Now That We're A Family

Culture has reduced the modern family to a joke -- informing parents they are only capable of shuttling their children from expert to expert who experiment with untested agendas. Katie and Elisha lean on their experience growing up in large families of 10 and 11 kids, to encourage parents to take back control, stop listening to popular relationship advice, and embrace their God-given role as their children's primary authority.

287: Confronting Other Parents, Trusting Your Spouse, & Overwhelmed Mothers

OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: Affordable and effective online weekly music lessons designed for families. https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.comUse coupon code: PODCASTVMA for 10% off each month Sign up now to join in on the 6 songs of summer challenge starting on May 28th! - Send us your questions for future Q&A podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission - Mentioned during podcast: - "Navigating Overwhelm" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148600453

05-07
52:39

286: Disputes Over Theology, Missing Date Nights, Prioritizing Family // Ben & Jessa Seewald

Homeschool Course: The First Three Years Laying a foundation of joy, confidence, and a love of learning from the start.https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/homeschool For 15% off the course, use discount code: YTHOMESCHOOL-Ben & Jessa Seewald have been married for almost 10 years and have 5 children. Jessa wrote - "I love interior design and am always excited to team up with Jana and do projects for family and friends. Whether it’s for a home or business, we love refurbishing old pieces, shopping for bargains, and seeing an idea become a reality. I love reading—though in this busy season with young kids, I find myself working in hours of audio books on the go, rather than sitting down with a book in hand. I’m grateful to be able to spend so much of much my time with my kids. Even though some days can be a bit crazy, it is also so much fun, and I count it one of my greatest blessings to get to be their mom.   Ben loves reading good books, especially on theology and, because of this, our family library is ever-expanding. Since finishing his degree at Moody Bible Institute online, he has been actively involved in church ministry. Ben is also an adventurous foodie. He loves to take me out on dates to new restaurants, and try out the most unique menu items. He’s a sweet, patient and engaged father and husband. He loves wrestling with the boys, and cuddling his baby girl while he tells the kids a story." You can connect and follow Ben & Jessa through the links below: - Jessa's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jessaseewald/- Ben's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ben_seewald/ - Jessa's YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@JessaSeewald

05-02
57:51

285: Navigating Overwhelm

Get it All Done Club: Stop drowning in motherhood and start thriving! https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-club Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Learn how to create a peacefully productive home in one week. Check out Katie's Free Home Management Masterclass:https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/peacefully-productive-home-masterclass

04-30
56:30

284: Our Faith Journey

OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: Affordable and effective online weekly music lessons designed for families.https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.comUse coupon code: PODCASTVMA for 10% off each month- Mentioned during podcast:  - Podcast 027 - "Our Personal Testimonies" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147568023- American Gospel Documentary - https://www.americangospelfilm.com

04-25
01:00:46

283: Vaccinations, Fasting While Breastfeeding, and Dave Ramsey

Marriage Maximizer - Build A Masterpiece Marriage Whether you have been married for 30 years, or are just starting out on the adventure of a lifetime, this course is for you! https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/Marriage-Maximizer Free webinar: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/marriage-maximizer-learn-more-1 - Send us your questions for future Q&A podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission - Mentioned during podcast:  - "Prioritizing Our Children's Happiness // Autumn Kern" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148565802- "The Vaccine-Friendly Plan" by Paul Thomas M.D. - https://amzn.to/44duKDe- "Fast Like a Girl" by Dr. Mindy Pelz - https://amzn.to/3W5yPaP- Build a family culture they cannot wait to come home to! Free Webinar: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/familyculture- "Our Mindsets Around Finances In Marriage // Debt, Frugality, & Saving" - https://youtu.be/FTpwwiDjKDM?si=00j1pehR74ZE_4rd- "10x Is Easier Than 2x" by Dan Sullivan - https://amzn.to/3UqJQlM 

04-23
55:21

282: Screen Free Travel With Young Kids

Homeschool Course: The First Three Years Laying a foundation of joy, confidence, and a love of learning from the start.https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/homeschoolFor 15% off the course, use discount code: YTHOMESCHOOL - Snack ideas for traveling: - Veggie bag - carrots spears, celery spears, bell pepper spears, chop up cucumber - put in bag with a little bit of water at the bottom - Mandarin oranges - Apples - Cheese sticks - Crackers - Chomp beef sticks - Chewable vitamins - Bagel and cream cheese sandwiches - Gum Screen free activities for traveling: - Books on tape:    - Focus on the Family - https://www.focusonthefamily.com/resources-audio-books/   - Lamplighter - https://lamplighter.net   - Your Story Hour - https://www.yourstoryhour.org   - "Carry On Mr. Bowditch" read aloud book   - E.B White read aloud books    - "Robin Hood" by Howard Pyle    - "Black Beauty"    - Little House books    - "Story of the World" by Susan Wise Bauer - Music CD’s:    - Now That I’m A Father children’s album - https://music.apple.com/us/album/now-that-im-a-father/1514495049   - Classical conversations    - Timeline    - Classical music - Drawing:    - Boogie boards/erasable sketch pads - https://amzn.to/49KVFHH   - Sketchbooks with a pencil - Sticker books:    - Trucks - https://amzn.to/3xBZfa3   - America's Top Gun Fighter Planes - https://amzn.to/441SqKU   - Smile Every Day - https://amzn.to/49DzKSX   - Vehicles - https://amzn.to/4aWmIkn - Melissa & Doug Lace and Trace Activity Set - https://amzn.to/3U03cNg - Knitting - Reading    - Our kid's favorites are the Great Illustrated Classics

04-18
43:30

281: Mega Churches, Giving Our Kids iPads, Boys Being Inappropriate

OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: Affordable and effective online weekly music lessons designed for families.https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.comUse coupon code: PODCASTVMA for 10% off each month-  Send us your questions for future Q&A podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission-Mentioned during podcast:  - Sleep Training Method (no crying it out) Mom of 5 // Scheduling, Naps, Breastfeeding - https://youtu.be/qkDdnkSEX5I?si=DXOx7NiE4zF9hrVJ

04-16
53:49

280: The Truth About Our Marriage

Get it All Done Club: Stop drowning in motherhood and start thriving! https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-club Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Learn how to create a peacefully productive home in one week. Check out Katie's Free Home Management Masterclass:https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/peacefully-productive-home-masterclass - Mentioned during the podcast: - "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Laura Schlessinger - https://amzn.to/4cPaD2l

04-11
51:08

279: Depriving Our Kids Of Sugar

Catch a vision for the transformative power of a gospel-infused, joy-filled way of life in your family, homeschool, church, and community at the Relational Lifestyle Summit. It’s groundbreaking, exclusively online, and opening April 8-12, 2024. Register here - https://homeschoolsummits.com/lifestyle/ - Music & Art Camps - June 17-19, 2024 - Centralia, WA Fiddle | Guitar | Piano | Watercolorhttps://www.musicandartscamp.comThis three-day event is an opportunity for students ages 6 and older to learn, and develop their skills in music and art. - Mentioned during podcast: - "Dirty Genes" by Dr. Ben Lynch- https://amzn.to/4aIZAG0 - "Deep Nutrition" by Catherine Shanahan - https://amzn.to/3J7nmQm- "Glucose Revolution" by Jessie Inchauspe - https://amzn.to/3TScydD- "That Sugar Film" - https://amzn.to/3TNXhe1 - I only watched the first 30 minutes. It is PG-13, so watch at your own risk 😊

04-09
53:33

278: Hangups Of Being The Oldest Child

Get it All Done Club: Stop drowning in motherhood and start thriving!https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-club Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Learn how to create a peacefully productive home in one week. Check out Katie's Free Home Management Masterclass:https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/peacefully-productive-home-masterclass - Catch a vision for the transformative power of a gospel-infused, joy-filled way of life in your family, homeschool, church, and community at the Relational Lifestyle Summit. It’s groundbreaking, exclusively online, and opening April 8-12, 2024. Register here - https://homeschoolsummits.com/lifestyle/ - Mentioned during podcast: - "The Birth Order Book: Why You Are the Way You Are" by Dr. Kevin Leman - https://amzn.to/3POEa2p - "Things Parents Of Multiple Children Overlook" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147859632

04-04
49:20

277: The Myth Of Oppressive Patriarchs with Nancy Pearcey

Good Ranchers - Bringing everyone to the table to share in the best of what makes life good. They source all of their meat from local, independent farms in the U.S.   Avoid unknown vaccines in store-bought meat. Subscribe during their mRNA-Free Sale and enjoy free, jumbo wings for a year! Subscribe today and use the code VOETBERG to get $20 off and claim your 24lbs of free chicken wings.https://go.goodranchers.com/family-Nancy Pearcey's latest book is The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes. Her earlier books include Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and two ECPA Gold Medallion Award Winners: How Now Shall We Live (coauthored with Harold Fickett and Chuck Colson) and Total Truth. Her books have been translated into 19 languages. She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. A former agnostic, Pearcey has spoken at universities such as Princeton, Stanford, USC, and Dartmouth. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."Check out Nancy's website here - https://www.nancypearcey.comNancy's most recent book - "The Toxic War on Masculinity": https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-War-Masculinity-Christianity-Reconciles/dp/0801075734

04-02
53:21

276: Is Slow Living Biblical?

Good Ranchers - Bringing everyone to the table to share in the best of what makes life good. They source all of their meat from local, independent farms in the U.S. Good Ranchers is taking March Meatness way beyond March with free, jumbo chicken wings for a year! Subscribe today and use the code VOETBERG to get $20 off and claim your 24lbs of free chicken wings. https://go.goodranchers.com/family   Voetberg Music Academy:Affordable and effective online weekly music lessons designed for families. Easter Sale: use coupon code EASTER to get 50% off your first month!https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com/-Catch a vision for the transformative power of a gospel-infused, joy-filled way of life in your family, homeschool, church, and community at the Relational Lifestyle Summit. It’s groundbreaking, exclusively online, and opening April 8-12, 2024. Register here - https://homeschoolsummits.com/lifestyle/

03-28
56:38

275: Q1 Book Review: Catholicism, The Odyssey, Elon Musk, King Arthur +

Catch a vision for the transformative power of a gospel-infused, joy-filled way of life in your family, homeschool, church, and community at the Relational Lifestyle Summit. It’s groundbreaking, exclusively online, and opening April 8-12, 2024. Register here - https://homeschoolsummits.com/lifestyle/ - Mentioned during podcast:  - "Would We Be Happy If Our Child Was Gay?" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148489362- Shop our Library - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/shop-my-library

03-26
55:06

274: How We Idolize Family

Good Ranchers - Bringing everyone to the table to share in the best of what makes life good. They source all of their meat from local, independent farms in the U.S. https://go.goodranchers.com/family Use the discount code VOETBERG at check out. -   Catch a vision for the transformative power of a gospel-infused, joy-filled way of life in your family, homeschool, church, and community at the Relational Lifestyle Summit. It’s groundbreaking, exclusively online, and opening April 8-12, 2024. Register here - https://homeschoolsummits.com/lifestyle/-Send us your questions for future Q&A podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission

03-21
56:08

273: Balancing Hospitality, Woman's Ministry, and Managing the Home // Rachel Jankovic

Catch a vision for the transformative power of a gospel-infused, joy-filled way of life in your family, homeschool, church, and community at the Relational Lifestyle Summit.It’s groundbreaking, exclusively online, and opening April 8-12, 2024.Register here - https://homeschoolsummits.com/lifestyle/-Rachel Jankovic is a wife, homemaker, and mother. She received her Bachelor's Degree in Liberal Arts & Culture from New Saint Andrews College. She and her husband Luke have eight children ranging from ages 19 down to 1. She is also the author of Loving the Little Years, You Who: Why You Matter and How to Deal with It and Fit to Burst. She is heavily involved with the Christ Church Ladies Bible Reading Challenge and invites you all to join in that great movement of Christian women becoming women of the word. Rachel and her sister Bekah podcast together about life as active and joyful Christian women on What Have You, plus you can find several great workshops and talks from Rachel on the Canon+ app.You can connect and follow Rachel through the links below:- Bible Reading Challenge - www.totheword.com- Podcast - What Have You - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-have-you/id1287267219- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rachel.jankovic/?hl=enRachel’s Books:- “Loving the Little Years” - https://amzn.to/49Ufm0I- "Fit to Burst” - https://amzn.to/3Vj5WYg- “You Who: Why You Matter and How to Deal With It” - https://amzn.to/3IIXrOH

03-19
56:12

272: Living With A Slob? School 6 Days A Week? Taking Care Of Our Parents?

OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: Affordable and effective online weekly music lessons designed for families. https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com Use coupon code: PODCASTVMA for 10% off each month - Send us your questions for future Q&A podcasts! You can submit them here: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission - Podcasts mentioned: - Not Attracted To My Wife After Weight Gain (What Can I Do?) - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148560564 - Prioritizing Our Children's Happiness // Autumn Kern - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2148565802

03-14
01:01:47

271: Prioritizing Your Children's Happiness // Autumn Kern

Build a family culture they cannot wait to come home to! Free Webinar: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/familyculture-Autumn Kern is a wife, mother, and keeper of an actual commonplace book. When she was twenty-one, she sat under a tree with a man who told her the woman he married would homeschool his children. Handsome as he was, she didn’t anticipate being that woman, but here she is with three little ones in tow, and, as in all God’s providential ways, it has been the greatest gift. The Commonplace is where new homeschooling moms get their bearings in the Classical Charlotte Mason world through the podcast, Common Mom Youtube, and Common House. You can connect and follow Autumn Kern through the links below:Website: https://www.thecommonplacepodcast.com/Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-commonplace/id1568956517YouTube: www.youtube.com/@thecommonplacehomeschoolCommon House: https://commonhouse.mn.co/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonplacehomeschool/

03-12
47:00

270: My Husband Doesn't Like My Friends

Good Ranchers - Bringing everyone to the table to share in the best of what makes life good. They source all of their meat from local, independent farms in the U.S. https://go.goodranchers.com/family Use the discount code VOETBERG at check out.During this sale, every subscription enjoys $25 off any box, a free $119 heritage ham (10 lbs), and the Good Ranchers lifetime quality commitment—their promise to never compromise on quality.- Send us your questions for future podcasts! You can submit them here:https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcastquestionsubmission- Top 5 Tuesday Join our weekly email list to keep up to date with the highlights of what is going on in our family life.https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/top-5-tuesday-newletter-"How We Maintain, Grow, and Create Friendships As Parents of Young Children" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147978751- "Mom Friends: Finding Them, and Creating Time to Spend with Them" - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/blog/mom-friends-finding-them-and-creating-time-to-spend-with-them

03-07
49:21

269: Life After Reality TV, Parenting In Public, and Family Language // Jeremy & Audrey Roloff

Build a family culture they cannot wait to come home to!Free Webinar: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/familyculture -  You might remember Jeremy & Audrey Roloff from “Little People, Big World,” but they’re up to so much more these days. They’re parents, accomplished authors, successful podcast hosts, and entrepreneurs, to name a few. Their book, “Love Letter Life” is a New York Times best seller. They have three children (ages 6, 4 & 2) and one on the way! On their podcast “These Are the Days,” they talk about home, health, & holiness to your family, kids, and marriage. You can connect and follow Jeremy & Audrey Roloff through the links below: Website - https://www.beating50percent.com/ Podcast - These Are The Days - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/these-are-the-days/id1441970779 Audrey’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/audreyroloff/ Jeremy’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jeremyroloff/

03-05
52:18

268: Raising A Family To Do Hard Things From A Navy Seal's Perspective // Bill Rapier

Good Ranchers - Bringing everyone to the table to share in the best of what makes life good. They source all of their meat from local, independent farms in the U.S. https://go.goodranchers.com/family Use the discount code VOETBERG to get 10% off and free shipping when you order any box. ALSO....subscribe by the end of February and get free bacon for 4 years. Enjoy 1.5 lbs of their Applewood smoked bacon in every order for 4 years! That’s 72lbs of free bacon they will send you just for being a subscriber! That’s over $900 of free bacon value when you subscribe to any box today and use our code VOETBERG. - Bill Rapier is recently retired after twenty years in the Navy, where his duty assignments included several years at SEAL Team 3 and over 14 years at Naval Special Warfare Development Group. Positions held include assaulter, breacher, sniper, team leader, troop chief and military working dog department senior enlisted adviser. He is a blackbelt in bjj, a practitioner of the Sayoc Kali knife fighting system, and trains in both western and Thai boxing. He and his wife live in the mountains of North Idaho where they homeschool their 7 children and are heavily involved in their local church through leading worship as a family, father/son ministry, and all around discipleship. Amtac Shooting Website: https://www.amtacshooting.com/ Amtac Shooting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amtacshooting/ Amtac Blades Website: https://amtacblades.com/ Past Podcast with Bill Rapier: Why Every Christian Family Should Homeschool with Retired Navy Seal - https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10/episodes/2147736914

02-29
01:17:35

Marilyn Kleinsasser

May I just take a moment and say, the wisdom of you two is beyond your years! Keep seeking the Lord and sharing it..I'm a mom of 3 with kids a bit younger in age then yours and I'm loving the depth and wisdom of your podcast

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Erica Reis

great job guys! I agree on soooo many aspects of this!! I grew up celebrating and going trick or treating. but we do not celebrate with our kids because all the reasons you mentioned. so we are part of the "5" of us. lol I don't get the churches that do trunk or treat?!

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Dané Meyer

This was such a helpful and inspiring podcast! !Thanks so much!!

02-15 Reply

Dané Meyer

Not akward at all..loved it!! We have to remember these things it keeps our marriage sweet, and exciting!! Thanks all the way from South Africa!

08-12 Reply

Aimee Call

Your songs are SO good!!! i cant wait to share this with my children. i have one daughter right now and hopefully more in the future. i am a Christian and memeber of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints! Your values align exactly with mine! you should check out comeuntochrist.org . You would love the info/videos/etc there to share with your family💙💙 love your youtube and podcast . keep sharing light.

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