NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - The Intersection Of Open Relationships & Sexual Wellness

In this episode Scott surprises April with a gift he's been emotionally working towards for months and months. It's his theory, called Wild Love Theory, and he's implementing it with April despite his fears and insecurities and her hesitancy in actually using the gift. Wild Love Theory is Scott's keynote address at 2025's Be Better At Being Bad event at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. The theory states that "Imposed relational boundaries prevent maximal relational happiness."Scott discusses the basics of the new theory without going too deep into the details (which will be released in full on January 10th). But the resulting summary is this... April no longer has any imposed relationship boundaries from Scott. She can flirt, connect, message, date, play, or love whomever she chooses, whenever she chooses, and to whatever degree of frequency she desires. Listen in on this discussion and let us know what you think! 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorSmoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [2 rooms left] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

This episode covers everything you've ever wanted to know about Naughty Gym, including...How Naughty Gym startedWhy we started itWhy we don't post butthole pics :)The 3 primary parts of Naughty Gym, fitness membership, events, and the podcast, and why we created each.The future of Naughty Gym and mine and April's passion projectsThe big tease of upcoming new Lifestyle resorts in America that will raise the bar on stateside resorts.👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 USA Today article about Naughty Gym: https://tinyurl.com/58v7r2ntUpcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorSmoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025 - [2 rooms left] https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

We talk about all things Orgies with Dan & Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast. We work through the pros and cons, mindset approaches, how to avoid potential issues. The 4 of us live very close to each other but don’t get to visit very often so we take full advantage of the opportunity to have a fun conversation. Listen in as we discuss serious topics like how women can best use their voice when considering an orgy. Then laugh as Scott says he needs a reason to have sex with someone while Dan explains he needs a reason not to. Find out everything you want to know about SWING NATION…https://theswingnation.info👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorSmoky Mountain Holidaze- Nov 1-6th, 2025- https://www.naughtygym.com/smoky-mountain-holidaze

In this episode we bring in special guests, The Flirty Swingers, to discuss the idea of equality in non-monogamous relationships.We tackle questions like...Is equality a reasonable goal in non-monogamy?Should each partner be willing to work toward accepting and bringing to fruition the desires and fantasies of their partner?Is it okay to dig in your heels and tell your partner "no" to certain scenarios?If you are allowed to do a thing, is it only fair that you allow your partner to do that same thing?Are certain imbalances inherent in all relationships?How to safely work on these imbalances?Is it ever wise to be unwilling to work toward gifting your partner their unfulfilled fantasies?We tackle these questions, hopefully present good advice, and have a lot of laughs in the process.FLIRTY SWINGERS LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theflirtyswingers/YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theflirtyswingers-jl4qw?si=-5bMptMZpFI2kXVjPodcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7wC8YETbcsyxp7bg5B0B5n👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorDating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

Are feelings something you should avoid at all costs when swinging? Are we all just a bunch of cyborgs having fun with our emotions turned off? What happens if your partner says they are developing feelings for someone?Even worse, what if they fall in love? How bad can it be? How do we handle it if it happens?We discuss all of these topics in this episode of The Naughty Gym Show. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In this episode we talk with OUT Foundation Vice President Paul Raker about their mission in the LGBTQ+ community and their partnership with Naughty Gym to create a fundraising effort called PrideFlex. We discuss a range of fitness issues within the LGBTQ+ community, the shared struggles with non-monogamy, and how PrideFlex can help.REGISTER FOR PRIDEFLEX HERE!

Do you experience religious shame or guilt because you choose to live a consensually non-monogamous lifestyle? Are you trying to find a way to reconcile these 2 different aspects of your personhood?In this episode we talk with Mitch & Cyndee, experts on the reconciliation of religion and non-monogamy. They give some phenomenal advice on carving a path forward that allows you to live this beautiful non-monogamous lifestyle while still being true to your religious faith.They also refer us to some great books that can help you navigate this issue:Sex, God, and the Conservative Church, by Tina Shermer SellersShameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex), by Nadia Bolz-WeberThe Wisdom of Your Body: Finding Healing, Wholeness, & Connection through Embodied Living, by Hillary L. McBrideThey further recommended an online course called "The Bible and Swinging" written specifically to address this issue.---------------👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Naughty Gym Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorDating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In Episode 30 we talk with Ashley Manta about how we can know whether or not we are good in bed. We all (well, mostly guys) think we are good in bed. But how do you really know? Can we be living under the illusion that we are good when in reality we ain't that great? Are there signs we can look for? Are women often faking it? Are guys typically over confident? Is it a turn off when guys brag about there supposed oral skills... or any of their skills? Is it all about physical skills or is there more important things we should be focused on? How do we get better? We answer all of these questions on this episode with Ashley Manta, the Cannasexual! Ashley Manta's website: www.ashleymanta.com NAUGHTY GYM WEBSITE: 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Naughty Gym Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In Episode 27 we reviewed April's first separate date with a man who wants to be her submissive. The first date was dinner and drinks mostly for April to learn more about his submissive kink and what he hopes to get out of their relationship. In this episode, Luna Matatas, femdom extraordinaire, gives April an on-air lesson in how to prepare for her upcoming 1st big femdom session with her new boy toy.If you know April at all it may come as no surprise that she seems to be taking to this potential role with enthusiasm and throughout this episode sounds like she's going to be a natural. Listen in as Luna gives advice that is likely educational for anyone curious about the kink of power exchange.LUNA MATATAS WEBSITE: https://lunamatatas.com/en-usNAUGHTY GYM WEBSITE: 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Naughty Gym Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In this episode we interview 4 of the most important members of Hedonism II Resort's management team to get the inside scoop and ask questions about the day to day logistics of running the world's most iconic adult playground. We interview: Diane Lange, Executive Director Winston Barkley, Entertainment Director Tatiana Answer, Director of Sales and Marketing Diana Field, Groups Manager If you are considering a trip to Hedo but have never been, this is an opportunity to hear directly from the people who make this place so special. If you've been to Hedo many times before hopefully you'll really enjoy hearing from management when they are "off the clock." 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador MIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5 Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

After exploring the possibility of separate dating for about a year, one of us finally gets to do it. April went on her date and we recap it live on the podcast only 10 hours after the date was over. Somehow we managed not to discuss it until we turned on the mics and started talking the next morning. You'll get to hear us process the whole thing in real time. Additionally we made separate small audio clips each day over the last week leading up to the date. Neither of us knew what the other was saying or how we were feeling. And ultimately, we get into an argument. Listen in as we explain the process, the argument, and recap all the dirty details of an incredibly interesting first foray into the world of separate dating! 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmyDating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

Famed UK clinical nutrition scientist, philosopher, and April's apparent new boyfriend, Martin MacDonald is back on the show. This time we are going into detail about his evidence based Aggressive Diet Program to talk about how he is using science to prove you can lose a LOT of fat in a relatively short period of time. In the process of nerding out about nutrition we get sidetracked several times by descriptions of our private WhatsApp conversations with Martin and his girlfriend Alex and some of their hilarious stories about his jealousy kink. If you have an upcoming Lifestyle event and need to lean out in the safest, fastest way possible, your going to love this episode. It's long but absolutely worth it. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMixology, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmyDating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In this episode we tackle the difficult topic of saying "No" when someone propositions you with play when you aren't interested. It is always tough to hurt someone's feelings but it is unavoidable in consensual non-monogamy. Learning to be direct while simultaneously being polite is difficult but doable. In this episode we discuss when to say "no," how to say "no," and how to receive a "no." Most importantly we give you advice on how to craft a single response you can automatically use in any situation to say "no" while minimizing the chances of hurting feelings. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In episode 24 we try to break down the issue of expectations in consensual non-monogamy.It is all too common for one partner to have different (or no) expectations about events or non-monogamous life in general. These differences can too often be the source of bumps along the journey into more sexually open relationships.We attempt to define expectations, explain why the are usually not a benefit, how they can derail happiness at events, and how to reimagine how you think and mentally prepare for events in the lifestyle.And finally we offer our advice and how we think you can decrease your chances at leaving an event disappointed by learning shift your focus away from sex and more toward developing connections.👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMentioned in Podcast: Boys Next Door Menswear (Atlanta) https://boynextdoormenswear.com/ Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy —Dating Sites—SDC.comUse the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates—Shamelesscare.comED Meds & STI TestingUse code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

This episode was going to be April flying solo but she quickly calls Scott in when the wheels fall off. We discuss a few things that have been swirling around in that beautiful brain of hers. Everything from starting a non-monogamous commune to getting led to Jesus on the pickleball courts.👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador —Dating Sites—SDC.comUse the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates—Shamelesscare.comED Meds & STI TestingUse code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We interview journalist, sex coach, and CrossFit coach, Gabrielle Kassel. She has written extensively for major publications about sex, fitness, and the intersection of the two.We cover topics like her career, whether she's faced backlash for her personal life, non-monogamy, trans athletes, and more. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador —Dating Sites—SDC.comUse the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates—Shamelesscare.comED Meds & STI TestingUse code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common initial fantasies is to bring in a 3rd female... often called a unicorn. In this podcast, three experienced consensual non-monogamists discuss the realities and difficulties of making this happen and how to handle it if it does.  Here's the questions we tackle...  What is a unicorn? How hard is it to find a unicorn? How do you attract a unicorn? How should men treat a unicorn? How should women treat a unicorn? How should a unicorn respond to couples? How to take care of a unicorn after play.  Welcome to the Naughty gym show.   👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼   Upcoming Events: Spring Soirée - April 26-27 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/naughty-gyms-spring-soiree-tickets-827569862737?aff=oddtdtcreator   Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 More info:  https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page   —Dating Sites— SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!   —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We interview Victoria and her husband Ryan about their new venture, Birds Of A Feather Matchmaking. This is the industries 1st matchmaking service (as far as we know) for people in various forms of open relationships.  Is this for you? Do you need help making connections? Are you too busy to scroll through dating apps and want to outsource this part of your love life? Or how about some coaching on how to setup your profile? Or how about having a date with someone who evaluates your interpersonal skills? Birds of a Feather solves these problems for you.  It is incredibly interesting learning about the incredible amount of detailed work that goes into this process. And if you have the cash, this may be just the thing you've been looking for. April and I both think this service will be incredibly beneficial for many people.  Birds of a Feather Website Facebook Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn   Naughty Gym Website Naughty Gym Show (YouTube) Naughty Gym Spring Soiree, Huntsville, Alabama Be Better At Being Bad Week (at Hedonism Resort) Twitter Facebook Instagram TikTok

We sit down with Casual Swingers Podcast creators, Mickey and Mallory, while we are together in Nashville, to discuss our ideal play partners. Each of us answers a series of questions, very candidly, about what characteristics our perfect play partner would have. We tackle age, weight, height, hair, grooming, occupation, religious and political leanings, play styles, play scenarios, relationship status, and sexuality. Mix these insightful and raw answers with a lot of laughter and a few surprises and it makes for a great conversation between friends. As a bonus at the end, we all reveal 1 unfulfilled fantasy that we each have. In some cases this comes as a surprise to our partners! 

Nutrition Scientist (and philosopher according to April), Martin MacDonald, joins the Naughty Gym Show to discuss the intersection of nutrition, fitness, sex, and the occassional foray into religion. Scott and Martin low key form a bromance and April gets mad when Martin comes to Scott's defense about Diet Dr. Pepper. This was such a fun episode and it lasts about 90 minutes. But we talked for 2 hours and had to edit some great stuff out. Enjoy!  If you are sex positive and need help with your fitness or nutrition, visit our website and consider joining our growing community at: https://www.naughtygym.com Find our guest Martin MacDonald here:  https://www.martin-macdonald.com/ YouTube:    / @martinnutrition   Social media: Instagram: @MartinNutrition @enm_martin