: Why “careless mistake” is a phrase I wish would disappear (like my phone in the waves) The inside scoop on what “I’m too much” really means—and how it’s all relative (spoiler: it’s not you, it’s the situation and who you’re with) My tried-and-true tricks for loving yourself through chaos, mistakes, and feeling like a walking, talking, sticky note of forgetfulness How to communicate with your family when your ADHD turns up to level eleven—and what a little vulnerability can do for your relationships What it looks like when you stop trying to shove yourself into everyone else’s “normal” and start being unapologetically YOU (even if “you” occasionally forgets the sunscreen) A sneak peek at the amazing ADHD Mama Retreat—your chance for a whole weekend of self-care, nature, and connecting with mamas who actually get it (and won't judge you for that time you forgot your own age) This isn’t the land of Pinterest-perfect life. It’s the real, messy, laugh-so-you-don’t-cry journey of being a mom with ADHD who is embracing their quirks—and finally letting go of the “I should just try harder” myth. I’m hoping you feel seen, heard, and maybe even ready to forgive yourself for that thing you messed up last week (you know the one). Ready to hug your “too much” self and join a community of mamas who do the same? Hit play. And join us in October for the 4th annual ADHD Moms Retreat. Stick around until the end of the episode, when I’ll tell you all about this amaaaaaaaaaazing weekend that you just have to come to! Early bird tickets are available until June 1st! Why get your ticket this month? 1) Secure the shrinking payment plan - no added interest. 2) Choose the kind of tiny home you want while both are still available. 3) Grab an additional group coaching session during the retreat weekend. 4) Look forward to this trip All Summer Long! I’m toying with some other things, too, but I’ll leave a few surprises as well. Just in case you need more time, no worries. Early bird tickets are available until June 1st, and then Regular Tickets are available until the event sells out. Get your ticket, write me on your calendar, then come hang out with me and this sweet group of mamas in October. Reserve your spot on this relaxing weekend at https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-263-am-i-too-much-adhd-mom-retreat. Wish you felt better about all the stuff you’ve messed up recently? Need a weekend away to get your head on straight? You are officially invited to the 4th annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat, October 10-12, 2025, just outside of Houston, Texas! “Honestly, this was one the best weekends I've had since becoming a mom. I've never felt so seen and understood. I would hop on a plane and go again. No hesitation! I'll follow y’all anywhere, moms.” –ADHD Mama J.Q. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. I take care of you while you learn how to take even better care of yourself, in a way that’s sustainable for real momlife. Because you can take care of your family when you’re in a healthy place. Early bird tickets & bonuses are available until June 1st. Get your all-inclusive ticket here: https://www.patriciasung.com/retreat
How can you ask for help? When you have ADHD, you may not ask for help. Maybe you feel like you have to figure it out on your own. You may not want others to know you’re struggling or working this hard to keep up. Or maybe you don’t want to look weak or incompetent. But humans aren’t meant to function entirely solo. Mamas Nicole & Rebecca both submitted the question of how to ask for help. Here’s a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month themed "Help Me Help You (How to ask for help from your non-neurodivergent family, friends, and coworkers)” because the mamas requested this topic. You’re not alone in this. I’m sharing supportive strategies on how to share about your ADHD at a level that makes you feel comfortable. Then how to ask for help, even when you aren’t exactly sure what you need or how to explain it. Want to suggest a topic for a future podcast episode? Share your questions here: patriciasung.com/ask-a-question Let’s dive in! Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-262-how-to-ask-for-help-when-you-have-adhd Links mentioned in this episode: Episode 217: Friendships & ADHD: Ghosting, Awkwardness and More with Social Skills Expert Caroline Maguire Want practical help getting tasks off your plate? Grab my How to Outsource for ADHD Moms course. In under 30 minutes, you’ll be able to decide which tasks to get rid of and how to find the right person to help you do it to lighten your load today. This course helps you simplify your home life, as well as work or owning a business. Rooted Group Coaching for ADHD Moms is enrolling for next month. Join a group of moms who get it and cheer you on alongside expert coaching from me. Sign up here: patriciasung.com/group Free Resource: How to Manage Your ADHD Beyond Medication
What if everyone hates me? What if no one reads my book? No one told me that writing a book came with an existential crisis. Wrestling with how to write the book that moms need, while also showing up fully as myself, and writing words I can stand by for decades to come… this has been a lot more weighty than I expected. I thought I was going to be updating you on logistics, timelines, and contracts. What I’m mostly sharing is how I’m navigating a tough inner critic, anxiety, and people pleasing. Let’s jump in. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-261-what-if-everyone-hates-me-book Links mentioned in this episode: Ready to get away? Our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 in Houston, Texas! You're officially invited :) “Honestly, this was one the best weekends I've had since becoming a mom. I've never felt so seen and understood. I would hop on a plane and go again. No hesitation! I'll follow y’all anywhere, moms.” –ADHD Mama J.Q. (4th time attending) I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. I take care of you while you learn how to take even better care of yourself, in a way that’s sustainable for real momlife. Because you can take care of your family when you’re in a healthy place. Learn more here: patriciasung.com/retreat Or go directly to the waitlist and add your name here: patriciasung.com/retreat-waitlist Episode 10: How to be Less Late: An ADHD Guide for improving timeliness when you are time blind Episode 238: Setting Boundaries and Navigating Criticism: Managing RSD, Hypersensitivity, and Overstimulation with ADHD Tell me what you want to read about, join the beta reading team, or just be nosy about the first book on being a mom with ADHD: patriciasung.com/book
HOT TAKE: I don’t believe people with ADHD are lazy. There is a reason that they don’t want to or can’t do the thing, and when you untangle that obstacle, voila! It’s easier to get things done. How do you know the difference between procrastinating and prioritizing for later? There are some things in life we can’t avoid, so how do you deal with them? How do you know when it truly is not the time for certain tasks and feel okay setting them aside without worrying if you’ll never remember them again? Here’s a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month themed "Procrastination or Burnout? (How to tell the difference between when you need rest & when you’re avoiding something)” because the mamas requested this topic. You’re not alone in this. I’m sharing supportive strategies for dealing with too many tasks – many of them unappealing – and not enough time to do them all. Understanding ADHD's impact on prioritizing makes a huge difference in how you deal with the never-ending to do list of adulting and parenting. Let’s dive in! Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-260-adhd-lazy-procrastinating-or-prioritizing Links mentioned in this episode: Rooted Group Coaching for ADHD Moms is enrolling for next month. Learn how to get stuff done without the torture with ADHD friendly skills you can teach your kids, too. Join here: patriciasung.com/group Free ADHD Resource: The ADHD Secret to Overcoming Time Blindness
Ditch the quest for Pinterest perfection and actually get stuff done. In this episode, I’m getting real about how my book proposal is going amidst juggling the whirlwind of parenting and work projects. The highs and lows of writing are kicking in already. Do I need to write multiple books because there's just too much to say? Slow your roll, Patricia! One step at a time! I still have to balance work and family life, which is no easy feat, especially while ADHD and parenting are being greatly affected in America’s current situation. I don’t have a lot of answers today, but I have honest stories to share about what makes this goal difficult, yet worthwhile. Come along while I attempt to figure out how to make big dreams and goals a reality while keeping my sanity. I hope it gives you a boost of motivation to tackle a few items on your own chaotic to-do list while prioritizing your mental health. We can do this! Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-259-juggling-big-goals-parenting-with-adhd-book-update2 Links mentioned in this episode: Ready to get away? Our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat is coming up October 10-12, 2025 in Houston, Texas! You're officially invited :) “Gift yourself the opportunity to meet like-minded people (literally), make instant friendships, and the space to finally be yourself.” –ADHD Mama T.H. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. Put it on your calendar now. Because you deserve to take care of yourself too. Learn more here: patriciasung.com/retreat Or go directly to the waitlist and add your name here: patriciasung.com/retreat-waitlist
When you’re hiding in the bathroom in a puddle of tears on the floor, what do you do next? When you’ve yelled at your family and said things you regret during a grownup temper tantrum and wish you could hide under a rock forever, what do you do next? When the shame and guilt and overwhelm feel like too much to bear, what do you do now? It’s so common for those of us with ADHD to get overwhelmed and shutdown or say things we regret. Here’s a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month themed "Your Reset Button (How to reset after a total shutdown or meltdown)” because the mamas requested this topic. You’re not alone in this. I’m sharing supportive strategies for dealing with stress and moving forward when it feels hopeless or impossible. Understanding ADHD's impact on your emotional regulation makes a huge difference in how you deal with stress. Big hugs. Let’s talk about it. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-258-reset-after-adhd-meltdown-shutdown Links mentioned in this episode: When you feel anger rising, how can you find calm and stay present in the moment? Hit play on Slow Down, Be Present: a calming audio private podcast for both sleep and anxiety. It’s only $9. Snag yours here: patriciasung.com/slowdown Rooted Group Coaching for ADHD Moms is enrolling for next month. Learn how to deal with your emotions with ADHD friendly skills you can teach your kids, too. Join here: patriciasung.com/group Free Video and Checklist → Stop Medusa Mom: 10 Ways to Calm Down
You chose this person for a reason. You love them. Aaaaand relationships are complicated. Sometimes you may not LIKE your partner as much as you love them. Adding ADHD in the mix is more than another layer of complexity to your relationship, whether it affects you, your partner, or both. As Valentine's Day approaches, here’s a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month theme "I love you, but I don't like you". I’m sharing supportive strategies for fostering strong, loving connections. Understanding ADHD's impact on your relationships makes a huge difference in how you interact together and stay together. I’m adding a relationship twist on my three foundational principles: learning about ADHD, taking care of yourself, and asking for help. Strong loving relationships are possible for ADHDers, too! Let’s discuss! Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-257-adhd-relationship-support Links mentioned in this episode: Rooted Group Coaching for ADHD Moms is enrolling for next month. Join here: patriciasung.com/group Free Download: ADHD in Women Common Symptoms Checklist
I’m writing a book for moms with ADHD. Whoo-hoo! First up, I want your input! What do you wish you had known years ago about having ADHD? What do you wish more people were talking about? Tell me what you want to read about: patriciasung.com/book Are you interested in joining the beta reader team? Fill in the same form and check the beta reader box: patriciasung.com/book Wanna follow along with how I’m gonna make this project doable as a mom with ADHD running two businesses while trying to be a good wife and mom, and keep my health and sanity thriving? Follow along here (yup, same form): patriciasung.com/book What else is happening in 2025? *Rooted Group Coaching for ADHD Moms is enrolling for next month. Join here: patriciasung.com/group *Want to DIY getting your life together? Grab one of my self-paced courses: patriciasung.com/everything *Hang out with me in person at the all-inclusive 4th annual ADHD Moms Retreat happening October 10-12, 2025! The 8 tickets remaining will be available for purchase in the spring. Add your name to the waitlist: patriciasung.com/retreat-waitlist This episode is a peek behind the curtain on what’s going on for 2025, both personally in the Sung family and professionally at Motherhood in ADHD. Lots of changes are happening over here, and I’m glad you’re along for the ride and cheering me on! Links mentioned in this episode: Episode 135 - Discounting Disability and Dismissing Disadvantages: Why we don't all have the same 24 hours in a day Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-256-book-for-moms-with-adhd Super stressed and need a break? We’re learning more about your stress response and how it relates to treating your ADHD symptoms at our annual ADHD Moms Weekend Retreat, October 10-12, 2025 in the Texas countryside, located at the Happy Goat Retreat! “Honestly, this was one the best weekends I've had since becoming a mom. I've never felt so seen and understood. I would hop on a plane and go again. No hesitation! I'll follow y’all anywhere, moms.” –ADHD Mama J.Q. I’ll take care of all the details - you simply show up and enjoy. I take care of you while you learn how to take even better care of yourself, in a way that’s sustainable for real momlife. Because you can take care of your family well when you’re in a healthy place. Grab your spot or Add your name to the waitlist here: www.patriciasung.com/retreat
Meet my friend Laura, host of the ADHD Aha! Podcast by Understood.org. In this episode, Laura and I chat about managing emotions with ADHD - especially as a mom who yells a lot. Laura shares: Patricia Sung was diagnosed with ADHD in her first year of college. It wasn’t until she became a mother, and other people relied on her, that she realized just how much ADHD affected her. Patricia now hosts the Motherhood in ADHD podcast. Join Patricia and host Laura Key as they talk about managing emotions with ADHD. Patricia explains the concept of “raging” — that moment when you go from 99 to 100 and emotions boil over. She also shares strategies that can help! Laura Key is an editor and content strategist with nearly 20 years of experience. As host of the ADHD Aha! podcast, she draws from her own experiences with ADHD. This lets her connect with podcast guests and listeners on a deeper level. Her knowledge covers a wide range of subjects, like parenting, special education, lifestyle, and more. Be sure to subscribe to the ADHD Aha! Podcast. Understood's instagram Understood’s LinkedIn Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-255-emotional-regulation-yelling-mom-adhd-aha-understood-laura-key Welcome to the Best Of Friends Series, where you are meeting a few of my friends in the podcast community. I’m sharing interviews that I have done on other friends’ podcasts. Not only do you get a new episode, I hope that you’ll find a few shows to add to your podcast queue. There’s a wide variety of topics coming your way, so keep an eye out for a new friend each week this January. Stop anxiety in its tracks! Join me in my upcoming workshop: The ADHD Anti-Anxiety Workshop. In under an hour, I'll teach you how to — >> use 1 simple movement to disrupt growing anxiety so you can avoid a total shutdown >> save yourself the embarrassment of panicking in public with a subtle move to pull yourself together >> stop anxiety in its tracks quickly and easily with repeatable skills so peace can be yours long term Cherry on top - it’s free. For now. Sign up today: patriciasung.com/workshop
Meet my friend Danielle, host of the Failing Motherhood Podcast. In this episode, Danielle and I chat about the ups and downs of being a mom with ADHD. Danielle shares: "You can't have ADHD! You have a master's degree!" ... and other misconceptions about ADHD. Whether you've been diagnosed, related to the memes, or have a child that's been diagnosed... this episode is for you! Patricia Sung, Adult ADHD coach and host of Motherhood in ADHD, is here to share her journey into diagnosis, understanding her unique brain, and empowering other moms to do the same. We normalize the struggle, share new insights, and reflect on the powerful act of breaking cycles. In this episode, we covered... --Common traits and misconceptions of ADHD beyond being forgetful --Her go-to tools for managing anger while parenting --Ways to work WITH your ADHD to boost your self-compassion as a parent And don’t miss… --The double-edged sword that is having family with ADHD Positive-Discipline certified parenting coach, Danielle Bettmann, empowers parents to crack the code of their strong-willed child's personality, meet their deepest core needs to improve their behavior, and find new levels of patience. An early childhood educator, certified teacher and home visitor, Danielle now equips parents from all over the world with over Zoom! Instead of inadvertently inviting defiance by using traditional tools or playing "whack-a-mole" with short-sighted reactions, families get on the same page and learn how to cultivate cooperation while being KIND + FIRM at the same time! Host of the well-loved podcast, Failing Motherhood, she's passionate about eliminating shame from parents' vocabulary, reminding them they are the parent their kids need. She is also a mom to two daughters, wife of 15 years to her high-school sweetheart, and an avid fan of sunshine and coffee. Be sure to subscribe to the Failing Motherhood Podcast! Danielle’s website Danielle’s instagram Danielle’s LinkedIn Welcome to the Best Of Friends Series, where you are meeting a few of my friends in the podcast community. I’m sharing interviews that I have done on other friends’ podcasts. Not only do you get a new episode, I hope that you’ll find a few shows to add to your podcast queue. There’s a wide variety of topics coming your way, so keep an eye out for a new friend each week this January. Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-254-adhd-failing-motherhood-danielle-bettman Stop anxiety in its tracks! Join me in my upcoming workshop: The ADHD Anti-Anxiety Workshop. In under an hour, I'll teach you how to — >> use 1 simple movement to disrupt growing anxiety so you can avoid a total shutdown >> save yourself the embarrassment of panicking in public with a subtle move to pull yourself together >> stop anxiety in its tracks quickly and easily with repeatable skills so peace can be yours long term Cherry on top - it’s free. For now. Sign up today: patriciasung.com/workshop
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This is by far the best ADHD podcast I've listened to. Everything is so relatable and she gives you everything you need to implement REAL change in your life. I'm so grateful to have found this, thank you!