Not As We Planned

<p>When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com</p><br /><p>NEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY PATREON EPISODE EVERY MONDAY</p><br /><p><strong>Follow us </strong></p><br /><p>Not As We Planned Podcast:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@notasweplanned_podcast</a></p><br /><p>Tash:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tash_blake_ivy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@tash_blake_ivy</a></p><br /><p>Carly:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamcarlyharris/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@iamcarlyharris</a></p><br /><p>Link to our shop:</p><p><a href="https://notasweplanned.shop/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://notasweplanned.shop/</a></p><br /><p>Producer:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tristanhehir/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@tristanhehir</a></p><hr /><p style="color: grey; font-size: 0.75em;"> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color: grey;" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

34. Buy Me a F****** Meal First Hun

We answer some intrusive questions we always get asked… also sharing our biggest icks, green flags and teaching men what women really likeProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

03-07
48:16

The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast

We hear about the constant betrayal throughout a marriage with some brutal advice given, a shocking story which left someone homeless, the reality of ignoring every red flag and the when love turns into survival Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11-13
46:12

When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We give our brutal opinion on what we believe is bare minimum rather than princess treatment, when the guy you’re dating even lied about his name and figuring out whether a second chance could work. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11-06
53:55

The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast

We hear from a broken listener who we give some much needed advice to, when the trust is broken and if you can really move forward from the deceit, and we hear from an ‘imposter’ who shares a different story!Use code CARLY20 for 20% off anything site wide @ruci_uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-30
46:24

Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast

For the first time ever, Jessica reveals the detailed truths about her partner's affair, the way she found out, and what she did afterwards!!! Not one to miss! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-22
01:13:57

It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast

We actually beg a listener to take our advice, or she will regret it, the lying boyfriend who made out he ended it to do her a favour, the shocking 9-year affair and watching history repeat itself! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-15
41:40

Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast

A very eye-opening episode which will give you an insightful understanding into the coparenting world, how to manage the legal battle with your children’s parent and growing through the trauma. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-08
59:54

Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We share the most embarrassing moments when you text the wrong person, Tash shares a mortifying experience, finding out you're the home wrecker only after the relationship ends and when your husband leaves you for a man Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-01
47:56

I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast

We get an update on Carly's dating drama after being ghosted, how she joined dating app Wisp https://wisp.global/ (ad) which bans ghosters, the most graphic sexual encounter by a male listener, the 5ft7 liar, and dating a criminal! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-24
44:37

Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast

We discuss whether it’s a good idea to date multiple men at once, swapping stories with the other woman, planning another baby with your ex and how to meet the love of your life and a lovely email to give is all hope! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-17
45:37

The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Carly gives us a big life update, we have a little scroll on ‘are we dating the same guy’, realising you’ve outgrown your partner and don’t know if you should end it, and should you give your cheating partner one more chance? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-11
42:58

We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast

Welcome to a brand-new era of Not As We Planned - and our very first episode in the NEW studio! 💖 It’s a total pinch-me moment, and we’re so excited to share it with you. Same raw honesty and bestie vibes, but with a fresh new space and energy.In this opener, we dive deep into the realities of love, heartbreak, and fresh starts. You’ll hear the jaw-dropping story of a woman who stayed in a toxic relationship for 30 years before finally breaking free, an empowering reminder that it’s never too late to put yourself first. We also answer listener questions about cheating, red flags, and “should I have stayed?” moments. Plus, catch up with us as we share the highs and lows of single life, dating apps, co-parenting, and everything in between.If you’re ready for real talk, belly laughs, and conversations that feel like therapy with your best friends, you’re in the right place.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for weekly episodes from our new studio!#newstudio #podcastseasonpremiere #toxicrelationships #divorcerecovery #singlewomen #datingafterdivorce #relationshipredflags #breakupadvice #selflovejourney #empowermentpodcast #podcast #youtubepodcast #womensupportwomen Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-03
46:44

100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…

We discuss the difficulties of splitting your time with the kids over the holidays, someone who needs some serious tough love from us, a clear comparison with how your life could look when leaving or staying and the man who was sleeping with 9 women!!!Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-30
53:45

99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault

We have an honest conversation about the financial pressures of being a single mum, when you catfish your partner by pretending to be the other woman, and a hard story of emotional abuse whilst managing to break the trauma bondLink to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-23
53:02

98. I Was The Other Woman But Didn’t Know!!!

Mr British airways by who took so many women for a ride, when the man you’ve been dating lied about EVERYTHING… even his name! And when you compare notes with the other woman to find that he shat on both your beds!!Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-16
41:20

97. He Told Me He Was a Vampire

You guys share your most embarrassing date scenarios, when your partner informs you that he wants to watch you sleep with other men, when his memory of you is taken away and a thanks for the podcast making you not feel alone through your divorce.Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-09
45:47

96. An Unexpected Turn of Events

We hear from an absolute queen showing just how to handle being cheated on, when you think you’re over your husband but don’t want to leave because of the kids and an unexpected turn of events when we get told off by a listener….Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-02
48:35

95. The Signs Of An Affair

When you hear from the other woman who tells you all about the affair, a man who needs our help, and yet another affair with you guessed it… ANOTHER ONELink to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-25
48:03

94. A Massive Orange Dildo

When your boyfriend has an issue with your baby daddy, an update from a man whose wife cheated, the massive orange dildo, and proof that no consequences means no changesLink to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-18
51:18

93. I Thought He Would Change For Me

When a short situationship does a lot of damage, your partner tells you it’s you or the dog, and when your ex has moved on but you weren’t ready for this changeLink to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: @TristanHehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-11
45:05

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