Narcissistic Abuse Unwound: True Love Scam Recovery

Forget To Get Over It / Remember So It Doesn't Happen Again... That's the meme I saw. I wish... Let's talk about it. * * * Book ⁠⁠Guided Recovery Sessions⁠⁠ with Jennifer! Join ⁠⁠Jennifer's Newsletter⁠⁠ Subscribers! Get the book! "⁠⁠Breaking Up With Evil⁠⁠", Book 1, on Amazon! * * * #narcissism #sociopath #narcissist #narc #healing #divorce #healingjourney #breakup #ptsd #joy #psychopath #toxic #leaving a narcissist #toxic #relationships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Phoebe shares her story of an entrapment in a relationship of narcissistic abuse and coercive control. www.truelovescam.com jennifer@truelovescam.com Want to be my next guest? Shoot me an email! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

They are dumb. So dumb and limited and self focused they are their own worst nightmare. * * Book ⁠⁠Guided Recovery Sessions⁠⁠ with Jennifer! Join ⁠⁠Jennifer's Newsletter⁠⁠ Subscribers! Get the book! "⁠⁠Breaking Up With Evil⁠⁠", Book 1, on Amazon!* #narcissism #sociopath #narcissist #narc #healing #divorce #healingjourney #breakup #ptsd #joy #psychopath #toxic #toxicrelationships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Did a "little soldier" ensnare you into the predicament of what you thought was a real relationship, but was nothing but a lie? This military persona is a favorite of sociopaths ("narcissists"). How does this work for them? How can we see through it beyond our perception of this "honorable" occupation they claim? * * Book ⁠Guided Recovery Sessions⁠ with Jennifer! Join ⁠Jennifer's Newsletter⁠ Subscribers! Get the book! "⁠Breaking Up With Evil⁠", Book 1, on Amazon!* #narcissism #sociopath #narcissist #narc #healing #divorce #healingjourney #breakup #ptsd #joy #narcissisticabsue *This is an Amazon affiliate link. Clicking this link sends True Love Scam Recovery an infinitesimal monetary percentage of any purchase. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

It's normal for a sociopath ("narcissist") to blame those around them for well, everything. How can you turn them blaming you to your freedom? - They aren't blaming you for any actual, real reason. It's in their nature to blame others. It's tied to their literal survival. Book Guided Recovery Sessions with Jennifer! Join Jennifer's Newsletter Subscribers! Get the book! "Breaking Up With Evil", on Amazon!* #narcissism #sociopath #narcissist #narc #healing #divorce #healingjourney #breakup #ptsd #joy *This is an Amazon affiliate link. Clicking this link sends True Love Scam Recovery an infinitesimal monetary percentage of any purchase. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Ever thought about giving the nut bag what they really want? Here's why: in the aftermath, for the first time since the day you met, you both want the same thing. The website, ⁠True Love Scam Recovery⁠. Guided ⁠recovery sessions⁠ unique to you with Jennifer Smith. Book 1, Breaking Up With Evil: ⁠Amazon Affiliate Link⁠. Season 4: Episode 2 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Feel like you're the only person who sees through them...? Nope. Amazing, but true. So why don't we see the others see through them? * Website: ⁠⁠www.truelovescam.com⁠⁠ Coaching: ⁠⁠Sessions with Jennifer Smith⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠True Love Scam Recovery⁠⁠ Book: ⁠⁠Breaking Up With Evil, Book 1⁠⁠ S03 E17 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Five Stages of True Love Scam: Part 1 What is happening in the mind of a  sociopath - a “narcissist” - when they encounter a normal human? What are the five stages they rapid fire move through as we're ensnared? * Want to be a part of Breaking Up With Evil, Book !!? Email me with the subject line: SOS Project * Coaching: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sessions with Jennifer Smith⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Breaking Up With Evil, Book 1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email Jennifer: ⁠Jennifer@truelovescam.com⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.truelovescam.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠True Love Scam Recovery⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Insta:  @truelovescamrecovery Twitter: @truelovescam S3 E:15  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Why do we want to go back after a break up? Is going back to them so bad? What happens when we go back? Why do we want to go back? Why do we still want them to call us? Why do we wish they'd send us a text? * Want to be a part of Breaking Up With Evil, Book !!? Email me with the subject line: SOS Project Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.truelovescam.com⁠⁠⁠ Coaching: ⁠⁠⁠Sessions with Jennifer Smith⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠True Love Scam Recovery⁠⁠⁠ Book: ⁠⁠⁠Breaking Up With Evil, Book 1⁠⁠⁠ Narcissistic Abuse Unwound, 10:10 AM Thursdays Pacific Time --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

They think they're so great at sex. Sex can be the pull, the lure that keeps us chasing them or the same feeling long after they're gone.  Article link: https://www.truelovescam.com/sociopaths-sex/ Try a search using the search bar on my website using the word - sex - for more articles related to sex and sociopaths to pop up! * Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing #gaslighting --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Bonus episode: This trauma is singular and begins the moment we meet them. Embrace your life with compassion.  * Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #divorce #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

NAU listeners leave voice messages for me on the podcast platform. Here are answers to three of those questions. * For ad free and bonus episodes become a SUBSCRIBER: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/subscribe * Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #divorce #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Lying 24 hours a day seems exhausting. Not to the pathological parasitic predator.  The way their minds work makes lying normal. Reality is lies, lies make reality. Find your freedom in how they think. * Coaching: ⁠Sessions with Jennifer Smith Website: www.truelovescam.com Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #divorce #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Did you feel that “pull”…? That grab in your gut? The electric charge that took over and altered your path in life? Have you heard the children’s verse about the spider and the fly? Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery The Spider and the Fly, by Mary Howitt “Will you walk into my parlour?” said the Spider to the Fly, “‘Tis the prettiest little parlour that ever you did spy; The way into my parlour is up a winding stair, And I have many curious things to shew when you are there.” “Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “to ask me is in vain, For who goes up your winding stair can ne’er come down again.” “I’m sure you must be weary, dear, with soaring up so high; Will you rest upon my little bed?” said the Spider to the Fly. “There are pretty curtains drawn around; the sheets are fine and thin, And if you like to rest awhile, I’ll snugly tuck you in!” “Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “for I’ve often heard it said, They never, never wake again, who sleep upon your bed!” Said the cunning Spider to the Fly, “Dear friend what can I do, To prove the warm affection I’ve always felt for you? I have within my pantry, good store of all that’s nice; I’m sure you’re very welcome–will you please to take a slice?” “Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “kind sir, that cannot be, I’ve heard what’s in your pantry, and I do not wish to see!” “Sweet creature!” said the Spider, “you’re witty and you’re wise, How handsome are your gauzy wings, how brilliant are your eyes! I’ve a little looking-glass upon my parlour shelf, If you’ll step in one moment, dear, you shall behold yourself.” “I thank you, gentle sir,” she said, “for what you’re pleased to say, And bidding you good morning now, I’ll call another day.” The Spider turned him round about, and went into his den, For well he knew the silly Fly would soon come back again: So he wove a subtle web, in a little corner sly, And set his table ready, to dine upon the Fly. Then he came out to his door again, and merrily did sing, “Come hither, hither, pretty Fly, with the pearl and silver wing; Your robes are green and purple–there’s a crest upon your head; Your eyes are like the diamond bright, but mine are dull as lead!” Alas, alas! how very soon this silly little Fly, Hearing his wily, flattering words, came slowly flitting by; With buzzing wings she hung aloft, then near and nearer drew, Thinking only of her brilliant eyes, and green and purple hue– Thinking only of her crested head–poor foolish thing! At last, Up jumped the cunning Spider, and fiercely held her fast. He dragged her up his winding stair, into his dismal den, Within his little parlour–but she ne’er came out again! And now dear little children, who may this story read, To idle, silly flattering words, I pray you ne’er give heed: Unto an evil counsellor, close heart and ear and eye, And take a lesson from this tale, of the Spider and the Fly. #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #divorce #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

 Under their influence, our lives are topsey-turvey. As we try to unwind it all...It's hard to see what they are. We gotta. Let's make the fact act this hijackings happen an accepted part of life... So they don't happen. * Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #divorce #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing Topsy-Turvey: Yeah, This Happens, Season 03 Episode 02 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

The word "narcissist" is used a lot these days. It's mostly an unfortunate mix up and muddle of two things that we already have words for.  There's kind of no such thing as a "narcissist", but there are sociopaths and there are dysfunctional people. It doesn't matter what you call them, as long as you know there's only one monster. * Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #sociopath #marriagewithanarcissist #divorce #breakup #divorce #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #sociopath #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hooveirng #nocontact #lovebombing --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Why do they ruin the holidays...? This is the parasitic predator's favorite time of year…! But not for the mushy lovey cozy reasons you love it. Our sentimentality makes this their favorite time for hunting. They don't want attention... They want more prey. * * Book: "Breaking Up With and Evil" Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Website: www.truelovescam.com Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery Instagram: @truelovescamrecovery * #reallife #truecrime #sociopath #divorce #breakup #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hoovering #nocontact #lovebombing #relationships #toxicpeople #gaslighting #toxicrelationships #silenttreatment #codependent #Christmas #holidays  * Why Do They Ruin the Holidays? S2:E11 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

The Silent Treatment... What's it all about...?  We think it's a punishment, a weapon. What do these creatures think it is? Did they do it "just to hurt us"...? * Book: "Breaking Up With and Evil" Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Website: www.truelovescam.com Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery Instagram: @truelovescamrecovery * #reallife #truecrime #sociopath #divorce #breakup #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hoovering #nocontact #lovebombing #relationships #toxicpeople #gaslighting #toxicrelationships #silenttreatment #codependent #codependency * The Silent Treatment S2:E10 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Have you had more than one of these creatures invade your life? It's natural - and we're socially influenced - to wonder if we're a sociopath magnet... To think it's our fault and that we "attract" these sociopathic users because there's something wrong with us. Nah... It's because you're amazingly gorgeous inside and out! - You get to be who you are. Book: "Breaking Up With and Evil" Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Website: www.truelovescam.com Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery Instagram: @truelovescamrecovery #reallife #truecrime #sociopath #divorce #breakup #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hoovering #nocontact #lovebombing #relationships #affairs #toxicpeople #gaslighting #deception #toxicrelationships #lowselfesteem #codependent #codependency Am I a Sociopath Magnet? S2:E8 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support

Under the influence - under the spell - of a pathological parasitic predator we do things we’d never otherwise do, including “have an affair”. Sad but true…except this isn’t an affair. It’s a love scam. Website: www.truelovescam.com Coaching: Sessions with Jennifer Smith Facebook: True Love Scam Recovery #recovery #survivor #sociopath #divorce #breakup #childcustody #relationshipadvice #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuseunwound #truelovescamrecovery #hoovering #nocontact #lovebombing #relationships #affairs #toxicpeople #gaslighting #deception They Target Married People and Anyone and Everyone Else S2:E4 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-smith416/support