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This episode is for anyone who knows they’re called to more… but keeps getting stuck in the cycle of starting and stopping.💡 Spoiler: You don’t need perfect days — you need committed ones. Because your goals don’t respond to feelings, they respond to action.Quotable Moments from the Episode:“Your dream is only as strong as your daily discipline.”“You can’t want the throne and still move like a jester.”“Don’t just go through the day. Get from the day.” Jim Rohn“Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.” Abraham Lincoln“Your future is hidden in your daily routine.”

Everyone wants the soft life, but are you ready for the hard work that comes with it? In this episode of Not For My Village People, we unpack the truth behind the glow-upHow pressure shapes purpose, and why the soft life is often the reward for surviving the grind. If you’re feeling the heat, this one’s for you. Listen, reflect, and stay motivated. The glow hits different when you’ve seen the dark."#SoftLife #HardWork #GlowUpJourney #NotForMyVillagePeople #StayMotivated #PressureToPurpose

Who’s your first call when life happens the good, the bad, or the in-between? In this episode, i dive into the complexities of loneliness, connection, and the masks we wear every day. Can we truly be ourselves around others, or are we hiding behind what society expects of us?We’ll talk about the power of meaningful relationships, the value of solitude, and why the appearance of extroversion doesn’t always mean true connection. From reconnecting with old friends to finding peace within yourself, this episode invites you to reflect on what it really means to feel seen, heard, and understood.Let’s take a moment to break through the noise, embrace vulnerability, and explore how to cultivate deeper, more authentic connections with others and with yourself and not put the burden of 1st calls on just one person.#WhoIsYourFirstCall #AuthenticityMatters #ConnectionOverAppearance #PodcastReflections"

As we close out 2024, this episode is a heartfelt reflection on the year. its challenges, surprises, and hidden blessings. Sometimes, life feels overwhelming, like there’s no clear path forward. But if you look closer, you’ll see the miracles, answered prayers, and strength you’ve gained along the way.This isn’t just about surviving 2024, t’s about recognising how it’s prepared you to thrive in 2025. Even when the year felt like a shock, you kept going, creating pathways where none existed. You’re stronger, wiser, and ready for what’s next.Remember, the trail you’re blazing now is setting the stage for something even greater.Let’s find the blessings together. 💫By the way did you notice - it's Episode 50 Please Subscribe, share, and leave a review to inspire someone else to look closer.

What does it mean to live boldly in a world that often tries to hold us back? In this episode, we dive into the power of audacity; the courage to take risks, explore new paths, and simply exist unapologetically.✨ Highlights:Overcoming fear to try, even when the odds feel stacked against you.Taking risks that lead to transformation.Exploring uncharted territories within yourself and your life.Thriving by being authentically YOU.The audacity to try isn’t about being fearless; it’s about refusing to let fear win."Tune in for personal stories, quotable moments, and actionable inspiration to fuel your bold moves.

P - Passing O - OverO - Opportunties R - Repeatedly"if you do not aspire you will expire""To the mum who is juggling 1,000 things and still feels like it’s not enough – I see you. You are more than enough. Your love, even in your moments of doubt, is shaping the most beautiful memories for your children. Let go of the guilt and know you’re doing an amazing job."I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it Don't forget to follow me on all platforms and share the episode too

Life's journey is like a RAG report—moments of Red when things feel tough, Amber when you're navigating transitions, and Green when you finally thrive.No matter where you are, keep moving forward; even in the Red, there's growth."Don’t forget: Drop a comment and tell me your life’s RAG moment! Check me out on Instagram @notformyvillagepeople_podcastSmash that reminder button so you’re always notified when new episodes drop. Don’t be stingy—share this with someone who needs it! Let’s spread the sheer and inspire together."The best way to predict your future is to create it." – Abraham Lincoln. "Every moment is a fresh beginning." – T.S. Eliot.Let’s make every stat count!Celebrate your GREENS SistersMistersnotformyvillagepeople@gmail.com

This episode is a follow up from someone else's perspective on how they handle a past trauma and testimony from a traumatic event they went through.Esther Fashanu shared her fertility experience and how it's shamed her now, her relationship with her husband and her output on life generally. Remember Trauma pushes but where is yours pushing you to? Is it to Ruins, Repair or Restoration?Check out Esther's Blog - https://www.thrivingwithesther.com

In this episode, I talked about Trauma and how it sometimes pushes us into or from something. What is your's pushing you to? What is your's pushing you from?Please check out @stylebydamilola @luxeimperial_studio on Instagram. Show them some love and check out the great work they are doing.Let's start by talking about how trauma can push us toward things. For some, trauma fuels ambition. Maybe you grew up in a home where financial security was a daily struggle. That experience could have planted a fierce determination in you to never feel that helpless again. So now, you’re hustling, building a career, saving every penny, and refusing to stop. Trauma has its way of lighting that fire.

Life Doesn’t Forgive" – a reminder that every choice we make has the potential to define our path.In this episode, we're talking about intentional decisions—decisions that consider the present, the possibilities of tomorrow, and the potential of our future. "Every decision can make us or break us, catapult us to new heights, or pull us down."Join me as we unpack the weight of our choices, aiming to navigate life with purpose, clarity, and a vision that respects both the urgency of now and the promise of tomorrow.

Grief is deeply personal, and each person's experience is unique. Even with the best intentions, it's easy to unintentionally say something that could hurt or minimize what someone is going through. In moments of grief, offering quiet support, listening without judgment, and being there without pushing for conversation or offering quick fixes is often the most valuable way to help. Compassionate presence, rather than words, can sometimes speak louder.In this episode, I discussed the complex and deeply personal journey of grief. I offered a reminder to those providing support to anyone grieving: it's essential to be mindful of your words, especially if you haven't experienced a similar loss. Even with the best intentions, it's easy to unintentionally say something that may not resonate with the person in pain. The most important thing is to listen, be present, and provide support without trying to offer solutions. Sometimes, simply being there is the best comfort you can offer. I promised to spell out "Rehoboth". In Genesis 26:22. Rehoboth means "room" or "broad places" and is sometimes interpreted as a place of peace or a space where there is room to flourish.The verse says, "He moved on from there and dug another well, and no one quarreled over it. He named it Rehoboth, saying, 'Now the Lord has given us room and we will flourish in the land.'"Don't forget to share this episode with Friends and Family - Spread the word to help someone out there.

I miss you all...my imaginary friends.Just an episode to get back into the groove of recording again. you all know I love doing this, so if you still listen to the girl going through healing and sharing her lessons learnt at the same time, then thank you for listening. Show some love and send a message or like or share to help me know you are not imaginary and you are a real person. you can still send me an email on notformyvillagepeople@gmail.com

This is the conclusion of the last episode where I invited my sisters and mum to join me in sharing our separation story and living through our parents journey of greener pastures. The consequences and our lessons learnt, hoping that it helps a family about to or currently going through this same experience."Separating families inflicts wounds that time alone cannot heal. It leaves scars on hearts and minds, forever altering the trajectory of those affected."Please don't forget to share, like and follow. Also, this podcast is now available on YouTube and you can drop your comments and subscribe to the channel too. If you'd like to send me an email, please do so using this email address Notformyvillagepeople@gmail.com

In this episode I invited my sisters and mum to join me in sharing our separation story and living through our parents journey of greener pastures. The consequences and our lessons learnt, hoping that it helps a family about to or currently going through this same experience."Separating families inflicts wounds that time alone cannot heal. It leaves scars on hearts and minds, forever altering the trajectory of those affected."Please don't forget to share, like and follow. Also, this podcast is now available on YouTube and you can drop your comments and subscribe to the channel too. If you'd like to send me an email, please do so using this email address Notformyvillagepeople@gmail.com

Remember setbacks don't define your abilities.Focus on small wins and gradually build your confidence step by step. In this episode I shared some personal stories and empathy to those going through it right now, I understand and you are not alone. You can't be 100% everyday. This will pass. Confidence is a journey not a destination. Emvbrace setbacks, celebrate small wins and cultivate a positive mindset. I hope this episode serves as a source of inspiration and practical strategies for building confidence in the face of challenges. Thank you for tuning in again and please don't forget to share and rate this episode. All episodes are now available on Youtube.Until next time, stay Resilient!

This episode covers a reflection of 2023 with some of my lessons learnt including books that did it for me in 2023 as well as quotes that I resonated with in 2023"You can't change someone by loving them harder"Seasons come and go remember to behave and not misbehave in each season because when you misbehave you will reap it in the next season. It will determine how you move and succeed in the next season. Each season is there to teach you.

"Gratitude is the healthiest of all human emotions. The more you express gratitude for what you have, the more likely you will have even more to express gratitude for." - Zig ZiglarThank you for tuning in. Remember, no matter the circumstances, there's always something to be grateful for. In this episode I shared my gratitude looking at how far and well God treated me in 2023 and a few of the gratitude messages sent in by some of our listeners including my mum, they shared their stories of appreciation for moments—the sunrise in 2023, reconnecting with loved ones, and finding strength in solidarity, learning and surviving 2023 Please don’t forget to keep sharing and connect with us on Instagram @notformyvillagepeople_podcast

"Who knows you" is more than familiarity; it's the fabric of your connections. The value lies not just in recognition but in understanding, support, and a network that can uplift and empower you in ways you might not even realise. It's about fostering genuine connections that resonate with your authentic self, creating a tapestry of relationships that can shape, guide, and enrich your journey through life.My typical approach to engaging in thoughtful conversations about life and its events.Remember to share, like, and rate this episode."

In this Episode I covered the normalising asking for help. Asking for help allows you to tap into collective knowledge and resources, gaining different perspectives and insights. Asking for help can foster growth, learning, and better problem-solving.

After all is said and done and the goal you worked so hard for has been achieved, what do you do?You spend a year working on your goal and 24hrs after you've achieved your goal you have another intense goal on your list to start working on.In this episode i talked about feeling empty after reaching a goal and how to be more aware before you fall into the empty net of nothing after achieving your goals.Encouraging you all to take time to be grateful, take time to enjoy your wins and be more intentional.Please don't forget to share with your friends and family. Thank you for listening.