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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Author: Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom.

Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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656: CHANGING SEASONS

656: CHANGING SEASONS

2021-06-2226:47

"Every success story is a tale of constant adaptation, revision, and change." —Richard Branson | Marriage is full of seasons. Learn how changing seasons in marriage need your attention so that the two of you can navigate them as a team. Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
"If you truly want to change your life, you must first change your mind." —Anonymous | There will be times when lube is needed during sex. Learn about lube, the importance it can play during sex, and why it’s not a dirty word. Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
654: QUALITY TIME

654: QUALITY TIME

2021-06-0825:50

"Time is the currency of relationships. If you want to invest into your relationships, start by investing your time." —Dave Willis | There are 168 hours in every week. Learn how to cultivate the quality time between you and your spouse to strengthen your marriage. Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
"Traveling in the company of those we love is home in motion." —Leigh Hunt | Learn about what the two of you can do to have the most epic vacation whether you are taking a staycation or traveling around the world. Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn about how the two of you handle things when life doesn’t go as planned, especially when you are attempting a 7 Day Sex Challenge. | "Just because something isn’t happening right now doesn’t mean that it will never happen." —Anonymous Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn what can happen when you get stuck in a negative sexual mindset and the impact it has on your sex life. | "Watch your thoughts, they become words. Watch your words, they become actions. Watch your actions they become habits. Watch your habits, they become character. Watch your character, it becomes your destiny. " —Anonymous Do You Need Personal Help to Improve Your Marriage? Talking about your marriage can be a sensitive topic. Words can be taken the wrong way and suddenly you have an argument on your hands. You want to help your marriage yet you find yourself hurting it (and each other). It's amazing how the little things can hurt your marriage...Or big things that you don't even realize are happening. Problems are swept under the rug and ignored until someone asks for a divorce. Apply for Coaching with Alisa Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
650: MIDLIFE CRISIS

650: MIDLIFE CRISIS

2021-05-1129:08

Learn about what it means to go through a midlife crisis, how it can impact a marriage and what to do about it. | "As we approach midlife in our middle 30s or early 40s we are not prepared for the idea that time can run out on us, or for the startling truth that if we don’t hurry to pursue our own definition of a meaningful existence, life can become a repetition of trivial maintenance activities." —Gail Sheehy FREE eBook '6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secrets to Intimacy That Lasts' In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn why it’s important to continuously invest in your marriage long after you said “I do” to one another. | "The capacity to learn is a gift. The ability to learn is a skill. The willingness to learn is a choice." —Brian Herbert FREE eBook '6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secrets to Intimacy That Lasts' In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
648: ERECTION KILLERS

648: ERECTION KILLERS

2021-04-2728:001

Learn about what erection killers are, how they challenge you as a man, your marriage, and what the two of you can do to overcome them. | "The penis -- if you think about it -- is the most enterprising engineering feat imaginable -- a cantilevered structure, hydraulics, propulsion, pistons, compression, inflation, heat sensitive -- practically every engineering characteristic -- towers, draw-bridges, rocket-ships -- no man-made engineering structure to match it." —Peter Greenaway FREE eBook 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secrets to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If your spouse is saying I need you to touch me, then it’s important to address this in your marriage. You can’t ignore it. It won’t go away. | "Touch me when I ask. Touch me when I am afraid to ask. Touch me with your lips, your hands, your heart. Your presence in the room." —Anonymous FREE eBook 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's important to say "I’m sorry". These two words are super simple and powerful and yet they don’t always get said. | "“I’m sorry” is a statement. “I won’t do it again” is a promise. “How do I make it up to you?” is a responsibility." —Anonymous FREE eBook 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn about the impact that unexpected health challenges can have on you, your spouse, and on your marriage. | "It’s the unexpected that changes our lives." —Anonymous FREE eBook 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn why it can be difficult to talk about sex with your spouse and what you can do to open up with one another. | "Difficult conversations about taboo topics aren’t easy, but in marriage, they are worth it." —Anonymous FREE eBook 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn about why foreplay matters to you and your spouse and how you can incorporate more of this in your marriage. | "Sex is always better when you build up the sexual tension with foreplay." —Anonymous FREE eBook 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
642: UNPACK YOUR BAGGAGE

642: UNPACK YOUR BAGGAGE

2021-03-1631:042

Whether it’s baggage from past relationships, words spoken, or hurts from your spouse it's time to unpack the baggage in your marriage. | "Future successes can be diminished by carrying the baggage of the past. Let go of the excess baggage." —Reed Markham FREE E-BOOK 6 Pillars of Intimacy The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
641: FALL IN LOVE AGAIN

641: FALL IN LOVE AGAIN

2021-03-0932:154

What can you do to fall in love with your spouse again if you’ve fallen out of love. It's time to take action to create those feelings again. | "A successful marriage requires you to fall in love multiple times but always with the same person." —Anonymous FREE E-BOOK 6 Pillars of Intimacy The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn what it looks like to be enough. Let's dive into the question “Am I doing enough sexually” when it comes to the sexual intimacy pillar. | "I am not perfect. Nor will I ever be. I am a work in progress." —Anonymous FREE E-BOOK 6 Pillars of Intimacy The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Learn about the conversations that you need to have around facial hair and sex with your sexy bearded man. | "Everyone has a story on their beard. It’s a way of finding common ground with people you might not otherwise know." —Chris Stapleton FREE E-BOOK 6 Pillars of Intimacy The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
638: TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE

638: TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE

2021-02-1632:501

Learn about navigating unexpected losses as a couple so the two of you can be there for each other as you grieve. | "Grief is not a disorder, a disease or a sign of weakness. It is an emotional, physical and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love. The only cure for grief is to grieve." —Earl Grollman FREE E-BOOK 6 Pillars of Intimacy The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
637: EXPRESS YOUR LOVE

637: EXPRESS YOUR LOVE

2021-02-0928:461

Create a culture of expressing your love consistently in your marriage. Learn how you can express your love no matter what day it may be. | "Love is not what you say. Love is what you do." —Anonymous FREE E-BOOK 6 Pillars of Intimacy The Secret to Intimacy That Lasts In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.  Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse—starting today. Click the link below to grab your free eBook. 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Comments (17)

Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

Nov 11th
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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

Mar 18th
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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

Feb 13th
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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

Aug 15th
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Karen Janicki

Here is an issue that I have, I'm almost never in the mood in the morning ever. Honestly. I just woke up, I'm still tired, I have a million things on my mind and I have zero desire. My desire peaks in the evening. I did some research to try to understand this and from what I have read men's hormones peak in the morning while as women's peaks in the evening. I honestly and frustratingly feel like almost all these marriage podcasts ( every different one, not just yours) all try to simply tell women that we just need to get in the mood, put things aside, ignore our own desires and satisfy our husbands regardless of our desires or feelings. It sometimes feels like the prevailing attitude is that men need sex so you have to do it whenever he wants your feelings be darned. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I love my husband. But women and men are different and it's already so difficult for a woman to become aroused, get excited and have an orgasm. It can be alot of work physically and mentally and emotionally. How come that never seems to be addressed? The Bible commands husbands to share their bodies with their wives. We are supposed to enjoy sex. And despite what many think, we do. But it takes effort. I feel that there should be sacrifice on both husband and wife but instead over and over it just seems we are being told just do it no matter what, but make sure you like it because otherwise it doesn't count, don't fake an orgasm but if you don't have one it's ok. Why is it ok? I feel like Christian resources just ignore a woman's needs and demands we become more male in our sexuality. Sorry but I find that very, very frustrating.

Aug 13th
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The Parenting Experience

my wife is a stonewaller. I am logical like you guys but stonewaller and only talks to tell once I'm fed up and start trashing my home. if I would ever try to hangy self she would provide the chair. I truly hate her now

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

she gives me the silent treatment when I Ask her why does t she kiss me or say I love you. it gets violent she yelled to try to get attention for people to call the cops . I'm gone 3 kids she's doesn't care to please me. I truly hate her now. I will never ever love her again. all because I asked for see she's a narcissist. Stonewall

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

I love you guys . I knew I wasn't crazy.

Jul 2nd
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WYNC

About 7 minutes into nothingness and then a barrage of ,"Duh". I can tell you are trying to convey your lifestyle but you cannot articulate. Then more of Duh with a large helping of product mentions. Your podcast is exactly what you said, and I quote, "There was nothing in it for me."

Jun 12th
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Joseph Stark

lk5

Jun 5th
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Rachael Burtnette

Ok

May 2nd
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Cheri Jones

What happens when your spouse doesn't want to see that they are doing something wrong to hear your side because their pain is more important?

Jan 21st
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