Now You're Engaged - A Wedding Show

In this episode, we’re uncovering what truly sets your wedding apart as an amazing event: the guest experience. We had on Michelle Wood, wedding planner and founder of Meraki Wood Events. She shares the importance of having a backup plan for worst-case scenarios, tips to bring your event to life and unique ideas that will WOW guests.   For full show notes, resources, links:  https://www.nowyoureengaged.com/season-two/creating-the-ultimate-guest-experience-with-michelle-wood-of-meraki-wood-events   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 2:05 Michelle’s story of getting started in the wedding industry 4:22 How she brought the “Hamptons Flair” to South Florida 7:52 Her 3 tiers of wedding planning services 9:46 The key benefits of working with a wedding planner 13:14 One of Michelle’s favorite wedding planning memories 19:37 What to focus on to level up your guests’ experience 27:23 Creative guest surprises 29:36 Michelle’s advice on the most important thing on your wedding day 43:42 Why she named her business Meraki Wood Events

In this episode, we’re talking all things jewelry insurance! If you’d be crushed at the thought of losing your engagement or wedding rings then you need to hear this conversation with Debi Lilly, celebrity party planner and author. Debi shares a story that demonstrates why jewelry insurance is a necessity for couples.  For full show notes, resources, links: https://www.nowyoureengaged.com/season-two/why-ring-insurance-is-a-must-have-on-your-pre-wedding-checklist-with-debi-lilly   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 2:13 How Debi got started in the wedding industry 3:29 Why she is so passionate about jewelry insurance  6:20 Her details to-do list  8:37 Home insurance vs. jewelry insurance 10:29 What jewelry insurance she recommends 13:51 Her tips for keeping your rings safe and clean 18:51 Ring trends for 2021 25:31 Advice for keeping your rings nice for years to come 27:30 Why you need a ring check-up

In this episode, we had a conversation with Hannah Mitchell, of Elite Seattle. Hannah and her mom Cindy specialize in designing thoughtful high-end weddings and events. She shares her process as a planner for luxury weddings and talks about the types of services they offer their clients.    For full show notes, resources, links: https://www.nowyoureengaged.com/season-two/thoughtful-high-end-weddings-with-hannah-mitchell-of-elite-events   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 1:14 How Hannah and her mom got started in the wedding industry 5:56 What services they specialize in 9:35 How they navigate decor and design 10:58 Her vetting process for working with new vendors 13:05 How her company differs from other wedding planning companies 18:45 Her favorite trends of 2021 and 2022 22:23 The live stream trend 24:13 COVID testing at weddings 28:23 The importance of hiring experienced professionals 39:34 Their plans for expansion into California

Need more inspiration for planning your wedding? In this episode, we’re joined by Julia Novack, founder of Partyslate. Partyslate is an inspiration platform that shares unique party ideas and the professionals who make them happen. Julia shares how she got her idea for starting Partyslate and how people typically use the platform when event planning.   For full show notes, resources, links: https://www.nowyoureengaged.com/season-two/plan-your-party-like-a-pro-with-founder-of-partyslate-julia-novack   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 1:36 How Julia got into the wedding industry 6:29 What events Partyslate serves 11:30 How they reduce the intimidation factor through their platform 13:01 Why you should use FAQ pages 14:59 What vendors they feature on their website 18:40 What an idea slate is and how you can use that feature 21:57 How Partyslate is different from other wedding blogs and publications 26:07 How 2021 and 2022 is a recovery year 31:08 How event “rules” and traditions will change 36:01 How event professionals and venues can get onto Partyslate

Wedding trends come and go. In this episode, we’re joined by wedding planner Marylen Exposito of Marylen Exposito Events to talk all things wedding trends in 2021. We chat about how covid has changed the way weddings are done and what trends we really like that have emerged this year.  For full show notes, resources, links: https://www.nowyoureengaged.com/season-two/wedding-trends-for-2021-with-wedding-planner-and-ceo-of-marylen-exposito-events-marylen-exposito   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 3:12 Entertainment as the main focus 7:15 The micro wedding trend  9:13 The popularity of elopements 15:05 Formal dining during weddings 16:22 Weekday weddings 19:34 Up and coming color trends 21:25 Quality over quantity 24:22 How wedding attendance will be in 2022 35:08 Sustainability in weddings

2020 was the year of rescheduled weddings. It comes as no surprise that there was no guidebook on how to handle this and many vendors and couples were left scrambling trying to figure out how to move their big day. In this episode, Kenny and Julie had a conversation with wedding planner and CEO of Infinite Events, Erica Trombetti about the course she designed to help people reschedule their wedding day.    For full show notes, resources, links: https://www.nowyoureengaged.com/season-two/the-blueprint-to-rescheduling-your-wedding-with-wedding-planner-and-ceo-of-infinite-events-erica-trombetti EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 1:08 How Erica got started in the wedding industry  3:39 Her experience of rescheduling 30+ weddings 25:05 Changes that have happened during COVID in the wedding industry 36:02 Her favorite wedding trend of 2021 38:11 Services that she offers at Infinite Events

Are you ready to get in shape for your special day? In this episode, Kenny and Julie were joined by International Lifestyle and Wedding Fitness Coach, Laila Aleih to talk about getting fit for your wedding day. Laila gives advice on creating a sustainable, healthy way to “slim down for the gown”. She explores the areas you should focus on for health and the services she offers for brides (and non-brides).   LINKS WE LOVE: Sweating for the Wedding Podcast Wedding Fit Forever Academy  Laila’s Website (Get a free strategy session by mentioning our podcast!) Wedding Wellness Retreat video   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 1:52 How Laila got into the fitness industry 8:22 Wearing her wedding dress every anniversary 10:02 Pressures of the wedding industry to look “perfect” 10:45 Three areas to focus on for health 15:04 Her clients’ favorite services  23:01 What sets her apart from other health professionals 26:06 Wedding wellness retreats 28:24 How she helps non-brides 36:51 How to get help from Laila 43:18 Her process for the wedding week 45:52 The key services she offers 49:26 Recap 

Wedding expenses can add up quickly. When you’re deciding on what things you want to splurge on for your big day, you’ll want to keep in mind your top priorities! Take a listen as Kenny and Julie dig into their top 13 items to splurge on for your wedding. You’ll hear their insights on WOWing your guests and keeping the memories of your wedding day for years to come.    LINKS WE LOVE: Let's Talk Wedding Trends 2020 & 2021  The Sablewood Guilded Group Decor Divina Strings   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 3:16 A throwback to our trends episode 4:59 Choosing your venue 8:54 Venues with decorations already included 13:02 Working with a styling and decor company 15:42 How catering brings people together  20:09 Why photography is important 23:13 Investing in videography 29:58 Hiring a personal glam squad 34:03 Wardrobe and wedding day attire 39:39 Cakes and dessert 45:03 Invitations and stationery 47:42 DJs and bands 54:19 Floral arrangements 58:57 Fun transportation ideas 01:01:15 Event planners and day of coordinators    QUOTES: “To pay a wedding planner or day of coordinator to take the stress off of you is huge when you’re planning an event of this size” - Julie “Your food tells your guests how much you appreciate them.” - Kenny “Splurge on hair and makeup! Everyone should feel like a celebrity on their own wedding day.” - Julie

Searching for some wedding day inspiration? Kenny and Julie chat about their favorite wedding industry professionals to follow on Instagram and discuss some of the fun, exciting projects they’ve worked on. You’ll get a ton of great wedding day ideas jam-packed in this episode!   LINKS WE LOVE: Jennifer Matteo Instagram Jose Graterol Instagram Tailored Twig Instagram Visionary Events and Designs Instagram Amanda Savory Events Instagram The Temple House Instagram United Projection Instagram Eric Jon Instagram Lé Lauriér Instagram Kikimora Studio Instagram Kikimora Fashion Instagram Bridal Styles Boutique Instagram Bridal Styles Boutique  EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 3:13 Event planner: Jennifer Matteo 8:21 Wedding florist: Jose Graterol 11:02 Wedding florist: Tailored Twig 13:35 Event designer: Visionary Events and Designs 18:14 Event planner: Amanda Savory 21:58 Event venue: The Temple House in Miami 24:54 Projection mapping: United Projection 29:42 Photographer: Eric Jon 34:40 Couture custom bridal robes: Lé Lauriér 39:53 Costume designs and fashion: Kikimora Studio and Kikimora Fashion 46:30 Bridal headpiece, veils and jewelry: Bridal Styles Boutique   QUOTES: “It looks like every wedding they do at @thetemplehouse they have these amazing lighting setups, dance floor designs and decor.”  - Kenny “@unitedprojection uses unique projectors & screens to create geometric tunnels on the walls and it looks absolutely incredible.” - Kenny “Let’s get IG handles from this episode together on a plane and go have a party!” - Kenny “Not a lot of photographers can balance black and white in the classy way that @ericjonphotography does, it looks really amazing.” - Julie

Kenny and Julie explore the ins and outs of using a course to plan your wedding day with Bettina Benizri of Busy Bee Events. She shares a few things you must keep in mind for your wedding day including the 3 things you must do first when planning your wedding (plus one of the easiest ways to save money on the big day).    LINKS WE LOVE: Bettina's Website Bettina’s Instagram Wedding Planning Course Bettina’s Facebook   EPISODE BREAKDOWN: 1:59 How Bettina got her business where it is today 3:54 Why she started her online course 7:42 Services that Busy Bee Events offers 11:33 Pricing disparities within the wedding industry 18:37 Course overview 20:30 The first 3 steps couples should take when planning their wedding 25:50 Why everyone needs a planner for their wedding 28:54 Destination weddings 32:35 Weddings during hurricanes and tropical storms 37:14 How her course differs from virtual planning 46:18 Wedding planning during the pandemic 48:24 What it looks like to work with Busy Bee Events 55:28 Conclusion of her services and course 01:05:27 Recap   QUOTES: “You hired us to take care of everything so you can enjoy your day and not have to think about a thing.” “Sometimes people start wedding planning the wrong way and that’s why I created the online course.” “My intent was to help more brides and grooms plan their weddings correctly.” “You can save so much money simply by having less people at your wedding.” 

You. Need. This. With 15 core colors in 18 styles Birdy Grey offers the widest variety of bridesmaids dresses in every shape & size all at $99. Oh, and the color palettes are AMAZING. Plus they have an online Bridal Studio where you can create your look and your bridesquad can check in and get everything they need from there! Seriously it's a game changer. LINKS WE LOVE: 3 Free Swatches with Coupon Code: BIRDYLOVESNYEPOD (valid thru 9/30/20) IG @birdygrey Pinterest @birdygrey TikTok @birdygrey Nowyoureengaged.com EPISODE BREAKDOWN 2:00 - How did Birdy Grey begin? 9:30 - Mix N Matching between styles 11:18 - What about menswear 13:30 - How do the swatches work? 14:40 - Alterations? Sizing? 17:35 - Virtual fitting parties with champagne! 18:08 - Bachelorette party accessories, shirts, masks 22:00 - Congrats bitch, Birdy’s engaged! 23:20 - Grace’s wedding plans 29:20 - How is Birdy Grey handling COVID-19? 36:30 - Recap FIND US ON SOCIAL: @NOWYOUREENGAGED @KENNETHCOOPERFILMS @JULIEOCCHINOLUXURY

Kenny & Julie sit down again with Stephanie Meiser of Along Came Stephanie to chat about EVERYTHING you need to ask your venue (well, as much as we could possibly fit into this episode). So many great tips & ideas come up in this episode that will help you have the BEST venue experience you possibly can on your wedding day. Also, Stephanie provides a 2020 BONUS to all our listeners: a FREE 30 minute wedding consultation with her. No questions asked, no need to book her services, totally FREE. Just mention the show when you message her! LINKS WE LOVE: Contact Stephanie for the FREE 30 minute consultationStephanie's Wedding Planning IG The Sablewood (Northeast US venue) IG for Inspo @thesablewood The Powel Crosley Estate (Southern Florida venue) IG for Inspo @powelcrosleyestate EPISODE BREAKDOWN 2:52 - Destination vs local to you? 8:26 - Should you pay for guests to travel? 13:40 - Venue space considerations and out of town guests. 20:30 - Venue space, a videographers perspective. 34:26 - Hidden costs? 38:34 - Chair covers? Yes or no? 51:00 - What if your venue has multiple weddings in one day? 57:00 - Wedding venue timeline. 1:05:00 - Quick tips. 1:06:35 - What if your venue restricts your wedding pro use? 1:12:00 - 2020 Listener BONUS details!! FIND US ON SOCIAL: @NOWYOUREENGAGED @KENNETHCOOPERFILMS @JULIEOCCHINOLUXURY

30% OFF with code ENGAGED30 at: Brindleworld - Curated Vacation Wear for the Traveling Woman. Handmade goods. Organic products. This weeks episode is Part 3 of our Enneagram series. Now that we've all had the chance to find out our types, let's get into MATCH MAKING. Ok not really match making, but we dive into everything your type needs and wants in a relationship to make you feel supported, cared for, and free to become your best most beautiful self! All Enneagram information for this series is used from: Truity LINKS WE LOVE: Enneagram Relationship Match Brindleworld IGIan Cron's In Depth Test Free Enneagram Test Now You're Engaged Website EPISODE BREAKDOWN 10:00 - The Perfectionist: Relationship Needs 14:08 - The Helper: Relationship Needs 16:55 - The Performer: Relationship Needs 22:05 - The Individualist: Relationship Needs 26:33 - The Investigator: Relationship Needs 30:40 - The Skeptic: Relationship Needs 33:45 - The Enthusiast 38:00 - The Challenger 41:15 - The Peace Maker 44:34 - How does Kenny match up with his darling wife? How does Julie match up with her S/O? FIND US ON SOCIAL: @NOWYOUREENGAGED @KENNETHCOOPERFILMS @JULIEOCCHINOLUXURY

30% OFF with code ENGAGED30 at: Brindleworld - Curated Vacation Wear for the Traveling Woman. Handmade goods. Organic products. This weeks episode is Part 2 of our Enneagram series. We dissect Types 5-9 and have one of our top listeners on the show to tell us about her type and what she does! Thanks Sam :) All Enneagram information for this series is used from: Truity LINKS WE LOVE: Brindleworld IGBrindleworld Online Shop - Code: ENGAGED30 for 30% offOur top listener's IG: @the_sassiest_samIan Cron's Enneagram PodcastIan Cron's In Depth Test Free Enneagram TestYour Enneagram Coach - PodcastJen Hatmaker - Podcast Now You're Engaged Website EPISODE BREAKDOWN 02:22 - Special Guest @the_sassiest_sam 12:50 - Type 5, The Investigators 26:16 - Type 6, The Skeptic 36:19 - Type 7, The Enthusiast 48:21 - Type 8, The Challenger 57:00 - Type 9, The Peacemaker FIND US ON SOCIAL: @NOWYOUREENGAGED @KENNETHCOOPERFILMS @JULIEOCCHINOLUXURY

Ever heard of the Enneagram? It’s like a personality test, except wayyyy more fun & a little more deep. Join us as we go over what makes it unique and find out what your type might be and how it could even effect your wedding style. FYI fashion icon Gianni Versace was probably a 4. All Enneagram information for this series is used from: Truity LINKS WE LOVE: Ian Cron's Enneagram Podcast Ian Cron's In Depth Test Free Enneagram Test EPISODE BREAKDOWN 3:33 - What is the Enneagram? 19:46 - Type 1 - The Perfectionist 28:50 - Type 2 - The Giver 38:17 - The Achiever 51:02 - The Individualist FIND US ON SOCIAL: @NOWYOUREENGAGED @KENNETHCOOPERFILMS @JULIEOCCHINOLUXURY

WOW. Mid-interview we literally changed the direction of this episode. In a Coronavirus/Covid-19 pandemic world, Marty shows us how to live a healthier & more peaceful life with less drama and more authenticity. Not only did he go over the unique history of his AMAZING wedding venue (the reason we initially invited him onto the show!), but he brought everything down to earth and really laid out the foundations for living a good life of love and happiness toward yourself and others. Did we mention he owns an historic wedding venue? Links We Love: Dr. Wayne Dyer Eckhart Tolle Marty's Podcast - Words From A Friend Marty's Book - A Daily Guide To A Purposeful Life Wedding Venue - Old Daley Inn   Episode Breakdown: 0:44 - About Marty Keary 07:49 - The FIRST bride at Old Daley Inn in 1940 11:07 - EVERYTHING Old Daley Inn offers to couples 16:06 - Favorite parts about Old Daley Inn 17:45 - Day Of Coordinator & wedding pros at Old Daley 20:03 - When to book your venue? 22:05 - Marty’s book & podcast 24:35 - How Marty began his passion project 29:03 - Favorite inspirational authors? 30:18 - How to grow into who you truly are 34:04 - What is the core message of love? 35:25 - Overcoming negative patterns that weigh us down 37:01 - It’s all LOVE baby! 38:21 - How to stay in love with your partner 40:11 - Where to get Marty’s book 41:04 - Get a tour of Old Daley 43:29 - Truth bomb recap Now You're Engaged Website Find us on social: @nowyoureengaged @kennethcooperfilms @julieocchinoluxury

Julie interviews Kenny on how to make sure you look flawless in 90% of your wedding photos, and why 90%? Kenny walks us through finding your side, parting your hair, and some simple tips to make sure you pose in the most flattering way on your wedding day. Also Julie may have stuffed sushi in her napkin? What? LINKS WE LOVE: Travel Slippers: allbirds EPISODE BREAKDOWN 4:34 - Where’s the other 10%? 6:02 - Secret Zoom meeting beauty tip 8:10 - How to find your “side” 16:04 - Does a middle part make my face skinnier? 19:48 - That S-Curvvvve 23:17 - Why do celebs look so good in mags? 32:20 - How to sit for a flattering look 40:01 - NOTHING looks better than this… 45:50 - Bonus Question for Kenny 48:17 - Wait Julie you did WHAT with your sushi? FIND US ON SOCIAL: @NOWYOUREENGAGED @KENNETHCOOPERFILMS @JULIEOCCHINOLUXURY

*Launch Week Giveaway winner announced at the end of this episode!* Kenny & Julie sit down with VIRTUAL wedding planner Stephanie Meiser of Along Came Stephanie to discuss how hiring a virtual planner BEFORE you begin planning anything else might actually be the best move to save your sanity. Even if you already know you want to hire a full onsite planner to handle everything, listen to this one, we promise it'll be worth it. Links We Love: Italy Elopement Film Italy Behind the Scenes Film Stephanie's Website Stephanie's Instagram Episode Breakdown: 1:40 - About Stephanie 2:37 - How do you help couples? 5:48 - Do you plan everything? 7:47 - Stephanie’s recommendation on where to begin 11:08 - Virtual vs. Traditional wedding planner 13:07 - Style Guides 15:44 - Destination Weddings 17:03 - Italy adventure tour/elopement?? 23:34 - Why are you so cool? 27:05 - Intimate Destination Weddings 29:30 - Navigating the destination drama 38:40 - What is it like to work with you? 51:22 - Recap Find us on social: @nowyoureengaged @kennethcooperfilms @julieocchinoluxury

Julie & Kenny interview Officiant Claudia Meyer about all things elopements! Wedding ceremonies are trending smaller and smaller, with bigger receptions at a later date. Links We Love: Simply Unforgettable Elopements Instagram Claudia's Website Episode Breakdown: 5:20 - Officiant & Coaching Services 8:45 - Do you help couples write their vows? 10:30 - Where should you begin your officiant search? 14:06 - Should we hire a friend to do it? 18:20 - Why consider an elopement? 19:47 - Could we just marry ourselves? 21:37 - State by state elopement laws 23:37 - Cost effective? 25:43 - Industry Drama: Elopement or Micro Wedding? 27:27 - Elopements during Coronavirus? 35:15 -  What vendors do you need at your elopement? 42:53 - What is it like to work with you? 52:31 - Red ink voids your marriage license?   Find us on social: @nowyoureengaged @kennethcooperfilms @julieocchinoluxury Quotes: “Elopements take an entire wedding and bring it down to the most essential parts, which are what you decide to include as a couple”

Julie tells us how to prep your skin before a big event or just because you want to feel great and need a boost. She covers everything from diet to treatments to how much you should drink for that perfect brilliant glow (water, not champs, I know I know). Links We Love: Julie's Go To Polish: Zein ObagiThat Glow Recipe Serum Julie Talked About“The Glow Moisturizer of Them All.” - Julie”You’re Basically Glass With This One.” - Also Julie Julie’s Wedding Day Prep Checklist PDFHer Men’s Stuff Episode Breakdown: 3:00 - Skin Diet 8:43 - Facial Care 16:40 - Hydrating/Brightening serum 18:42 - Targeted Treatments 20:41 - FaceTime Beauty Consults 23:12 - Guys? 25:41 - Pure Retanol or Alpha hydroxy Acid? 27:55 - Hydrafacials 34:55 - Beauty Timeline for wedding day prep Find us on social: @nowyoureengaged @kennethcooperfilms @julieocchinoluxury Quotes: “Using a makeup wipe is good, but you really should be using a cleanser on top of that because you don’t want all that residue sitting on your skin.” “If you are prepping for an event or wedding you want to start paying attention to the foods you consume as they play a big part of skin texture and clarity.”