The NAUGHTY GYM Show - Exploring Fitness, Sexual Health, and Open Relationships

In Episode 30 we talk with Ashley Manta about how we can know whether or not we are good in bed. We all (well, mostly guys) think we are good in bed. But how do you really know? Can we be living under the illusion that we are good when in reality we ain't that great? Are there signs we can look for? Are women often faking it? Are guys typically over confident? Is it a turn off when guys brag about there supposed oral skills... or any of their skills? Is it all about physical skills or is there more important things we should be focused on? How do we get better? We answer all of these questions on this episode with Ashley Manta, the Cannasexual! Ashley Manta's website: www.ashleymanta.com NAUGHTY GYM WEBSITE: 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Naughty Gym Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In Episode 27 we reviewed April's first separate date with a man who wants to be her submissive. The first date was dinner and drinks mostly for April to learn more about his submissive kink and what he hopes to get out of their relationship. In this episode, Luna Matatas, femdom extraordinaire, gives April an on-air lesson in how to prepare for her upcoming 1st big femdom session with her new boy toy.If you know April at all it may come as no surprise that she seems to be taking to this potential role with enthusiasm and throughout this episode sounds like she's going to be a natural. Listen in as Luna gives advice that is likely educational for anyone curious about the kink of power exchange.LUNA MATATAS WEBSITE: https://lunamatatas.com/en-usNAUGHTY GYM WEBSITE: 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Naughty Gym Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In this episode we interview 4 of the most important members of Hedonism II Resort's management team to get the inside scoop and ask questions about the day to day logistics of running the world's most iconic adult playground. We interview: Diane Lange, Executive Director Winston Barkley, Entertainment Director Tatiana Answer, Director of Sales and Marketing Diana Field, Groups Manager If you are considering a trip to Hedo but have never been, this is an opportunity to hear directly from the people who make this place so special. If you've been to Hedo many times before hopefully you'll really enjoy hearing from management when they are "off the clock." 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador MIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5 Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

After exploring the possibility of separate dating for about a year, one of us finally gets to do it. April went on her date and we recap it live on the podcast only 10 hours after the date was over. Somehow we managed not to discuss it until we turned on the mics and started talking the next morning. You'll get to hear us process the whole thing in real time. Additionally we made separate small audio clips each day over the last week leading up to the date. Neither of us knew what the other was saying or how we were feeling. And ultimately, we get into an argument. Listen in as we explain the process, the argument, and recap all the dirty details of an incredibly interesting first foray into the world of separate dating! 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMIXOLOGY, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmyDating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

Famed UK clinical nutrition scientist, philosopher, and April's apparent new boyfriend, Martin MacDonald is back on the show. This time we are going into detail about his evidence based Aggressive Diet Program to talk about how he is using science to prove you can lose a LOT of fat in a relatively short period of time. In the process of nerding out about nutrition we get sidetracked several times by descriptions of our private WhatsApp conversations with Martin and his girlfriend Alex and some of their hilarious stories about his jealousy kink. If you have an upcoming Lifestyle event and need to lean out in the safest, fastest way possible, your going to love this episode. It's long but absolutely worth it. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMixology, our next greet local party in Huntsville, Alabama, August 23-24th - https://tinyurl.com/bdct7hh5Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmyDating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!—Affiliates—Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In this episode we tackle the difficult topic of saying "No" when someone propositions you with play when you aren't interested. It is always tough to hurt someone's feelings but it is unavoidable in consensual non-monogamy. Learning to be direct while simultaneously being polite is difficult but doable. In this episode we discuss when to say "no," how to say "no," and how to receive a "no." Most importantly we give you advice on how to craft a single response you can automatically use in any situation to say "no" while minimizing the chances of hurting feelings. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events: Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12 https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy Dating Sites: SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

In episode 24 we try to break down the issue of expectations in consensual non-monogamy.It is all too common for one partner to have different (or no) expectations about events or non-monogamous life in general. These differences can too often be the source of bumps along the journey into more sexually open relationships.We attempt to define expectations, explain why the are usually not a benefit, how they can derail happiness at events, and how to reimagine how you think and mentally prepare for events in the lifestyle.And finally we offer our advice and how we think you can decrease your chances at leaving an event disappointed by learning shift your focus away from sex and more toward developing connections.👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvadorMentioned in Podcast: Boys Next Door Menswear (Atlanta) https://boynextdoormenswear.com/ Are You Out Panel, Live Panel Discussion with OPEN https://tinyurl.com/3b32kcmy —Dating Sites—SDC.comUse the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates—Shamelesscare.comED Meds & STI TestingUse code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

This episode was going to be April flying solo but she quickly calls Scott in when the wheels fall off. We discuss a few things that have been swirling around in that beautiful brain of hers. Everything from starting a non-monogamous commune to getting led to Jesus on the pickleball courts.👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador —Dating Sites—SDC.comUse the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates—Shamelesscare.comED Meds & STI TestingUse code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We interview journalist, sex coach, and CrossFit coach, Gabrielle Kassel. She has written extensively for major publications about sex, fitness, and the intersection of the two.We cover topics like her career, whether she's faced backlash for her personal life, non-monogamy, trans athletes, and more. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-pageEl Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador —Dating Sites—SDC.comUse the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free! —Affiliates—Shamelesscare.comED Meds & STI TestingUse code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common initial fantasies is to bring in a 3rd female... often called a unicorn. In this podcast, three experienced consensual non-monogamists discuss the realities and difficulties of making this happen and how to handle it if it does.  Here's the questions we tackle...  What is a unicorn? How hard is it to find a unicorn? How do you attract a unicorn? How should men treat a unicorn? How should women treat a unicorn? How should a unicorn respond to couples? How to take care of a unicorn after play.  Welcome to the Naughty gym show.   👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼   Upcoming Events: Spring Soirée - April 26-27 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/naughty-gyms-spring-soiree-tickets-827569862737?aff=oddtdtcreator   Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 More info:  https://www.naughtygym.com/bbbb-2025-landing-page   —Dating Sites— SDC.com Use the code SDCFIT when you register at www.naughtygym.com to get your first month free!   —Affiliates— Shamelesscare.com ED Meds & STI Testing Use code NAUGHTYGYM for $30 off.

We interview Victoria and her husband Ryan about their new venture, Birds Of A Feather Matchmaking. This is the industries 1st matchmaking service (as far as we know) for people in various forms of open relationships.  Is this for you? Do you need help making connections? Are you too busy to scroll through dating apps and want to outsource this part of your love life? Or how about some coaching on how to setup your profile? Or how about having a date with someone who evaluates your interpersonal skills? Birds of a Feather solves these problems for you.  It is incredibly interesting learning about the incredible amount of detailed work that goes into this process. And if you have the cash, this may be just the thing you've been looking for. April and I both think this service will be incredibly beneficial for many people.  Birds of a Feather Website Facebook Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn   Naughty Gym Website Naughty Gym Show (YouTube) Naughty Gym Spring Soiree, Huntsville, Alabama Be Better At Being Bad Week (at Hedonism Resort) Twitter Facebook Instagram TikTok

We sit down with Casual Swingers Podcast creators, Mickey and Mallory, while we are together in Nashville, to discuss our ideal play partners. Each of us answers a series of questions, very candidly, about what characteristics our perfect play partner would have. We tackle age, weight, height, hair, grooming, occupation, religious and political leanings, play styles, play scenarios, relationship status, and sexuality. Mix these insightful and raw answers with a lot of laughter and a few surprises and it makes for a great conversation between friends. As a bonus at the end, we all reveal 1 unfulfilled fantasy that we each have. In some cases this comes as a surprise to our partners! 

Nutrition Scientist (and philosopher according to April), Martin MacDonald, joins the Naughty Gym Show to discuss the intersection of nutrition, fitness, sex, and the occassional foray into religion. Scott and Martin low key form a bromance and April gets mad when Martin comes to Scott's defense about Diet Dr. Pepper. This was such a fun episode and it lasts about 90 minutes. But we talked for 2 hours and had to edit some great stuff out. Enjoy!  If you are sex positive and need help with your fitness or nutrition, visit our website and consider joining our growing community at: https://www.naughtygym.com Find our guest Martin MacDonald here:  https://www.martin-macdonald.com/ YouTube:    / @martinnutrition   Social media: Instagram: @MartinNutrition @enm_martin

It's the time of year where we start to see those New Year's resolutions failing. This episode is our 5 best tips to try and keep those resolutions on track and keep you marching toward those goals for 2024! We talk fitness, nutrition, sleep, and lifestyle changes. There's something in this episode for everyone!

We continue our discussion about our takeover week at Hedonism, Be Better At Being Bad Week.  This episode we talk exclusively about the most personal and impactful stuff that happened to us while we were there.  In the previous episode we spent the whole time discussing the big overview of everything that happened from a top down viewpoint of BBBB. This time we talk from the heart about the things that hit us the hardest. 

In this 1st of a 2 part series, we recap the big picture overview of our inaugural new event, Be Better At Being Bad, a complete takeover of the Hedonsim II Resort.  This episode focuses on each days events and what we found most interesting throughout the week.  In the next episode we will discuss the week's events through a more personal lense.  

In this episode we discuss the difficulties of making connections with other couples, how to handle imbalances in yours or the other couple's flirt game, and how, most importantly, not to lose to a piece of meat. We've invited our friends and fitness trainers Cara and Matt on the show to discuss how these things can sometimes go wrong, why it isn't always easy and how to deal with your emotions when you're feeling triggered. If you are newer to consensual non-monogamy you'll likely find a lot of takeaways in this episode!

In the first half of this episode, April interviews Scott about his bisexuality and the double standard we sometimes see in the world of Consensual Non-Monogamy toward bisexual men. They further discuss some struggles Scott has faced in coming out in the South and how at 51 years old he’s beginning to embrace his sexuality with pride and intellectual aggression.   In the second half they talk about their first foray in the the world of gay circuit parties, what happened with Scott at the party and how April kissed a gay man that thought she was trans. Then they describe exactly what happened at the end of the circuit party as Scott took someone back the hotel while April and 2 friends lay in the bed next to them and watched the night unfold. 

In the first half of the episode we give an overview of a what a typical day at Hedonism II Resort is like. We break down the general daily itinerary, how groups impact the dynamic on the resort, available activities, theme nights, pool parties, etc.  The last half of the episode is spent talking about our full takeover of the resort in January of 2024 and how we think this is the perfect experience for someone just dipping their toes into the waters of consensual non-monogamy. Mentioned in this episode: Swing Nation Average Swingers 

April and Scott interview Roderick Stevens about his upcoming documentary, "Open, A Journey Through Love." We talk about why Roderick is the right filmaker for the job, how this look into consensual non-monogamy will tell the story the way it needs to be told, and the process required to get it produced released to the public!