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This episode is brought to you by HigherDOSE. Their biggest SALE of the year is here! Get 20% off your order at https://higherdose.com/ with code VALERIADOSE In this episode, Valeria sits down with Lauren Berlingeri, co-founder and co-CEO of HigherDOSE, who shares her transition from a demanding modeling career to discovering a passion for holistic health and co-founding HigherDOSE. She opens up about battling severe hormonal imbalances, the pressures of perfectionism, and an intense lifestyle that culminated in a grand mal seizure—a turning point that transformed her approach to health and self-care. Valeria and Lauren bond over their experiences balancing career and motherhood, emphasizing the importance of letting go of control and embracing self-compassion. Lauren reflects on integrating recovery practices like infrared saunas and daily gratitude to shift from merely surviving to truly thriving. This episode provides an honest look at prioritizing self-care and intuition for meaningful personal and professional growth. Lauren Berlingeri is dedicated to inspiring others through fitness and naturally-healthy lifestyle practices. After launching her career as an international model, Berlingeri went on to star in her own show, “Women vs. Workout”—grossing over 15 million views and receiving a Webby Award nomination for Best Host. This experience led to extreme sports hosting for brands such as UFC, EA Sports, and IMG. Having cemented her name within the fitness industry, Berlingeri decided to expand her expertise, earning a holistic nutritionist and health coach certification at The Institute of Integrative Nutrition. Lauren discovered the power of Infrared technology — specifically Infrared saunas — and saw an opportunity to bring the biohacking tool to the masses. Since co-founding HigherDOSE with Katie Kaps, the wellness brand has experienced meteoric success, boiling down to a true revolutionization of the spa business. Lauren brings a fresh perspective to a space that has been dominated by male voices from its inception, making it HigherDOSE’s core mission to educate women about their bio-individuality and give them the tools they need to reach their own best selves, with content designed to educate people on how to take control of their own wellness regimens. Follow Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/laurenberlingeri/  ​ Follow HigherDOSE: https://www.instagram.com/higherdose  Learn more about HigherDOSE: https://higherdose.com/en-ca/pages/wellness-tech  Items mentioned:   Woman vs. Workout: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5C25A1F253EC28B7  Biohack-HERS: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLtt3Vc8Sfqz2rWmxlkgDdcqUJp4fkWY1v  Power vs. Force by David Hawkins: https://a.co/d/5THzhuu  The Body Keeps the Score: https://a.co/d/cSkIXKP  Dr. Mindy Pelz: https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz/  Fast Like A Girl by Dr. Mindy Pelz: https://a.co/d/fk7adQC  Dr. Stacy Sims: https://www.instagram.com/drstacysims/?hl=en What We Talked About:  00:00 Intro 00:32 First Impressions and Inspiration 01:34 Journey from Modeling to Fitness 02:48 Women Vs. Workout: Discovering Resilience 07:55 The Birth of Higher Dose 09:02 The Rise of Infrared Saunas 22:42 Navigating Wellness and Biohacking 30:42 The Importance of Self-Healing 31:19 Parenting and Trusting Yourself 32:04 Recognizing and Utilizing Tools 33:21 The Impact of Hormones on Health 35:35 The Journey of Motherhood and Self-Care 42:10 Balancing Work, Family, and Self 52:12 The Role of Biohacking in Women's Health 01:01:07 Embracing Aging and Redefining Beauty 01:07:16 Raising Confident and Empathetic Children 01:10:27 Final Thoughts and Resources Disclaimer: The links in this description are sponsor or affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links I may earn a credit or commission at no additional cost to you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Valeria chats with her friend, supermodel, and wellness entrepreneur Miranda Kerr. They dive into her 25-year career; from becoming the first Australian Victoria’s Secret Angel to founding her beauty line Kora Organics. Miranda reflects on personal tragedies, including losing her boyfriend at 16 and family health struggles, and how those experiences shaped her approaches to gratitude, resilience, and holistic wellness. Delving into the science behind her products, Miranda highlights the benefits of certified organic ingredients, from turmeric to noni juice, which she’s used since she was 13! Hope you enjoy! Follow Miranda: https://instagram.com/mirandakerr  https://www.tiktok.com/@mirandakerr?lang=en   ​ Follow Kora Organics: https://www.instagram.com/koraorganics/?hl=en  Items mentioned:  Kora Organics: https://us.koraorganics.com/collections/all-products   Power vs. Force by David Hawkins: https://a.co/d/5THzhuu  You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay https://a.co/d/bthtBZ6  The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho https://a.co/d/bthtBZ6  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4VrQJ https://liketk.it/4VyNy  What We Talked About:  00:00 Introduction and Career Reflection 01:37 Personal Tragedy and Life Lessons 02:34 Health and Wellness Journey 08:00 Moving on from Victoria’s Secret 11:31 Parenting Philosophy and Challenges 21:10 Work-Life Integration 27:35 Parenting Challenges and Solutions 30:06 Balancing Motherhood and Career 32:44 The Journey of Kora Organics 34:43 Skincare Secrets and Innovations 37:16 The Philosophy Behind Kora Organics 43:48 Personal Reflections and Future Plans 48:18 Miranda’s Book Recommendations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Wild: Get 20% off your first order from Wild https://wearewild.com/us/?discount=WILDVALERIA20 with promo code WILDVALERIA20 In this solo episode, Valeria opens up about her journey as a millennial mother learning to trust her instincts in the age of overwhelming advice. She shares a recent story of deciding to unfollow parenting accounts on social media, explaining how their well-meaning tips often triggered feelings of judgment and inadequacy. Reflecting on her personal experience, Valeria explores the pressure millennial parents face, constantly bombarded with expert advice on how to parent “correctly.” She advocates for tuning into one's intuition, highlighting how true empowerment as a mother often comes from within, not from outside voices. Through humor and honesty, she invites fellow moms to embrace their unique parenting path and let go of societal expectations. Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Shop my look from this episode:  Shirt: https://liketk.it/4UHCl  Jeans: https://liketk.it/4U7Bp  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:29 My Recent Instagram Post 03:17 Seeking Parental Advice from Books 05:27 Learning to Trust My Parenting Style 08:41 Am I Losing Myself? 12:29 The So-Called Parenting Experts 16:30 Trust Your Instincts and Your Child’s Individual Needs 19:22 Talk to Your Kids 20:30 The Aspect of Balance in Motherhood 23:54 Develop Your Own Motherhood Instincts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Wild: Get 20% off your first order from Wild https://wearewild.com/us/?discount=WILDVALERIA20 with promo code WILDVALERIA20 Hiya: Try Hiya’s best-selling children's vitamin & receive 50% off your first order. To claim this exclusive discount go to https://www.hiyahealth.com/VALERIA. This deal is not available on their regular website!  Valeria chats with Dr. Berry Fairchild, a board-certified plastic surgeon, about the real-life side of plastic surgery beyond the glamorous social media posts. Dr. Fairchild shares her unique path from working as an ICU nurse to becoming a top plastic surgeon, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the hard work and dedication it takes. They dive into everything from popular cosmetic procedures like breast augmentations and fat grafting to the rise of non-invasive treatments, and even touch on the mental and emotional impact that surgery can have. Valeria opens up about her own experiences with plastic surgery and how it’s influenced her self-confidence. The episode brings a fresh, thoughtful perspective to the conversation around cosmetic surgery, encouraging listeners to consider both the physical and emotional aspects of going under the knife. Find Dr. Berry Fairchild on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drberryfairchild  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drberryfairchild  Website: https://drfairchildplasticsurgery.com/  Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4U7s0  Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:18 The Plastic Surgeon’s Life 02:42 Road to Plastic Surgery 08:29 Social Media Can Be Overwhelming for Anyone 14:00 The Right Operation for the Right Person 17:00 Non Surgical interventions 20:18 Performing the Right Intervention 24:17 Downside of Thread Lift 26:27 Utilizing Procedures that are Duly Tested 27:54 Has Beauty Standards Changed? 30:03 The Dangers of BBL Procedure 33:55 People are Seeking Removal of Implants 35:46 Lymphoma Tied to Breast Implants 37:50 Benefits of Aesthetic Breast Surgery 41:51 Transparency and Limitations 43:55 The Stigma is Slowly Diminishing 46:29 Facial Aging Procedures 49:49 Teach Children to Have Confidence in Their Achievements 51:39 Setting Safe Limits for Your Child 56:55 Best Advice for People Seeking Surgery 58:00 What are the Overrated Procedures? 59:00 Where are we at with Laser Treatment? 01:01:34 What are Exosomes? 01:04:56 Radiofrequency Treatments 01:06:46 Holistic Approach to Skin Care and Aging 01:09:34 The Basics to Skin Care Disclaimer: The links in this description are sponsor or affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links I may earn a credit or commission at no additional cost to you. **Medical Disclaimer: The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code VALERIA at https://www.LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Cozy Earth: Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/notalone and use code VALERIA for an exclusive discount for up to 40% off  Betterhelp: Give online therapy a try at https://www.betterhelp.com/notalone  and get on your way to being your best self Valeria chats with astrologer Danielle Paige about the practical power of astrology in everyday life. Danielle, a renowned astrologer and spiritual teacher with over 16 years of experience, shares her journey from a successful career in interior architecture to a spiritual awakening that led her to astrology. They discuss how astrology, particularly through natal charts, sun, moon, and rising signs, helps people better understand their life purpose, emotions, and relationships. Valeria reflects on her own experiences with astrology, exploring how it can be a tool to reconnect with oneself and gain deeper self-awareness. The episode leaves listeners with a sense of empowerment through astrology as a guide for personal development.   Astrology Mystery School Level 1 is Danielle’s most popular masterclass and is closing its doors on October 27th. Danielle will teach you how to read your soul blueprint so you can get clarity in all aspects of your life. In AMS you will learn the language of the stars…which is the language of your soul. Enroll now: http://daniellepaige.com/AMS-enroll Follow Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdaniellepaige/  Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4UHxX What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:56 From Interior Design Architecture to Astrology 03:35 Getting a Spiritual Hint 09:24 The Map of Your Soul 12:36 Life is a Repetitive Cycle   14:56 We’re All Multi-Dimensional Beings 19:31 Astrology is About Consciousness 21:33 The Natal Chart is the Blueprint of Your Soul 24:57 Our Consciousness is Expanding 28:16 The False Sense of Control 31:23 What is the Matrix? 33:07 Every Person is Intuitive 37:28 The Big 3 in Astrology 40:55 Valeria’s Natal Reading 49:38 Real Cycle Reading 53:48 How Often Should Readings Happen? 59:32 Is Astrology Connected to Astronomy? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Orgain: Get in on delicious protein-packed nutrition today! Head to https://wwwOrgain.com/VALERIA and use code VALERIA for 20% off your order.  Nurture Life:  For 55% off your order, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com/valeria and use code VALERIA.   Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeria50 and use code valeria50 for 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next two months. Today, Valeria and Gary get real about the feedback they've received from listeners. From Gary being called too harsh to comments about their relationship dynamic, they tackle it all head-on with humor and honesty. Valeria opens up about how she feels when Gary’s directness gets misunderstood, and Gary explains why he believes in being straightforward—even if it rubs people the wrong way sometimes. The two dive into how they’ve learned to communicate more effectively, share some laughs about the wild world of online comments, and reflect on the balance between staying true to themselves while also growing together as a couple.  Follow Gary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky/  Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Shop this episode:  Dress: https://www.zara.com/ca/en/trf-fitted-denim-dress-p03643181.html?v1=370178137  Oura Ring: https://bit.ly/46lWcym  Gary’s watch: https://www.longines.com/en-ca/p/watch-longines-spirit-flyback-l3-821-4-53-9  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:40 Every Married Couple Communicates Differently 07:24 Don’t Change to Appease Other People’s Views 09:58 Do You Feel Fulfilled in Your Relationship? 14:01 This is Why Our Marriage Has Worked 16:47 People Just Find Gary to be Harsh 18:02 Firm Communication is Welcome 21:58 The Conversation We Had About My Brain Cyst 31:48 Emotions are Necessary 33:45 Is Gary Threatened by Valeria’s Career? 39:44 Gary’s Pseudo-Intelligent, Snarky Remarks 44:46 Is Gary Being Domineering? 47:03 Let’s Talk About Age Gaps in Couples 54:21 Define an Alpha Male 56:00 Being Direct Might Sound Harsh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by Knix: Get 10% off Valeria’s favourite leakproof underwear at www.knix.com with code VALERIA10 Valeria catches up with her stepbrother Denis, seven years after their first video together! They chat about their quirky family dynamics, the funny story of how they met, and Denis’ wild dating life. From family gatherings like Shabbat dinners to the ups and downs of blended family life, nothing’s off the table. Denis spills on his dating mishaps, including catfishing and dating app drama, while they both laugh about the pressure social media adds. They even get into the whole "who pays on dates" debate, with Denis sticking to his gentlemanly ways and Valeria weighing in on today’s mixed signals. Denis is on: https://www.instagram.com/yopdenis  Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Not Alone Podcast Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Hz9P  Mentioned:  The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz: https://www.amazon.com/Paradox-Choice-Why-More-Less/dp/0060005696  Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg Mckeown https://a.co/d/8fifhy1  Tim Ferris: www.instagram.com/timferriss/  Chris Williamson: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/  Old YouTube videos with Denis:  10 Things NOT TO DO On A First Date Featuring My Brother: https://youtu.be/aygt-N8gnuo  Taking Over My Brother's Tinder: https://youtu.be/cG2vXoWwWvk  I Made My Brother A Birthday Cake, Epic Fail Or Great Success?! https://youtu.be/cG2vXoWwWvk  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:41 Meet Denis, my brother 03:47 Unconventional family connection 07:18 How we met for the first time 08:54 Operation: Move Denis to Miami 10:43 The advice he did not expect to hear 14:51 Introduction on social media 16:48 Ten things not to do on a date 21:51 Time to date intentionally 25:03 Everything closed during the pandemic 27:20 When a man is ready to settle 30:22 Being cautious on social media 32:49 Catfishing  36:11 Distorted expectation 42:56 Be intentional when you date 46:45 Who pays for the date? 49:40 Chivalry is dead 53:19 Guys need to step up 56:32 Are you happy? 59:30 Biggest lesson learned this year 01:07:10 You’re so much like your mom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code VALERIA at https://www.LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Valeria sits down with her close friend, Aleks Malkin, to discuss the beauty and complexities of life's choices, personal growth, and the paths not taken. The episode dives deep into themes of self-reflection, hyper-independence, and the power of vulnerability, as the two friends share stories of their past, the defining moments that shaped them, and how their perspectives on life have evolved over the years. Aleks opens up about her journey with motherhood, marriage, and the importance of allowing oneself to feel deeply, even if it means facing uncomfortable truths. Valeria shares her own experiences of contemplating the "what ifs" in life, questioning the different paths she could have taken, and the realization that some choices were necessary for her growth. They explore how childhood experiences and societal expectations have influenced their definitions of love, success, and identity, and how they’re striving to create a more authentic and fulfilling life. Follow Aleks on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aleksmalkin/  Mentioned:  Byron Katie’s The Work: https://thework.com/  Awareness by Anthony DeMello https://a.co/d/gfyPX0Q  Chloe Macintosh: https://www.instagram.com/chloe_macintosh/  Inside Out 2: https://www.disneyplus.com/movies/inside-out-2/6MeZYf9JkFii  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4JhPf  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:36 Weekend contemplation 03:52 What could I have done differently? 07:24 Taking alone time 12:06 Self-awareness 14:11 Losing yourself in being a mother 17:08 The 4-Question Inquiry 21:13 Pause and then process the situation 22:02 Somatic way to heal 26:31 You model your values 27:49 How to raise a daughter 30:46 What younger you would have wanted 35:10 Hyper-independence as a coping mechanism 39:04 Pleasure has become synonymous to shame 43:07 The generation that needs a lot of self-work 45:42 Having comfortable conversations with your parents 47:05 Conversation with your mom 52:17 Compassion and space for people 56:06 It’s about creating a safe environment 01:00:56 How do you define real friendships 01:02:37 Are you still working on yourself? 01:03:40 Back from a social media break 01:07:25 Allow things to come to you 01:14:49 How do you give advice to someone? 01:20:23 What’s your purpose? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Orgain: If you want to get in on delicious protein-packed nutrition today, head to http://Orgain.com/VALERIA and use code VALERIA for 20% off your order. Orgain is also now available at Costco! Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass! Cozy Earth: Visit https://www.cozyearth.com/notalone and use code VALERIA for an exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Better Help: Give online therapy a try at https://www.betterhelp.com/notalone and get on your way to being your best self.  In today’s episode, Valeria sits down with Alison Cheperdak, an etiquette coach, author, and lawyer for a deep dive into the world of modern etiquette. Forget the stuffy image of rules about cutlery — Alison shares how etiquette is all about kindness, respect, and navigating relationships in a fast-changing world. The conversation covers everything from first-date dilemmas, setting boundaries in friendships, and handling workplace challenges to mastering the art of introductions and elevating your party & networking experiences  Whether you're looking to polish your professional presence, improve your communication, or simply find better ways to connect with others, this episode is packed with practical tips and real-life insights. Valeria and Alison also tackle tricky situations like receiving unwanted gifts, dealing with gossip, and gracefully handling public embarrassment. Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OWQE  Mentioned:  Open by Andre Agassi https://www.amazon.com/Open-Autobiography-Andre-Agassi/dp/0307388409  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:10 What is modern etiquette? 02:21 Misconceptions about etiquette 03:44 Career shift 07:24 Should a woman pay for the first date? 09:16 How to deal with gossips 13:10 Ending friendships 15:35 Unwanted gifts 24:16 Etiquette in the workplace 28:22 Hype yourself up 30:26 It’s not about the gender 35:02 Unwanted attention 36:59 Dress code 40:09 Rude acquaintances 43:51 Backhanded compliments 44:31 Feeling excluded 47:20 Public humiliation 48:58 Incorporate modern etiquette into self-improvement 52:12 Topics to discuss 54:44 Missing the moment to connect 57:41 Etiquette in parties 59:59 How to join a conversation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Cozy Earth: Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/notalone and use code VALERIA for an exclusive discount for up to 40% off. Hiya: We've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order at https://www.hiyahealth.com/VALERIA.  Nurture Life: For 55% off your order, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com and use code VALERIA In this special episode, Valeria sits down with her 11-year-old son, Jake Lipovetsky, to reflect on their summer experiences, including family trips and Jake's camp adventures. Jake shares lessons on patience, responsibility, and decision-making, especially how he overcame his hesitation to extend his stay at camp. Their conversation explores personal growth, with Jake emphasizing the value of living in the moment and how challenges help build character. He also talks about confidence and self-belief as key elements in personal development. The episode wraps up with Jake discussing his admiration for his parents as role models, particularly for their public speaking and social skills. Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Prlg  Mentioned:  Nas Daily Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyoZdXszaKg  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:57 “I wanted to protect you.” 05:26 3-month summer break is boring 07:29 Outdoor activities and personal growth 10:57 How do you view personal growth? 14:35 Believe in yourself 20:35 Do you have limiting beliefs? 26:14 What would change this year? 30:52 Sharpen the skills you have right now 33:37 Jake scared Valeria  39:20 Who’s your role model? 43:22 Do you have goals for yourself? 46:51 “I’m lucky you’re my mom.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  In this episode, Valeria chats down with Dené Logan to explore the intricate dynamics of relationships, the concepts of feminine and masculine energies, and the societal shifts surrounding these themes. Dené explains the historical suppression of the feminine and the modern journey towards reclaiming it. The discussion covers the impact of these energies on personal growth, relationships, and societal structures, offering listeners profound insights into achieving a balanced and fulfilling life. Dené Logan is a Marriage and Family Therapist with an orientation in Depth Psychology (often referred to as ‘The Psychology of the Soul’), Group Facilitator, and co-host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy.  She has a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is notably the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel. Dené is passionate about sharing tools and strategies to cultivate spiritual awareness, understanding the current shifts taking place within our societal structures, and empowering others in understanding how they can live the most fulfilling lives possible.  Mentioned:  Sovereign Love by Dené Logan:  Mankind Project: https://mankindproject.org/  Sacred Sons: https://www.sacredsons.com/  Jane Fonda in Five Acts: https://www.hbo.com/movies/jane-fonda-in-five-acts  Pema Chödrön: h ttps://www.instagram.com/anipemachodron/   Dené is on: https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan  https://www.flowhousetherapy.com/  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OMP3  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 04:34 What is the feminine energy? 06:08 Wounded masculine paradigm 05:38 Women are raised feminists 11:29 Healthy masculinity 15:27 Sacred connection in relationships 20:32 What defines a successful relationship? 24:34 Conversations are crucial 32:52 Is there a limit to what you can talk about with your partner? 35:54 Be your true self all the time  40:04 Moving out of codependent paradigms 45:19 Ownership mindset in relationships 48:33 Midlife awakening 48:33 Men also need emotional support 51:41 Men are struggling in secret 55:57 Men need more model leaders 59:52 Post-patriarchal society 01:02:18 The next stage of feminism 01:05:05 How to reclaim your feminine self 01:05:58 Surround yourself with authentic people Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Nurture Life: For 55% off your order, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com and use code VALERIA Orgain: If you want to get in on the delicious protein-packed nutrition today, head to http://www.Orgain.com/VALERIA and use code: VALERIA for 20% off your order In this episode, Gary and Valeria dive into how they have managed money over their marriage as a couple with and 18-year age gap. They explain how they have navigated financial dynamics in their relationship and family and explored the balance between independence and interdependence in a marriage. Valeria opens up about her journey from feeling financially insecure to becoming a confident contributor. They discuss the importance of clear communication, the role of prenups, and navigating the complexities of shared finances. With humor and honesty, they unpack the emotional and practical aspects of building a partnership and a family legacy that thrives on trust and mutual growth. Perfect for listeners navigating their own financial and personal dynamics in relationships! Follow Gary: https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky/  Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. Follow Creator Method: https://www.instagram.com/creator.method/  Mentioned:  Shoes argument vlog: I can’t find the link guys, sorry! If I find the video I will add it! Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OmzM  Shop Gary’s watch: https://www.longines.com/en-ca/p/watch-longines-spirit-l3-821-4-53-9  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:18 Breathwork 05:48 Financial independence and interdependence 11:27 Bad financial habits 18:02 Money shouldn’t be an issue 24:53 Support your partner’s career journey  27:02 Our dynamic is different 28:18 Making money together 30:37 Financial planning 33:01 Did the relationship shift when the wife made more money? 37:20 Prenup talks 45:44 Don’t get married 48:21 Ten years from now 50:23 Life insurance 57:07 Setting up kids for financial success 01:04:56 Teach your kids to work 01:06:55 Spending money on luxury brands 01:11:25 Creator Method Disclaimer: The links in this description are sponsor or affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links I may earn a credit or commission at no additional cost to you. Disclaimer: The use of information from this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional or personal financial management and education. This is information based on personal experiences and is not financial advice or recommendation. Do your own research and seek independent advice when required. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Lolavie: Get 15% off LolaVie with the code VALERIA at https://www.lolavie.com/valeria #lolaviepod  BetterHelp: Not Alone is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/notalone today to get 10% off your first month. This week, Valeria is joined by iconic Victoria's Secret Angel, supermodel, and entrepreneur, Taylor Hill. Taylor opens up about her journey as a model, beginning with her career's early start at the age of 14 and the challenges of growing up in the modeling industry, including dropping out of high school and navigating the pressures of public life. She also highlights the pivotal moment in her career when she joined Victoria’s Secret at 18, which propelled her into the global spotlight. Taylor reflects on the brand's past promotion of unrealistic beauty standards and expresses her support for its recent shift towards inclusivity and authenticity.  Beyond her career, Taylor talks about the importance of family support, particularly her mother’s unwavering presence during her early modeling years. She also touches on her approach to body image, embracing the changes that come with aging, and the value of self-acceptance. The episode takes an emotional turn as Taylor discusses her deep connection with her late dog, Tate, and the grief of losing him, as well as her experience with the loss of an unplanned pregnancy. Taylor's reflections provide a candid look into the complexities of her life, both in the spotlight and behind the scenes. Visit the Tate & Taylor community & marketplace: https://tateandtaylor.com/  Taylor is on:  https://www.instagram.com/taylor_hill/  https://www.tiktok.com/@taylor_hill?lang=en  Mentioned:  Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show 2024 announcement: https://www.instagram.com/p/C9zm-sduXqw/  ACOTAR (A Court of Thorns and Roses) by Sara J. Maas: https://a.co/d/hOGKrDP  Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian L. Weiss: https://a.co/d/cfCEKVf  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4MFHp  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 03:02 The story behind the haircut 06:18 Scouted to model 10:50 Modeling at 14 11:52 Studying wasn’t for me 14:40 Family support 16:55 What’s your pivotal moment? 20:37 Identity crisis 23:08 Confidence in the runway 27:20 Project with Victoria Secret 29:32 Conforming to body standards 33:39 The body constantly changes 37:52 Losing Tate 47:52 Unplanned pregnancy & loss  59:22 Lessons from my loss 01:00:40 Therapy and healing 01:02:35 Write out where you’re at emotionally 01:06:08 Tate and Taylor 01:12:21 What’s your favorite book? Disclaimer: The links in this description are sponsor or affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links I may earn a credit or commission at no additional cost to you. Medical Disclaimer: The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their health care professionals for any such conditions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Hiya: We've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order at https://www.hiyahealth.com/VALERIA In today’s solo episode, join me as I open up about experiencing my first panic attack, a terrifying moment that left me feeling completely vulnerable. I walk you through the intense buildup of stress from work, personal life, and underlying health anxieties that led to this overwhelming experience. Ignoring my body’s warning signs and pushing through the stress ultimately brought me to this breaking point, forcing me to reassess how I approach my mental health. I share my journey of recovery, exploring different methods to manage stress, including hypnotherapy, which has been incredibly impactful for me. I also emphasize the importance of being mindful of our mental well-being and avoiding the normalization of anxiety and overwhelm, especially for women. Through this episode, I hope to inspire you to prioritize your mental health and find healthier ways to cope with life’s pressures. Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Neh5  Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Not Alone Podcast What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:36 My first panic attack 06:13 Full body scan & my brain cyst  08:47 Neglecting my health 14:59 Women deal with panic attacks a lot 16:49 Dealing with stress positively 20:02 Hypnotherapy 24:58 Don’t take life too seriously 29:20 Mental health awareness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  K12: Go to https://www.K12.com/VALERIA today to learn more and find a tuition-free K12-powered school near you  Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today.  Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. In this episode, Valeria sits down with Dr. Aviva Romm, a renowned integrative physician, midwife, and herbalist, to dive deep into the complexities of women's hormonal health. They explore the controversial topic of birth control, discussing the widespread misinformation and the varied perspectives on its use. Dr. Romm provides insights into the benefits and risks of hormonal contraceptives, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's body and making informed decisions. The conversation extends into a broader discussion on how women can reclaim control over their health through natural methods, proper education, and integrative approaches that encompass diet, lifestyle, and reducing exposure to environmental toxins. Dr. Aviva Romm brings decades of experience in holistic medicine, blending her extensive knowledge of conventional medicine with herbalism and midwifery. As an author of several books on women's health, including the acclaimed "Hormone Intelligence," Dr. Romm has become a trusted voice for women seeking to understand and balance their hormones naturally. Throughout the episode, she emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare and offers practical advice on how women can better support their hormonal health through informed choices and by reconnecting with their bodies. Aviva is on: https://www.instagram.com/dr.avivaromm/   https://avivaromm.com/  Resources:  Hormone Intelligence by Dr. Aviva Romm: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062796216?linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzvaler076-20&creativeASIN=0062796216&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.2IANCXZE2RU26&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin  Women Who Run With Wolves: https://a.co/d/4kWjO1N  Parsley Health: https://www.parsleyhealth.com/  One Medical: https://www.onemedical.com/  Natural Cycles App: https://www.naturalcycles.com/  Oura Ring: https://rstyle.me/+Grxs2U3cuyRA6ZbirigVVA?li=47a8c5f9-504d-11ef-b768-0242ac11000d&lpm=EXACT&pt=timeline&__cid=1144&l=en&p=explore-displayName-posts-id&r=explore-displayName&rr=explore-displayName-posts-id&vid=1e59ed37-2e05-4a37-86c7-d4d8dd061193&hpd=false  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4JbzW  **Medical Disclaimer: The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their health care professionals for any such conditions.  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:43 Birth control pills 09:16 Women healthcare 15:51 The pill is just a band-aid 16:36 Overriding normal hormonal cycle 18:48 Post-pill transition 21:34 Balanced hormone 27:21 Can’t heal if you can’t feel 29:00 Is PMS real?  31:14 Self-diagnosed PMS 33:05 Hormones and emotions 38:25 How to take care of yourself as a woman? 40:00 Happy mothers matter 41:40 How to reclaim your wild self 46:09 Understand your menstrual cycle 51:20 Detoxing 57:14 Other contraception options 01:01:32 Contraceptives for men 01:03:50 Information sharing online 01:0:07 Where to find Aviva Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Pique: Head over to https://www.piquelife.com/valeria to get 15% off plus free shipping FOR LIFE, AND receive Pique’s starter kit. Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order of Hiya’s best selling children's vitamin. To claim this deal you go to www.hiyahealth.com/VALERIA.   Valeria chats with Nicole Lapin, a financial expert, author, and former anchor for CNN and CNBC. Nicole shares her incredible journey from growing up in an immigrant family with no financial knowledge to becoming a top voice in personal finance. She talks about her early struggles, how she learned about money on the job, and the importance of making finance understandable for everyone. Nicole highlights why financial independence is crucial, especially for women. She discusses overcoming financial trauma, the need for financial education in schools, and the power of managing your own money. With personal stories and practical tips, Nicole encourages listeners to see financial challenges as opportunities for growth. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with valuable insights from Nicole Lapin's journey. Nicole Lapin is the New York Times and Wall Street Journal Bestselling author of Rich Bitch, Boss Bitch, Becoming Super Woman and Miss Independent. She has been an anchor on CNN, CNBC and Bloomberg as well as the host of the business reality competition show, "Hatched" that aired on the CW for the first season and CBS for the second. She is the founder of Money News Network, a pioneer business- and finance-focused podcast network, which is the home of her daily show “Money Rehab” that reached #1 on Apple’s business charts as well as “Help Wanted” that she co-hosts with the editor-in-chief of Entrepreneur Magazine Jason Feifer, among other shows on their slate.  Mentioned:  The Money School https://a.co/d/1wMNt3P   Miss Independent https://a.co/d/4jhDGLj  Rich Bitch https://a.co/d/2RI5R1g  Becoming Superwoman https://a.co/d/5GX0Top  Rich Dad, Poor Dad https://a.co/d/aBUzzHH  Professor Galloway https://www.instagram.com/profgalloway/  Ben Higgins Money Rehab Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/0L6aLVwvjDLv2aFv3WmONW?si=I2kLvU9DQkWoHN27NavVOA  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Jvd3  Nicole is on: https://www.instagram.com/nicolelapin  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/money-rehab-with-nicole-lapin/id1559564016  https://www.instagram.com/moneynews/  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:40 How did you get into finance? 05:19 Relationship with money 07:25 Changing your beliefs 12:07 Finance should be taught in school 13:51 Financial independence 21:15 What choices would you have made? 23:08 Becoming rich in all aspects of life 24:20 Impact of money on relationships 25:58 Making money as a woman 28:17 Money as a tool 31:02 Money talk in relationships 39:15 Prenup talk 41:56 Who pays for the first date? 43:58 Masculinity confusion 46:31 Be clear about what you want 48:41 Money is what you make it 50:40 The funny email story 55:20 Rich Bitch, Boss Bitch 01:02:16 Money is the language 01:06:35 Women in finance 01:10:40 The future of feminism 01:13:54 Future for Money News Network Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Better Help: Stop comparing and start focusing, with BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notalone today to get 10% off your first month. K12: Go to www.K12.com/VALERIA today to learn more and find a tuition-free K12-powered school near you  Today is a special day for Gary and Valeria as they celebrate their anniversary with a sweet and heartfelt conversation. They laugh about their audience's reactions to funny and controversial topics from past episodes, and how they enjoy showing their real, sometimes differing, opinions. They emphasize the importance of good communication and understanding each other's boundaries to keep their relationship strong.  They also discuss their feelings about gifts, preferring meaningful gestures over material things. Gary talks about taking risks and seizing opportunities, and Valeria appreciates how he has helped her grow. They reflect on what it means to be a power couple and the importance of being authentic. Valeria opens up about embracing her past and sharing her story to connect with others. Overall, it’s a genuine and heartfelt look into their life together. Mentioned:  Mesh shoes clip: https://www.instagram.com/p/C8zlO4oJhne/  Feather tickling clip: https://www.instagram.com/p/C8KxrblOmLO/  Feather episode full video: https://youtu.be/0dppdPulrhY  Jake podcast clip: https://www.instagram.com/p/C7rVE1qxfif/  Viola Davis quote: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2J0l8_prEbo  Valeria meeting her biological dad vlogs: https://youtu.be/Ho_5YisGHyU | https://youtu.be/FYhdTvyavoU | https://youtu.be/9_6xEEjH3bw  The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Johnathan Haidt https://a.co/d/gP3BDL5  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4LWtl  Gary is on: https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKHLJJd07IhT9DPhxsY-EYg  https://www.tiktok.com/@garylipovetsky  https://www.linkedin.com/in/garylipovetsky/  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:29 The mesh shoes at the airport 03:30 Real couple interactions 06:10 Triggering the deep-seated wounds 11:20 Healthy conflict resolution 16:47 Have you ever hated your partner so much? 20:28 Gift giving 24:15 Would you buy me a gift? 27:44 Taking risks as a couple 30:09 A sense of urgency 38:43 Meeting my biological dad 41:01 Are you defined by your past?  42:39 Not being defined by how much you spend 47:59 Luxury brands marketing strategies 49:57 Trust is crucial in marriage 57:06 Take care of each other 01:00:26 Sitting down and talking with your kids 01:01:37 Kids and exposure on social media 01:05:28 Putting value on metrics 01:10:32 The Anxious Generation 01:13:10 Where are the flowers? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Magic Spoon: Get 5 dollars off your next order of delicious cereal at https://www.magicspoon.com/NOTALONE Or look for Magic Spoon in your nearest grocery aisle.  Jennie Kayne: Find your new uniform at https://www.jennikayne.com. Our listeners get 15% off your first order when you use code VALERIA15 at checkout.  Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership. This week, Valeria sits down with Lauryn Bosstick, the undeniable force behind "The Skinny Confidential." Lauryn shares her journey of transforming her blog into a thriving brand over 14 years and discusses balancing personal and professional life, and setting boundaries online and in real life. Valeria and Lauryn also get personal and talk about their experiences with plastic surgery, cosmetic procedures, and their health and wellness “routines”.  Lauryn Bosstick is a multi-hyphenate entrepreneur, podcaster, investor, best-selling author, and creator behind wellness + beauty brand The Skinny Confidential. In 2011, Bosstick launched her brand with a blog that features uncensored advice spanning everything from entrepreneurship, skincare, relationships, wellness and more. Under The Skinny Confidential umbrella, Bosstick also hosts top-rated podcast, “The “Skinny Confidential Him & Her” with her husband Michael, which boasts over 200M downloads and dives deep into the mindset of constantly leveling up.  Lauryn is on: https://www.instagram.com/laurynbosstick https://www.instagram.com/tscpodcast/  https://shopskinnyconfidential.com/  Mentioned:  Gabriel Lyon https://www.instagram.com/drgabriellelyon/  Glennon Doyle https://www.instagram.com/glennondoyle/  Glennon Doyle Untamed https://a.co/d/geTmRxV  Andrew Huberman: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab/  Elena Cardone Skinny Confidential episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_xmUcMJBGQ  Robert Greene https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/  Atomic Habits https://a.co/d/3fE249L  Gary Vee https://www.instagram.com/garyvee/  Louise Hay https://www.louisehay.com/  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4K814  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:58 What were you trying to achieve? 06:24 Sharing personal life online 09:04 It started with blogging 12:49 Building your identity 16:00 Boundaries in relationships 18:37 Healthy marriage 21:47 The energy you bring at home 25:57 Everything takes time 27:28 Self awareness and genuine friendship 31:29 Plastic surgery 35:54 Wellness and health 36:57 Your non-negotiables 41:51 Biohacking 42:46 Podcasting is hard 46:33 Amazing guests on the show 50:57 Access to other learning resources 52:30 How do you find inspiration? 55:01 Focus on what you want to attract 58:33 The most uncomfortable thing I did 01:00:54 Social media as a mirror to turn your life around Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  K12: Join the more than 2 million families who have chosen K12, and empower your students to reach their full potential now. Go to https://www.K12.com/VALERIA  today to learn more and find a tuition-free K12-powered school near you Floatley: So easy, you don’t even have to think about it. Visit the following link and use the code: Valeria20 to get 20% off your new favorite bra https://bit.ly/4dkh3Wz In today’s solo episode, join me as I share my journey of redefining femininity by balancing both feminine and masculine energies within myself. I talk about moving away from societal norms and focusing on my true self. Inspired by the book "The Wild Feminine" by Tammy Lynn Kent, I am learning to lean into releasing emotions and reconnecting with my body. Together, let’s work on cultivating feminine energy into our lives to avoid exhaustion from living in a masculine-driven way, and to embrace our pleasure, creativity, and self-care. Items mentioned:  The Wild Feminine by Tammy Lynn Kent https://a.co/d/5tGjXqV  Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Not Alone Podcast Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4K82N  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:43 Connecting and redefining my feminine 02:59 Disconnection from my feminine side 05:47 Women tend to internalize struggles 08:19 Womanhood is taxing physically 09:18 How do you define femininity? 12:02 Confirmations and validations 14:15 Astrology chart 15:29 Welcoming pleasure in my life 18:00 How to raise a daughter 20:52 How do I nourish my core? 23:38 Start honoring yourself 26:38 This is my goal now 27:26 Body-mind-spirit connection 30:15 My action steps in the coming months 32:24 Have you felt that out of reach existence within you? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Better Help: Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notalone today to get 10% off your first month. K12: Join the more than 2 million families who have chosen K12, and empower your student to reach their full potential now. Go to https://www.K12.com/VALERIA today to learn more and find a tuition-free K12-powered school near you This week, Valeria welcomes her dear friend Mimi Ikonn to chat all about her “conscious separation” from her husband. Their discussion uncovers why being true to yourself is the key to genuine happiness, inner growth, and ultimate freedom. Learn practical strategies to break free from the debilitating grip of fear, stop the cycle of self-sacrifice, and find the courage to live authentically every single day.  Through personal stories, expert insights, and actionable advice, this episode will empower you to listen to your intuition, navigate life's transitions and breakups with confidence, and unlock your true potential. Whether you're seeking personal or relational growth or a deeper understanding of yourself, this conversation offers the tools and inspiration you need to embark on your journey toward a more authentic and fulfilling life. Mimi is on: https://www.instagram.com/mimiikonn  https://www.youtube.com/mimiikonn  https://www.tiktok.com/@mimiikonnofficial  https://www.intelligentchange.com/  Mentioned:  Five-Minute Journal: https://a.co/d/07rT0ZsD  Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller https://a.co/d/0cv8IrXc  Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer https://a.co/d/0iIfX7nQ  Letting Go: The Pathway to Surrender by David Hawkins https://a.co/d/0gBIRKPn  Thais Gibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool Valeria is on: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA  https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky  Not Alone Podcast Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4vo3e  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 04:25 Life changes and facing fears 07:08 Intuition  17:10 Losing the feeling of love 24:52 We get to evolve and change 28:57 How to be authentic 33:29 Face your fears full on 35:49 Attachment theory 42:50 Being aware of your insecurities 46:48 Finding yourself again 50:44 It’s not love, it’s attachment 53:32 A woman’s natural instinct 58:36 Choose what’s right for you 01:01:58 Self-sacrifice is not an option 01:05:28 Book resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices