No One Knows What They're Doing

In Episode 08, Erin interviews Erika Ayers Badan (aka  @WorkWithErika ) to discuss being the first (and only) CEO of Barstool Sports, a company she just left after 8 years. We also discuss boundary setting, taking feedback, working with Dave Portnoy and the "pirate ship", handling criticism, the media landscape, being a woman in the workplace, hiring and firing people, and tips for navigating your career. ➞ In this episode:0:00-1:27 Introduction1:28-3:13 Leaving Barstool After 8 Years3:14-5:43 Growing Up in New England5:44-8:12 What is Barstool?8:13-9:24 How Barstool Makes Money $$9:25-10:14 Barstool Staff Breakdown10:15-12:44 Growing Barstool from $5M to $300M12:45-17:43 Advice for Hiring & Firing17:44-20:01 Judgment Taking CEO Job at Barstool20:02-23:24 How to Handle Criticism23:25-30:38 Being the CEO of Barstool as a Woman30:39-34:39 How to Make Hard Decisions34:40-41:00 Thoughts on Workplace Boundaries in 202441:01-46:13 People Don't Want to Work Anymore?46:14-47:15 Is Social Media Ruining Us?47:16-51:41 People Pleasing & Likeability 51:42-52:49 Lesson Erika Learned the Hard Way52:50-55:28 Erika's New Book: No One Cares About Your Career 55:29 Real Advice with Erin & Erika~~~~~~~~~↳ Follow Erika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erika/↳ Check Out Erika's BOOK! https://amzn.to/4dJfcvt↳ Need some help? Write to us for a chance to have your question answered (anonymously) on the show: https://bit.ly/nokwtd

In Episode 07, Erin interviews Ryan Stygar (aka, @AttorneyRyan) to discuss Ryan's crazy career journey (from SoCal firefighter to running his own law firm). We also discuss employee rights & legal issues regarding salary, job interviews, career changes, discrimination, pregnancy, and much more!➞ In this episode:0:00-2:18 Introduction2:19-3:42 Growing Up in San Diego, California3:43-6:18 Parents Careers + College6:19-7:20 Majoring in Philosophy + First Job7:20-16:55 Working as a Firefighter16:56-20:36 Firefighter to Law School20:37-28:49 Rejected from 13 Law Schools!?28:50-31:20 Worst Advice EVER31:21-34:45 WATCH THIS PART (trust me)34:46-36:38 Lesson Ryan Learned the Hard Way36:39-38:04 Fake Cases38:05-41:20 How to Ask a Lawyer a Question41:21-44:50 Thoughts on Capitalism44:51-46:51 Missing Paycheck? Try this!46:51-50:58 How to Quit a Toxic Workplace50:39-52:21 Asking Coworkers About Salary52:22-54:20 What are PIPs...?54:21-55:55 "Right to Work" & "At-Will Employment"55:56-58:00 Advice for Business Owners58:00 Real Advice with Erin & Ryan~~~~~~~~~↳ Follow Ryan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attorneyryan/↳Contact Attorney Ryan: https://linktr.ee/attorneyryan↳ Need some help? Write to us for a chance to have your question answered (anonymously) on the show: https://bit.ly/nokwtd

In Episode 06, Erin interviews Alex Lieberman (aka, @alexlieb) to discuss how he co-founded the wildly successful newsletter, Morning Brew, and sold it a few years later for $75 million—all before 30. We talk about entrepreneurship, being a CEO, starting a newsletter, monetizing online business, raising funds for a startup, dealing with the sudden death of his father, dating, terrible advice, amazing advice, and why Alex didn't buy a Rolex or Ferrari when he became a multi-millionaire. ➞ In this episode:0:00-2:33 Introduction2:34-5:39 Growing Up in Jersey5:39-9:50 College & Caddy-ing 9:51-14:54 Starting Morning Brew14:55-18:11 Monetizing a Newsletter18:12-22:35 Quitting His Job22:36-31:43 Pitching Investors & Raising $750k31:44-34:43 Selling Morning Brew for $75M34:44-40:20 Seeing $$$ Hit His Bank Account40:21-51:30 Alex's Father Dying + Grief51:31-55:55 Alex's Morning Routine55:56-56:40 The Worst Advice Alex Received56:41-58:48 Advice That Changed Alex's Life58:59-1:00:28 Alex's Role Model1:00:29-1:01:42 The Definition of Success1:01:43-1:03:13 How Alex Met His Wife1:03:14 Real Advice with Erin & Alex~~~~~~~~~↳ Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexlieb/?hl=en↳ Subscribe to Morning Brew: https://www.morningbrew.com/daily↳ Learn about StoryArb: https://www.storyarb.com/↳ Need some help? Write to us for a chance to have your question answered (anonymously) on the show: https://bit.ly/nokwtd

In Episode 05, Erin interviews Dr. Judith Joseph, MD-MBA (aka,  @drjudithjoseph ) to discuss a range of topics from high-functioning depression, workplace burnout, neurodiversity, social media, anhedonia, medical school, scholarships, MBA/business school, mental health crisis, growing up in the evangelical church, how to find a therapist, attachment styles, and much more!~~Important Links:↳ Anhedonia Quiz↳ Need advice? Submit here ↳ Get my emails ~~➞ In this episode:0:00-01:44 Introduction01:45-6:00 Background Q&A6:01-7:10 Scholarships7:11-10:19 First & Current Job10:20-10:50 MBA AND Med School at the Same Time!?
10:51-13:12 Balancing 3 Companies & Mental Health13:13-15:34 Pros & Cons of Being a Psychiatrist 15:35-19:15 Do We Really Have A Mental Health Crisis…?19:16-21:00 Social Media & Mental Health21:01-23:00 Mental Health Content Creators?23:01-24:29 Pros + Cons of Social Media Mental Health Consumption24:30-25:30 How to Find A Therapist25:31-27:55 Advice Judith Ignored27:56-28:29 Hardest Thing Judith’s Done28:30-31:50 Thoughts on “Neurodiversity” & Autism31:51-44:19 What is “Anhedonia”? Or “High Functioning Depression”?44:20-46:34 Opinions on Mental Health Labeling46:35-51:54 The 4 Attachment Styles51:55-53:50 Something You Need To Know About Depression & 53:51-59:28 Advice for Burnout & Boundaries59:29-01:00:58 Are People Attached to Their Mental Illnesses?01:00:59-01:05:58 Real Advice from Erin + Judith~~Connect with Me: AdviceWithErin Instagram → https://bit.ly/40hgztKNOKWTD Instagram → https://bit.ly/3ULVKazGet my emails → https://advicewitherin.com/showNeed advice? Submit here → https://bit.ly/nokwtd

In Episode 04, Erin interviews Hannah Williams, founder of Salary Transparent Street. Hannah graduated from Georgetown University in 2019 and hopped 5 jobs in 2.5 years, taking her salary from $40k to $150k, creatively paying off her college loans in full. In 2021, she quit her job as a Data Analyst to launch Salary Transparent Street, a social media account that simply visits different cities across the U.S. and asks random people on the street what they do for a living and how much they make. Since then, STS has blown up into a viral sensation leading Hannah to be featured in publications such as The Washington Post, NYT, TIME, Business Insider, Good Morning America, CNBC, and 2023, Hannah was named one of Forbed 30 Under 30. In this episode, Hannah transparently breaks down how she achieved her goals, how she makes money, and the struggles she's faced along the way.➞ In this episode:0:00 Intro1:45 Forbes 30 Under 303:16 Background Q&A (growing up overseas, community college, etc.)14:20 Working as a Telemarketer Post-Grad17:24 Job Hopping20:20 Best Career/Job Interview Advice20:47 How Hannah Found Out She Was Underpaid26:19 How YOU Can Find Out If You're Underpaid28:40 How Hannah Filmed Her First TikTok29:51 Do People Lie About Their Salaries...? $$$31:46 Why Hannah Blocks People (Sometimes)33:30 How Hannah Went From $150k to $1m in ONE YEAR35:39 Salary Transparency Trends37:03 Can You Talk About Salary With Coworkers?38:57 Why You Should Negotiate Your FIRST Job Offer42:48 Thoughts On "Lazy Girl Job" or "Quiet Quitting"48:00 Advice Hannah's GLAD She IGNORED49:30 Hannah's Smartest Financial Decision51:43 Highest Salaries Hannah's Documented53:16 Lessons Hannah's Learned The Hard Way55:18 #RealAdvice from Erin & Hannah__💚 Follow Hannah/Salary Transparent Street on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/salarytransparentstreet/?hl=en💚 STS Salary Database: https://www.salarytransparentstreet.com/salary-database💚 STS Free Market Research Guide: https://sts.myflodesk.com/marketresearchguide__Connect with Me: AdviceWithErin Instagram → https://bit.ly/40hgztKNOKWTD Instagram → https://bit.ly/3ULVKazGet my emails → https://advicewitherin.com/showNeed advice? Submit here → https://bit.ly/nokwtd

In Episode 03, Erin interviews Jim Keyes, former CEO of 7-11 AND Blockbuster (and pilot, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and author!)Jim climbed out of poverty, being the only person in his family to go to college. He graduated with an MBA from Columbia and went on to climb the ladder to become CEO of both 7-11 and Blockbuster during the 90's into the 2000s. In this episode, Erin discusses Jim's career and the differences between their two generations—Erin straddling Gen Z and Millennials and Jim, a Baby Boomer. They discuss the importance of education, being strategic and adaptable, imposter syndrome, and what the heck happened to Blockbuster. There is so much to learn in this episode for the average worker—but especially anyone looking to forge their own path and create a new life for themselves. ➞ In this episode:0:00 Intro2:04 Rapid fire Q&A6:11 From poverty to Columbia MBA in NYC9:09 First job to 7-1111:26 Climbing the Ladder to CEO17:35 CEO of 80,000+ Stores18:41 The IDEAL Slurpee19:56 Selling 7-11 (and cashing out $$)21:51 Jim almost BOUGHT Blockbuster!?23:54 Taking on Blockbuster as CEO28:09 What Could Have Saved Blockbuster?29:10 Day in the Life of a CEO (+ leadership tips!)31:12 Why Jim Wrote a Book about Education33:01 What's at stake here?35:31 The price of college in 1980 vs. 202038:45 Should 18-year-olds Go to College?40:06 Jobs Don't Require Degrees? "It's a Bubble."42:16 How Jim Would Fix Education System in America44:53 Tuition-Free University: Yay or Nay?46:41 Having Beliefs & Being Open-Mindeda...

The incredible screenwriter and actress Julia Yorks joins Erin on the pod today. Julia's impressive accolades include writing the film 1UP for BuzzFeed/Lionsgate, working with Peacock and DreamWorks on several productions, and writing animated episodes for Hulu. Acting-wise she was most recently featured in an episode of Law and Order! Julia’s tale of navigating how to work in the film industry (i.e. if you can’t get in through the door try a window) is super inspiring! One of the double-edged sword realities of the film industry is there is no one path, so truly anything can happen. Her biggest tip here is persistence. Keep chipping away, and you will grasp the thing you want.  Julia’s experience starting out her acting career in Los Angeles until relocating to New York City is a true insider's breakdown of what it's like to “make it” in each place. One thing COVID taught everyone in the film industry is that you don’t have to be in L.A. anymore to make your mark. Julia goes on to offer hot takes on the recent 6-month WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strikes and the overall impact they had on her career and the industry. During the writers’ strike, she pivoted, or rather broadened her writing skillset and passion, to include screenwriting. The essence of screenwriting is helping brands tell stories and problem-solving, which Julia is oh-so good at doing. In the spirit of transparency, one of Julia’s core values, she shares how she works with agents, managers, lawyers, and bookkeepers. Super juicy!All New Yorkers have a quintessential living-in-NYC story and Julia’s is *chef’s kiss.* Picture this: she’s at the MET for the screening of Geroge Clooney’s latest film, wearing TJ Maxx’s chicest all-black comfy ensemble, runs into Anna Wintour, crashes the after-party at the Polo Bar and… well you’ll have to listen to find out!Episode Outline:1:40 Intro 1:41 Acting in Law & Order 4:35 Making $$ in Screenwriting 6:02 Background Q&A 9:08 Breaking into the film industry 14:30 Dealing with rejection 16:50 Networking & schmoozing 20:35 Biz of Professional Screenwriting 23:20 Agents vs. Managers 23:47 Joining the WGA (union) 26:12 Fighting Imposter Syndrome 27:20 The 2023 Film Strikes 31:11 George Clooney, Crustaceans  & TJ Maxx44:15 LA vs. NYC 45:35 Erin & Julia give AdviceConnect with Julia Yorks: Julia Yorks Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliayorks/Julia Yorks Website: https://juliayorks.com/Julia Yorks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV4D-IAZcEyrxZfwtgQ5BTAJulia Yorks TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/discover/Julia-Yorks?lang=enConnect with Me: ↳ AdviceWithErin Instagram → https://bit.ly/40hgztK↳ NOKWTD Instagram → https://bit.ly/3ULVKaz↳ Submission form for advice → https://bit.ly/nokwtd↳ Get my emails → https://advicewitherin.com/show

Making friends as an adult can be so weird! In this episode, Erin and special guest Danielle Bayard Jackson dive into the sticky yet mega-important world of adult friendships. Danielle is a certified women's coach and friendship expert, and she's known for pairing research with real life to help women experience more joy in platonic relationships with other women. She’s become Bumble BFF's official spokesperson and has become a go-to source for the media as a guest on outlets like CBS NEWS, NBC News, and even daytime talk shows!Danielle kicks off the episode with her story and her very nonlinear path of becoming a friendship expert. She’s so honest and vulnerable and reminds us just because she’s an expert doesn’t mean she’s perfect or that she was a nice girl in high school (spoiler, she wasn’t). One cause of modern friendships becoming so weird is the shift to remote work. Work is where we spend most of our time, and that proximity automatically makes it the perfect place for friendships to form. However, without that in-person work culture, now more people than ever are feeling friendless. The thing is, we all need friends! Just because we can go for periods of time killing it on our own doesn’t mean we should isolate ourselves 24/7, introverts and extroverts alike! Top tip: the more we are around our friends and make it normal to make new friends, the easier it gets. Knowing what qualities, values, and the time we are able to devote to our friendships, all things Danielle’s new book will help you master, are crucial to forming better relationships. Men and women view their friendships differently, Danielle’s got the research receipts to prove it, and the ways in which men and women friends make new friends and like to spend time together are very not the same. For instance, women tend to see friends as siblings, and men tend to see friends as cousins. The intimacy is real! Erin and Danielle then explore the sometimes awkward social norm of selecting bridesmaids and groomsmen, three different types of loneliness, and how to combat each. This first smash episode wraps with some #RealAdvice time! Episode Outline:0:30 Introduction & Danielle’s background2:10 Rapid fire Q&A3:25 Why Danielle switched careers5:11 Being the shy/mean/popular girl in high school 7:03 How Danielle got out of teaching and into coaching12:50 Is working from home killing our friendships?16:22 Dunbar's Number 18:00 Making friends as a remote worker (or else you'll get weird)19:00 Harvard 100-Year Study on Happiness20:35 What are "quality" friendships?21:42 Introverts vs....

Welcome to "No One Knows What They're Doing"! A show where Erin McGoff, aka AdviceWithErin, dives into topics that are top of mind for people in their 20s and 30s. Erin, a career educator, filmmaker, creator, and classic multi-hyphenate with millions of followers, admits she's still figuring things out herself. She's here to remind you that it's okay not to have all the answers.From surgeons to teachers to CEOs, no one was born knowing everything. But that's the beauty of it – we're all in this together, just winging it. Erin's on a mission to introduce you to people from all walks of life, exploring careers you might never have considered. And hey, she's not afraid to tackle the tough questions, like “Should I move to Europe?” or “How do I negotiate my salary?” or “How to find a work-from-home job that isn’t a scam?” So, grab your drink of choice, whether it's coffee or something a bit stronger (no judgment here!), and hit subscribe. There's more to life than the Sunday scaries, resumes, and the 9 to 5. In this show, you'll gain access to tangible opportunities, secret advice, and proven strategies to help you craft a life you love.Connect with Erin:Follow on InstagramFollow on TikTok